l34df4rm3r Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before. Not asking you to dehumanize those feelings. Acknowledge them and move on. Talk to friends and family or even strangers about how you feel and then move on.	/r/seduction	22/10/21 11:26 AM
4	I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before. Happened a month back with me too. Just asked her how she was doing. Wanted to make sure she was okay. She replied politely. We had a short polite conversation. And then I got back to my life. The old emotions often come all at once, overwhelming you, but you'll get over it slowly. Talk to other people, talk about this, about how you feel. This is the fastest way to get over with this.	/r/seduction	22/10/21 09:58 AM
2	[deleted by user] Yes, it's true. But it helps move on from "this one" Eventually you find many "ones". But you gotta move on.	/r/seduction	18/10/21 10:42 AM
3	[deleted by user] Find another "the one".	/r/seduction	18/10/21 10:18 AM
2	Is this a bro code violation? Don't. It can be hurtful. Male-male friendships can be more rewarding in the long term in non-romantic domains. Don't screw this up over one girl. You, both of you, will find many others in the future.	/r/seduction	17/10/21 04:45 AM
94	Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday? "Hey, I waited for you on _____. You didn't show up. Is everything alright?" Be a human, show that you are a decent person and understand that people may get into sticky situations. Then dump her and limit yourself to only professional interactions. Don't date people from work.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 05:21 AM
1	Girl went from super interested to not at all, what happened? Maybe she's going through something now and she won't share that with you. Maybe she cannot articulate her own situation herself right now. And you are just added complexity. I'd say stay in touch, stay low, if you valued the friendship. Otherwise, feel free to jump ship.	/r/seduction	25/09/21 04:19 AM
1	I was snooping in my girlfriends phone and found this, what now ? Given the age of you two, she's simply using you to farm more attention. Now, I'm not saying she's doing it consciously, but there's a high chance of that being the case.	/r/seduction	22/09/21 10:17 AM
1	[deleted by user] Depends on the women, their upbringing, their attachment style, their relationship with their primary caregiver as a child and so on. In short, it's unhealthy and a sign of impaired mental growth. On the other hand, your woman will find you attractive if a lot of other women find you attractive too, i.e., you have other female friends who are close to you. But that's not cheating.	/r/seduction	12/09/21 04:03 AM
3	Where to find a milf? Develop a better connection with your parents. Then get to know their friends.	/r/seduction	10/09/21 07:07 AM
15	Where’s the best place to meet high value women? When you say high "value", you need to have your definition of "value", something that aligns with you. A great way to meet good people (not women, people in general) is through your social circle, hobbies and so on. In such cases, you'll be more sure of the values they possess. And when you meet people, you'll come across new women. And this will require you to maybe go out of your social comfort zone. For me, as an introvert, it is hard. Often, it feels exhausting, but sometimes, even if I don…	/r/seduction	10/09/21 06:34 AM
3	All attractive girls already have boyfriends Define attractive.	/r/seduction	06/09/21 06:21 AM
443	So I think my sisters friend wants me Nope. You're walking into a minefield.	/r/seduction	05/09/21 07:56 AM
71	Guys I'm nervous as shit...I might have my first hook-up this Wednesday Assume there will be no hookups. Done. You're no longer nervous.	/r/seduction	21/08/21 08:19 AM
3	What I have learned from experience - Never chase them when things go bad, be patient And sometimes, it takes over a year.	/r/seduction	04/08/21 04:52 PM
6	10 Points To Myself \| Feedback from Exposure Therapy #2 has been extremely helpful for me. Not just in the dating scene, but in general. When you are honest, it really builds up your character, your integrity; makes you more confident. It has helped me in the workplace immensely, particularly with my passive aggressive boss. #6 ...yes, but not always. But for the vast majority, it is true. #8 I didn't understand what you mean by this though. I'd love an explanation.	/r/seduction	04/06/21 04:13 PM
1	I'm a 6 .. My new GF is a solid 9. Today in an argument she pointed out this as a fact. Is this a red flag? Tell her that together your are 69. Jokes apart, if you think that her sense of self-importance is coming into the relationship, then that is a red flag. I think two people can be in a relationship if they value the relationship over their "market value".	/r/seduction	03/06/21 05:19 AM
0	For genuine nice guys and noobies There's another thing about being nice that I think is commonly overlooked: sometimes people are nice because that gives them a moral high, they just pat themselves on the back for being nice. They have no reason to be nice in a particular situation, but they behave that way. This is something I have faced a lot, from a handful of women in particular. Probably because being nice make them seem like a more desirable person, niceness is a more feminine quality, idk? This fake niceness just repels …	/r/seduction	23/09/20 04:21 PM
5	The Easiest Hack To Get Anyone To Like You Reminds me of Mr. Peanutbutter.	/r/seduction	29/06/20 10:37 AM