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I mean... the article uses the terms interchangeably for both sexes, and in no way does any publication ever speak for all or even most x women or men. So... clickbait headline pisses you off for reasons that weren’t even intentional? 10/10
/r/MensRights18/02/18 05:51 PM
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:( The other factor is that studies have shown that children fail to bond and thrive in environments without their parents, even in situations where their parents are arguably unfit. That bond is so strong, and so critical, that unless the situation is extraordinary, the best possible place for a child is with their parents. This certainly isn't as true as children get older. Once they become more independent and self-sufficient, the impact is less dramatic, even if it's still painful and challe…
/r/MensRights31/05/12 08:10 PM
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I think, specifically, the issue is that parents (regardless of gender or sexual orientation) are not disposable. You can't swap a partner out for another without completely shattering a little kid. That's something little kids can get over and can come to be okay with in time, but this idea that you can divorce someone and just write them out of your life is absurd. If you have kid, those kids need their parents. Barring a threat to their well-being (which is what is most commonly and frivolous…
/r/MensRights30/05/12 04:35 PM
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What's scary about both is that there's this idea that men should have more "rights" than women, and it keeps coming up again. What's scary about the men's issues is that they almost never enter a conversation, and when they do it's awkward. Edit: To clarify, this isn't meant to undermine the importance of men's issues. They aren't MEN's issues any more than "women's issues" are exclusive to women. These are human rights issues. What's frightening is that the conversation of rape in prison is ei…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 04:10 PM
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This is pretty much offensive to everyone. Please, please file a complaint. If anyone else in your office is offended, get them involved too. There's power in numbers, and unless you work with a bunch of whackadoodles, odds are pretty good others aren't amused either.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 04:11 AM
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It seems to me that the people who define themselves by a movement or a political position tend to be the same people who have some other sort of void in their lives. The commitment required to spend as much time and energy dedicated to a particular campaign is considerable. That doesn't inherently mean that the campaign itself is unworthy or somehow wrong, but that the people who are most likely to devote themselves to it tend to do so at the cost of other things. Relationships, careers, what h…
/r/MensRights16/04/12 01:27 PM
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I think it's pointing out that men can be victims of domestic violence in same-sex relationships, so it's not meant to minimize, but gently explain that this is an issue that crosses a lot of divides. Not just socioeconomic and gender, but also sexuality. Not the best phrasing, but my guess is that's why it's used that way. The idea isn't to minimize domestic violence against men, but try to point out that people can be victims even in relationships that stereotypically aren't aggressive. Our st…
/r/MensRights04/04/12 01:46 PM
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I'm pretty sure we need a /b/ novelty translator. You know, like pirate speak. /b/ speak. .... and project!
/r/seduction08/03/12 08:24 PM
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This might get you laid, but if you're looking for something more, be interested, be polite, be sure of yourself, and you'll be just fine. But... he/she said to do those things. If you want it in polite language wrapped in PC bullshit, stay away from /b/. The point stands that this is a pretty solid guide. It's more about focusing on YOU than the person you are trying to attract. It's actually one of the first guides I've seen that could work just as well for women. It doesn't assume stupid gend…
/r/seduction08/03/12 07:01 PM
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I assumed they would too, and when I realized they didn't, I started getting into this really (upon reflection) obnoxious place with it. I'm not saying that I didn't always have a point, and maybe I changed a few minds, but going in as some sort of zen master to help people have epiphanies about their world view is exhausting and pretty self important. It also automatically assumes that everyone else doesn't get it, while you do. It's hard cutting relationship ties, and maybe it's worth calling …
/r/MensRights04/03/12 01:46 AM
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I've never understood gender bashing in general. It always smacks of immaturity, but it seems to rear it's ugly head again later in life. "Men are scum," or "women are crazy," - these aren't friendly statements, but the amount of nodding and "omg, tell me about it," is really creepy. Men aren't scum, and women aren't crazy. A man can be scum, and a woman can be crazy, sure, but to use divisive language seems more than anything a big old fat get out of jail free card. It's always their fault. If …
/r/MensRights04/03/12 12:35 AM
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Yeah, but come on... this is half of our population. It's gender equality. We've been around for how long and we can't get it figured out? That's what kills me. It's fucking equality. Everyone just relax and call it a fucking day. We work together to make things better for ourselves and the other people in our culture. That doesn't mean that one of us has to be top dog and the other one has to bend over. There's this pervasive attitude that feminism or men's rights means that there's one crown, …
/r/MensRights03/03/12 11:04 PM
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It's so unbearably heartbreaking to see it. It's also really tough when you meet single guys who really want to be dads, but have a very hard time of it with adoption agencies. "Single dad? You must be a pedo, lolol gtfo." I'm not saying that a certain level of cynicism isn't a good thing, but automatically painting everyone of the same gender with the same brush is crap. Edit: cynicism meaning that everyone should have to go through the same level of background checks when adopting a kid, women…
/r/MensRights03/03/12 10:06 PM
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This. The idea that men cannot be fathers is ... I don't have a word that really sums up what I'm trying to say. It should be a crime, but obviously it isn't. I would call it a sin, but I'm not religious. I don't have a word to sum up the cruelty of a kid who just wants their dad and that kid not being able to have him. It's something fundamental and basic. Dads are just as vital as moms. It seems so bizarre that this needs to be said. Sorry, mini rant. But yes, 100% agreement.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 06:59 PM
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I didn't say it was ineffective.
/r/MensRights01/02/12 04:03 AM
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Sometimes I seriously think there are girls out there who's sole argument can be summarized as: "But... but... tits! And also vagina!"
/r/MensRights01/02/12 12:06 AM
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You never know. Punching a woman for not making dinner is way different from punching a bitch who's attacking a kid in a grocery store. Context matters.
/r/MensRights01/02/12 12:01 AM
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I'm not sure if you're exaggerating for the purpose of this subreddit, or if you really do that, but believe me, that's not awesome. Oh, it CAN be for the right girl, who's in the right mood on the right night, but every girl every time? Absolutely NOT. Extreme doms are about as hot as extreme subs. If it's your way or the highway in bed, and you're going to push her to her limits, trust me, she's not going to return your calls. If that's what does it for YOU, that's fine, but don't pick up girl…
/r/seduction17/12/11 11:38 PM
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Too true. But if inexperience is a factor, (and lets be real, even if it isn't, there's always room for improvement), ask her to teach you. Some girls don't find this fun during sex, so if you're not sure how to read her (is she timid? does she like a guy who takes charge?), ask her what her turn ons are before you get down to business. It's a great way to warm her up while you're making out, tells her you're not just in this to get YOUR rocks off, and will probably turn you on as well. Just be …
/r/seduction17/12/11 11:26 PM
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Key is saying "look at me," not "open your eyes." And don't try the intense stare then when you're between her legs. It's a hot angle for you, but it's an awkward angle for her. Just trust me on this. I'm sure there are ladies out there who dig it, but by and large, the eye contact thing is hotter when you're mid coitus. If she likes it from behind, just do it in front of a mirror.
/r/seduction17/12/11 11:18 PM
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I'm a woman, in a long term relationship, and I can't agree more. This adds an intensity and hotness to sex. Doesn't matter if you're doing a one night stand thing, or if you're x years in. Always, always hot, especially if used sparingly and during especially intense moments. It's even hotter when you both do it without any verbal cue. You both just lock eyes.
/r/seduction17/12/11 11:16 PM
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Upvote for you, upvote for you... UPVOTE FOR YOU, very good! applauds
/r/seduction17/12/11 10:56 PM
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Adults who behave like children cannot be expected to participate in a relationship as an equal. If you want to take on the responsibility of caring for another adult like their parent, go nuts. There are plenty of stunted people out there looking for a mommy or a daddy. But don't pat yourself on the back and tell yourself you're being noble.
/r/seduction17/12/11 10:54 PM
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Yeah, I wasn't ready for a relationship when I was in my early twenties, but I was TOTALLY ready for some safe, NSA sexin'. ... and I gave it up pretty quickly, because dudes are generally of the opinion that if you've had sex once, you will totally be DTF again, whenever they are DTF. Not so much. Sadly, the dudes I was picking up at that time were kinda lame, and would resort to whining/begging, which just killed any and all desire to ever consider sleeping with them again.
/r/seduction17/12/11 10:49 PM
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A thousand times, yes. Us women are big girls. Unless you are doing something seriously horrible involving taking away our consent, manipulating us into doing something we are reluctant to do and will regret, (which is rare, and I don't think is at all representative of what this subreddit is about, from what I've seen), we are going home and having sex with you because we want to go home and have sex with you. Is there some sort of post-coital survivors guilt going on? Like, "Oh man, I had sex …
/r/seduction17/12/11 10:46 PM
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Having your shit together = being able to admit you don't necessarily know what you want yet. Not having your shit together = freaking out and bailing because you're afraid she'll think you don't have your shit together. Chicks like this will dig honesty. Be upfront. If you don't have goals, don't make shit up. Just say you aren't sure yet and you're still evaluating your options. If you do have stuff you want to do, talk about it. Given her experiences, she probably has a lot of tips and connec…
/r/seduction17/12/11 10:37 PM
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