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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 18, 2019I wanted to chime in on the Career / Finance part. I was in a similar situation a couple of years ago. I had decent HTML & CSS skills, although I acquired these as a hobby. Back then I wasn't even working as a developer, but in another career in IT. Work and money sucked, so I decided to do the switch to development. With all the dumb things I've done, I handled this situation rather well. In a bit more than two and a half years, I went from knowing no programming languages, and having no experi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/06/19 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 18, 2019I sympathise with your situation, as it reminds of a similar place where I was a good while ago in terms of the anger and thirst. And yes, unfortunately that's what you are: thirsty. And that's not a good place to be, because it distorts your view of the world. If your stats are correct, and you're really getting all the female attention that you are claiming you are getting, then your wife would be the last thing on your mind. Why don't you put your money where your mouth is, and act on these d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/19 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 18, 2019OYS - 04 This OYS covers two weeks, because I wasn't enough on top of my shit last week to post one. Stats 34 years old. 6'2", 185lbs, a little less fat and unconditioned. LTR 4 years, 1 kid < 1 year old. Focus These lasts two weeks I focussed on three things: Not DEERing. Controlling my emotions. Finding out what I do because I want to, vs. all the other bad reasons for which betas do stuff. Financial Life A mixed bag. Main J.O.B.: First week was stressful, because I had a project deadline. Bar… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/06/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 04, 2019OYS - 03 Stats 34 years old. 6'2", 185lbs, a little less fat and unconditioned. LTR 3.5 years, 1 kid < 1 year old. Focus This Week My focus this week was applying the great feedback I got on my last OYS. First I reconnected with with what I want. Whenever I did something, I tried to ask myself: Do I really care about this getting done? Or is it something that my old conditioning makes me think I should do. What do benefit do I expect from doing this? Is it a direct benefit, or am I expecting a r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/19 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 28, 2019Fuck. That. Shit. That sums it up well. I read The Four Disciplines of Execution, it was required reading at a previous job. I agree that is a great book, way better than others that deal with the same stuff. It's a 300 something pages book. There's no way the lady is going to read that, even if it contained the meaning of life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/05/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 28, 2019A nice kick to the balls--I read the message loud and clear. Read those two things over and over, stop keeping score and interrogating yourself to see if you do enough, and start getting fucking mad. I'm not really sure why you think that I'm not mad? So that point having been taken care of, what do I do with that anger? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/05/19 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 28, 2019Now that you pointing it out, I see how this is in fact DEERing. I found this article that explains it well. Now I just need to catch myself DEERing, which seems really hard to do. I appreciate you pointing this out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/05/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 28, 2019What have you read of the sidebar? By posting what you have read, suggestions can be made on what to read next that specifically address some of your problems. Yes, I have processed the sidebar and got my reading list outlined. The Virtue of Selfishness is a recommendation I'm currently reading, and really enjoying. I'm no personal trainer, but I would say focus on the lifting. 6'2" 185lbs can't be too fat. I'm not really obese, but I definitely should be leaner. I'm lucky enough to have somebod… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/05/19 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 28, 2019OYS - 02 Stats 34 years old. 6'2", 185lbs, too fat and unconditioned. LTR 3.5 years, 1 kid 7 months. Focus This Week I see myself as a Career Beta. So my focus this week was to pay particular attention to what I did, and how I reacted whenever the lady did something. The objective is to find out which actions I take, because I want to take them, and which ones I do wanting to please, or out of submissiveness. Financial Life Worked on an updated spread of the communal finances are. The situation … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/05/19 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 21, 2019OYS - 01 Stats 34 years old. 6'2", 185lbs, too fat and unconditioned. LTR 3.5 years, 1 kid less than a year old. The Story So Far Career Beta. Worked my ass off to get other people ahead. This didn't materialise in the dream life I imagined, so I became a cynical, bitter, complaining bitch. Heavy drinker from my mid teens to late twenties. Alcohol makes me aggressive and daring, and therefore helped me hide the fact that was a scared, low-T faggot. All the openers I did with women I managed to f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/05/19 05:15 AM |
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