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What red flags could past sexual behavior be connected to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:42 PM
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I don’t lie. If they ask I break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:40 PM
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The best sex is with someone who cares for you and loves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:22 AM
1

Wow my standards are pretty low. I just want someone who is a decent human , wants to be with me and likes building Lego sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:16 AM
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I know what polyamory and ENM is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:47 PM
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I feel like a lot of people say they are poly to be able to cheat without the repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:15 AM
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I as a woman do not think that anyone with no relationship experience after 25 is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:06 PM
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Wow apparently you have not read any posts on the relationship subs. They are full of 35 year olds putting up with abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:42 PM
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Know it would guarantee that you could abuse her and she would stay because she would not know what a loving and respectful relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:58 AM
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As an average looking women I have found that even average looking men want to date above average looking women. They don’t care about her personality or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:31 PM
1

I am all for an equal relationship or one that is proportional to income.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:09 AM
4

I would say that no one is forcing him to be on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:53 PM
2

I was around in the 90s and no women were not fully empowered. We are still not fully empowered. Women are still expected to change their last name when they get married, they are still expected to defer their husbands on important decisions, if a man and woman go car shopping the sales person talks to the man about the car. These are just some examples of how women are not fully empowered. Many doctors won’t do anything to a woman that will prevent her from having children unless her husband ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:05 AM
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As an older woman who has been married, had some long and short term relationships and my share of fun. I know what I want in a partner. After I got divorced and joined the Army I decided that never again would I be at the mercy of any man. I am okay being single and hanging with the dog. I am also okay with being in a relationship as long as he is respects me and we can help each other be better people. I will not put up with foolishness from any man who wants to be in that part of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:52 AM
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As a much older woman I don’t care who dates who as long as they are legal age. The women I know who are my age don’t care either. Women don’t have a much power over men as men in this sub think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:50 AM
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I (58F) have been taking care of myself since I was 18 I don’t need a man to take care of me. I want a man to be my companion and best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:17 PM
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He needs to be able to support himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:51 PM
2

That is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:27 PM
5

Sex in an LTR is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:29 AM
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I see it a lot when a woman says a man abused her the answer is to leave. When a man says he was abused the answer is why is he not carrying more of the mental load. When a woman says she abused a man she is applauded for her self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:01 AM
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When we are both ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:26 PM
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Cool. There are a few of us out there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:05 PM
2

I am. I work in a hospital laboratory
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:26 PM
5

Obviously you can’t tell when someone is joking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:45 PM
4

Yes I do. It makes me the loveable little scamp I am
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:47 PM
4

I bring me and all my crazy personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:14 PM
1

I agree that people living together should have their own space, I don’t agree that it would eliminate sleeping on the couch. What would eliminate it is two adults having adult communication. The lack of communication is what causes 99% of the issues in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:07 PM
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I have various hobbies. Hobbies are healthy for a relationship as they give you some time for yourself and can also build it by doing stuff together. So as long as their hobby is not drugs or excessive drinking then I am oaky with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:22 AM
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Good points. I would never marry someone without living with them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:10 PM
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People just don’t start gaming excessively once they get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:57 PM
0

Then they knew that going in and chose to be with that person anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:55 PM
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This. I have my hobbies that I could do while he games. People who complain about gamers need their own hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:54 AM
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Since I only date men I am going with my date is a man. I would ask questions and discuss it with him. If he seems shady or not including any details or answering my questions then I would peace out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:31 PM
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Alone. I never wanted kids
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:20 AM
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I was violently abused by my Mom everyday of my life until I left home at 18. There was no way I was going to bring another life into this world knowing that was my history and I could possibly do that to them. Kids do not automatically make someone a productive citizen or a happy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:23 PM

I am all about the were-octopus man with tentacle penises. Would I find one in a lake?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:45 PM

I have a taste for vampires in fiction but can’t seem to find one in real life. Also where are all the Dukes and Barons from the 1800s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:44 PM
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I am a woman and play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:33 AM
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My parents did not get divorced but should have so I am pulling from my history of being abused because my Mom was unhappy married and stayed for the kids. So she beat us everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:15 AM
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I agree with most parents who have kids should not have them. My parents are prime examples. Neither one was emotionally stable enough to raise emotionally and mentally healthy adults. I have been in therapy off and on for most of my life because living with my parents totally fucked me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:11 AM
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I was a kid that lived in a very turbulent household. My parents stayed together but they were not happy and my mom took her unhappiness out on us. My dad was gone a lot so he did not have to deal with it. Guess what I have depression, anxiety and have been in a few crappy relationships. For the longest time all I knew about relationships was what my parents showed me. Ignoring each other and fighting. Oh also abusing your kids because you were stuck with someone you did not like because of said…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:06 AM
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2-3. I would not contact them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:11 AM
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Same. A sling as he can pay his share I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:20 PM

So you are saying that by paying my taxes I am enabling a single mom to provide for her child(ren). I am all for that. Also most people who are getting public assistance have full time jobs but don’t get paid enough to provide for their basic needs. So they are enabling themselves. https://www.gao.gov/products/gao-21-45
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:29 AM

I pay my taxes and am not a man. So women pay for that also.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:25 AM

They rape now even if women are putting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:09 PM
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Do you have sources that say older will destroy it? As an older women I give less than a shit about who is dating who. I feel like the majority of older women feel the same way. That being said most older women have been down the age gap road and know what abuses can happen especially with a young woman who does not have much dating experience or a way to support themselves. The men control the money and can and have isolated a young woman so they have no support system when the abuse starts hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:51 PM
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And those women have no self respect. I know my worth and the minute a man decides to switch things up and be an asshole is the same minute I am leaving that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:22 AM
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Or maybe just communicate with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:19 AM
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Boring to who? I don’t think someone who goes at my pace is boring. If I am boring them they then they can find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:10 AM
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You don’t have to deceive a women to be “valuable”. All the women I know don’t think a man who deceives them are valuable and the will not date someone who does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:09 AM
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Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:08 AM
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I agree with your opinion because that is how I look at it also. I am just looking for a decent man who will treat me with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:37 PM
2

This!!! Life is too short to put up with someone’s bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:50 AM
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Because was hot and that all that mattered to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:56 PM
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Yes. Unless they are a criminal or have a communicable disease their past is none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:02 AM
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Because the Walmart cashier treats you better than the 10 doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:30 PM
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Bodies are nice but minds and personalities are sexier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:42 PM
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I would be grateful that he was honest but I would not pursue a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:02 PM
3

But what if they were actively trying to lose weight though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:22 AM
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I am a 56F and single. I don’t need a man to take care of me as I can take care of myself. I have a job and a house. I would like a man in my life but only if he compliments my life and I his.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:46 PM
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Monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:38 AM
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I am 56 and that is the way it has always been. Men learned this from their fathers and they are teaching it to their sons. Men need to be better and teach their sons to respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:45 AM
0

Well then date a virgin and let her string you along. Whatever makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:11 AM
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Most men would not be okay with a virgin making them wait. Most men believe they are entitled to sex because they are men. Men are not entitled to sex because they are men, they are not entitled to sex because they bought a drink for a woman, they are not entitled to sex because they asked her out on a date. If men feel women are using them for their wallet then when they ask someone out in a date they need to make it clear that the person they are asking is paying for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:03 AM
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As an older woman I don’t care really care about looks. I want someone who wants to be my partner, lover and companion. I am all about their personality and how they treat me and others. Bonus points if they let me win at Mortal Kombat and Mario Kart and send me Spotify playlists of songs that make them think about me. And no Crazy Train by Ozzy Osbourne does not count LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:10 AM
1

If I get a vibe a man is not interested in me than I am not going to waste my time. I am not going to chase any man likewise I don’t expect them to chase me. If I think you just want to fuck then I will tell you I am not interested because I don’t want a fuck buddy. I have toys for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:36 AM
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My longest relationships were with guys I was friends with first then we started dating. Those who I was initially attracted to and slept with based on that ended up being very short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:09 PM
3

This is true. I want someone who can be a partner in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:34 PM
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Men need to realize that women want men who can be a complete partner to them. Looks may get them the first date but if they are complete assholes they are not going to get that far. Men need to start changing their changing their mindsets and learn how to be better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:34 PM
1

It is some incel trying to justify why he can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:16 AM
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OF is hard work. You have to keep coming up with content to keep your customers happy. And as has been mentioned you have to be able to market yourself. No I have not done it but I am a curious person and checked into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:05 PM
4

All I ever hear is be confident and the boys come running. Or maybe that is a milkshake.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:12 AM
4

I am awesome af!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:07 AM
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So he can fuck up their lives even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:18 PM
1

It is about knowing your worth and I don’t mean that in an entitled way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:56 PM
2

Nope. I was not even “my way or the highway” when I was an officer in the Army. I will leave if someone I am dating does not respect me or abuses me. No one should put up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:53 PM
2

I do treat men with respect. Why would I not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:30 PM
1

I am a GenXer and am into most of it. I will only engage in it with someone I trust though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:08 PM
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Not all women are like that. I don’t let anyone treat me without respect. I also am attracted to men who treat me well, let me win at Mario Kart and send me Spotify playlists of songs they like. So looks don’t really matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:05 AM
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And all the rapists who get off because they “have potential” or a football players. So men get off just as much at women do. Look at the NFL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:15 AM
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I worked with a guy who felt that way. When he was in college he liked somebody and he shot his shot and got turned down. He never dated again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:49 AM
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He would not be my ideal husband. She can keep him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:42 PM
1

I went to a Catholic junior high and high school and I never received any sex education.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:26 PM
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Men have to be held just as responsible as women. I don’t know of any women who can get pregnant on their own. Contraception is just as much as a man’s responsibility as a woman’s. They can say no if they don’t feel like there is adequate protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:26 PM
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Most schools don’t even teach it. Or it is one lesson in health class. A lot of women don’t know about ovulation and when it occurs and what is it’s purpose. Most men don’t know how to use the pull out method (which isn’t very effective). There is a lot that can be taught other than where to get birth control or how to out on a condom. People have abortions for many reasons. Most don’t use it as a form of birth control. People act like women are waking up on morning and deciding to have an abort…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:20 PM
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This is solid advice LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:25 PM
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I am not so sure about that. A women sleeping with her abusive husband/boyfriend is not that consensual. If she doesn’t sleep with him then she will get beat again. And no abusive partners don’t show their true colors on the first date. Or even the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:17 PM
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So some women asleep in her bed and someone breaks in and rapes her choose that? Or maybe it was the one walking home from work and gets raped? Or probably the 13 year old who was repeatedly raped by her father?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:07 PM
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I doubt states like Texas and other red states teach their children anything about birth control. Those who go to “religious” schools don’t get much sex education.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:03 PM
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For that to happen we need better sex education in school and better access to contraceptives. People are going to have sex but with the right knowledge they can do it and not get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:59 PM
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Why can’t you have that in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:11 PM
0

You apparently have never tried to get sterilized as a woman. It is virtually impossible to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:13 PM
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How many times can I upvote this! The decision to get an abortion is complex. Women just don’t wake up one morning and decide to get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:11 PM
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And they are expensive. The one I am getting in Jun will cost about $400.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:33 AM
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Yes. I am single and have been for a while. I want someone who is going to add benefit to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:44 PM
1

Reading it is better because as with any book you get to use your mind/imagination to picture the characters and their actions/responses. Erotica is more romantic porn is just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:42 PM
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You can’t always rely on a husband and kids for happiness. There are many people in unhappy marriages with kids they don’t really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:16 PM
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I am 55f, single and childless and am happy. I have moments of being lonely but so does everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:13 PM
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As long as they are sexually transmitted disease free, not wanted for any types of crime, and can support themselves I don’t care what they did in their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:20 PM
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Having a poor relationship with family could also mean that a women knows how to enforce their boundaries. Which I guess for a man that signals that the woman in question isn’t going to put up with their crap because they know their worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:24 PM
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Hey.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:37 AM
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No. I am very socially awkward and introverted so I only leave my house when needed. No. I rarely get a match I wish but no I cannot 4 No. I want a weirdo who can go on adventures with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:51 PM

Not all women hate sex. But some men only think about their own pleasure during it and do nothing to make sure the person they are with is enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:52 AM
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Only $15! That makes me even sadder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:30 PM
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As a knitter that makes me sad to read she wasted her talents on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:56 PM
3

Josh Hawley is a lunatic and is just trying to gin up votes. I believe he is up for re-election next year. I do agree that FB has a hand in the spread of Qanon and other fringe crazies. They knew what was going on and did nothing to stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:33 AM
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First of all I am not a girl. Secondly you don’t know me so don’t be pinning your incel bs on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:20 PM
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I dunno I am a woman and just want to meet someone who has shared interests as me, wants to be with me and is basically not a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:55 PM
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There are a lot more young women who knit, crochet and do cross stitch they you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:17 PM
1

You said if a woman’s hobbies are generic (which I would assume you meant like knitting, crochet and cross stitch) you assume they are boring. Those hobbies can have intricate patterns and designs which by no means makes them boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:46 PM
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Actually hobbies like knitting, cross stitch and crocheting are anything but boring as they can involve very intricate patterns and designs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:14 AM
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My hobbies are reading (mostly fiction), knitting, crochet, doing cross stitch, playing video games, watching TV ( which probably doesn’t constitute as a hobby). I am learning D&D which I don’t play much because of work. I also took a kayaking class this summer but because of work and money have not been able to do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:07 AM
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Actually they can fire you and hire someone 1/2 your age they just can’t say that is the reason they are doing it. In most states in the US you can be fired for no reason at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:10 PM
0

The correct answer is to do what he wants with his head and you will still love him either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:27 PM
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Also when they date much younger women they can dazzle them with their looks and know they may not have the life experience to see through their crap. They then try to do this with women in their age group and they are called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:02 PM
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