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SEEKING ADVICElachlensland/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:08 AM
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SEEKING ADVICElachlensland/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 01:40 AM
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Leveling up progress check in Posted somewhere here in January about my goals for this year. Checking in on my progress now! ⁠Maintain a GPA 3.5+ ended the year with a 4.0 cumulative ⁠Get a research internship for the summer unfortunately was cancelled due to corona, taking summer classes instead. I’m not beat up about it. ⁠Tone my body lost close to 10 lbs (after gaining the freshman 15+) and I’ve been working out more so definitely more toned. ⁠Get my clear skin back (college has absolutely ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:01 AM
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yeah there are actually a lot of korean & chinese christians. well, we should make sure he doesn’t find that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:27 PM
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there are many boring men, especially on OLD. but at least for me, i seem to meet plenty of men who are passionate, smart, hard working, and interesting. it helps that i go to a relatively good university in a big city. i think it is highly dependent on environment, since my small hometown is definitely lacking compared to my school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:27 PM
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are you close to your siblings? i don’t view something like this as a fake date, just a fun time. i’ve gone on plenty of outings like this with my brother, and it’s not like a date. a date has to have romantic intention behind it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 11:16 AM
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went through something similar when i was 12. thankfully it hasn’t affected much of my life since then (i did go to therapy, not directly related to that, but could’ve been a contributing factor). it’s easy to feel powerless at that age, and trash people (is it even fair to call them people?) will seek that out and prey on that. i’m sorry you had to go through that. just know it doesn’t define you. but if talking about it helps you work through it, then that’s good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:34 AM
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A HVM would never think anything close to this, regardless of how objectively attractive his partner is. A HVM who is in love with a woman will not care about these shallow things. I would say it is fine to be committed to a partnership with a HVM (that is what marriage is), after you have confirmed that he is HV. Note that you are committed to the partnership, not to the man himself, because you know that this partnership will add value to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:49 AM
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No, don’t stay bugging about him for any longer. Will it really be satisfying to call him out? That’s what you may think at first, but what good does it do? He already knows that he’s a trash person, or he’s so far beyond it that whatever you say won’t even matter a bit to him. So why should it matter to you? Do not waste any more of your precious mental energy thinking about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:12 AM
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why are you pressed about this girl? peeping her facebook profile isn’t going to help you get over him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 02:29 PM
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lol i went to the same high school as him. it’s funny to hear him use our football program as an excuse for his shit personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 07:51 PM
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I love how mom is listed first and girlfriend is listed last. like that is the “real purpose” of the girlfriend. men aren’t even hiding their intentions anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:47 PM
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oh my god, I’m so guilty of giving guys “chances” just in case they were nice even though I wasn’t attracted to them. nope, still didn’t show me any respect so I left & ghosted. won’t be doing that anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:45 PM
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asking around doesn’t even guarantee you’ll get the truth. my friend did this and everyone said he was a good guy, but turned out he was just another fuckboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:09 PM
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a lot of brazilian men in general... the culture there is not great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:05 PM
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There are still HVM in college. One of my male friends is in a LDR with his high school sweetheart and paid for her flight to visit him, meticulously planned out the trip, the activities, and restaurants and of course paid for it all. He isn’t super rich either, but he works a part-time job and used that money. Even if college kids are broke, HVM will still find a way to show their devotion to you. There are tons of ways to do that without spending a lot of money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:14 PM
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Ah I remember when I used to have a cardiac frequency of 55 bpm, those were the days...Last time I check I was around 75-80 bpm but I’m also working on getting fitter. Let’s do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 05:59 AM
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Maintain a GPA 3.5+ Get a research internship for the summer Tone my body Get my clear skin back (college has absolutely ravaged my skin) Start my own business (in the very beginning stages of this now, hoping to really develop it in the coming months) Ambitious goals, but good things I can focus on rather than male attention/affection!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 11:59 PM
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What is holding you back on this? What are your doubts in this relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:10 PM
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LMAO yup. My mom bought presents for herself and wrapped them, then wrote “To Mom, From Dad” on them. wtf did he do??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 06:55 AM
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I’m 19 and 24 is the upper limit for ages I would date, and I would only really date someone who’s 24 if we clicked really well. still, it’s acceptable and if he seems mature I wouldn’t let the age gap stop me from pursuing a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 02:16 AM
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don’t take much stock into men asking you out, that’s like the bare minimum. they might just want to get laid. it’s what happens during and after the date that counts. also stanford + facebook doesn’t make someone a ten. i know plenty of people with similar levels of educational/career success (even a guy who went to stanford and now works at fb) and there is so much more beyond that that matters. is he generous, kind, caring, modest, attractive, active, etc...the big name stuff alone doesn’t ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 01:48 AM
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this is the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 01:41 AM
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this motivated me to clean up my room, which i’ve just been leaving in disorder for the past few days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:41 AM
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if this happened to me i would throw up all over the ring and on him. no cap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:29 AM
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let me tell you as someone who was raised in a “stay together” household how happy I would have been/would be if my mother left my abusive father. I even dreamt of it as a kid and thought of how much better my life would be if I didn’t have to witness this abuse everyday. Staying together would result in a toxic household that is even worse than if you just left him. Leaving him is actually the best thing for your daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:40 PM
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same! I’m 19, and i have an over the top disgust when it comes to older men. for guys my age though, i’m fine with. so maybe just stick to dating them for now until you’re older. i’m not sure what it is, but older men (anywhere from 30s to elderly) just come off as predatory whenever they try to talk to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:47 PM
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hey I’m glad you’re with us!! I’m also 19 & a former pick me, also finished my first semester with a 4.0.. let’s go queen!! ever since joining FDS, my confidence has gotten a lot better. it still has some way to go but I’m no longer hating on myself for every little thing and I’m starting to understand my true value. sorry to hear that about your high school years, but at least you got out of it now! the only good thing about fbois is that they make themselves apparent pretty quickly so you can …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:58 AM
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So you’re still learning and that’s okay! Paying for popcorn isn’t a big deal like the other poster said, just make sure he’s still getting the majority of the bill and isn’t being resentful/cheeky about it. You don’t have to ask him if you look like the type of girl to do [whatever] because you already know you aren’t and that should be clear. His comment about Dave & Buster’s was stupid and a bit immature if it was in response to your alcohol comment. Having an activity to do on a date is not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:55 AM
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My classic is “Irreplaceable” by Beyoncé, the ultimate queen. Others are: “Good as Hell” - Lizzo “Obsessed” - Mariah Carey (kind of a meme but still works) “IDGAF” - Dua Lipa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:06 PM
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This has got to be a joke. Whatever happened to respecting boundaries?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 02:01 AM
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You put into words what I’ve been struggling to come to terms with lately. Recently I had an older male coworker make comments on my looks while we were in the elevator together. It made me very uncomfortable but all I could do was smile and laugh and THANK HIM for the “compliment” because I was trapped in such a small space with him I wasn’t sure what he would do if I told him to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:56 AM
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Generally I say I prefer dinner dates and either they back off or step up. If they go on a rant ab gold diggers or similar after that it’s a block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 02:18 AM
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I don’t think most are aware of it. I don’t blame them or hate them for it. These girls have been told by men, other women, all of society for their entire lives that he will only love you if you’re a “cool girl”, don’t “nag” him, lower your standards etc etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:47 PM
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Maybe they appear to be that way, but being high value goes beyond surface level. Being a fuckboy literally means they fuck around, treat women like disposable items, and are generally careless with their relationships. How can someone be a fuckboy and be high value at the same time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 04:35 AM
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QUEEN SH*T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:53 AM
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Do. Not. Text. Him. Yes, delete his number. When he texts back you’ll know who it is and if he doesn’t then good riddance the trash took out itself. Also, chill. It’s not even been two days. If he’s truly interested, he will get back to you. If not, you don’t want to deal with a guy like that anyway. In the meantime, practice self care. Take time for yourself to relax. Go to the gym or go for a walk outside (depending on where you live, might be a little cold for that).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:14 AM
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thanks. we just started texting so i wasn’t really sure what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:44 PM
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What about texting someone after leaving them on read? I left him on read because I really had nothing to say, am I obligated to text him once I do have something to say or wait for him to start the convo again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:05 PM
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Okay so this is my personal Tinder “guide” to decide on whether to swipe or not. Before inspecting photos, I check for age. If there isn’t an age listed, or he’s more than 3 years older than me, I swipe left immediately (Tinder doesn’t let me make the range smaller than 4 years). Then, education. If there isn’t a college listed anywhere, swipe left. If the college listed is more than 40 miles away, swipe left (Tinder U shows me a lot of people from far away colleges). This only applies if you’re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 07:38 PM
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Agreed! One guy I met from Tinder did not look anything like his photos... pretty sure the photos were outdated or something. He was passably cute in the pics but below average in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 07:32 PM
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Well I’m in college so there’s only so much I can do. I travel a bit (went to Europe this summer and going again in the spring). I’m already in a few clubs that are focused on social good, and I work part time. With those, I’ve met plenty of guys who I would consider my friends, not romantic pursuits though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:57 PM
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My older brother didn’t move out until he was 26. But he went through med school (which is expensive as hell) and it just made more sense for him to live at home. Now I would consider him a very HVM so I wouldn’t write the guy off for now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 03:28 AM
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what app is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:04 AM
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I’ve been on and off dating apps for the past few months. I’m on again right now after seeing my friends having success on them, but I’m not that optimistic about it. If something good does come out of it, that’s good. But otherwise I wouldn’t count on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 02:26 AM
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