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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why does every girl seem to be with a guy at bars? Sounds like the intent is there! I rarely am hit on at bars (like other commenters have said, some gals travel with buffer dudes) so it was a relief! Sounds silly, but as long as you aren’t a creep or don’t cut it off when you see the body language shift away from you, then I bet you’ll do just fine!!	/r/seduction	08/05/22 05:15 PM
1	Why does every girl seem to be with a guy at bars? For sure! Outside of the fact that there were only a few other spots open, it seems like he is a regular there and knew the bartender very well. I’ve done this before but moved to a new neighborhood so I’m trying to find a new “hangout” spot for free time. Maybe that’s a good start? Find a spot you enjoy thoroughly and it goes from there? Small talk that ends in long conversations are quite amazing. He hooked me with that line of hoping I return … you better believe I remembered his name AND tha…	/r/seduction	08/05/22 05:04 PM
1	Why does every girl seem to be with a guy at bars? I’ll give you an example: I was at the bar, by myself, to watch some playoff hockey. Empty seat between a woman and a man, so I ask them both if the spot was open. They both agreed (showing they weren’t together, nor did they have a friend sitting there). I sat there, watching my hockey game for almost 2 hours with no one talking to me (minus some slight banter due to the teams we root for). The gals to my right eventually leave, so it was just the dude to my left remaining. Shortly after, a man…	/r/seduction	08/05/22 04:52 PM
2	My red flags I’m bipolar. I understand this, but treatment (therapy and/or medication) DRASTICALLY improves my quality of life, as well as my significant others because he can see me trying and knows if anything happens, it’s the Disorder talking and not who I am as an individual. I stand by my statement.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 07:34 PM
6	My red flags “Not fucked in the head”. Interesting way to put that but hey, you do you and I wish you all the luck in finding someone who doesn’t have “something” wrong with them.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 04:53 PM
7	My red flags nah. Never date someone with a mental health issue that's NOT BEING TREATED. They will suck the life out of you IF you're caring enough to have tried looking past a diagnosis.... I don't have Borderline but know a few. Treatment will show you they're trying to be successful, if not already successful.	/r/seduction	18/11/20 03:57 PM

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