lady_baphomet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	I don't know how to talk to my partner anymore, everything I try seems to always miss the mark with him. Help and advice apprecated.	ADVICE	lady_baphomet	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/20 09:58 PM

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2	Do women shame each other for making effort? Pretty much. Well I found out karma got to her, her husband of 6 months is divorcing her. While I'm able to pull dudes who are not only younger than me, but want full commitment.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/09/20 05:25 AM
1	I don't know how to talk to my partner anymore, everything I try seems to always miss the mark with him. Help and advice apprecated. I find that calling someone a boyfriend to be a little high school, and creates a sense of immaturity since that person is just a boy (child male) and friend (not a strong commitment). Whereas calling them partner implies that you have a more adult relationship, as a committed romantic relationship IS like a partnership as both have a role to play that keeps things functional.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/08/20 02:12 PM
12	Do women shame each other for making effort? I lived with a girl like this, only she as both rude and hypocritical over it, we were the only 2 women in a house with 4 men. At the time I was single, and she was dating one of the male roommates. She was one of those tomboy skater chick types. She was not into looking put together, was proud of her inability to cook, never cleaned, but felt entitled enough to put that task on me and her bf, and calling me a "lame mom" for not wanting to live in a trash dump. The guys liked me at the house sin…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/08/20 02:07 PM
12	Found this great article talking about why he hate nice, average guys. Everyone has flaws, even "alpha" males and women. It's just being hot or wealthy obscures these flaws in the short run, however after a while these flaws and quirks can be more and more apparent. As the saying goes: "For every hot chick/dude, there is someone who is sick of their shit"	/r/RedPillWomen	07/08/20 02:52 PM
2	I don't know how to talk to my partner anymore, everything I try seems to always miss the mark with him. Help and advice apprecated. I try, but he's very tight lipped about a lot of what goes on in his life, he's like this with his mother too, as she often probes him for info as she's an ex news reporter, so I think part of it has to do with that. Plus he has very few interests outside of music, video games, and his job and his band. He mostly just sits around watching YT or Netflix. I'm the one with more hobbies and activities in the relationship, I have weekly D&D games, college, arts, doing tarot readings, collecting miner…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/20 10:21 PM
1	I don't know how to talk to my partner anymore, everything I try seems to always miss the mark with him. Help and advice apprecated. I've tried that, I keep holed up in the bedroom all day avoiding him for the last year. Often he's the one coming into my space and starting conversations only to blow me off or roll his eyes at me, if I could afford to live on my own I'd move out, and let him have all the space he wants. We hardly have sex, he's even said we feel more like roommates than a couple, and laments the sexlessness of the relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/20 10:09 PM
3	Tools for women to communicate with men As for conversations with men and women, you are partly right biology does play a part in communication between the sexes, because women do process about 100 extra wpm than men can. However, it's often not the biological diffrences that make communication painful, the anwser is far more simple. We are only engaged in topics that intrest us no mather what sex you are this is universal. So of course you are going to find a 1h+ conversation of why Karen at work is such a B is going to be painful, b…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/20 07:46 PM
1	Tools for women to communicate with men Tried doing the no nodding and waiting an extra moment before replying, but that just sets off my partner more as he thinks I'm ignoring him/stonewalling.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/20 07:19 PM
14	80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they do Pretty much, and if a girl does not look like a plastic/egirl they cry that women have become unshaven and sloppy feminists/roastie. Not to mention THEY are the ones that created the 1-10 rating system, then get triggerd about lookisam despite the fact that THEY are the ones that are reinforcing these bueaty standards.	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/20 06:46 PM
8	80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they do Depending on the disability there are huge issues invloving abblity to consent, such as with people with serious mental delays who are mentally the same as a child. Or there are many with phisical limitations that make them unable to have sex such as being paralized from the neck or waste down.	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/20 04:38 PM
31	80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they do Agreed. Not to mention the giant double standard where trp men have a huge list of things that are just as bad as the so called "high standards" women put on men. Like these men will wine that women are too picky, when these same men write requirments such as: must be a virgin, under 25 years old, no tattoos or body mods, fit body, long hair, good job, no college/uni debt, do all the cooking and housekeeping, 100% natural body (no make up, hair dye, fake nails, and so forth) and like 20 other re…	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/20 04:32 PM
2	How to avoid becoming red pill/mgtow Maybe people assume RP men are bitter because of what a majority of these men say and have been documented to say both on youtube and on other platforms? A lot of what the RP says is not only antiquated but extremely generalized, there is also a blatant tone of disdain towards women, especially when it comes to a woman's sexual and ascetic choices. This includes the website return of kings, where these was a article about how short hair on a woman means she's damaged ffs. You may say that they t…	/r/ExRedPill	18/06/20 08:04 PM
3	Interested girls lose interest after talking to me for a while. Gotta start hanging out IRL or making tangible plans to be around each other. That and I'd recommend maybe upgrade from texting to video chat. If you just stay at the texting phase and don't escalate then naturally anyone would start to wane in interest.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 08:24 PM
1	Would you reach out to a girl that was interested in you when you were in a LTR? Fair enough, at least you have that restraint, and I applaud that. Though, then that has me wanting to ask: Was it that this other woman who made you feel more valued & respected through her complements and more open attitude towards you?	/r/seduction	30/05/20 07:49 PM
1	Would you reach out to a girl that was interested in you when you were in a LTR? So, would you have cheated if she pushed it far enough? I get the feeling you may have some self-esteem issues that may need to be worked out before you hop into another real relationship.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 04:37 PM
1	Would you reach out to a girl that was interested in you when you were in a LTR? I mean if you just want to have casual sex go for it, but I get the feeling she is not LTR material. Edit: It's little to do with looks, though not to say that you are unattractive, chances are that was part of it. But I know a lot of women like to partner steal for an ego boost.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 04:26 PM
1	Would you reach out to a girl that was interested in you when you were in a LTR? Chances are that she wanted you because someone else had you, and now that you are unattached, thus no longer a challenge or novel she lost interest. I would also see her hitting on you while taken as a huge red flag, it shows that she does not respect boundaries or other people's relationships.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 04:21 PM
1	I don’t enjoy talking to girls. Find women who share your interests then, at least then the conversations will be less boring to you. Because for women conversation is part of the foreplay process, we connect through words and emotions, men connect through actions and doing. So if you want to do then you better suck it up and learn to fake enjoying conversation with girls.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 04:17 PM
2	I believe virginity is a beautiful gift that women are blessed with, which is why I choose to be celibate. 🔑 I strongly believe that people who attack women for their conservative views are sexist jerks. Have sex or don't, it's YOUR body. I don't judge if someone wants to have sex or wants or to save it for marriage, it makes zero difference in my life. I have bigger things to be concerned over than virgin/slut shaming women.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/20 05:23 PM
1	How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped? Less a trope and more of a philosophical teaching, also I find that like sympathy and empathy, people tend to mix up niceness and goodness, or think that they are the same thing, when they are not. https://ida.mtholyoke.edu/xmlui/bitstream/handle/10166/3632/RaniMehtaPhilosophyHonorsThesis.pdf?sequence=1&isAllowed=y A in depth thesis on nice vs good. The issue most women have with niceness is more than being engulfed, and yes fake niceness IS an issue, like I said it's a common tactic of people w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 09:08 PM
-1	How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped? Well the thing with being nice is that it is the min standard, nor does being nice often come from a place of being genuine. In fact a lot of abusers and people with NPD in the early phase use love bombing as a tactic to manipulate others. Essentially using their niceness as leverage to be abusive later on. Or on the flip side, people (not just men) who are insecure and clingy are often nice as a way to make people like them, these people will disregard their own boundaries out of fear of reject…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 05:43 PM
0	How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped? Fair enough, it was the way you wrote that that had me thinking it was your view, sorry for the misunderstanding. HA! Good is not boring, being nice is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 04:33 PM
3	How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped? Dating someone because they have 'potential' is why relationships fizzle because you are loving and unrealized ideal of what they could be, instead of accepting them as they currently are. This is why people get disillusioned after 6 months of a relationship and constantly failing at reaching what you set up your idea of you believed their own potential was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 04:29 PM
1	How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped? Truth! Not once have I been pumped and dumped by a guy, why? Because in my offline life I am not a boring stick in the mud, I like to do stuff outside of going to bars/the club or Nexflix and chill. In fact, guys who had hesitations about me end up adoring me after date 1 and want more dates with me, even when sex is off the table because so many dudes (and chicks) just don't know how to loosen up and just have fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 04:20 PM
0	How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped? I disagree with the notion that men who are into ltr are boring, not only is that a generalization, but it comes from a very flawed black and white thinking where people can only be A or B and there is nothing in-between. This idea takes away from the fact that human beings are individualistic. When I see people display this sort of boxed-in thinking it tells me that you have little real world experience with people, or live in a mental echo chamber of like minded people who don't challange your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 04:06 PM
0	Bad boys get to have sex with women in their physical prime, whereas nice and stable guys get the reward of older and more "mature" women jfl! It's not belittling if it is a scientific fact that people under 25 don't have fully developed brains, and everyone's tastes change with age, unless you are developmentally stunted that is. Also your comment about comparing me to your coworkers says far more about you and your stellar personality than it does me. Kinda hard to be respected by others when you carry that massive chip on your shoulder. Also lmao, no one was thinking you were a 'bitter young incel' until YOU mentioned it. Would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 03:47 PM
1	Bad boys get to have sex with women in their physical prime, whereas nice and stable guys get the reward of older and more "mature" women HA! I wish I was 25 again. Nice try. Also academic intelligence is not the same thing as emotional intelligence. It's why many people who have NPD and APD are often in the top of their fields despite having little in the way of emotional development. Anyone can learn, retain, and parrot info they have been studying for years, but not everyone can be empathetic or understand other peoples feelings and motivations. As you have clearly proved with your insightful reply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/20 10:43 PM
3	Femininity shouldn’t mean materialistic No need to apologize, I agree with the core statement that femininity does not mean you need all that fancy stuff. Plus as you said, you are speaking from a Christan perspective, and it is true that these faiths do put a value on family and community.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/01/20 05:16 AM
8	Bad boys get to have sex with women in their physical prime, whereas nice and stable guys get the reward of older and more "mature" women "I'm a 22 year old dude " And there is your issue, you are 22 years old and at this stage, at 22 you and everyone your age still have developing brains. You don't even gain the ability to actually understand long term consequences and empathy until about age 25. Not only that but at age 22 your tastes are not going to be the same, just as how your tastes changed from age 15 to now, the same will happen when you enter your late 20's early 30's. Also, consider the fact that being "nice and stable"…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/20 03:44 AM
8	Femininity shouldn’t mean materialistic I agree being less materialistic is a positive trait to possess and more women could benefit from being more grateful for what they already have; and stop comparing themselves to the lives of the people on Instagram, considering 95% of the content is staged & edited to look much better than the reality. However, with that, I disagree with religion being a factor in how materialistic or red-pilled a woman is. There are just as many materialistic and low-value Christian wives out there as well. Re…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/01/20 02:15 AM
1	The problem isn't that there are too many nice guys, the problem is that there aren't enough nice women Why thank you! I kinda peeped your post history, you seem like a decent logical person. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/20 10:31 PM
1	The problem isn't that there are too many nice guys, the problem is that there aren't enough nice women S-sempai noticed me!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/20 07:51 PM
2	The problem isn't that there are too many nice guys, the problem is that there aren't enough nice women and you forget there is a difference between being kind and nice: Being nice just means being agreeable and polite out of obligation or to gain something. Being kind or good means being altruistic, to do good for it's own sake with no expectations, nor does it mean that you have to be nice, being kind/good is having and respecting healthy boundaries they know when to stand their ground and not let others take advantage of them. Nice people on the other hand allow people to take them for granted,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/20 12:30 AM
1	The problem isn't that there are too many nice guys, the problem is that there aren't enough nice women "Good is not nice, and nice is not good" or from Nietzsche himself " There is a rollicking kindness that looks like malice." I feel like a lot of people, not just men, view niceness & kindness as the same quality when they are not, same goes mixing up empathy with sympathy. Being nice is about being polite and agreeable for the sake of gaining approval and validation from other people, being nice is false altruism as generally one is nice either out of obligation or because they want something o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/20 12:19 AM
2	Most men don't give a shit about how hot a woman's face is. As long as she's slim or of healthy weight (not fat) a woman can be considered 'attractive' even with a below average face. I don't even think of people tbf. I tend to get more in the moment and my focus is 100% on the sensations I am feeling, or the activity I am doing to my partner. Because that is sex 101 ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/20 07:14 PM
2	Most men don't give a shit about how hot a woman's face is. As long as she's slim or of healthy weight (not fat) a woman can be considered 'attractive' even with a below average face. Fair enough, if that's what does it for you. However I just don't find men's faces all that sexual, considering if I am having sex I'm doing more....esoteric....things, so looking into one another persons eyes or light pillow talk is gonna be off the table. Not to mention I think online dating is pretty wack, so the whole appeal to masturbating to people's photos just seems unsavory to me in general, I'd rather be having sex with them, not polishing my pearl while just imagining what they woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/20 06:58 PM
2	Most men don't give a shit about how hot a woman's face is. As long as she's slim or of healthy weight (not fat) a woman can be considered 'attractive' even with a below average face. Because out of all the things one could flick the bean too the face is not gonna hit the back of the G-spot, unless he has a tongue like the lead singer of KISS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/20 06:44 PM
1	Most men don't give a shit about how hot a woman's face is. As long as she's slim or of healthy weight (not fat) a woman can be considered 'attractive' even with a below average face. That's the exception, not the rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/20 06:42 PM
1	Most men don't give a shit about how hot a woman's face is. As long as she's slim or of healthy weight (not fat) a woman can be considered 'attractive' even with a below average face. Provide proof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/20 06:38 PM
1	Most men don't give a shit about how hot a woman's face is. As long as she's slim or of healthy weight (not fat) a woman can be considered 'attractive' even with a below average face. I don't think any woman anywhere has jacked off to the face of a random guy my dude, and if we are ringing Satan's door bell, it won't be over a shitty angled Tinder selfie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/20 05:28 PM
1	Why some PUAs believe their method works on all women despite some rejections they've been experienced? The "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take" philosophy for sure.	/r/ExRedPill	02/01/20 05:25 PM
3	Why some PUAs believe their method works on all women despite some rejections they've been experienced? Part of the method is to do it on every girl you find attractive as it is a numbers game, the more people you hit on the more likely at least someone will say "yes".	/r/ExRedPill	01/01/20 09:37 PM
4	"Women" these days u/realllyreal "the vast majority of bpd's are like this, your friend is an incredible exception" And where did you come up with that conclusion, do you know everyone who has bpd, do you have a PHD in the mental health field? Because it sounds like your conclusion is based on memes and anecdotal "evidence".	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/20 08:50 PM
1	How to act more womanly, approachable and less awkward? I mean it's generally true, is it not? A lot of people who look down on themselves are that way because people kept tearing them down. When you tell a kid something enough times, they start to view it as their truth, kids that are called dumb, ugly, unlovable, or weird their whole life do internalize that and it's evident in their self talk too, just pay attention to how you describe yourself, and I bet you'll see some negative self talk too. Yeah, I know it sounds weird to me too, however that'…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/19 05:30 AM
1	How to act more womanly, approachable and less awkward? It was less at you and more reddit as a whole, since I see that "you must be autistic because insert common social struggle here." types of comments far too often towards other people. Yeah, that's the issue I find with mental health science, there is just so much we don't know about the human brain, and the DSM is an ever changing beast. Heck ADD is no longer a thing, it's now ADHD type 1 & 2, and even the criteria for that has changed. It's exhausting to keep up with all that data sometimes (I…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/19 05:06 AM
2	How to act more womanly, approachable and less awkward? What is with Reddit and instantly diagnosing people with Asperger's & autism for expressing some less than favorable human traits? An online test is not going to be nearly accurate enough to tell if you are on the spectrum, if you suspect Asperger's then see a professional and get properly tested. I was tested as a little girl because I was socially awkward and spoke in a flat affect, after 3 years of vigorous testing and talking to various professionals, turns out I was 100% not on the spectrum…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/19 01:20 AM
1	I have no idea how to cook anything more than pasta and I need help starting Cooking tips: Taste as you go, only season AFTER cooking, fry your onions first before anything else in the recipe, make sure to crash garlic before adding it to anything, Red wine goes with rich & heavy dark colored meats and fruits & white wine goes with light meats & crisp citrus, Fresh herbs can elevate a bland meal into something amazing cooking at hotter temperatures will not make food cook faster - and only burns it faster! Make use of 1 pot and slow cooker meals - or better yet - buy an …	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/19 12:06 AM
1	[Q4W] In what areas do you expect the man to treat you equally and where do expect dominance? I like a bit of dominance in my partner, mostly when it comes to making choices around the house and of course in the bedroom. However, I do require independence to do my own things such as projects and hobbies, as I do like some independence for myself and my partner, so I'd say I like a 35/65 split in who is dominate in the relationship dynamic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/19 10:17 PM
1	[Q4W] Can you link the image of a man with a 5/10 in appearance? Whatabout a image of an average looking man? Was afk, sorry. Took a bit to find some public references, though not sure how well they will surface as an example of what a 5/10 looks like: A high 5/10: https://images.app.goo.gl/9TmbNvANn9wMMfeo9 Or https://images.app.goo.gl/ZkFrThvmAdrCgjfu8 and https://images.app.goo.gl/7XjTbFU9SPAwn4fG8 A mid. 5/10: https://images.app.goo.gl/tmgTcHHzcLMKEWNo8 Or https://images.app.goo.gl/kYY9ffFwSAGftpzFA and https://images.app.goo.gl/XzuFKBPmgdmjKyUr8 A low 5/10: https://images.app.goo.gl/MGWGvwP1y9M6u7o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/19 06:21 PM
1	[Q4W] Can you link the image of a man with a 5/10 in appearance? Whatabout a image of an average looking man? Sorry I was afk did not get this until now. Anyway, you forget that women have different standards for men. Also I did not say overweight, I said A BIT overweight, like the 'dad bod', there is a difference between slightly overweight, overweight, obese, and morbidly obese, there are medical categories based on the BMI model. Anyway the average person is slightly overweight - skinny fat, as most work jobs that are not physically taxing not to mention the average persons diet consists of processed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/19 05:53 PM
6	[Q4W] Can you link the image of a man with a 5/10 in appearance? Whatabout a image of an average looking man? I'd say to me a 5/10 is physically: a bit overweight, or skinny fat, minimal grooming, wears comfy clothes or puts little effort into coordinating an outfit, average face not too soft or dramatic, and average, to just bellow average height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/19 04:33 AM
1	Study: Men who do more housework have less sex Depends on the housework in question, I know in my relationship there are things my SO does around the house as he has more upper body strength. Trash take out, bringing laundry to and from the laundry-mart (I miss having on site laundry :( ) getting rid of set in stains (he can scrub a lot harder than I can), yard work, repairs and maintenance often fall into his list of responsibilities. When he does these kinds of chores and housework I find it attractive because it shows that he takes pride …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/19 08:26 PM
2	Q4W: Is your first impression about a guy who doesn't use social media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) that he is a creep or that he has issues? Sorry took me 4 days to reply because I needed to hook up my dial up modem, and check my pager. Also expect a letter in 2-3 weeks via snail mail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/19 06:58 PM
1	Key differences in male/female perspectives on dating Well, I find that the the men do have a small point here that the modern dating game is more in favor of women than men. While there may be pressure for women to have some traditional femininity, we are less likely to get judged or rejected for being more in touch with our masculine side. Where as men have had a lot of outdated expectations still placed on them in regards to traditional masculinity that we have kind of only really now started to take note of. So I kind of get where the (misplace…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 06:51 PM
2	Q4W: Is your first impression about a guy who doesn't use social media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) that he is a creep or that he has issues? 5 years and counting! The only down side is it is handy for job hunting and school, so I may just get an old school phone and avoid smart phones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 06:20 PM
2	Q4W: Is your first impression about a guy who doesn't use social media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) that he is a creep or that he has issues? LMAO, why thank you! It does take some talent as I have to make use of payphones in emergencies, a dying relic of the past. Trade off? I'm not addicted to social media like most redditors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 06:13 PM
2	Key differences in male/female perspectives on dating Honestly, from my time lurking and reading from many perspectives over the last three years including TRP, MRA, Incels, Feminists, BP, and various blogs, sites, binging various youtubers on both the BP & RP. Over this time I've discovered dating is shit for everyone, 75% of humanity is wasted potential, and my feelings of total misanthropy have been well validated. It's kinda why I've always avoided the general dating culture, it just feels like a waste of my time to go out of my way to find som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 04:40 AM
3	CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50. First off, if you are going to quote me, don't cherry pick the quote to fit your narrative. What I said was: "Younger women are easier to manipulate with "game" tactics and are also much easier to impress with things such as money & status." Was what I said in full. Just because someone is easy to play mind games with does not mean that they are easy to achieve. Also, people aren't "things to have" SMH	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 03:56 AM
3	Q4W: Is your first impression about a guy who doesn't use social media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) that he is a creep or that he has issues? 31, female, Ontario. Nope would not find that creepy, considering the fact that I refuse to own a cell phone and I've never used Instagram, Tinder, or any of these other phone apps. Aside from checking on family and friends on FB, I pretty much don't exist on social media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 02:34 AM
6	CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50. First off I did not say all men have that as their motivation, yet you ASSUME this and then project your "butthurt" onto me, when I could really give a rats ass, considering that I'm already with someone 6 years my jr. I said there was a TYPE of man that has this motivation, not all men who go date younger females have this motive, however to deny that there are men out there who do see it as a power & status move is intellectually dishonest. Considering that there are men on TRP and MGTOW that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 01:36 AM
6	CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50. Well I find that men who actively seek out hook ups with a large age gap boils down to two trains of thought: Younger women are easier to manipulate with "game" tactics and are also much easier to impress with things such as money & status. Considering that younger women are generally starting out in life they see these dating an older man as a way to get a leg up on all the people in her age group that she must compete with for her own wealth and status. Where as in contrast, an older woman mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/19 12:27 AM
1	Self improvement is making my insecurities worse and while it doesn't make me hate people it doesn't really make me want relationships anymore I have to ask, but at what age in your life did this happen?	/r/ExRedPill	24/12/19 11:19 PM
7	Q4A: Do you feel you were ever "used" by some of your partners? For money, sex, emotional support which wasn't reciprocated or anything of sort? Yep! My ex common law husband used me for emotional support, & money, and sex, he could not hold down a job longer than 3 months and awful hygiene. Did nothing but smoke weed and game all day, legit gaming 12 hours 7 days a week! Only gave me affection when he wanted sex. Controlled our money 100%, he'd have no issue blowing 60$ on a new game and 100$ on weed, but when I needed new clothes or shoes because what I had was falling apart, it was not in the budget. If I DID need something, I had to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/19 11:16 PM
1	Self improvement is making my insecurities worse and while it doesn't make me hate people it doesn't really make me want relationships anymore "I enjoyed being passive and feminine, but the fact I was born into this male body, that was seen as a weakness and unattractive. If most women really liked emotional, sensual, and other aspects of the feminine IN MEN then you wouldn't have men going to the gym, appearing or acting strong, suave, or smooth around women. I'm starting to realize the darker parts of me werent dark or flaws. Just not traditionally manly." This is the projection I am speaking of, and while its amazing that you somewh…	/r/ExRedPill	24/12/19 10:40 PM
1	Self improvement is making my insecurities worse and while it doesn't make me hate people it doesn't really make me want relationships anymore It's not what you do that contributes to lasting self improvement and happiness, but changing your perspective on your situation. It sounds like you are looking to gain self improvement for status and love because you are trying to fill an internal lack. However, filling that hole through people and status is what sets up people up for failure. It's why people get into bad relationships, or relentlessly seek out others and feel depressed when they are alone. Because you don't know how to like yo…	/r/ExRedPill	24/12/19 06:12 PM
2	Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do. Yep! I was in the same kind of mindset only it was "all men are assholes who just use women for sex". Took me a few years to grow out of that mindset as I entered the real world. I discovered that such behavior in that type of man is actually abnormal and not the default. Though sadly too many men and women are stuck at the high school level for emotional development, or are unable to let go of harmful events from the past. Instead of honest self-reflection and being real with themselves, they f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/19 01:38 AM
3	What do feminists, BluePill, and PinkPill girls expect from average and unattractive men w/r/t sexual urges? Haha you are welcome! Well I find that it's something that IS poorly understood and a lot of people can get very judgmental over addictions. I think for men with a porn addiction, why women tend to hate on the guy is do to the woman's own insecurity than it is the porn in and of it's self. I agree, holding off, or even just teasing and having sexy fun without the sex dose a lot to build anticipation and intimacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/19 11:52 PM
1	Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do. No offence taken! Also....YOU PLAY D&D?!!!!!! :P Are you crazy, I'd be down for that 100%. Kinky geeks are like my fetish, considering that's all I date. It's why I can't be with a frat bro, they SUCK as BDSM and have no idea what I am talking about when it comes to my hobbies like table top RPG & survival horror gaming. FYI I Dungeon master for Curse of Strahd! You just need to find a girl who is like you, and trust me there are a ton of us equally shy and kinky ladies out there. I'f I exist, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/19 11:30 PM
1	Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do. Not sure if sarcasm or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/19 11:23 PM
6	What do feminists, BluePill, and PinkPill girls expect from average and unattractive men w/r/t sexual urges? It's good that you can point out that a lot of what the extremists (keyword: extremist, not all RP people are like this, duh) in is based on inaccurate pseudo science and personal biases. So seems like you have some good critical thinking skills going on there, and that's fantastic OP! Also, as for the porn sickness, it has to do with the pleasure & reward section of your brain being overstimulated by easy gratification, the brain gets hooked on the feel good hormones and over time it becomes mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/19 11:20 PM
1	Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do. Physical/sexual attraction does not always mean that a woman is going to go for a man that is conventionally hot (same with men too). There is far more to human sexuality than "is he/she hot or not". While, yes some women fuck brainless jocks they aren't getting more sex, most of those jock dudes are insecure af. That's why they base their worth on how many women they sleep with, because deep down that's all they have. It's utterly pathetic, and when they grow into older adults they become total…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/19 08:40 AM
1	Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do. Well I mean tbf when you are under 25 your brain is not fully developed to understand long term consequence to actions & full empathy yet. Also what does OLD stand for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/19 08:30 AM
3	Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do. See my issue with the TRP is that a most of the people using the RP logic often tend to not have a lot of actual life experience with real people, and use high school, college/uni, and their parents own failed relationships as their entire basis for what dating and relationships should look like. Thus learned a lot of unhealthy views on what relationships should be. That and what I see often is that RP men see dating and women as a status symbol, so instead of looking for someone who has good ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/19 08:25 AM
1	Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do. But do you think it's bad to play into the brainless Chad stereotype? Like imo hook ups are fine, if that's what you are into I don't shame so long as all involved are of age and willing, you do you. However I just cant be sexually attracted or aroused by hotness alone, and one night stands were never my thing, the whole 2 I had were disappointing enough to stick to semi monogamy (FWB or LTR). I'd rather go through a sex drought for 2 years than settle for something lackluster. Plus smart guy em…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/19 03:06 AM
5	Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do. Yeah if you want a one night stand, sure. However, that's not what every single woman or man wants. Some of us have something called standards and self-respect, and good sex is more than getting your cervix crushed by some dull frat bro. It's openness, vulnerability, and being able to show a rawer side of yourself. I'm not the only woman that feels this way, some of us want someone that jives well, because looks fade and the emotionally immature bad boy act grows old fast. I know I for one was n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/19 01:34 AM
0	Is it okay for men to lie about how many women they've been in a monogamous relationship with? Actually, I did not misread the OP's question what I am pointing out is the obsession society has on the sexual history and lives of others, and that's the logic behind why some women and men get insecure and hung up over their partners numbers. This is not a gender specific issue, it's an issue with societies issues with sexuality, Women being hung up on serial monogamists is just one symptom of that greater issue. Because I see just as many men who get hung up on how many men women get with, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/19 08:14 PM
0	Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do. If that's what you are reading into my preferences, then that says more about you and your thoughts on manliness. So I'd like to flip the question around, why do YOU think that's bad for the guy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/19 08:07 PM
0	Is it okay for men to lie about how many women they've been in a monogamous relationship with? Honestly, I always find it so weird how we as a society get so fixated on the sex lives of other people, like how many people so-and-so slept with, or legal and consensual sex acts between two adults, and other bits of human sexual self expression. My partners past does not reflect on me, and judging someones sexual past & self expression to me says more about the one doing the judging than the one being judged for enjoying sex. So long as you are having safe consensual sex with a willing adult …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/19 07:48 PM
4	Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do. Not sure where I sit in that dynamic as I'm not feminist, however I do tend to end up with more effeminate, intellectual, skinny, artsy guys as they tend to be more passionate and comfortable with their sexuality more than traditionally masculine men. Examples are men like Bowie, Prince, Lestat, Lord Bryon, and Russell Brand that I find more desirable. I find most macho men to be much too boorish and lacking any depth for anything more than a placid fuck, since their idea of sex equates to slamm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/19 07:02 PM
2	30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share. I feel a lot of the Wall BS also comes from the fact that people assume that age = attractiveness, when attractiveness is far more complex than the rudimentary ideal that one must look a specific way at a specific age bracket. Not only that but the theory comes from a place of not actually understanding how aging actually works, as most examples used are based on cherry picked facts from long out dated and dis-proven studies that TRP often likes to misquote. Or it comes from a limited pool of pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 06:57 AM
1	30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share. This sums up me and my family to a T, we all have the baby faced genes. Unless I tell someone I am in my 30's, they assume I am like 20 something, in fact when I was in college at 28 I was mistaken for a HS graduate by this one chick who was 22-23 (but looked like she was 30) and she treated me like a dumb kid until another peer brought up my age as he knew I was 28 at the time. She was SHOOK! I've had that happen at a party too, where this 21 year old gay Asian guy was like "You're 30?! What ki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 06:47 AM
3	30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share. Moisturizer is there to replace the oil balance after a cleansing, it does not firm up skin. For firm skin that requires facial massages for the blood flow, exploitation to remove old dead cells and encourage new cells to grow, and a proper diet + drinking enough water. Also, you don't need to buy fancy skin care stuff, I get by on baking soda as a deep cleanser, witch hazel or apple cider vinegar as toner, coconut oil & castor oil for moisturizer, and coffee grinds for exfoliation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 06:41 AM
3	30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share. Agreed. Though with the skin thing, I find that it really boils down to skin care routines and a healthy life style. Not to mention cutting out dairy and using sun screen were HUGE game changers for me, in fact I get loads of complements on how nice my complexion is from friends and strangers alike all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 06:34 AM
1	30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share. I find that healthy high value men don't fixate on other people's looks, as that is a sign of personal lacking as a human when you reduce people to the attractiveness scale that many RPer's use to determine ones personal worth. Same goes with men who talk about the wall or fixate on arbitrary shit like someone else age, to me that screams "I am afraid of my own declining morality, thus I am projecting that onto you!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 06:27 AM
1	Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships. I've dated both older and younger than me, in both cases it was because we had great chemistry, similar morals, interests, and lifestyles. Currently I am with a LTR partner whom is 6 years my jr, great relationship aside from the year rough patch due to some outside issues being a family death & a lay off at the same time that I supported him though, and he's standing by me as I upgrade my career so I can later on support HIS goals and dreams. My family also 100% adores him, in fact he's the onl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 06:16 AM
2	CMV: RedPill is a bunch of men sluts complaining about sluts. There is nothing that was stated in the OP that said that wanting/loving sex was or is bad in and of it's self. The issue is that these specific type of RP men set up a double standard of wanting to have as much NSA sex as they want, while at the same time demonizing any woman who enjoys the very same thing, and then treat them as lesser beings. While at the same time, these very men also will complain about how a woman has too high of standards is she does not sleep around. Essentially it boils…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 06:05 AM
2	So are women doing cold approach now? “pick-up lines were rated by male participants as most likely to be effective. They found that direct pick-up lines were most successful, flippant pick-up lines were second most successful, and innocuous lines were least likely to be judged as effective.” Actually kind of true!!!! When I make the first move it really throws a guy off their game, since I am super blunt and just hate the whole playing games bunk we think we have to do. Nah fam, if I like someone, I go in for the kill and take it I don't let a good person slip by without at least giving it a honest shot. Some guys, weirdly enough red pilled men have like the direct & honest approach more than blue pilled men have. I found that it was BP men who felt more emasculated by me making the…	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/19 02:37 AM
1	So are women doing cold approach now? “pick-up lines were rated by male participants as most likely to be effective. They found that direct pick-up lines were most successful, flippant pick-up lines were second most successful, and innocuous lines were least likely to be judged as effective.” Yet women get annoyed when men just say "hi" on the dating apps. SMH	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/19 02:31 AM
1	So are women doing cold approach now? “pick-up lines were rated by male participants as most likely to be effective. They found that direct pick-up lines were most successful, flippant pick-up lines were second most successful, and innocuous lines were least likely to be judged as effective.” IDK, when I hear a pick up line, I just think "how many others have you said this very thing too?" Probably also why I've ditched online dating all together, as it's just copy pasta pick up lines from people who don't even bother to wait for me to upload my photo and profile info.	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/19 02:29 AM
2	She’s not special, she’s not unique. In general I feel that putting someone on a pedestal no matter the gender is not a healthy mindset to have, nor does any healthy person want to be seen that highly. When you put someone up on the pedestal what you are saying by doing this is: Showing to the other person that you see yourself as lesser or beneath the person being raised up. Relationships should be between two people who view each other as on the same playing field, one should not be viewing the other as more or lesser. That think…	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/19 02:20 AM
8	A King has no Friends, only Follower and Foe; on Power I find that it is easier to lead others when you make them feel heard and valued, 2 things that most people lack in their day to day connections. Hear out people and their ideas, don't just listen or try to fix their problem, just hear them out in full. Also showing gratitude and showing others that you value their contributions goes a long way. When I lead a group I tend to sit back and let the weakest member take control of the group, as you are only as strong as your weakest link, and a good …	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/19 02:01 AM
-9	YES. Ha! If that's what helps you to sleep better at night. Considering that I have a job in social work that has me taking care of men who are homeless and fighting addictions, I'd say I have done more for men than you and your armchair activism ever will.	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 11:52 PM
-6	YES. Tell that to my live in partner who is 6 years my jr. LMAO.	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 11:37 PM
2	Help decrease the gender pay gap... Pay gap is bullshit, never been paid less than a man in the same role, only reason my bf made more when we had the same job was because he worked more hours and was on call. When I asked for more hours so I could earn more, my female boss said "no" because lifting was "for the boys" and girls should stand at the check out. Same boss also called me a gold digger to said boyfriend (whom I am still with) because I asked him to pick up cat food as I was broke due that female boss refusing to up my h…	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 10:28 PM
7	Priorities! Maybe with her gone, the house will finally be tidy. Good god lady CLEAN YOUR HOME!!! triggered	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 10:14 PM
23	Priorities! Eh a small price to pay. I mean would you want to sleep next to that albino rino?	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 10:13 PM
8	Priorities! Ice cold. Just how I like my scotch.	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 10:12 PM
6	YES. Depends on how well the female takes care of herself + genetics, as I've discovered when I went back to college to upgrade my education for a better job opportunities, 99% of the women 25 and under looked so haggard. I had to deal with this bitter 23 year old who treated me like dirt because she thought I was some young little high school grad....I was 28 turning 29 at the time. Her face at the end of the year when my age came up and she found out that I was MUCH older...If looks could kill, I w…	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 09:53 PM
1	Feminist doing what they do best at... Lying and playing the victim. Compared to the Incel boards, ya'll are tame.	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 09:40 PM
1	Yes. Pfffft, then I guess I'm doing it wrong, as my partner is a musician, aka broke. Been with him 4 years, and in that time I've had offers from more established men. I say fudge that, as a rule I don't date men who make it a point to brag about their earnings or the fancy over priced garbage they buy. Most of those types are insecure man-children who are fronting their utter lack of personality with their fat stacks of cash. In the words of Shania Twain: That don't impress me much!	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 09:38 PM
1	The truth about the "Pink Tax" ^ This.	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 09:26 PM
1	The truth about the "Pink Tax" If you want something more ethical try castle soap, there are a verity of scents, and it's safe to use on the body, and most of the castle soaps are dog & cat friendly.	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 09:24 PM
5	The truth about the "Pink Tax" I normally just lurk in here however this time I feel like I should comment on the topic, as I've taken esthetician and cosmology courses. Female and male hair and skin don't have the same PH balance and hair care needs due to being a sexual dimorphic species. Due to testosterone, male hair follicles are more coarse, thus hold in sebum oils better. Also men have bigger pores, and their skin is in a cross hatched pattern - where as female skin forms in an up down formation to allow it to stretch …	/r/MGTOW	20/12/19 01:55 AM
1	How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing Cologne LMFAO "GayLubeOil" Lush does some REALLY good solids, I use them instead of the spray, they have a lot of good unisex / men's scents. My bf uses their Dirty scent, but the Cardamon Coffee was really alluring. The body washes are pretty strong too, the bf and I rarely even need to use perfume anyway, and we both always get complements on how good we smell.	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/18 06:40 AM
1	How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing Cologne Because picking out a good cologne is generally a one time thing.	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/18 01:14 AM
1	How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing Cologne I also recommend learning how to layer scents together, since most bath and grooming products often carry have some perfume added ( even in men's products). Part of why a perfume or cologne may not jive well is because you may have used a shampoo or body wash that contains a fragrance that does not mix well with the spray you are wearing. This was something I started to notice when my work implemented a "no scent" policy. I had to start using unscented stuff, so now I have started to be able to …	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/18 01:13 AM
0	What is the best way to handle the bill on a date? Pay or Split? And how do you go about it? Well then you know she was not worth your time, never bother with women who play games or are not clear with their intent. However, when dealing with money topics such as bill splitting, best to be discussed before the date, not during.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/14 03:25 AM
1	What is the best way to handle the bill on a date? Pay or Split? And how do you go about it? In my perspective during my dating days as a female, I'd always opt to split the bill. My reasons were that if say there were no chemistry I would not be obliged to have sex. So there would be no pressure, and I could just focus on getting to know the guy. Also, I hate being paid for, unless it is my birthday, otherwise I find it to be a waste of money. In this economy it is too expensive to be paying for two meals. If a girl calls a guy cheep for suggesting to split the bill. Drop her like a ro…	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/14 03:02 PM