lady_eliza Archive

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11	Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincess Typically daughters. Not to say there aren't sons, there definitely are, but the majority are daughters.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/21 12:27 PM
38	Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincess This happens all the time. I've worked in critical care for years (I'm a nurse myself), and have seen numerous women with cancer finding themselves newly single because their SOs just "couldn't" do it. Disgusting. But who stays by the side of men while they suffer from their cancers? Wives, GFs, daughters, mothers, etc.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/21 11:28 PM
3	How do you ladies feel about a man who won't go down on you? Have a legitimate conversation with him stating your needs. BUT, only if you are fully willing to walk away if he is not prepared to start giving you want you need in order to have fulfillment in bed. Period. If you want to give him a shot to explore why the hell he is not getting you off, go ahead, but do not let him be lazy or bullshit you. Be fully confident knowing what your cumming needs are, and do not tolerate any dumb answers. You have just as much right to get off in bed as he does.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 05:09 PM
17	Even if he says he wants a relationship, plans trips with you, puts in a ton of effort. He will still change his mind in a heartbeat. He has given you a gift by telling you now. Get out. Yes it is sad and disappointing, but it is safe to assume he was not going to be all you saw in him. There may be someone else, and/or he's just a douche. Take your crown and walk away with dignity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 01:29 PM
22	Words of Wisdom I have actually had a few men either already in therapy, or go into it at my insistence. I believe that all people should see a therapist during their lives for "tune-ups" and I can be pretty convincing. Stand up, show up, and demand the man do the right thing for YOU, the RELATIONSHIP, and HIMSELF.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 01:23 PM
41	Words of Wisdom This is huge. So many men come into relationships not realizing (or not willing to notice) that they are really looking for someone to "fix" them. Whether they get the help of a therapist or not, they seek to find what they are missing in US. I just broke up with a man in the summer who, I realized, was becoming completely dependent upon me for ALL his validation and could not be without constant contact with me. I noped the hell out and told him he needed to work on himself, and that I was not …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 01:20 PM
17	“I’m a nice guy.” Always a warning sign. The narcissist I dated before I realized my worth would say, "I'm a good person" and I only realized later that it was a huge red flag. People only say these things if they need to convince THEMSELVES as well as others that something is true. They are lying and they are not to be trusted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 01:15 PM
3	This is why we don’t take a man back, even once. He WILL do it again and you WILL find it increasingly harder to leave. I feel bad her daughter will grow up and see and accept this treatment by men. No good man should ever feel threatened by a toy. Period. They should be ready, willing, and able to help you play with toys, and encourage YOUR happiness and orgasms! Don't tolerate any man who gets intimidated by a toy!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 11:04 PM
22	If he gets it in 1920, he has no excuse in 2020. Most of his work was actually Zelda's. He was a terrible misogynistic bastard and treated his wife like garbage. This quote may very well be written by Zelda, but he got to take all the credit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 12:13 AM
18	Stories like this serve as a harsh reminder of why sticking to FDS is so important. She’s put out already and he’s pretty much already ghosting her, or at the very least slow fading. Unless he’s died, there’s NOT reason for a man to take four days to text you back. If you are with a man, and truly WITH them, they will go out of their way to text you, even just to say "hi," daily. Do not ever fall for less. A good man is INTERESTED in talking with his woman daily. Sure, he went camping, but was he in a back-country area without ANY service? A real man would tell you beforehand. This is just a guy looking for (and receiving) an easy lay instead of putting in any time or effort. This lady needs to cut and run.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 02:59 PM
105	Douche only allows girlfriend in his hospital room; not wife and kids. This actually happens a lot more than most people think. I am an ICU nurse, and there have been many situations in which male patients have alternated visiting days between one girlfriend and another (so they don't cross paths), have girlfriends staying with them while their wives are home, or have both wife and girlfriend doting over them in their hospital beds. It is pretty interesting to watch, and it opens ones eyes a great deal to what people do when they feel they can get away with it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/20 10:07 PM