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Actually, I saw a link to his black book. Let me see if I can find it again. Edited: here! https://www.reddit.com/r/IntelligenceFiles/comments/cp9m2w/jeffrey_epsteins_little_black_book_unredacted/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:54 PM
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Unfortunately we all have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:14 PM
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Sometimes???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:52 PM
33

“I just need the exact combination of magic words so he finally understands what to do even though he’s an adult man that is capable of figuring things out on his own.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:19 AM
45

“Keep my pride”...... uh, I don’t think he had any to begin with. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:57 PM
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That was totally my favorite part! 😂☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:12 PM
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But is she? In the original post over on DoT, she was whining that this guy wouldn’t talk to her, so she shows up to his house, starts screaming in the street, creates some weird narrative about the other woman, and goes on to say this guy is ugly even though she’s beside herself over him. Now she’s here, still giving this dude attention - why entertain this bullshit at all? Why not just block and never give him another thought? This seems like basic FDS principle, which is NOT being applied her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:36 AM
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If you do remember this story, you’d recall that OP had a total meltdown and acted like a total pickmeisha by randomly showing up at this LVM’s house. Seems like we’re rewriting history a little bit here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 05:51 AM
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Does that really work though? I have reported numerous comments and posts where the OP clearly hasn’t read the handbook, yet they remain. I know modding is hard work, but this sub has become borderline unreadable as the number of users has grown - you guys need to use a heavier hand when removing content. (In my opinion, anyway.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:48 PM
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It’s not your job to educate adult men. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:07 PM
36

Seriously. Imagine praising Kobe with a straight face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:39 AM
5

Don’t forget that he’s also a foot fetishist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:36 PM
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Any time a guy brings it up to me, my response is always one of excitement. “I’m so glad you asked because I didn’t want to bring it up first.... let me show you some pics of some guys we could call. I’ll let you choose. I’m sure they’d be willing to come over tonight if you really want to do this.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:36 AM
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Man, she’s really obsessed with DTW. What a fucking weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:48 PM
6

Same. It’s hard for me not to instantly downvote anyone who uses that word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:07 PM
2

Okay - you were seriously not kidding about Mark. He’s the biggest creep. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:36 PM
7

I unsubscribed months ago. You should too. There’s nothing of value there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:17 AM
6

Okay - seriously watching this guy claim he has no control over whether or not there’s a stripper at his bachelor party. Give me a fucking break. 😒🤮🙄 And then this other guy giving this poor woman a $300 wedding dress budget!!!! 😂 Jesus Christ on a cracker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:45 AM
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I can’t wait to get there - finishing up S1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:41 PM
3

I appreciate this response. It’s so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:46 AM
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Has anyone watched 90 Day Fiancé???? I just started binging it and I have a lot of thoughts - like, why are these guys such creeps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:32 AM
2

Love MM - Jazz Club is my go to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:12 PM
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This was the last guy I dated. Over a year and he STILL couldn’t say it because he claims his mom never told him. He definitely acted like he loved me, in multiple ways - but being with someone who can articulate their feelings and emotions is really important to me. So I had to end it. He couldn’t believe it, even though we had discussed many times. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:07 PM
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For me it was the episode where Big calls and leaves a message while they’re in bed, and Aidan then proceeds to sulk for a week. What a tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:18 PM
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It’s weird that Aidan gets so much credit - he was pretty passive aggressive when he would get upset. And when Carrie runs into him on the street like a year? year and a half? after they broke up and he already has a baby with someone else????? That seemed fast. I don’t know. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:41 PM
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I just recently started a rewatch of the show. When it originally aired I was 19. I’m 40 now and my perspective about dating is so radically different - hearing them whine about being old maids at 35 is eye-roll inducing. But back then a lot of the show seemed like gospel truth. It has definitely not aged well. Credit is still due though - it WAS groundbreaking in the sense that this seemed like the first time women were allowed to talk so openly about sex on television. (But yeah - can’t believ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:39 PM
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Ah yes - he says shitty things about everyone so it’s okay. What a bizarre argument. You literally have no idea if he’s been faithful or not. I appreciate that you’re a fan, but I presented you with numerous examples that you asked for demonstrating exactly why and how he’s LV, and you’re still defending him. I don’t get your mindset. I don’t find jokes about child rape funny (feel free to google what he has said about Michael Jackson) - that doesn’t make me “thin skinned”, just a decent human b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:29 AM
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If you value those actions (which are incredibly basic, literally just the standard way a man should treat a woman), then good for you. But to argue that he’s HV because he’s nice to his wife while being disrespectful to other women is pretty disingenuous. Edited to add - it was common knowledge that he was married when the show originally aired. It’s not like it was some secret thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:10 AM
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Cheating on his wife - isn’t that a huge part of his schtick on the Chappelle Show? Not sure how old you are; I was in my early 20’s when it originally aired in ~2002, and if memory serves it was a common theme. (I haven’t really watched since then.) He and his wife have been married since 2001, according to google. Of course, he could just be joking, but based on what I’ve seen he doesn’t seem to be someone who holds women in high regard. As far as what he’s said about #metoo - some links below…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:29 AM
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It’s funny that you mention #metoo, since his take on it is pretty fucking awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:25 PM
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The only way you’ll have the upper hand is by ignoring him. You obviously still care, and sending any text makes that obvious, regardless of what you say or how you say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:22 PM
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This is 100% my experience - lazy and entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:12 PM
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Did I miss something? Doesn’t he joke about cheating on her all the time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:10 PM
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This is what I don’t understand. The mental gymnastics going on here.... big yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:16 AM
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The very fact that we label women as a “Karen” when there’s no equivalent male name is telling in and of itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:58 PM
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There was a post a couple days ago about how you can’t know if someone is an HVM right away. Some of these clowns are able to keep up the facade for a loooooooong time. Luckily this one couldn’t, and you don’t have to waste any more time with him. ✌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:50 PM
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And they wonder why they’re quarantined. JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:49 PM
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Agree. And then meeting up with the other woman to confront him??? What is the point? Block, delete, ignore, move on. Everyone involved here is LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:16 PM
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Or you could just not open the door and call the cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:15 PM
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I’m a firm believer in meeting in person as quickly as possible. I don’t want to waste a week chatting with someone only to meet them and know within 30 seconds that I find them physically unappealing. Also, I’ve dated a lot of great guys who were terrible at texting, so I feel like it’s not the best barometer. With that said, though - you have to do what you’re most comfortable with. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:22 AM
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Every six months or so this guy I went on a handful of dates with in 1998(!!!!!!!!!!) will message me via LinkedIn. Dude, it’s been almost TWENTY TWO YEARS. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:46 PM
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You’ve got this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:52 PM
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Using these three months to focus on yourself and to get an exit strategy planned out is the smartest thing you can do. Bravo to you for listening to what people have to say here without getting super defensive. I know it’s hard to leave - but I also know it’s possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:26 PM
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No offense - but why do you feel like you’re qualified to offer this advice? Your marriage is a trainwreck and the fact that you refuse to end it because you’ve already wasted years with this porn sick clown and he’s going to give you $10k even though neither of you have any money (lol what? 😂) shows that YOU don’t really understand the principles of FDS. Big yikes here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:36 PM
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I’m almost 40 and still don’t know how my mom did it. She would cook every single night!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:23 PM
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Honestly, I don’t think it even exists. And the fact that someone gilded that post? Mind boggling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:37 AM
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Only 65 years, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:13 AM
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It’s when someone ejaculates on your back. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:19 PM
2

I deduced it from various comments he made and the way he acted any time I asserted my financial independence. He did not have a bad job - but he works in public service in a southern state. His title was impressive, but the pay not so much. (Good benefits and pension though.) He seemed especially salty that he had a masters and I only have an HS diploma. To be fair, I have been a secretary for almost 20 years now (literally since high school), while he’s only been in his field for about 6 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 03:00 AM
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Good thing I have plenty of money and zero fucks to give about whether or not someone on Reddit thinks I’m a ‘catch’ because I enjoy looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 02:39 AM
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Yeah, I don’t disagree - and I don’t think there’s anything wrong if a woman DOESN’T spend money on her appearance. I think we should all do whatever makes us the happiest. I do have to admit that I have become more high maintenance as I have gotten older, because I have a lot more disposable income. I also just enjoy it, which is the most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 02:29 AM
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To be honest - I am an outlier when it comes to approaching men. I have no problem doing so, and in fact, I actually enjoy doing it because it weeds out guys I DON’T want to be with. If a guy has an issue with me asserting my interest, then he is not someone I could ever have a relationship with. I also have no problem paying for myself or both of us. Sadly, I have found that many men are threatened by women who don’t need to rely on them financially. My last relationship actually ended for that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 12:05 AM
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Weird - you don’t know me either, but it didn’t stop you from making absurd assumptions about me or my financial situation. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:52 PM
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Have you considered how expensive dating is for women? Mani / pedi - $40 Bikini wax - $75 Regular root touch ups - $80 every ~6 weeks New dress - $100 Lingerie - $80 Makeup - varies (the contents of the makeup bag in my purse right now is probably around $300) Uber to the date (at least) - $15 And this doesn’t even begin to factor in the cost of my time to look incredible. Men might have to pay for drinks or dinner, but they are not making anywhere near the initial investment that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:40 PM
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I mean, I HAVE been dating for 23+ years at this point.... :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 12:30 PM
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Do you think these were all long term relationships? Because they're not - some literally lasted a month, because I always leave when things get bad. Also, I shared what these guys did without really insulting them or using negative language. As I said in another comment, a lot of these things happened when I was / they were younger. I don't think my high school boyfriends acting terribly means that they are probably still terrible human beings 20+ years later. They were just figuring things out…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 12:28 PM
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To be fair, a lot of these DID happen when I was younger: T - 14/15 C - 17/18 T2 - 18 C2 - 18/19 J - 20 D - 23 R - 25 K - 25 J2 - 26 T3 - 30 But I find the idea that I am somehow asking for it hilarious. I have a zero tolerance policy for poor behavior. Not every awful person flies red flags right off the bat. Some people wait until they think they have you hooked. Also, I've dated a LOT. Percentage wise, this maybe accounts for like 10% of the relationships I've had?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 02:13 AM
2

What's his number? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 11:51 PM
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So many men, so many terrible things: Chronological order! (None of these are the same person because I don't repeat mistakes, but some initials repeat - will use letters and numbers.) T - dumped me because I wouldn't have sex with him often enough. (We were 15, in Catholic school and both had parents that were perpetually around.) C - cheated on me with a co-worker. Caught him red-handed. He still tried to lie. T2 - slept with my best friend. This was 20 years ago and it still kind of hurts, tb…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 11:43 PM
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Read your first three bullet points and stopped there. You clearly have zero idea about what feminism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 12:46 PM
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Your purview.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 04:23 PM
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OMG.... Seriously, just stop. You have no idea what you're talking about. I am seriously sitting here cringing at your comments. It's okay to not know something, or to not have experience in a certain area. It is not okay to double down on your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 11:12 PM
2

Fair enough. I think I gave you some other good suggestions, though. Also, you don't have to be super hot or super fit, but being clean and having good oral hygiene is important. Be polite. Without knowing anything about you, I can't get more specific than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 08:15 PM
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Some women are picky. Some women are completely DTF - regardless of their weight. While I understand that it's human nature to rely on anecdotal evidence, just because you have experienced something a handful of times doesn't make it universally true. Another suggestion - why not just get a pro if you're only looking to get laid? In most instances it's going to cost you something (dinner, drinks, a movie, concert tickets) to get someone in to bed. Why not just skip all that and pay to get exactl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 07:58 PM
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According to the quick google search I just did, there are at least two dating sites catering to tall people. You could also use the filtering function that pretty much every online dating site has to quickly winnow your search. Or you could forget about height and just find someone obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 07:44 PM
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Find a tall, obese female in the same predicament. Seems like kind of a no-brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 07:36 PM
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