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INSIGHTFULladybug234/r/RedPillWives09/02/17 04:52 PM
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Read through your post history. I'm sure there are many who think obsession with Dungeons and Dragons is pathetic too. You are entitled to your own opinions but it also reads as pathetic to comment rude things anonymously via the internet. Here's a pro tip: if you don't like this sub, stay out of it.
/r/RedPillWives23/02/17 02:56 PM
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Took me exactly 4 minutes :) Hiiiiii u/mabeol!
/r/RedPillWives17/02/17 06:10 PM
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My goodness, I'm so glad we both have this sub. Its unfortunate people are so quick to judge. I get the impression some people see "unable to love" and "foxnews.com" and immediately jump to aggressive conclusions. I see so many women in my social circles becoming this alpha woman and putting their romantic relationships on the back burner despite stated goals of motherhood and wedded partnership. These same women then reach 40 without either and wonder where they went wrong. I am a strong person…
/r/RedPillWives10/02/17 06:02 PM
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I've struggled with dominance as well, not for the same reasons, but I am an older sibling and my childhood was very much ruled by bossiness and dominance over my younger sister. Re-working those views in adulthood has been a long process but one that is so rewarding thanks to RPW. Sounds like you've experienced similar :)
/r/RedPillWives10/02/17 03:48 PM
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Absolutely, agreed! What I love most about being a GOLF is the gifts keep on giving. Become a GOLF --> joyful reaction from your partner --> easier to continue to be a GOLF --> continued joy. Whenever I find myself slipping into a negative frame of mind, I'll often take a breath, reassess, and channel GOLF. That change in my attitude often completely changes my perspective.
/r/RedPillWives10/02/17 03:45 PM
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I guess I didn't think about this quote from the perspective of goals. I would hope that the women in this sub are sensitive enough to honor their man's goals and not put their partner in a no-win situation where he has to choose his goals or her partnership.
/r/RedPillWives09/02/17 05:46 PM
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I'm part of a secret Facebook group full of supportive ladies in my city. I derive a lot of good from some of the discussions which is why I stay. However, many of the women are typical blue pill feminist types. This article was posted and a discussion has been initiated about how terrible and sexist the article is. I read it and thought, "hmm, this is actually pretty good!" I likely won't engage with the women in the Facebook group but wanted to post it here in a group I find more affirming to …
/r/RedPillWives09/02/17 04:57 PM
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Powerful example, thank you for sharing. I once heard that a good question to ask is, "would I rather be right or would I rather be happy?" That always re-centers me if I feel the need for arguing creeping up. Putting happiness as my end goal for both myself and my partner allows me to enter into disagreements with more respect.
/r/RedPillWives27/01/17 06:24 PM
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Yes, you're correct. I did some Instagram digging and found they broke up shortly after, which I found interesting. I'm re-working my views as I read the comments, part of why I love this sub so much. I'm wondering if witnessing the different dynamics as you discussed is actually a strength? Maybe it is easier for those who grew up similarly to avoid in-depth discussions on family/marital dynamics as they assume they will have similarities. Being openly confronted with differences can help a cou…
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 07:09 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you said and it reminded me of a documentary I recently watched called Meet the Patels, starring comedian Ravi Patel. The film chronicled his search for love and his breakup with his white girlfriend in favor of pursuing a more traditional Indian matchmaking process. Ultimately, Ravi's white girlfriend could learn to cook Indian food and dance to Indian music, but she would never truly be Indian and thus could not understand the complexities of the culture. Ravi's disc…
/r/RedPillWives06/01/17 03:40 PM
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Good: I had a wonderful weekend with my SO celebrating the New Year. We went to a house party and the hostess was incredible. There was a champagne toast at midnight, lots of New Year's decorations, and yummy snacks including a spinach/artichoke dip that I want the recipe for. On New Year's Day, my SO met my family for the first time and it went really well. He fit right in. Bad: On New Year's Day it was so apparent that my dad needs hearing aids. He misses a lot of people trying to engage with …
/r/RedPillWives05/01/17 03:25 PM
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The thing that stuck out most to me is not that your husband lied, but how you approached the situation. It seems like you were occupied with getting the truth out of the situation at any cost, including the feelings of you and your partner. While it may be difficult to ask yourself this, I can't help but wonder what questioning your husband repeatedly accomplished. Why was it so important for you to get him to admit the truth, when you knew from the bar codes what the truth was? Perhaps this si…
/r/RedPillWives29/12/16 07:15 PM
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Of course! The lavender w/ almond oil is vegan, so that's the one I'd pick for you :)
/r/RedPillWives22/12/16 03:23 PM
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As others stated, this is a wonderful story and a perfect example of how little actions can reap big rewards. I think actions like these illustrate your desire to be part of a team with your SO. It's a slight shift and words hold a lot of power (as we all know). While the difference in words is small between asking your SO and not asking, the difference in his perceived respect you hold for him is huge. Making an SO feel that good is worth a slight change in verbiage always, but especially when …
/r/RedPillWives22/12/16 03:17 PM
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I made homemade soap this year! I made a few different kinds - lavender with almond oil, and goat's milk soaps in 4 different scents (chamomile/orange peel, cinnamon, calendula/oatmeal/honey, and lavender). I'm really proud of the goat's milk soaps in particular because they are made with homemade infused oils and organically harvested herbs. I wrapped the soaps with sparkly gold/silver twine although if I make soaps again next year, I'll also wrap them in butcher paper (maybe with a sprig of dr…
/r/RedPillWives20/12/16 03:56 PM
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