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for me physical attraction is a pre-requisiste, to be honest. I just can't bring myself to even make out with a guy if he isn't handsome to my tastes. It's the same for my girlfriends, too. Not to say that it's hopeless unless one looks like a male model, but certainly i'd need to think you were good looking in order to want to take the interaction somewhere sexual, even if he's confident and charming and knows 'game' etc.
/r/seduction14/11/21 02:32 PM
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Correct? pretty much.
/r/seduction10/11/21 06:04 PM
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I guess it depends on the setting and stuff. If a guy walks up to me in a bar I know that he's hitting on me. Even if he doesn't verbalise it. Depending on my mood, I might be slightly short with my replies etc as I don't want to encourage him (assuming he's not my type). I do try to be polite in general and will at least respond to basically anyone in most settings though. But we try to be careful not to be too friendly and give some guys the wrong idea
/r/seduction10/11/21 06:00 PM
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Women don't typically make a decision whether they're attracted to you in the first few seconds of talking to you We kind of do. We have eyes. We can't help it. I know if i'm not attracted to someone in way less than 10 seconds
/r/seduction10/11/21 05:51 PM
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personality is very important if we're talking about a relationship. Minumum to earn? Again, only matters if we're talking about a relationship. I don't really care. But ideally he can afford his own place and isn't completely broke! Like, he can afford to have some nights out and stuff. It's not really an issue past that.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:39 PM
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If a guy has money but i'm not attracted to him, then I don't want to hook up with him If I think he's hot but he's broke, I might hook up with him, but not sure about starting an actual relationship with him
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:14 PM
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for me, it's looks over money
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:28 AM
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haha. I can agree with this! Kind of what I was trying to say from my different perspective It's a bit like with 'negging'. (read about it first in a cosmopolitan magazine!) before I found this sub. I've also had guys 'neg' me and my friends before in bars and stuff before I knew what they were trying to do. It certainly never helped any of them! Although even with that I guess I can imagine how it can work. Kinda. Assuming I was already into you. But when guys 'neg' me who i'm not into, I just …
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:39 PM
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I'd say there is something in me that wants to chase a guy who I like if he is ignoring me. But maybe there's some confusion about it all If a guy who i'm not even into maybe starts a convo or DM's me or whatever and then 'ignores' me, I just don't care of course. I won't chase him. I'm not even into him. (I think all of the tactics I see here fall at the same hurdle. There's no techniques that will make me want to sleep with a guy who i'm just not into) I'm only giving my perspective as a femal…
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:57 PM
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Newbie mistake is to assume women value looks as primary, because men do. As a girl I have to come clean and say that physical attraction is pre-requsite for me and every girl I know. Maybe me and my friends are just superficial and young but I have to be honest (and we do have different tastes so the thread starter is right there) If I don't think a guy is good looking, then I really don't want to think about kissing him no matter how confident he is. I'm sure it's the same for guys too I'm not…
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:33 PM
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i'd advise ignoring anyone who tells you nonsense like that. Attraction is the same for both guys and girls. If they think they can be ugly and 'pull whoever they wont' they are simply lying to you for whatever reason. Use common sense. We want a guy who is good looking to our personal tastes. Doesn't mean you need to be Brad pitt, but we need to think you are good looking. From there you need to be fun and not weird.
/r/seduction10/09/21 10:53 AM
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I'm female so my problems are different to yours. Getting laid is the easiest thing in the world (it's finding and keeping high quality men who won't cheat where the problem lies) But what I would say as that I think men are basically being scammed with this seduction stuff. You can defintitely improve your social skills and confidence and stuff and it might help a little overall, but I promise coaches and people telling you they cna 'seduce' girls and use their verbal wizardry and techniques to…
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:10 AM
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no. I mean a guy can definitely demonstrate to me that he has lots of confidence and that he's much funnier than I assumed and all that good stuff by what he says and how he behaves. I've had that happen But it doesn't make me want to sleep with a guy who I don't think is hot. It just makes me think 'he's so funny! And interesting. I like him. But I do'nt want to sleep with him!'. It's like that for every girl I know.
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:56 PM
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well, attraction (which 95% comes from looks) is a necessity. We dont sleep with a guy we don't think is hot/attractive but it doesn't mean you have to look like a classic male model. Different girls have different tastes in what hot looks like
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:46 AM
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probably also worth adding that it doesn't mean all girls have identical taste in what good looking is. Some of my friends think guys are really good looking (and DM them) when i don't see it at all. I'm not trying to make guys lose hope or anything at all. You don't need to be a male model BUT I feel like the seduction community is just lying to men in order to make money
/r/seduction02/06/21 07:42 PM
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Womens sexual marketplace value is mostly based on looks. I mean sure, personality, career, and finances are important but for the most part men are visual creatures Despite what this sub seem to teach men, we also value looks above anything else (when it comes to being sexually attracted) and we are also 'visual creatures'. You don't think we experience 'lust at first sight' every time we spot a cute guy or browse tiktok?!
/r/seduction02/06/21 07:43 AM
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I mean, if a guy isn't my 'type', physically, of course i'll reject him Just as i'd expect to get rejected by a guy if he didn't think I was cute It's just the way it is
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:30 PM
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Can we please stop the ''girls aren't attracted in the same way us men are. They don't care about looks'' stuff. I find it really patronising and ridiculous. Me and all my female friends experience 'lust at first sight'. We are ALL visual creatures! Physical attraction is 100% necesarry for both sexes if sex is to take place. This industry seems to be built on a false assumptions, tbh. (so that they can sell their bootcamps and books)
/r/seduction17/05/21 05:06 PM
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What was he saying to her? Were you able to overhear or maybe ask him when you were alone?
/r/seduction17/05/21 11:30 AM
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it's honestly the same. There's this idea that it's different becuase 'girls don't care about looks' but as a girl I know that's not the case. All of my friends agree too. I'm not alone here. We've all had 'lust at first sight' where we see a cute looking guy and just want to jump him! And similarly, if I don't find a guy hot, i've never found myself changing my mind because he's confident and funny etc. Them things make me like him, but don't make me want to sleep with him! The seduction advice…
/r/seduction14/05/21 12:12 PM
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I'd say this is pretty on the money as a girl. I sometimes cringe a bit on this sub when I read the whole 'girls don't care about looks' stuff. It almost makes me angry haha. I'M like 'but I DO care about looks!! So do my friends?! That's how we pick which guys we want!!!''. I'd feel the same if I went too a male sub and kept reading 'Girls don't see in color'' or ''girls don't care about how food tastes'' lol But overall, I agree with all of the post
/r/seduction11/04/21 10:12 AM
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Why should I think that you'll honestly say whether they'd work or not when you want to stick with your argument? Trust me to be honest, I guess? I've read this sub before. I'm aware of most of the jargon. Negs and 'pushpull' and stuff. Humour makes me like a person, but we're talking about sexual attraction. At least I am. I know there's nothing a guy can say to make me want him sexually (if I didn't when I first saw him). Still curious to hear your answer though And it is relevant because for …
/r/seduction06/04/21 12:51 PM
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whether I notice or not is irellevant. I mean, if i'm not attracted to someone of course they can't 'manipulate' me into being sexually attracted to them. I also imagine I couldn't manipulate a guy who wasn't remotely phycially attracted to me for what it's worth. What sort of things do you think you say or do that manipulate and influence a girl who isn't attracted to you into wanting to have sex with you.
/r/seduction06/04/21 12:27 PM
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One can't seduce someone who doesn't want to be seduced by you As a girl, I can say this is definitely true. No 'psychology' tricks will cause me to be romantically interested in a guy if he's not my physical type
/r/seduction06/04/21 11:52 AM
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What I mean is that I need to find a guy physically attractive to want to have sex with him. Confidence and humour and game etc is kind of icing on the cake, but i'd never sleep with a guy I didn't think was hot no matter how confident and charismatic he is (how good his game is). Maybe it's different for older women. I don't know. But that's how it is for me and all my friends. We all have slightly different tastes though. Some will only ever hook up with tall black guys like the guys they foll…
/r/seduction26/03/21 09:27 AM
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i'd never hook up with a guy I didn't think was handsome, for what it's worth.
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:03 PM
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I can only speak for me and all teh girls I know. I don't get where this belief seems to have come from? Some seduction book or something? Maybe they're telling you what you want to hear. I'm not saying you need to be a male model by the way. But physical attraction is completely necessary for 'seduction' to take place
/r/seduction08/02/21 10:14 PM
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Not all of my friends have the same taste. Some of my friends fancy guys who I don't find hot and visa versa. I imagine there probably are some guys who are just universally attractive to most girls, but in general, you might be surprised that some girls tastes vary to the point she will pick a guy who most people might not think is classically handsome. People will assume he's rich or pulled off hypnotic magic to get her, when in fact, she just happens to like ginger guys with blue eyes for exa…
/r/seduction08/02/21 10:11 PM
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I don't think you understand what he means. Women's attraction has a lot of variables not just how someone looks physically. I am a woman! If I don't think you're hot, no amount of ferraris is gonna make me sexually attracted
/r/seduction08/02/21 10:08 PM
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As a female, I can honesltly say everything you've wrote applies to me and my friends too! if i'm not physically attracted to you, I promise there's no 'tehcniques' you can say to me to get me to change my mind lol (and yes, i've had guys try!)
/r/seduction08/02/21 01:46 PM
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I feel like the advice is the same for men and women. I can't really 'seduce' a guy who doesn't think i'm pretty. I've tried though! I remember trying to seduce a guy I thought was super hot who played in a band, but he was into dark girls with big boobs and i'm white and pretty skinny! And a guy can't seduce me if I don't think he's cute! (i've had many guys try and fail using all kinds of techniques and things that i've seen mentioned on this sub btw lol). All a guy has to do to seduce me (and…
/r/seduction08/02/21 12:44 PM
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