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ladyreason/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:10 AM
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Great. Make sure you only mate with your own self-declared species.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:56 AM
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Kids are expensive. But sure, he can get custody. Especially if she's not taking good care of the kid. We're talking about taxes here. The majority of single mothers work, and therefore also pay taxes. If the kids is supported by the father as well, taxes isn't an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:48 PM
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He still has the responsibility to support his spawn. Whether the woman's an idiot is inconsequential.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:34 PM
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You know kidnapping is internationally illegal, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:21 PM
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That's to raise their kids, who are statistically half male, and who are only in that position because some guy doesn't have the guts to man up on his responsibilities to his offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:18 PM
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Please do go create your men-only colony and take your friends with you. That would be awesome. Women don't need your labor or your taxes either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:12 PM
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The labor force is pretty evenly split between women and men, so taxes are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:06 PM
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This... This means something. carefully sculpts mashed potatoes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:44 PM
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Wow, you went from zero to babbling incomprehensibly with remarkable speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:37 PM
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Oh noes. Poor man is incapable of walking away or putting on headphones. Can't someone please help?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:31 PM
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We're talking about a spouse though. Disloyalty is one of the top causes of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:51 AM
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I would likewise be interested in your wife's feelings on your opinion that she provides absolutely nothing useful to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:22 AM
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The fact that a woman doesn't want to go out with you doesn't mean she hates you, it means she's not interested. Apathy. You don't go around actively hating elderly ladies and other women you're not attracted to, do you? Then again maybe you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:19 AM
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Loyalty and devotion are still conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:42 PM
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I dunno. Truthfulness is a big deal to me. Way moreso than looks. I would have a big problem with the lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:38 PM
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Women don't hate low value males, we just don't see a point in being in a relationship with them. Why would we? That's not hatred. The opposite of love isn't hate. It's apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:36 PM
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Generally wives do the majority of the spending because men expect them to do all the grocery and household good and child related shopping, which men then benefit from as they're also eating and using toilet paper and sitting on the couches. Men are more likely to buy the expensive toys for themselves. So, if your wife literally stopped doing anything at all for you... No sex (with you, anyway), no housework, no cooking, no laundry, no affection, ignored you utterly, you would be totally cool w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:09 PM
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How do you calculate your wife's "cost"? Is it all of your salary? Half? Double? Show your work. I think the reason is probably because men who say they value "our being" do not appreciate or value or even notice the work we do, which is rather demeaning. And they generally have an inflated idea of their own contributions. As you do. I think women lose satisfaction because initially they really are in it for love, but as they serve selflessly for years while he doesn't notice or appreciate that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:47 PM
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How do you interpret divorce statistics to suggest it's the latter? I think you're vastly underestimating both the amount of unpaid labor and the cost of hiring it out rather than having your wife do it. https://www.cnbc.com/2018/04/10/heres-what-women-could-earn-if-household-chores-were-compensated.html Men choose women based initially on whether they want to have sex with them. That's a utility as well. Sure, you could hire that out too, but from what I understand that gets pretty expensive, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:52 PM
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If it’s doing some we enjoy while knowingly accepting the risk versus being forbidden from doing it just so that someone else can continue to harvest utility from us, it absolutely is. Who's forbidding you from anything? It's your choice. You're the one claiming it's a great sacrifice, now you're saying we'd better not stop you. I'm just saying, that's your choice. Not ours. Nope you (women) are. Their your lists, not ours. We don't have lists. Sure, most of us try to pick decent people as partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:34 PM
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I'm not sure "we die more" is a point in your favor utility wise. All the things that women expect from men and thus vet for which are unrelated to his being but rather signal the utility which he might provide for them. You know, all the “compatibility” checks. You're going to have to be more specific. Yet men die far more frequently in the jobs they work to care for said children than women die in the process of birthing or caring for them. And of what utility is passing on an individual’s gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:01 PM
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What other things? The ability to open a pickle jar? I can get a jar opener for $5 on Amazon. You seem to think there's some sort of awesome stuff that men do that women can't do themselves. In case you haven't noticed, we also can have jobs and most of us do (women in the workforce actually outnumber men now, and in postsecondary education as well). So what amazing irreplaceable thing do you provide for your wife that she couldn't likewise get cheaper just by hiring some guy to do it? Relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:31 PM
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Right. There are, statistically, a lot more men who are actively seeking sex than women. That's what the incels are constantly complaining about. Lack of women who want to have sex with them, specifically. You may be "hot stuff" at the moment (or you may not, no idea) but that's not going to last forever. Men are just as disposable by your metrics... and they generally are considerably more upset about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:26 PM
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Like I said, I make just as much as my husband. For most of our early marriage I made more. As I'm also the one who does the majority of cleaning and childcare and basically all of the cooking, frankly he gets far more utility from me than I do from him, if we're just looking at baseline effort. Maybe the opposite is true in your relationship. Or maybe you're just blind to all your wife does for you. Could you do those things yourself? One hopes, if you're a functional adult, but if you're not d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:19 PM
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It is. It's just that you insist only men have utility, which is patently untrue. Companionship is just as much a utility as a paycheck. It's not like you would have been able to bear children without her (or some other woman, but either way you would need a woman, because at least for now, men can't get pregnant). I'm saying there's a reason you chose her over the myriad of other available women on the planet. Even if the reason is that she's the only one who would have you, that's still utilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:41 AM
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And yet you claim your wife (as she is also likely a woman, though I'm assuming here) is incapable of appreciating you beyond the utility you provide? As a wife myself I find that assertion extremely insulting. Either you're massively underappreciating all the things she does for you, or you're massively overestimating your own contributions to her. On top of that you're basically saying she's less of a person than you because you're asserting that all women are incapable of unselfish love. Or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:54 AM
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Except there are things that she is which are the things that made you decide having a relationship with her was worth it in the first place. At a bare minimum, companionship is itself a utility that people crave. Often more than basic provision. So to say that she gives you nothing is disrespecting the contributions she makes to your life, for which you married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:18 AM
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You still have expectations for your relationship though, which is the utility you get from it. What that is, what makes the relationship "worth it" for you, varies from person to person, but you're getting something. Otherwise, how would you know she "actually" loves you in that scenario? I'm assuming you're not telepathic or from Betazed, so what are the markers you would judge whether she loves you by? Figure that out and there's the utility you're getting. Some women want to be provided for,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:16 AM
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So have you informed your mother that she's utterly disposable yet, or are you saving that for Thanksgiving?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:44 AM
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I'm more sarcastic than I'm typing, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:37 AM
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So you're asking whether it's normal to believe that all of the population of homo sapiens on the planet are in fact people, rather than just half of them? For realsies?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:40 AM
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Ok, but you're in it for the same reason. Would you marry a woman who claims she loves you but does nothing but lie around eating bonbons all day expecting you to do all the work, and cooking, and cleaning, and she won't have sex with you? I mean, you should unconditionally love her right? No matter what she does? Even if she takes all your money and buys heroine? Of course women expect some utility out of a partner. Men, if they're being honest, do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:19 AM
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Unconditional love from any human is a ridiculous expectation. There's always a breaking point. It's just a question of where it is. I do my best but if I found out my husband had, say, murdered our child, I would definitely hit my unconditional love limit immediately. Not that I would ever in a million years expect that to happen, just that everyone, you included, has conditions when it comes to love. And that's frankly a reasonable thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:48 PM
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As a woman myself, the fact that men cheat and have kids on the side is another good reason to do it. Those men should be held accountable for the children they irresponsibly father. Admittedly as an adamant non cheater there was absolutely no question who the father was when I gave birth, so anyone asking for a paternity test would have been met with a "lulz sure whatever" on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:40 PM
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Out of curiosity, do you expect the same from the husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:05 PM
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There's seriously entire philosophies dedicated to telling women that they're bad at picking mates. Where do you think the whole "Chad" thing came from? It definitely wasn't other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:24 AM
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I've already provided multiple links showing the contrary conclusions from other studies. I am ever amazed at the lengths some men will go to to avoid their fair share of chores though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:22 AM
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Wow. You have a really messed up idea of what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:21 AM
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If you equate doing your share of stuff all reasonable adults should be doing with being a marionette I'm not sure what to tell you other than good luck I guess. Society calls women out on choosing mates poorly all the time. Especially if she's a single mom. My single mom friends get it all the time, including the one who is a single mom because her husband died in a car wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:24 PM
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So you've really never ever heard a guy talking about his ex in a derogatory way? Really? Maybe it's just that I work in a mostly male field but I hear men complaining and commiserating about their exes all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:50 PM
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WhY Won't YoU Wimmez sTill dO the ThingS We mEn AssiGnED YoU BaCk WhEn wE wOuldn'T Let yOu HaVe JoBs?! If she's doing part of the bread winning, you'd better do part of the housework. It's called being a reasonable and fair adult partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:48 PM
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First part is true, second part both parties get their respective back pats and calling the other person names, by their respective friend and family groups. Even though each of them chose the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:43 PM
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Love is blind. I'm not saying it wasn't a mistake on her part to not realize that, it definitely was. I'm just saying that guys are generally not stupid enough to straight up tell women "marry me and do all the cooking and cleaning while I sit around watching TV and eating chips after we both get home from our full time jobs". Everyone is on their best behavior while dating. It's not that she wants to marry him because it's tidy, it's that she sees the tidiness and assumes he's able to clean up …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:00 PM
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Yes, but most guys do manage to keep their places reasonably tidy, especially if a woman they're attracted to is going to visit. Unfortunately, some of them decide all of that tidying is the woman's job once one lives there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:52 PM
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It's not directly related the way you think. It's not generally "he didn't do dishes so I'm not going to have sex with him." It's her sighing deeply as she collects another load of plates stacked next to the couch where he's lying around watching TV because the dishwasher needs to run or there will be no plates to eat on tomorrow. It's her feeling revulsion at having to clean up the pee he didn't quite hit the toilet bowl with and then left for her to deal with. It's hating herself for letting h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:28 PM
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Some guys do change, and some women are naive. Some guys act one way before marriage and a different way after. Not all people live together before marriage. Sometimes the dynamic changes due to life changes, like jobs or especially when a child comes into the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:19 PM
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I'd say there are lots of studies to the contrary. https://news.cornell.edu/stories/2016/08/want-more-sex-split-household-chores https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/301953 https://time.com/4378502/yes-couples-who-share-chores-have-more-sex/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:51 AM
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Doing housework is neutral to positive. Sitting around on your lazy backside while she does all the housework is a massive turn off. So act like an adult and do your share in your house where you also eat food and make messes, instead of treating her like your unpaid maid/mother until she realizes it's less work to not have your lazy man child self around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:40 AM
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No, it's either her thinking she married a good partner, or her feeling like she married a man child that she now has to be a mommy to. And not in any remotely sexy way. In a "holy crud is this guy ever going to grow up, I've made a huge mistake" way. Which opinion do you think would inclined her more favorably toward cuddle time?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:46 AM
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I've done everything on a house from dig the foundation to nailing down shingles and everything in between. I cut, fitted, and stapled down multiple rooms of hardwood flooring, and hand mixed and poured concrete stairs, while pregnant. Like I said, those are nothing like the constant grind of daily chores that need doing, and that men should do their share of if they want to be seen as partners and not very large lazy children. A man acting like a large lazy child is a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:35 AM
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Have you considered that a lazy man who sits on the couch watching TV while the wife does everything after they've both done a full day's work is a huge turn off? Women want a partner. Not a full grown lazy child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:30 AM
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If your cars and plumbing are breaking as often as the dishes need done and meals need made, then maybe you should hire a professional, because you're definitely not qualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:26 AM
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So you really think they're functionally identical? I mean, one is literally double the length of the other so even tldr;ing them it's easy to notice a content discrepancy...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 11:12 PM
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Impoverished women from a highly restrictive society really want to be with you in a country that's more free and far less impoverished? That's so terribly surprising. They must really be interested in you specifically and not... other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:58 AM
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Really? I'm pretty sure we'd be fine. Wouldn't be the first time basically all able bodied men went off to the wars and the women kept the economy and life in general running.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:45 AM
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