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And the club slut/serial monogamists are definitely more common than the low n relatiinship oriented chicks. Club sluts and serial monogamists aren't equivalents. You don't want people to party or have more than one boyfriend? What do you do to attract low n women? Do you pressure them for sex too early? Do you let it be known you're looking for something serious? Because being TRP looking for low n relationship women doesn't even make any sense. TRP selects for sluts and creates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 04:13 PM
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Men at least have the option to be independent. I've yet to meet a woman that even tried, much less wanted, to be independent. What are you smoking? Most of my girl friends have their own place and jobs. At least half of my guy friends don't and some of them have roommates. Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:44 PM
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He secretly filmed my sister when they would have sex because the red pill said women do false accusations. They were in a relationship though so that didn't make any sense. He posted some of those videos online without her consent and sold some. He posted videos of him 'strongly suggesting sex acts that she did not want to do. He did so much to my sister and she never deserved to be treated that way. He is a red pill fanatic and is currently serving time in prison. She will never be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:27 AM
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I could just give you a name to Google and inadvertently dox myself or I can just remember that sexists think everything women say on the internet is a lie. I don't care if you don't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:23 AM
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I don't think there are that many natural alphas so it doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:25 PM
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I was 13 when I found red pill. My big sister went through a bad break up from one of their worst members. He was arrested and serving time for doing things he learned from his weird little cult. I still have a hard time exposing myself to it and it made me distrustful of men. I can confirm that they are the worst thing that can happen to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:24 PM
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Yea shaming me for finding older men unattractive is just another shaming tactic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:20 PM
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I'm a younger woman and the idea grosses me out. They are older and not attractive to us so why shame women like me for finding this disgusting but demand we find older men's desire for us accepable? These sexist double standards grow wearisome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:19 PM
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See why having sex too soon is a bad idea. This is vulgar and I would feel bad about myself if I had relations with a man like this. The risk is just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:27 PM
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Fds does not believe in this. They have said that a woman just needs to take care of herself and she will always find someone who is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:20 PM
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A really good date would make me want to have sex but the way it is with men, you can't give in and hook up. It may be old fashioned but it protects me from getting too emotionally invested before I know he will stick around and that the feelings are mutual. I find that men abuse the good will that comes with trusting them with sex too early. Some have problems developing feelings when they get sex too early. We are both adults but I am responsible for my own well being. Especially these days, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:16 PM
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Go be retarded somewhere else I'm not retarded and your comment was uncalled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:49 PM
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Even if you're fucking one girl every quarter the novelty outweighs faking interest in the same boring aging face Charming. Does this means you're single and not looking, handsome, not aging, with so many options you can be this type of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:47 PM
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You're diminishing all the things women add to men's lives but if men really didn't value that, they wouldn't be so sad when they are forced to go without. It may seem macho to not care about a nice looking environment on PPD but more men than not love coming home someplace nice to look at that someone was mindful enough to do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:45 PM
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These men don't exist. That's completely wrong. My boyfriend is one of these men. It is no surprise that I always want to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:39 PM
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Women view relationships in a "what has he done for me lately" way. If a woman got fat, started to smell, and didn't say anything kind to her husband anymore, would you blame the man for not being sexually aroused based on how she used to be? What's with men demonizing everything about our sexuality? I love sex and I want to connect with sex but if my man stops treating me well, I won't want it anymore. We have reactive sexual response. Even men who have more testosterone will want sex from plea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:38 PM
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I am not OCD. Most women aren't. Clean is clean. Clean dishes or just load the dishwasher. Keep your underwear in a hamper. I don't do dust checks. I'm not a parent. I don't understand this claim of women's standards for cleanliness being so much higher than men. No trash on the floor. Throw the snacks and crumbs out at the end of the night. I just don't understand these claims. It is to the point that I think red pill boomers made certain comments and zoomers are acting like life is the same to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:05 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:50 PM
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What can I say. You're not wrong lol. I'm just kind of sick of being made to feel like an evil person for being alive the way I am. Men here are whining about female standards for cleanliness but I'm there when my man brings work home and they comment on a stunning home that is clean. I'm there when he comes home from work and disarray and he can feel comfortable in a clean environment he doesn't have to maintain. It is a lot of work and I work and I have no kids. These men who complain would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:50 PM
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I see. All I have to say to that is 'who cares'? I find men to be consumed with globalist thinking while attacking women for finding men, as a gender, unsafe monsters. Statistically speaking, men rape and kill at very high percentages but when treated as a threat, we are told "not all men". Yet here you are expecting the average woman to speak for the entire gender when the collective experience of individual women have observed the shitty end of the stick when it comes to household work for dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:45 PM
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Because for many women, men do not work more or earn as much and create loads of domestic work by being lazy, messy, and selfish. Surely you can understand this is true for enough women that the complaint is seen this often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:13 PM
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If you say it, it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:12 PM
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I am not attracted to it. I understand that as a male you don't respect me enough to accept my honesty but that is just going to have to be a you problem. Nothing in my history will confirm your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:11 PM
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I am not going to let the men who hate women in this subreddit poison my mind and desire for a happy home. I like being with someone who values my contributions. Imagine insulting people for enjoying a clutter free, clean home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:09 PM
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I can have the best body and be a total jerk. Is that the male paradox?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:41 PM
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It's not crazy but I am in my early twenties and I am not around violence or poverty. I don't have that impulse and I was not taught to think that way. Is my life and reality crazy to you? Why are you expecting me to feel the way women in bushes and caves thousands of years ago felt? I don't feel that way. Are you demanding me to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:40 PM
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Ouch. You're right...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:38 PM
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You are right and it's true. I was raised with traditional values but just because I am female doesn't mean I am stupid. If I love a man, why would I want him to work himself to the bone for a better quality of life? Quality of life isn't good if my husband feels like a beaten workhorse . Quality of life isn't good if I'm not fulfilled as a human being. It is really frustrating to discuss the realities of today with men who do not acknowledge their part of a changing world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:31 PM
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It makes you normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:25 PM
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Sorry but life is more complicated now. There is more to manage than basic housekeeping and rearing children which women still largely do. Life is expensive and most of those women who aren't playing housekeeper and mommy are at work just like their husbands just to break even. Men accept it because they can't really afford the costs of the traditional values life anymore. They still want sex, love, and validation. Women have already accepted men diminishing the value of wife and mother in the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:58 PM
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I enjoyed your level headed reply but you're married and I think married men are just too far removed from the main TRP constituency to offer real insight. After all, if you are married and you at least like your wife, you're just not representative of single men showing so much resentment and telling us women we are worth nothing but casual sex, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:29 PM
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I think you have gone off on a tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:27 PM
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I don't think most men are. I directed my question to TRP because the majority of them bash women for not being marriage material. I don't see the point of the exercise when they have declared focus on casual sex with hot girls only.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:26 PM
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Why would care if she is a single mother if you are TRP? Kids are not invited to casual sex sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:25 PM
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Can you prove that I am the minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:20 PM
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Maybe some do but with all due respect, I'm a woman and I would never step near you for that reason and neither would my friends. I don't even understand women attracted to those display criminal behavior but it makes me feel unsafe not turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:53 PM
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I really appreciate your honesty. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:49 AM
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Monogamy is just not for you. I don't even know these people and I am hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:34 AM
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Where on earth, specifically, can a woman take half of your net worth outside of the days you have been married? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:20 AM
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Thank you for the exchange of ideas without the hostility I am getting from some of the other folks. I have been stewing on my questions for a long time and wondered why no one talked about it. Now I know!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:16 AM
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I'm not a gotcha goblin. If there was a rationale for why people who don't want marriage bash women who don't meet marriage standards, I would have recieved it. Just say you hate women and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:15 AM
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You're another data point, not just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:29 AM
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That was more important to you than your wife of fifteen years??? Thanks for adding to the crippling anxiety and distrust of men, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:07 AM
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I don't understand your question. Men can be simps and bad partners simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:02 AM
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How did she take half your money after being married for only a month? Did you earn your entire net worth within thirty days?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:00 AM
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Oh. Never mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:59 AM
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What more did you want? Did you get those things and are they better than that second marriage? Did you love her? You said she loved and you were into her. That's not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:59 AM
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Just don’t expect men to pay the cost for it. Why shouldn't women expect this with so many men choosing to pay the cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:56 AM
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It’s really not, it’s a set of tools that men can use to spin plates if he wants if to Can you show me some TRP resources that focus on men attaining healthy marriages and sexually fulfilling long term relationships? If what you're saying is true, I can provide you many resources for the man seeking casual sex with hot women. Can you show me the ones for men seeking marriage? I think your reason for not answering my question is a poor one because the answer you gave still does not explain the va…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:39 AM
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Thanks! Are you're saying the only available resource for marriage minded men is TRP? Another question. Are you in support of Femaledatingstrategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:38 AM
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That's confusing. They are amongst some of FDS' biggest critics. The mods had to make a rule to quell threads about FDS here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:18 AM
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That is far younger than I expected. I thought they were men in their twenties and older. I wouldn't really ask this question of teenagers because they lack too much in experience and sense to take their conclusions to heart!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:09 AM
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No it does not. I can understand why a traditonal man who is pursuing marriage would be angry at promiscuous women. That woman's behavior is not in line with his stated goal. I do not understand men who are against marriage holding women to the marriage quality standards for short term casual sex. Those people don't plan to stick around anyway. What do they care? The only thing that really makes sense is these men are misrepresenting what they want out of women and the bashing shows their anger …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:07 AM
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For married men, not single men who want someone to love and desire them sexually for a fulfilling relationship. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:58 PM
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Why are so many of them trying to suggest that TRP concerns itself with relationships the way it does casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:57 PM
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Skin color, if you're from the same cultural back ground, is just that. Skin color is an immutable trait just like height is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:55 PM
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If you’d rather us not appreciate your physical beauty, that’s fine with me. That is not what I said so why twist my words? I like that my boyfriend is attractive but that is not his only redeeming quality. It doesn’t matter what you want to say about them. Women continue to have sex with men who behave exactly as you’re describing. If what you’re saying was true, beta orbiters would be the only men ever getting laid. I never argued otherwise. You suggested that the fact that men 'dont give a sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:54 PM
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It would seem to me that proves we are less shallow than women, no? No, it proves men prioritize sex above all things and are largely uninterested in her personhood until after the ramifications of pairing with a bad partner costs him outside of the bedroom. That does not speak well of their reasoning skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:37 PM
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There isn’t a shallower requirement in all of dating. Skin color.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:35 PM
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I can't find one for how to be a good wife either. Redpillwomen but I don't really need those subreddits because of my upbringing. I just think it's interesting that such a large population of men have thoughts on what makes a woman worth marrying but very little discussion reflecting interest in actual marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:32 PM
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They make your heart melt but they can't say the same reading the Red Pill. Red Pill women focus on respecting male nature and contributing to long term relationships. What part of the Red Pill does this for women? It's about casual sex, not marriage so why do Red Pill men judge women based on criteria for long term relationships and marriage when they clearly speak against such relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:20 PM
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I didn't talk about what you need for sex. Men are more selective when it comes to securing a relationship especially high value men. A guy keeping you around for the sex isn't what I am referring to when I mention exclusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:11 PM
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They are as picky when it comes to exclusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:32 PM
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A man being promiscuous doesn't necessarily change his overall outlook. But it does change my outlook as a woman offering sexual exclusivity. If I followed all the rules and behaved, why would I take something you have conceded men value and give it away to the promiscuous man that I cannot trust? It may however change his reasoning. I'm not sure if you know this, but for a lot of promiscuous people it starts to numb you inside. It kind of chips away at your ability to really love someone over t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:31 PM
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You already know in your gut when something is off. Please take your foot off my neck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:20 PM
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I can tell you from experience that being Pickmeisha only creates a more demanding man that takes you for granted. I don't mind taking care of my man but not as a an audition to become a girlfriend. It just never works out the way you think it will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:19 PM
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What you said just supports my initial understanding of TRP men focusing on casual sex. Will you look at all of the comments from other Red Pillers that said I'm wrong and TRP covers relationships too? If I have that confused, why did numerous MGTOW explain to me that they still have sex with women. My question still stands. Why do men who want nothing to do with marriage attack women they consider low value or not marriage material? What purpose does that serve to men who are not looking for co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:15 PM
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So first it was "criticising and picking apart", now it's escalated to "demeaning and proliferation of hate". It is both and I don't think it is a very good use of my time to show you links when there are ample examples to be found from casual reading of this subreddit and Red Pill subforums. But anyway, asking men to cooperate and put it in gentler, more milder terms that women approve of is a bit much. When did I ask this? I asked why are men who are not interested in marriage attacking women …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:12 PM
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It does seem like traditional male values are touted as Red Pill more than anything else. If this is a misrepresentation, why is it allowed? Everyone jumped down my throat to explain to me what The Red Pill is from a simple question. Why don't I see Red Pill men do this more to the 'trad cucks' to set the record straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:06 PM
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It has always made sense to me but it doesn't make sense coming from promiscuous men who don't financially provide, protect, and are not interested in traditional relationships and courting. Sexual exclusivity doesn't make sense if the benefits do not come with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:04 PM
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That makes sense. In that case, I have seen an overwhelming amount of Red Pillers discredit Femaledatingstrategy, a sub that mainly tells women to reject all prospects that do not meet certain standards (the female equivalent to drop that plate). Given that, their criticism of that sub.. super incongruent!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:00 PM
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I didn't attack you. Stop gaslighting. You did So criticizing women for their bad behaviour is always "talking badly about them" right? Because men aren't allowed to criticize women right? They are mysoginistic monsters for doing that right? I didn't say not one word of this and your comments are unnecessarily hostile. TRP talks about low quality women to teach men to avoid entering relationships with them and to kill the "women are beautiful"/NAWALT syndrome many betas which are new to red pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:56 PM
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It is not a good example because I am addressing your actual comment and your reply isn't addressing anything we are talking about. You said Queens started more wars and I gave you context as to why. You replied feminism gave voting rights to women and I don't see what that has to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate /r/TheRedPill (opt in to bypass the quarantine and see the material)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:30 PM
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This doesn't answer my question, I'm afraid. It's just more of the vague company line that doesn't give a good reason for the woman bashing against women that are not marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:29 PM
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You don't need to attack me. I didn't say any of that. I don't see what any of the main topics discussed in this subreddit have to do with men getting sex from hot women. If a woman is a single mom or she had a threesome once, it shouldn't matter to a man who was never going to date her anyway. The main criteria for casual sex is "hot or not". Most of the content heavily engages in attacking women who are not marriage material by men who are not looking for marriage. It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:27 PM
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If this is about not going along with women's script, why is it focused on demeaning the women and not on rejecting the actual script? MGTOW already serves this purpose so how does the proliferation of hate against women who are not marriage material support the attainment of casual sex with hot women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:10 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:07 PM
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To your point about casual sex and why they need to talk about women..... Again The threads I read here that have red pilled men in them are rarely about sexual performance. They are about single mothers, number of previous sexual partners, a woman's age, how undesirable career women are, fat women, AFBB, age gaps, and SMV. All of these topics are relevant to marriage minded traditional men but in here most of the men are against relationships. Why would men focused on casual sex create so much …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:07 PM
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Why are the majority of the threads criticizing women and picking us apart for worthiness as wife material when they are not interested in relationships? What do they care about wife quality women? . The threads I read here that have red pilled men in them are rarely about sexual performance. They are about single mothers, number of previous sexual partners, a woman's age, how undesirable career women are, fat women, AFBB, age gaps, and SMV. All of these topics are relevant to marriage minded tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:02 PM
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This is covered in my OP and a few of my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:52 PM
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I don't think this is a reasonable comparison considering the expensive biological task of pregnancy for women in comparison to the cheap and fleeting sexual polygyny of men. When we make sexual access more "expensive" for men by, for example, monogamous marriage, you will find that most men will not be willing to tie themselves down to all 50 of those different options. They might barely meet 5 that they are willing to be locked down by. I don't think men are less shallow just because they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:51 PM
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What does this comment have to do with our current discussion? Did I say that feminism did not earn voting rights for women somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:47 PM
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I have seen red pillers say a woman's orgasm is her own responsibility so I was not aware that they cared about female sexual satisfaction. Be that as it may, a plate is not a girlfriend and "it's just your turn" suggests that the man is ready to be deserted sooner or later. If that is the case, why is so much of the conversation focused on demonizing these women and less about sexual strategies that you would find in forums focused on sexual performance? The threads I read here that have red pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:46 PM
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Couldn't this explanation support the idea of women engaging in a lot of casual sex which then would mean the Red Pill has even less of a reason to attack women who are not marriage material? Calling it impossible is TRP conceding that this idea cannot exist so why are they being hostile and punitive against women for their own concession?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:40 PM
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I do believe it but I would like to know your opinion on marriage minded women who frequent subreddits that center around casual sex and the worthlessness of men. Is that a good strategy for women seeking a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:35 PM
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Why would he care about being a good lover to his plates? Isn't the point of having plates to have replaceable sexual access to multiple women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:33 PM
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You misunderstand Red Pill philosophy I don't think I am misunderstanding anything. I am looking at the text of the Red Pill sidebar right now and it clearly states that the Red Pill is male sexual strategy. Say you're right and this is just about self improvement, why is there so much material insulting women for not being marriage material when this is not a strategy for marriage minded men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:32 PM
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It has always been a bad argument to me because if difficulty to get laid was the only reason for the sexism, the highly attractive men who get sex thrown at them would be shamed for being easy too. Some men are just born with model good looks and height and they don't need to put work into their looks. Those men are not shamed for the ease of which they get sex, they are admired. The explanation these guys are giving is dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:13 PM
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I respectfully disagree. I don't think we will agree on this because to me, a man who is not intimidated will not characterize courting her a waste of time. He will pursue her with no injury to his self esteem because he doesn't feel inadequate. When a man chooses not to pursue a beautiful woman because she is out of his league, that's intimidation at play. An objectively less attractive man may pursue and even get that beautiful woman because he wasn't fearful of the implications of her beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:10 PM
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It does not define goal objectives for the actor beyond that self improvement. Why does this answer always change depending on what thread I am in? If the Red Pill was solely about self improvement, why discuss women at all? Red pillers frequently say that the desired outcome is casual sex with hot women. Who is correct here, them or you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:05 PM
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In other words, most of these men have no interest in committed relationships or finding good partners but they enjoy talking badly about women under the context of marriage and relationships. That is strange and does not reflect well on them but I see what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:02 PM
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Why do you need a map if your destination is solely casual sex with hot women? Most of what you have listed is about casual sex and if casual sex is all they care about, my question has remained unanswered I'm afraid. If the destination varies like the living together that you mentioned, what are some Red Pill resources that focus on finding serious, long term relationships? Are they as plentiful as all the information that expose how terrible women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:00 PM
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The point is that men shouldn't marry Isn't this MGTOW? No you still have sex with women, "spin plates" have fwbs, or whatever you want. Just with the understanding that none of these women are special Are you saying The Red Pill supports long term relationships or are you agreeing with my initial understanding that the Red Pill is about casual sex? If you're saying that relationships are supported, that is incompatible with the claim that no woman is special. If women were to treat their relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:56 PM
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If you are not interested in long term relationships, why do you care if a woman cannot pair bond or had lots of casual sex or has tattoos? These topics are only important if you're looking to keep someone in your life. If your goal is to run through various women for casual sex, why is there such a large focus on these topics? There isn't an infinite number of demure, chaste, highly attractive women for the sole purposes of casual sex. There aren't even enough of these for the most traditional …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:50 PM
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Isn't that what MGTOW is for? I am asking about the Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:46 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:45 PM
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Then I don't know what intimidation means because a person being afraid to date because my job makes him feel less masculine sounds like intimidation to me. I make much more than my current boyfriend and he has not once seemed intimidated by me for it. That is the masculine response I was expecting with the other guy and I didn't get that. I got days of him wringing his hands and overanalyzing every act for any opportunity to assert his dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:44 PM
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He is intimidated by her SMV + RMV. A person can be intimidated by another person who is physically smaller but more popular, wealthy, or accomplished because that person is valued by others far more than the observer is. That person is seen as more special and that makes people uncomfortable. I can be intimidated by a man due to his social class being far higher than mine. He isn't scary but his world is and that is intimidating. I think you just don't like how it sounds as a man to be intimida…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:40 PM
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It is being realistic because he is intimidated by the fact that she realistically has better options. Why is this so difficult to admit? Women have the same considerations and we are always called insecure for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:28 PM
3

Women were taken far less seriously in those times, were they not? If they did not show force, what do you think would happen under their watch? I don't like the selective memory when bringing up history of women. Context is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:25 PM
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He is saying is he rather lower your inhibitions so you will be loose lipped and more likely to have sex before he has to sit and get to know you and invest any real feelings into the interaction. The more I learn about men, the less I trust them and I don't feel too good about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:22 PM
5

Why would the person pursuing me need an excuse for anything after he finds out what I do for work? He kept hounding me and when he found out, all he could talk about is how hard it would be to date someone like me. He kept pursuing but it became a really uncomfortable situation where he wanted me to convince him that I would be okay with dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:19 PM
4

Technology can't really replace the things that attract me to men but I think there are a lot less men I find attractive today because technology made them so complacent, they are unable to be and do the things I like. I am conflicted about how I feel about men these days because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:17 PM
2

Attractive eyes, decent face, masculine energy and doesn't confuse over aggressive or rude behavior for masculinity. Men who look and seem mentally strong and comfortable enough for flirting and conversation are sexy to me too. He must be larger than me. I am petite so that shouldn't be too difficult. He doesn't have to be the tallest but I like to the sexual dimorphism of our species. Dark, full hair is sexy but it doesn't have to be dark. A nice voice is sexy. Good hygiene and isn't thirsty bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:13 PM
4

Men are not “intimidated” by a woman that outearns or has more formal education than him. They’re indifferent. That is not true. Do you date men? One time a guy told me I would be hard to date because he only makes a little money in his job and he can't feel like a man with my line of work. I'm in healthcare and I don't like talking about money with men because of some of the reactions I have recieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:05 PM
5

I have a soft, feminine demeanor but my ex told me he cheated on me because I was doing well in school and will have a lucrative career. My ex never graduated high school, was older than me and short. I worked long hours to help support us and I did everything he wanted. That did not protect me from being cheated on. He said my accomplishments intimidated him even though I never talked about them. When I tried dating again I avoided topics about work and school and when they pushed me to answer,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:04 PM
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Constant rejection and loneliness. Being told you're not pretty enough for commitment. Low self esteem that feels impossible to overcome. Those are my reasons, anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 05:57 PM
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