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It is easier as a woman of normal weight to look attractive than a fat woman. My fat friends are amazed that I have it so easy, I never have to worry about hiding my rolls or bingo wings (because there are none). I can throw on just about any dress and I will get compliments, my fat friends don't understand why that is. When I tell them to get in shape they just give me excuses for why it is so hard for them. Body acceptance is just an acceptance of laziness, accepting your skin color and bone s…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 08:42 PM
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From a female perspective if a man is in decent shape, takes care of himself (basic grooming), and bathes regularly (smells clean and not like BO) that will make you much more desirable than most men on the market no matter what you wear, so I would work on these areas first. Minimally if what a guy is wearing is clean and neat it is a plus. Everyone has their own style and preference, so find what looks good on your body and what you are comfortable in.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 08:22 PM
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Work on building a more well rounded life. Start trying new things other than video games like getting out of the house and learning things that are interesting to you. Take up some activities in a social setting. Working on the physical is great and will make you feel better about yourself. You may even want to push yourself intellectually and pick up an interesting book or two. It is hard to feel intimated when you start accomplishing challenging texts and expand your knowledge base.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 08:07 PM
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When my ex husband put on a lot of weight he was really defensive about it, same man that told me I was getting fat. I made lifestyle changes over the years and got in pretty good shape, my ex didn't. We grew apart and the only thing that made him realize he had a problem was his doctor telling him he was a pre diabetic fat ass with high blood pressure. He lost some weight and improved his blood work. But years later he is fatter than ever while I am working on having visible abs, you can't chan…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 07:31 PM
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There is nothing wrong with asserting yourself on this issue. Decide if you want kids and go from there. If you want kids and you need certain things from your wife, tell her what your expectations are. Be firm on what you want, if she can't meet those expectations then she knows she needs to find a father elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 07:16 PM
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Absolutely the best way to handle the situation. Make it completely clear that the behavior will not be tolerated and withhold any attention to reinforce the behavior.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 04:02 PM
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Everything after I do would basically sum up my marriage, excepted he worked too and I kicked him to the curb. Any wonder when people ask me when when people ask me about getting remarried I say, "fuck no, never!"?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 01:41 AM
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/r/childfree is loaded with stories about vasectomies. I had tubal ligation, which is a bit more invasive, at the beginning of the year and the worst part was air they pumped into my abdominal cavity to perform the surgery (you won't have to deal with this). It wasn't all that painful, I was able to workout and have sex normally within a couple of days. One of the best decisions I have ever made, I know I don't want kids and not worrying about birth control is great.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 06:10 PM
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I pay attention to macros only because it fits my lifestyle, I lift so I need more protein that sedentary average joe. Sedentary average joe can get fat basically doing anything, eating anything, because they aren't moving and it is easy to go above your BMR with your calorie intake when you do next to nothing. When fat sedentary people whine to me I tell them to eat a pound of lettuce everyday and load up on fiber rich vegetables. It is pretty much impossible to eat too many calories even with …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 03:23 PM
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Eating fruit, vegetables, protein, fat, and carbs in their simplest forms is meaningless? I am not saying that it needs to be organic or anything, just food without all the other shit like additives and preservatives. Protein and vege with some healthy fat makes a good functional and filling meal, keep it simple is all I am getting at.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 03:08 PM
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Every HAES likes to think they are a feminist, but there is nothing having to do with weight that is even remotely a gender issue. Fat is a fat issue, stop being fat asses.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 02:58 PM
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Hamtrax killed it for me. The couple were such pussies and the horrible puns on names (it was funny the first couple of time, but 20+ bands in and not sticking to metal was lame as hell). After reading one post I would have laid into the woman and most likely made her cry.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 02:53 PM
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High protein and higher fat diets aren't for everyone, I had to work on increasing both for lifting but not everyone does intense muscle building. What I live by and tell everyone who asks how I stay so thin is: eat real food (eat things with few ingredients and unprocessed), not too much (go overboard on the calories and you will be a fat ass), and drink a ton of water.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 02:44 PM
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Kids just look for an excuse and parents look for excuses because it can't be something with their special little snowflake, it has to be external. When I taught swim lessons I would just pick the kid up and put them on my hip (if they were under 7 or so, crying or not - I don't give a shit and I don't listen to whining) or I would get the other kids to shame them (this is really effective, if your peers are telling you that you are a wuss or a baby you will man up). Use the other kids to keep k…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 03:58 AM
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And this is why I can't stand being in groups with other females. Bitching, whining, and moaning followed by expected sympathy - since apparently I am cold hearted, I present solutions to which there are only excuses. My conversations with other women usually go like this: "OMG, [things] are so hard. I am so stressed..." "Have you tried doing [things to make it easier]..." "But you don't understand, you had it so easy..." "No, I put a lot of work and effort into [things]..."
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 03:46 AM
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Whenever I hear this I wonder how on earth people have time to be getting laid so much at an early age. Don't people have anything better to do than get laid, like work or go to school? If not it is a question of priorities, sex should be a lesser priority than the rest of your life.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 11:31 PM
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It isn't beta to have feelings or to like someone. It is beta to have someone or your emotions control you. Someone a long time ago told me that when you go on a date you should only do something because you want to do it and not because it is expected of you. If you want to date this girl, have it be on your terms and don't put up with high maintenance crap. Be prepared to walk at any moment and follow through on it. She will either be pissed when you don't put up with her or learn the error of…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 11:02 PM
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Truly sorry, that the only way I could think of to describe his fatness.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 10:15 PM
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Bad's beta is so fat his fupa covers his bits (have seen him naked and it isn't pretty), he watches but has a hard time being involved with his fatness. Most of their exploring involves her fucking/sucking someone (a friend or someone they met online using old pictures of her). They both try to impress me with their exploits, but it bores me - "Oh this is so kinky you have to try this!" I usually tell them it isn't all that exciting, that I tried it years ago and I either don't like it or do it …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 10:06 PM
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Bad: My friend whom I always refer to as Bad [name], I have another friend whom is good and also shares the name, but Bad has been hitting the wall for years and is now 29. She is a complete mess now, she used to be really hot and went to a top level university. In college she really started drinking a lot and fucking a lot. She would go home with random guys and was not always safe about it (not even remembering to wrap it up or ask a name or even where she was). She went a year without sex or …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 09:00 PM
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I work in an office filled with old women in not quite professional roles of secretary and receptionist. I am 28 and the only professional employed at my company that is not male, the next youngest woman is 47. I make considerably more than any of the other women in the office which (with my being so much younger) rubs them the wrong way, so I try to avoid giving them any excuse to not like me. My main strategy is just to keep my head down and do my work, but other than that I pull from Dale Car…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 10:36 PM
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I suspect her best route will be to find someone else to take care of her financially. Most likely, but at her age and with her expectations it will be really tough. Like you said dating and sex are not really all that hard when you are older, but people who haven't taken care of themselves and expect things to be handed to them it is rough. My ex husband is single and renting a room, years later, because he turned into a fat slob that expected me to take care of him. Your wife might be heading …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 06:35 PM
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I think I'm relatively intelligent, raised without religion and to believe I'm just as "good" as you all even though I have game and sleep around But... You are not a good person, by any measure. You are selfish and you are cheating because you have problems, not because your man is beta. Do him a good one and dump him now, figure your shit out before inflict it on anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 05:45 PM
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This is possibly the best thing I could have read in this whole situation. She will shit bricks when she actually has to fend for herself until any retirement benefits she gets from you come into play in 15+ years.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 05:31 PM
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Good luck. You are in a really good position with your children being grown and you wife working (depending on the jurisdiction her cheating may help you), hopefully talking to the lawyer will make you feel better. Make sure to bring all your financial information with you on Monday.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 04:56 PM
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It is bullshit and she is the problem. Pretty much all the women I work with (the next youngest is 47 and I am 28) and my mom's friends have done this. They expect lavish vacations and loads of material items, but are not satisfied whether they receive them or not. Since they expect these things if reality doesn't live up to what they expect there has to be something external to blame, namely their husband or SO. Honestly you could do much better. A secure man your age is a rare ticket and many …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 04:31 PM
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Your approach is spot on, listen to what people say and ask questions so that they come to their own conclusions. The line of thinking above is what has gone wrong with feminism today, all the talk of the privilege nonsense and the warping of headlines that appear to be pro-woman. Women today statistically earn less, this true on a whole (how horrible and shameful). And women also seem to be getting more undergraduate and graduate degrees than men (yay progress!). So what does this mean? Women m…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 08:22 PM
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Perfect example of a woman who delayed the wall by getting married and having kids, only to go full force into it when her kids are grown up and/or she finds anything at all unsatisfactory about her marriage (it can be any bullshit reason, like he doesn't tell me I am beautiful). Happens all the time, women get out of their reproductive years and no one gives a shit about them anymore because they based their value on their uterus.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 08:01 PM
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More insurances are covering sterilization with Obamacare. My tubal ligation was covered 100%, it is one of the best decisions I have ever made.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 04:01 PM
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Old, but still good. Very much, I saw this on /r/childfree ages ago. If you don't want kids, make sure you won't have any.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 03:58 PM
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Who gives or gets a car as a birthday present? And co-sign on a loan that isn't actually related to you by blood? No, just plain no. I don't like men buying me things at all. If a man showed up with a car for me on my birthday, my first question would be - what the fuck is that for? That is a big life decision and I would not like someone picking out something I will be using for the next 10+ years without being able to weigh the pros and cons of the specs as well as the insurance consequences.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 07:45 PM
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It depends on what you are using it for. Using it to keep in contact with friends and relatives that you know and don't see all the time, is fine. It should be kept to people you actually know and want to keep in contact with, this does not mean 300+ of your closest friends that you met at the bar. Places like facebook are also taken too seriously, the internet is meant for cute animals and jokes (or at least that is what my mom and employer can think about me). Pictures/check-ins every so often…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 06:18 PM
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I wonder where on earth these people are coming from that makes them feel entitled to these things. This man is a complete masochist: Ex wife is abusive; New girl gets a car for her birthday; New girl gets him to co-sign on her loans; New girl gets him to support her while she concentrates on her degree; Proposes to new girl he is financially supporting; and Pays for what we can assume is a princess wedding because she wants it. Guy is a doormat and oblivious. Someone doesn't just take up coke a…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 05:59 PM
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I was here to encourage other women to find what makes them happy. Obviously you are not happy and nothing I say can make you happy. All I have done when I have posted actual threads is encourage women to read and educated themselves about things they find interesting, be right in their own mind, and work on being in good shape physically. I have answered each and every one your questions and arguments as you have presented them. I am not bitter, alone, or a feminist - I am healthy, happy, in a …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/13 04:26 AM
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Getting defensive and jumping to conclusions? I have an amazing man in my life that I referenced several times, whom is the person that introduced me to /r/theredpill in the first place. Not that it is any of your business, I have actually slept with very few men - far less than the 10 often sited on /r/TheRedPill. I am happy and successful in dating (I could be married if I wanted but filing as single my tax rate is effectively zero). I thought I would help other women but no you must give the …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/13 04:06 AM
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I was here because I thought that this sub would be the female equivalent of /r/TheRedPill, where you are able to analyze different aspects of women's lives to aim for a better result than your average woman about to hit the wall. See the typical pitfalls women make and learn from them. I have said numerous times that there is nothing wrong with a woman taking a submissive role, what concerns me is development as a person and whether or not women will be happy in whatever role they choose. Call …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/13 03:47 AM
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Aright, then why does the tone in almost every single one of your posts in this sub come off with just as much chest thumping as the next "empowered" feminist? Because I am not a submissive woman. I prefer to make informed decisions about my life and be active in my pursuit of my goals (a long term meaningful relationship, self improvement, and a comfortable life). Maybe my tone is different than most women here because I don't expect a man to take care of me. Equality under the law is something…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 10:38 PM
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Beating your wife was common and sanctioned by law, this really only changed within the last 100 years. Beating your wife, child, or servant was acceptable as long as you didn't kill them; there was some variation between different jurisdictions as to what was and was not allowable over the last several centuries. I am aware that women and children are not the only victims of domestic violence today and whom ever is being beaten or abused, I find disgusting. I agree with a lot of men's rights, m…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 10:21 PM
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Equality is a myth Agreed. feminism has failed, miserably In a historical sense, no, women have equal rights. Today, I couldn't agree more as it has been perverted into what any SJW wants it to mean. This illustrates what feminism is today, wish I could have upvoted it more.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 10:04 PM
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Can this forum be based in reality and upon actual evidence? Wouldn't it be a little bit more redpill to actually analyze facts than to accept a truth that has no basis in reality?
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 09:30 PM
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I am no victim. I have read legal records and other primary sources on this subject, dating back to the Middle Ages through the modern era here in America. There is nothing revisionist about what I have said. Read actual scholarship. Common Women would be an interesting place to start since the basis of our legal system, here in America, developed in this time period and looks at actual cases and laws instead of inventing an version of history that fits your views.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 09:25 PM
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It is very true. You need to become the male or female version of what you want in a mate. Do you want a fat slob that is boring and uninteresting? Of course not, so make sure you aren't one yourself. Many women I know under estimate just how important being in good shape is. Being in good shape makes everything you wear more attractive and will even make an average looking woman stunning with a bit of work. And if you want good sex you have to work at it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 06:13 PM
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A redpill relationship does not have to be purely alpha or beta. When I am alone with my SO we are mushy as fuck, but I also respect him as a strong and very masculine man. I am very strong and rather imposing myself (6' and lift weights regularly with my SO), so I don't need a man to be physically imposing to be masculine even though my SO is. I also very much respect him intellectually, he keeps me on my toes and I keep him on his. We challenge each other to grow and improve both mentally and …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 05:57 PM
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I am slightly confused as to where this understanding is coming from. Gentlemen were historically expected to beat their, wives, children, and servants - just as long as they didn't actually kill them. Gentlemen were expected to take advantage of their subordinates sexually, it didn't matter if they were male or female both were not allowed to refuse their master. Honor was very different than what we consider today. Ladies were expected to be submissive in every way to their husbands, to disagr…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 04:28 PM
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She was never a prize. She only got an AS a few years ago that let her work as a nurse, but until then she worked retail because she didn't need college (college was too hard and they wouldn't take her). I am one of the youngest on that side of the family by almost 10 years and I got my BA before any of them managed to make it through community college.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 04:00 PM
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My obese, twice divorced with two kids, 40-something year old cousin that lives with her parents posted that on her page the other day. She is bitter and alone. Her exes have gone on to date younger models, she is not happy about this. The only men she can get to date her expect her to buy them things, mind you she won't date "old" men because she isn't old. Women that post these things are pathetic. If you fit well with someone whom is much older or younger, it is impressive in the fact that th…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 10:44 PM
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When I was dating I would do a cost benefit analysis on my date. Are they pleasant and interesting enough to be around for a period of time or would I rather be at home masturbating than endure their company? Unsurprisingly, I usually opted for the later so I can completely understand why some men choose to use prostitutes.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 10:29 PM
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So glad I had my tubes cut and burned out. Last thing I need is a parasite leaching calcium out of my bones and reducing my survival capabilities.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 04:58 PM
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I was tempted to counter balance if I knew anyone had a negative rating (thankfully there were none), but really I just will give the heads up to all my guy friends that they need to lock down their page. If your privacy settings are high enough, women will have issues putting you in the system.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 04:53 PM
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experienced... #giving... #givesbadmassages #givingbjs #grannypanties (so many stupid ones... far too many to list)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 03:24 AM
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I am constantly amazed and ashamed for members of my gender. When my SO and male friends tell me about women they dated I feel sorry for men that deal with their bullshit. I don't understand a lot of the illogical things women do. Women will let me in further thinking I am one of them, but balk at reasonable resolutions I give to their issues because they don't actually want to resolve the issues - I have told many women to tell their SO directly what they want instead of hinting, but to no avai…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:25 AM
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This was linked to in another comment, so you should be able to know who is using it and if your friends list needs to be cleaned out. It might not be a bad idea to prune the women that you have had sex with or dated on FB. If they aren't worth long term consideration they probably shouldn't be somewhere your family sees.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 12:23 AM
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I love it, easy to know who needs to be cleaned off the friend list.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 12:03 AM
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Thank you for reading my comment for what it was. I am glad we could come to a civil agreement.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 11:36 PM
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My issue is mainly with the lack of focus on development as a person.... I see too many older women that are bitter that life hasn't worked out as they wanted, their kids grow up and their spouse left them or have died - what then if you haven't developed as a person that has other passions? Does that role mean anything if you end up in a situation where you are alone and everyone else is gone or dead?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 11:18 PM
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Except of course if the women you have on your facebook decide to rate you, then it probably isn't common enough.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 11:13 PM
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Everyone adopts roles in developing as a person. They pick a place to start (I want to be a doctor, teacher, wife, mother, golfer, etc.) and then stick to the most common conceptions of said roles or stretch the boundaries far indeed. Indeed, moving on. You are not objecting to roles as you think you are. You simply believe that a wife or husband's role should be as a full partner where everything is negotiated. The women is this thread are interested in talking about a different kind of role fo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 10:57 PM
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You can rate relatives...
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 10:25 PM
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What is important, the role itself or developing as a person? Should one be the focus and the other totally neglected? Can these things go hand in hand or are they mutually exclusive?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 10:23 PM
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That isn't terrible at all, you have to protect yourself. I am not googleable either, but not everyone is as lucky as I am with a common name (I was sent a birth certificate for someone else born in the same hospital 5 months earlier with the same first, middle, and last name).
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 09:37 PM
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That is just one really fucked aspect of how a lot of women relate to other women. They feel the need to boost their self esteem through empty compliments, instead of actually having their compliments be sincere. I like what Dale Carnegie said about compliments, compliment frequently but make sure it is something you honestly admire about the person. If you aren't sincere about your compliments, you are lying and people will know (the whole, don't blow smoke up my ass sort of thing).
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 03:18 PM
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I am not going to bang my head against a wall arguing the same point over and over again with a troll. I stop responding when I find something boring, pointless, and lacking substance. My eyes are open, I don't need to prove it by bashing feminists or anti-feminists.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 02:28 AM
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This is completely creepy stalker stuff. If anyone got a hold of my information and rated me I would be on a war path.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:24 AM
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Why must it only exist on your terms? Why must it exist only on yours? We have disagreed previously and arguing with you again about terms seems rather boring and tedious. I have given my opinion, you have given yours, we fundamentally disagree. Have a good evening.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 01:13 AM
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I have indeed read the welcome message. But it seems to me that focusing on just the surface level subjects is shallow and will lead to a wall. Will wearing a pretty dress or idolizing women for their style lead to long term success and happiness however you define it as a woman? Probably not. I am not saying that women should be completely butch slobs, but addressing issues that are deeper will ultimately make you more attractive. I wrote a couple posts here, like this and this, that do not see…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 01:09 AM
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I think that the red pill for men or women should be deeper than just a discussion of gender roles and differences between the sexes, or even how to physically attract a long term mate. There is a lot of bullshit that people tie up with one ideology or another, but I prefer to look at red pill as a logical assessment of concepts and notions that are held to be true by any group and how those concepts or notions may or may not lead to long term happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 11:38 PM
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Thank you, that is really what I was trying to get at. There were a couple threads recently, like this and this, that made me curious and want to inquire further. I agree with you, people should own up to their mistakes and make quantifiable changes to show through their actions that they have changed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 11:26 PM
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And that was always Thor's error in dealing with Loki, expecting him to be honest and fair. Hope you like like the entrails and vemom :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 11:02 PM
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So if someone has made a mistake repeatedly is there nothing they can do to atone and correct these errors? Sticking with the example woman (or even applicable to men really) who has had too many sex partners: Can they do anything to redeem themselves or change their ways? What do they need to do to correct themselves? And this is assuming that lying is off the table.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 10:55 PM
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Nice riddle trickster :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 10:45 PM
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I don't think it is as simple as being a pure number issue or being the type to have a number issue. ...you also have to be willing to change the type of person you are. Which I think is the real root of the issue. If you keep doing the same thing expecting different results, there is something wrong with you since you are the one constant in all the relationships. I think a lot more of someone who is willing to admit the error of their ways and take the time to fix themselves instead of jumping…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 09:17 PM
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Ah the "I'm not a bitch I'm just honest! lol!" Just because something is true doesn't mean it needs to be said. Oh the flip side though one of the examples given my Sam Harris is when his friend asked him whether he had put on a bit of weight, to which he did answer honestly. He said something about how he had noticed that his friend had gained a bit of weight recently. The friend had not got an honest answer from anyone else and turned it around. So I think the real difference is being sincere …
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 08:54 PM
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Big or small, lies come back to bite you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 06:58 PM
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Point taken about blowing the guy off. I make it my general rule to never accept drinks, it implies that I owe that man something and I don't want to be treated like a commodity to be bought or sold.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 06:24 PM
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Before you know it they will ruin /r/fatpeoplehate.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 06:10 PM
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I am surprised about the Relationships, FPS, Relationship_Advice, and AdviceAnimals. FPS particularly, although it has been going downhill lately with all the "we are gonna make it" bullshit and the body acceptance nonsense making its way on to the sub.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 05:43 PM
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Reading through some of these comments I see where these men are coming from, there are a lot of trashy women with trashy ink. Context, location, and quality are all important factors. I have tattoos and work a white collar job, I would never show my tattoos in a professional environment but I do like them and will continue to get them in places that are covered by normal clothes. It is a pretty easy sorting mechanism for me when I am showing ink in public, if the conversation is overly sexual a…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 05:12 PM
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I'm really trying to train this one There is your problem. There is only so much training and conditioning you can do on another human being, they have to be willing and motivated to accept changes in their behavior. Allowing men to buy drinks for you is unacceptable. There are lines that should and should not be crossed, being in a relationship only makes the matter worse.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 04:56 PM
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That is insanely creepy. I am a woman and I have no words for this other than insanely creepy. If there was an app like this rating women. every. single. woman. would be up in arms about it. My other problem with this is that it assumes that the population is homogeneous in what is desirable or attractive in men. Something like humor is hugely subjective, what cracks me up may fall flat with someone else.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 04:49 PM
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That is exactly my point, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 03:21 PM
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If you keep a man interested he will remember you. I have had men pine after me for 10+ years because I can have serious conversations about a huge range of topics from combat with a broad sword and cartoons to the political and economic conditions around the world. Sex and appearance are surely part of the equation, but should not be the entire equation.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 03:18 PM
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I like things to be applicable to both sexes. I think that it is more red pill to improve yourself as a person than to change the exterior under the guise of finding a mate. The things I mentioned were the main things I have seen my female friends struggle with as the butt their heads against the wall, there are more.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 03:10 PM
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Otep Shamaya, Wendy O. Williams and Joan Jett off the top of my mind just because I am listening to some Otep right now. All are strong women who are not afraid to go against the grain in music. Mary Shelley, Kate Chopin, Virginia Woolf and J.K. Rowling to name a few writers. And I will throw in Nina Hartley for good measure, she is very in control of her sexuality and I have learned a lot from her videos. Edit: I forgot a bunch like Ada Lovelace, Emma Goldman, Jane Goodall, Marie Curie and Caro…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 02:20 AM
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Why must everyone on a given sub be of the same opinion? Wouldn't life be rather boring if everyone subscribed to exactly the same philosophy and there was no variation or room for discussion? Would there even be a discussion? It would most likely devolve into: "I like purple, yay!" "Purple, rocks!" "OMG, I love my purple heels" [Purple is a stand in for a circle jerk topic]
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 08:52 PM
3

I think we can agree on one point alone, that women (and men for that matter) need to have things they are passionate about. I have not made any assumptions other than people need to figure out what makes life fulfilling for them and that a one size fits all approach is flawed. You are simply assuming that I am assuming, but I assure you I am not.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 08:24 PM
9

Not at all. I think people, both men and women, should improve themselves throughout life to be attractive to others in a variety of relationships both personal and professional. Nothing is worse than being static in life and a complete bore.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 07:54 PM
-1

Makeup is fine, but I bet your husband probably thinks you are beautiful without all your makeup. My SO thinks I look amazing when I am dolled up for work (skirts, dresses, makeup, etc.), but he also thinks I am beautiful on the weekends with pigtails and without a stitch of makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 07:50 PM
18

I see absolutely no reason for there to be a power struggle in a relationship, there is something called communication. Part of being a good partner is listening to your partner, their wants and needs - there is give and take in every relationship and what that balance is will be different for different couples. I think that by buying into these very ridged notions and sweeping generalizations that we set ourselves up for failure and inevitable walls. There is a wall around 30 for most women, re…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 07:46 PM
23

Some women are very happy in submissive relationships, I am not discounting that. I am saying that not everyone would be happy confined to those roles and that these roles should not be glorified. I am not at all threatened by women choosing to be wives and have children or even be a housewife, but not everyone is happy doing that. I think the argument that women or even men have to fit into an ideal to be happy is fundamentally flawed. Does being perfectly made up and having dinner on the table…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 07:06 PM
0

Men don't want women who wear masks or thick coats of paint. All the men that I have dated and my male friends feel like they have been cheated when the makeup, hair extensions, fake eyelashes, drawn on eyebrows, and body shapers come off. My boyfriend told me about an experience where he just left a woman partially naked because she was like "Frankenstein's monster" with all of her tricks. Learn to love and use what you have naturally, focus on looking good with and without make up. Being in go…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 06:17 PM
2

The one thing that has helped me more than anything is starting to just walk away from negative things. There is nothing to be won by convincing someone that you are right and they are wrong. I would rather enjoy someone's company than constantly hear gossip or negative things, when that sort of thing comes up in conversation I don't participate. When friendships or other relationship become draining or negative, I walk away from them. I know life is too short to be bothered with people that whi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 06:07 PM
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If you want to be a submissive house wife, yes this will work. But the problem is not all men and women want these roles. The Feminine Mystique showed the cracks in this thinking, women were not happy living through their husbands and children. I think that instead of playing into specific roles, women and men should work to be better partners. Nothing is worse than being completely bored and unattracted to your long term partner, either male of female.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 05:54 PM
0

Be honest and sincere. If a man asks, tell him and don't be ashamed but on the same note that opens the door for you to ask him. My rule for when I start sleeping with a man is when I am sure he will keep my interest at least for a period of time. I am not interested in a quick lay or a short term thing, masturbation is better than the quality of sex in these types of situations (I have told men this and they understand). The way to make a man want to be with you is to be interesting (read and h…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 11:42 PM
1

Yes. I am very healthy and it shows in my hair as well as my skin. I eat a high protein diet rich in vitamins for my weight lifting problem so my hair and nails grow like crazy. Also not falling into common problems women have with damaging their hair through styling helps a lot. Wash, condition, brush, and air dry is all I do and everyone thinks it looks amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 10:54 PM
2

Sorry but this is the biggest piece of consumerist bullshit I have ever seen. There is nothing wrong with looking good, but needing to conform to a stepford variation of femininity is just another form of the blue pill. Yes, you should take care of yourself and be sexy. Will wearing a dress and heels make you sexy? No. Do men find women that shop all the time and are overly concerned with looks attractive? No. Being in great shape will make anything you wear 10x sexier than if you a mushy blob. …
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 09:53 PM
3

I really could give two shits what most people consider attractive. I grow my hair out so that I can donate it to women with cancer, it is just hair. Men and women both have scolded me for cutting my hair (just donated about a month ago). My only consideration when it comes to my hair is how it will look as I advance my career. So my hair is my natural color, neatly trimmed, and usually pulled back for work. My male bosses have complemented as have my female coworkers, it is more about being nea…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 09:36 PM
2

I am really femme looking as it is, it makes no difference to me so I ignore it. If I get approached about my looks I am usually very short with people, because I really put a minimal effort into into (brush my hair and my teeth, make up for work only because women who wear make up to work make more than women who don't).
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 09:26 PM
0

I am very open about sex and enjoy sex a lot, but I had the problem that a lot of men have - I got bored with the men very quickly. I don't have a problem with have sex on the first date, but I would usually wait longer to make sure that I actually enjoy their company and won't be bored of them in short order. Sex is easy, I don't need to go out of my way to just get laid. But it is rare to find a man that is good in bed and intellectually interesting, so I hold off until I know a man will keep …
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 07:59 PM
3

I have always been a short hair woman, I had some variation of a bob for more than a decade of life. A few years ago after I stopped dying my hair I decided to grow out my hair to donate it. Men love it and notice it, hell women love it and notice it. Not a ton of women have absolutely straight hair that won't curl, add to it rounded bangs and it really stands out. Having had both long and short, I do get more attention with longer hair - but I don't really care, it's like getting attention for …
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 07:43 PM
5

Man these relationships must be miserable. Took a bit of undoing to get my boyfriend to unlearn responses he had from previous girls, but I like him telling me what he thinks and giving his opinion... even gasp when it comes to my body (we workout together and I like honest assessments so I can improve my workouts and my figure, I do the same for him).
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 07:18 PM
6

Oh don't get me wrong, I don't do all the housework. I work full time and it is my house, so I do expect a certain level of cleanliness. Knowing how to do these things is more of a bonus for my SO and it sets me apart from most women. I only point these sort of things out because I have had men wrapped around my little finger based on my baking alone, apparently baking from scratch (multiple recipes) is rare for most people now. Skills and interests are more important than people give credit in …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 03:44 AM
7

Being in good shape will put you ahead of most other women in the dating market. I didn't know that I was one of the select few that were single in the 20's and not fat. Physically just being not fat makes more of an impression on men than an absolutely gorgeous face. Being in good shape and eating a very healthy diet make me look much younger than I am, I am turning 29 in a couple months and still get carded regularly (it pisses my little sister off that everyone thinks I am the younger sister)…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/13 10:52 PM
1

I think that if somehow this was taken into account for child support, the number of births to unwed mothers would dramatically decrease. No longer could you just expect a man to pony up and be a father. My ex tried to force me to have kids (only horny when I told him my birth control wasn't effective - to which I always declined), so I can completely understand and sympathize with men forced into fatherhood.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 06:53 PM
6

Walking away is probably the best trump card in dating. If you aren't being treated right or they get needy, walk away because you don't need to deal with bullshit. All this does is place value on you, that you value yourself more than to put up with their bullshit because there will be another.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 06:58 PM
3

...claimed she was discriminated against when she couldn't play Puck in a midsummers night dream. Because obviously if you try out for a role that means you are going to get it. This is one of my main problems with women that claim to be strong and independent, but they want shit handed to them. You must work for the things you want, not getting what you want doesn't mean it is discrimination.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:54 PM
2

I took the same road and ended up in law as well.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:48 PM
1

Sorry, if I could edit it I would - I won't let it happen again.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:47 PM
3

I don't know. I had a very prolonged awkward phase that allowed me to see the world differently, I was amazed by how different people treated me when I got more attractive in my mid 20's.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 02:30 AM
0

Fine, I gave you another option but you don't need to take it. Pay for beautiful women in their prime, it is no skin off my back.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 01:42 AM
4

/r/fatpeoplestories
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 01:40 AM
4

Welcome to the club :)
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 01:15 AM
5

Or maybe you can think for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 01:15 AM
4

Gender traitor, that's a good one. Oh well, I don't do well in groups of women anyways - something about not needing to conform to traditional femininity or the cult of domesticity.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 12:16 AM
7

It is more surprising in that I haven't posted there ever and it has been a long time since I commented. Wonder what did it, redpill or fps?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 12:10 AM
1

My response did acknowledge scarcity. If a woman has a higher value in the dating market (say traditionally attractive, not a fatass, and under 30) those women will get taken by higher value men (traditionally attractive and not a fatass). In more saturated dating pools, in metro areas, there is a lot more fish and I have not seen any of my friends really struggle - no matter how beta.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 10:07 PM
0

I agree wholly that prostitution should be legal, the sin laws are very outdated. I really have not seen sex as difficult to come by for any men, but I also live in a major metropolitan area. If you are beta you need to prioritize your needs, do you need a 10/10 blonde bombshell that will have nothing to do with you or do you need a 5-6/10 woman that might have other redeeming qualities? Even the nerdiest and most socially awkward men in my life have found women when they shifted their wants and…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 09:19 PM
1

A lot of these dating things seem to get repetitive advice. Lift, become alpha. I would be willing to bet he would eventually find someone, in a similar career path that would be better than your typical party girl which he is describing. Party girls end up as bitter soccer moms, but there are many other women out there that don't do that shit. Also men, like trolls stop feeding them. If women pull this party girl thing complete with the drinking fucking until they "need" to get married, don't d…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 08:41 PM
0

There is a yuck factor for most women when it comes to prostitution, like eww so many diseases. But those same women will not really have an issue with someone else who picks up a bunch of one night stands and yet the risk is the same. I personally have no idea why someone would pay for sex, it is easy to come by and you don't need a relationship. That being said if you want to just have sex with a woman without any strings and you are both consenting adults, more power to you. However most of t…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 08:26 PM
0

Must red pill be exclusively from a male perspective? And it doesn't matter if I am hot, I am told I am, but I am not single.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 05:46 PM
0

I don't do my hair, just brush it. Don't wear jewelry, no point. Only dress up for work. Don't care about status or money. Don't want marriage or kids.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 10:29 PM
1

It is funny because the shit that women do for "men" are things that men don't care about. Men I dated when I was single were so confused that I didn't do any of that bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 10:17 PM
5

The biggest problem I see with this is that she "thought he would change". You can't expect someone to change. If someone doesn't want marriage or kids and is upfront about that, it doesn't matter how long you wait because you cannot make them change. On the first date with my ex, I told him that I never wanted to have biological children. Fast forward 6 years and he wanted to turn me into a baby factory, nope, I did not change my mind - still don't want kids.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 09:37 PM
7

A mask is truly the best way to put it. The mask decays and slips over the years, people that rely on their looks and material objects for happiness end up miserable because neither of those last.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 06:54 PM
3

I know many women like this. I really don't understand it, I am a woman and retail therapy is completely foreign to me. Why would I buy shit I don't need and don't really care about just to look "nice" and impress other women?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 06:14 PM
5

Everyone I have ever know that feels the need to flaunt what they are into sexually is ugly and/or fat. Liking sex or being into things that aren't really vanilla is not a big deal, it just doesn't need to be announced to the world.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 05:04 PM
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Women buy useless shit to fill an emotional hole and feel the need to justify said pointless purchases to the world, I am not at all surprised.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 04:55 PM
3

Exactly what I was thinking. And all the comments about younger women are kind of weird, it is expected that men cheat it Russia - so no shit he was getting something on the side.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 04:27 PM
1

Be polite and smile. When they women start talking about things that are of no interest to you, politely excuse yourself to get back to work. Positive reinforcement works really well in these types of situations, reward decent and even mildly amusing conversation with attention and don't engage in the other shit. I work with an office full of middle aged women that like nothing more than to gossip and talk about their kids/grandkids and this is what works for me (I am female, I just don't have a…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 09:11 PM
3

I was speaking on less specific terms, issues change and evolve over time. My reference to the woman's movement was very broad and played a part in many other political movements of the time, not just Marxism. I don't agree with your assessment of liberalism and feminism. Your sources are about 100 years old and there has been a lot that has happened in the last 100 years. I think the issues are far more complex than you give them credit, all of the rights you listed above took generations to de…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 05:48 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I could not see these women that whine about sexism being beaten by the police, going to jail, and doing prolonged hunger strikes for the right to vote. It is more of a feminist act to work to be recognized for you abilities, you know ones that you develop, rather than whine about how unfair life is because you are a woman.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 02:42 AM
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Those women that call themselves "feminists" because they are pro-woman and think they should be treated like special humans because of their reproductive organs are idiots. They would be ashamed of themselves if they actually knew about the women's movement (1st and 2nd wave), it was always about equality and not putting men down.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 12:45 AM
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My boyfriend subscribes to /r/mensrights, I don't have a problem with it. But then again I might be a different kind of feminist that can understand how men get screwed in a lot of situations...
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 10:56 PM
6

The real way to find a woman whom is all of the things you describe is to become a mirror image of that yourself. As you better yourself you will be better able to attract high quality people to date. There are plenty of men that I dated that had a great job, wanted to provide for me, etc. But I just wanted someone to share my life with, so the providing aspect really turned me off - I work and have a career, I don't need that from a man. My boyfriend, whom I consider my partner, is super compat…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 06:53 PM
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This is how basically every self post on TwoX is, I thought it would be about strong women or even feminism (equality of the sexes rather than that privilege bullshit) - but I was truly disappointed. She wasn't contributing to the marriage, when you withhold affection and sex it is serious. He has also been supporting her financially while she contributed a little from her benefits. At some point people break, given her behavior I am not at all surprised that he looked for warmth else where. We’…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 04:16 PM
0

Awesome advice, I am totally not a fan of grinding. Please gentlemen apply to a bar as well, eye contact before attempting to grope works wonders.
/r/seduction06/07/12 03:55 PM
3

Confession: as a woman I do this. And if a guy is a real creeper I say, "I don't give out my number, let me get yours." And then I proceed to delete the number after I walk away.
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:16 PM
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