laec300191 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Single men of PPD, would you be down to try an arranged relationship with the purpose of marriage?	Question For Men	laec300191	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 05:02 PM
1	Weird tiktok trend I keep seeing online		laec300191	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 04:59 PM

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13	Study finds strong correlation (r ≈ 0.81) between gender equality and low birth rates: Female emancipation enables hypergamous mating that makes average men obsolete (Larsen et al., 2026) Well, you can't spell motherland without mother.	/r/BlackPillScience	30/05/26 03:04 PM
6	Study finds strong correlation (r ≈ 0.81) between gender equality and low birth rates: Female emancipation enables hypergamous mating that makes average men obsolete (Larsen et al., 2026) There are interviews with the author of the book on youtube, I highly recommend people watch those too.	/r/BlackPillScience	30/05/26 03:04 PM
9	Beauty is associated with lower support for redistribution Well, she takes in a lot of hard things.	/r/BlackPillScience	26/05/26 02:57 AM
1	I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pill Blue pill is by definition just some miasmic set of oppinions out there in the mainstream. So you can never make a proper defense or attack on it. That's because Blue Pill is the status quo per say. You are not red pilled and turn blue pilled, that just doesn't happen. You are blue pilled, and then you become red pilled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 06:14 PM
3	I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pill "just be yourself" lmao that one is also a classic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 06:10 PM
1	Women not needing men is a good thing This debate about who needs who is driven by ego. In reality men and women need each other not for survival, but instead on a more transcendent level, you can enjoy life and reach old age alone, but life is simply more pleasant and fun when you are with the right person by your side. There's a reason couples report higher levels of happiness compared to single people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 05:44 PM
1	Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material. It is universal female nature that women expect men to provide. It's an expectation, they may not demand it, but if you can't pay, you ain't getting any.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 05:15 PM
6	Psychological studies have shown that attractive people have higher life satisfaction than others. For men, there was a strong and direct effect of objective beauty on life satisfaction. For women, the effect was weaker and indirect, with self-esteem and emotional stability playing key roles. Not only sex, but attractive people get more job offers, higher salaries, and faster promotions. Attractive people get access to places where regular people would a harder time getting into. Attractive people get less pushback when they do something bad, aka getting a pass.	/r/BlackPillScience	21/03/26 11:10 PM
41	Psychological studies have shown that attractive people have higher life satisfaction than others. For men, there was a strong and direct effect of objective beauty on life satisfaction. For women, the effect was weaker and indirect, with self-esteem and emotional stability playing key roles. Attractive people simply have a lot of stuff handed to them for being attractive.	/r/BlackPillScience	16/03/26 04:48 AM
32	Women rate their affair partners as significantly more attractive than their affair partners, while drastically rating them lower as parents. Yep. Most men tend get treated very ugly or simply ignored by society, so much so that simple kindness and a smile will get our attention.	/r/BlackPillScience	09/03/26 05:56 AM
49	Women rate their affair partners as significantly more attractive than their affair partners, while drastically rating them lower as parents. Women rate affair partners more attractive than their real partners (long term boyfriend, husband, etc). This is expected. What I have found from anecdotal experience and observations is that when men cheat, it doesn't necessarily mean the affair woman is hotter, in fact a lot of times the affair woman is less attractive, she could either more chubby, less pretty, etc. And I think this is because despite men being more visual beings than women are, men still require other forms of stimulation to…	/r/BlackPillScience	09/03/26 04:07 AM
24	Why the human penis is unusually large compared to that of other primates is a long-standing evolutionary question. New findings suggest that female choice and male-male competition have jointly favored larger penis size, greater height, and more V-shaped bodies in men. Why the human penis is unusually large compared to that of other primates is a long-standing evolutionary question. Bitches been picking hung niggas since ancient times. There, not a question anymore.	/r/BlackPillScience	23/01/26 05:48 PM
25	Being very Intelligent made a potential mate less attractive. Kindness and Physical Attractiveness did not "I am Sapiosexual" - Some basic tinder woman	/r/BlackPillScience	21/01/26 02:50 PM
1	Identical males were rated as significantly more attractive by female participants on a rating scale of 1-10 when placed in a 'high status' (Silver Bentley Continental GT) than a 'neutral status' (Red Ford Fiesta ST) motor-car When I look for a car, I try to choose based on reliability, cost of maintenance, and long term durability. If you have enough money for a sports car you probably don't care about the things I mentioned.	/r/BlackPillScience	19/01/26 01:47 AM
1	Identical males were rated as significantly more attractive by female participants on a rating scale of 1-10 when placed in a 'high status' (Silver Bentley Continental GT) than a 'neutral status' (Red Ford Fiesta ST) motor-car Men almost always exaggerate their athleticism, how good they are with women, how much they earn, how tall they are, etc. I have been playing this game the wrong way. I am very upfront and honest about myself, I do not exaggerate my positive traits, I am actually humble about my successes, and I am too honest about my shortcomings. The thing is I would like someone to like for who I am, so in the future they can't say I lied to them. Basically "this is who I am, take it or leave it".	/r/BlackPillScience	19/01/26 01:30 AM
2	''We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females.'' It's in their nature to be concerned about something else always So true.	/r/BlackPillScience	19/01/26 12:37 AM
1	Sexism and Sexual success study 2: The Two Towers It's always about the men and never about the women. Will we ever hear women admit "Yes, we say we hate sexism and sexist men, but sexist men have something that makes them so attractive, so we break the rules for them". Men who are objectively worst option for women get more sex all the time. Drug users, gang members, felons, wife beaters, etc they all get laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 08:12 PM
1	To many women, male attention is low value. what are U going to do, lead a movement for men to stop looking at women? Are we doing MeToo all over again? lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 04:49 PM
3	''We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females.'' Looks vs Money vs Status doesn't beat one another For women, money and status will always beat looks. For men, beauty always beats money and status.	/r/BlackPillScience	05/01/26 03:27 PM
4	Women are more likely to view and be aroused by aggressive porn, In contrast to men I do believe your story because I have been in a slightly different situation. Friend of many years asked me to have sex and shoot videos with his wife, for his pleasure. I declined. Quick context, I know him like 20 years now. I know his wife almost the same time he knows her. He has brought up the topic of doing a threesome several times in conversation being her present in that moment. Always declined.	/r/BlackPillScience	02/01/26 05:03 AM
12	Women are more likely to view and be aroused by aggressive porn, In contrast to men I know someone already replied to you. I had to look up what NTR fetish was to understand, and apparently it is infidelity fetish related to manga and anime. If you pay attention, the most popular romantic movies among women all have a cheating theme in it. Titanic; The notebook; Scandal; Unfaithful; The Painted Veil; Love, Actually; American Beauty; Crazy, Stupid, Love; Little Children. It is a bit dishearthening.	/r/BlackPillScience	02/01/26 04:26 AM
10	No gender differences in attraction to young partners: A study of 4,500 blind dates If you are getting old you better work your ass off to make bank. Otherwise you are forever behind the younger lads.	/r/BlackPillScience	02/01/26 04:04 AM
21	Women are more likely to view and be aroused by aggressive porn, In contrast to men I suspect a lot of men would be really concerned to get in trouble because the women had regrets. I know I would.	/r/BlackPillScience	28/12/25 05:26 AM
22	Women are more likely to view and be aroused by aggressive porn, In contrast to men The prominent German-American psychoanalyst Helene Deutsch (1884-1982) extensively explored female masochism, viewing it as central to "feminine" identity, linked to biological drives, motherhood, and passive acceptance, arguing it wasn't just perversion but tied to societal roles and internal conflicts, a perspective foundational to her work like The Psychology of Women, though later criticized for reinforcing biological determinism. She saw it as a complex interplay of species and individual n…	/r/BlackPillScience	28/12/25 05:20 AM
13	If you’re smart, don’t drink much, stay out of fights, display a friendly personality, and have no criminal history – then you are most at risk of being miserable and alone. "Just be yourself" lmao	/r/BlackPillScience	26/12/25 08:36 AM
3	Women feel unsafe when objectified—but may still self-sexualize if the man is attractive or wealthy If you are hot or rich, you can get away with a lot of stuff, regardless of number of dates.	/r/BlackPillScience	19/09/25 11:25 PM
1	Would you marry someone who ignored you, rejected you, and only dated men she thought were far more attractive than you? Probably not, it would feel like she is settling with me, I was not her first option at the time when I met her, I don't want to be her last option later in life. She wouldn't be happy with me, and the marriage would be miserable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 05:17 AM
1	Would you blame a woman if she got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way? How about men if they got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way? Website is blocked in my country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 12:09 AM
2	Why does the redpill ignore passport sisters and only focuses on passport bros? Damn, imagine your favorite tourist spots turning into a big retirement home for horny grannies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 01:25 PM
6	Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in men It's more a sociological phenomenon derived from biological factors. Biology enciclopedias may talk about human body, but sociologist and antropologist will discuss how human characteristics shape human behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 04:54 AM
5	Why does the redpill ignore passport sisters and only focuses on passport bros? Personally I don't care what women do on their trips, they can fuck half of the city they visit for all I care. I just wish women were honest about it, I wish they weren't hypocrites about these things. If you are not willing to be honest about what you do on your trips, you have no place criticizing what men do on their trips.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 02:44 AM
1	What are some secrets men dont tell women? But not just friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 01:46 AM
1	What are some secrets men dont tell women? Most men won't wait to get something other men got very quickly. Not to mention that as we get older, people are less willing to wait, so you either put out in a timely manner, or men will simply move on. That's why women are adviced to find a husband while young, because that's when they have the most leverage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 01:39 AM
0	Would you blame a woman if she got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way? How about men if they got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way? A couple of months ago I was hanging out wiht a friend and his friends. On of his friends warned me about his Pitbull which was around us all the time. "Do not touch the dog, it will turn around and bite you" he said, despite his warning I proceded to touch the dog in several occasions throughout the night. At one point when I was very inebriated, I leaned towards the dog to touch it's head, that's when it turned around and it bit my hand, leaving a wound one inch in lenght across the top of my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 01:32 AM
16	Why does the redpill ignore passport sisters and only focuses on passport bros? You are right, passport sisters do not exist, however female sex tourism does. In that regard, no one paints women as predators for doing sex tourism, only men can be predators for doing the same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 01:03 AM
5	Study finds out body count truly matters in both genders Then I guess sex life becomes a chore for everyone in long term relationships.	/r/BlackPillScience	26/06/25 04:37 AM
3	Study finds out body count truly matters in both genders whether serial monogamy, or one main partner + side pieces for novelty is ideal for many men I have heard from some men that this is the ideal scenario. Having side pieces keeps them "at the top of their game". Like, it boosts confidence, and makes them even more appealing to their LTR partner.	/r/BlackPillScience	26/06/25 04:00 AM
6	Study finds out body count truly matters in both genders I get that routine and familiarity can affect sex life, but it is the responsibility of people to keep the spark alive. If you don't try new things, if you don't try new places, or play different roles, then of course it becomes a chore that eventually dissapears in the relationship.	/r/BlackPillScience	26/06/25 03:55 AM
1	"Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit. Honestly it just baffles me when women say penis size doesn't matter, yet when they have to buy a dildo, they go for a dildo way over the average penis size.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 03:38 AM
1	Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractive That last sentence sounded very personal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 02:19 AM
1	Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractive Don't take it so personal, it's just an internet forum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 02:04 AM
5	A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting. Your case is not what I described. According to your own comment they return the favors when you need them. There is reciprocity. But for a lot of men this isn't the case, they are stuck in a one way friendship where one side reaps all the benefits and the other gets promises and bread crumbs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 05:13 PM
4	Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractive Plausible deniability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 03:51 AM
5	Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractive I think another main point here is, if you have tattoos you are perceived as easy. Wouldn't it be in the best self interests of women to avoid to tattoos then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 03:49 AM
5	A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting. I think one of the premises here is: Women treat a man who doesn't get laid based on how this man behaves towards women. For example: A man who willingly does favors to women, gets out of his way to help women, who pays for meals, trips, etc without getting laid is accepted by the sisterhood, he is a slave in the female controlled plantation. These men are friendzoned, they get pushed around, they are never the first choice of anyone. On the other hand. A man who doesn't put up with women's bull…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 03:45 AM
1	In a study on empirical evaluations of major explanations for women's rape fantasies "openness to sexual experience theory received the strongest support." I understand your point, but here is something curious about the r-crime. A lot fo women manage to get the big-O from r-word. I have the theory that when a woman hasn't experienced a good orgasm from consensual relationships, but she experienced it from the r-crime, then she starts to seek that thrill from consensual relationship, often roleplaying r-word scenarios with their partners.	/r/BlackPillScience	01/06/25 03:54 PM
0	Men, more than women, chose mates based on physical attractiveness, whereas women, more than men, chose mates based on social status. If everyone is shallow, then no one is shallow. People just like what they like. Men like hot women, oh god what a shocker, are men somehow broken because they like hot women??? Of course not. Just like women aren't broken because they like men with resources.	/r/BlackPillScience	28/05/25 05:13 PM
4	When women believed they were hooked up to a polygraph (lie detector), their mean reported number of sex partners rose substantially, from 2.6 to 4.4 sexual partners. People judge people all the time, people compare people all the time. It's stupid to think sex performance or body parts size are the only categories where people wouldn't compare others.	/r/BlackPillScience	26/05/25 07:25 PM
38	Half of the participants were told that the target was single and half read that the target was currently in a relationship. The results showed that only single women were more interested in pursuing an attached target rather than a single target. Breakings news to no one.	/r/BlackPillScience	26/05/25 07:20 PM
5	When women believed they were hooked up to a polygraph (lie detector), their mean reported number of sex partners rose substantially, from 2.6 to 4.4 sexual partners. That's a lot of words to say that body count matters.	/r/BlackPillScience	26/05/25 03:54 PM
15	When women believed they were hooked up to a polygraph (lie detector), their mean reported number of sex partners rose substantially, from 2.6 to 4.4 sexual partners. suggests that fear of social exposure and shame leads women to underreport sexual behavior Some women claim body count doesn't matter, yet instead of supporting their case by saying their body count and wearing it as a badge, they do the opposite, they hide it.	/r/BlackPillScience	26/05/25 02:43 PM
8	When women believed they were hooked up to a polygraph (lie detector), their mean reported number of sex partners rose substantially, from 2.6 to 4.4 sexual partners. Your point is irrelevant my guy. Men like what they like (low BMI and body count) and women like what they like (tall guys and broad shoulders). Or are you going to tell women not to like tall guys and broad shoulders? I think not.	/r/BlackPillScience	26/05/25 02:40 PM
10	Females who were given a photograph of a male model posing with several female models had a higher perceived physical attractiveness score for the male than those who were given a stand-alone male model photo. By about three fiddy	/r/BlackPillScience	26/05/25 02:19 PM
4	Single women are happier than single men The "Single women are happier than single men" trope needs to stop, or at the very least, add more information. Yes single women are happier than single men but only within a certain age range. When a woman is young, and she has dozens of female friends and dozens of orbiters around her taking her on dates, on trips and giving her gifts, or course she is happy being single. A hot/beautiful young women will get gifts from dozens of men at the same time, but if that young woman gets married, she c…	/r/BlackPillScience	10/05/25 03:02 PM
38	Contrary to feminist dogma that "women's pain is ignored" and that science neglects them, a government report finds that most gender based medical research funded by the state goes to women. If I am not mistaken, prostate cancer now kills more men than breast cancer kills women, yet more resources are allocated to breast cancer research.	/r/BlackPillScience	10/05/25 02:19 PM
9	In a study on empirical evaluations of major explanations for women's rape fantasies "openness to sexual experience theory received the strongest support." As sad as this results may seem, my only advice is to get what you can from it. If you are dating a woman you really like, and for whatever reason she is open to experience those kinds of fantasies, indulge her. Of course make sure she isn't bat shit crazy so she won't falsely accuse you of SA, or the r-word. She already tasted the forbidden fruit, you can't stop her from having those fantasies, so you might as well just enjoy the ride and have your fun.	/r/BlackPillScience	09/05/25 03:45 PM
26	Women’s mate choice decision rule is to copy only if a man’s female consort is physically attractive The study shows the need to get other women's approval of mates remains. This could explain why women like to introduce their boyfriend to their female friends to see if they also approve the guy. However this does not stop women from dating men who are evidently a very bad choice, in fact, many times her female friends will advice against it, but you can't beat attraction and desire, so she continues to date that walking red flag of a guy.	/r/BlackPillScience	29/04/25 04:37 PM
26	Single women are happier than single men Your comment reminds me of this thread a month ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillScience/comments/1izyhs7/too_fast_too_soon_an_empirical_investigation_into/ Singlehood is harsher for men because men do not have the emotional support provided by people reaching out to you, or by big social circles. Most men don't have a dozen friends, most men have less than a handful of close friends to share his grievances with, so they literally wallor in thei misery until they manage to overcome it. Wome…	/r/BlackPillScience	27/04/25 12:59 PM
5	"Nordic countries are the most gender equal countries in the world, but at the same time they have disproportionally high prevalence rates of intimate partner violence" I don't think anyone would disagree, unfortunately the way to reduce IPC violence and abuse in countries like Sweden would be deemed... racist.	/r/BlackPillScience	24/04/25 03:58 PM
10	Incidence and Related Factors of Infidelity among Medical Doctors and Nurses - PubMed I would never get into a relationship with a nurse/doctor, or any other profession where my partner would have to spend very long work shifts, let alone night shifts with a bunch of other men in an environment that facilitates adultery.	/r/BlackPillScience	19/04/25 03:00 AM
8	Friendship as a Relationship Infiltration Tactic during Human Mate Poaching Probably the same or worse. Highly doubt. Most men don't have the same pull as most women.	/r/BlackPillScience	09/04/25 10:10 PM
22	Friendship as a Relationship Infiltration Tactic during Human Mate Poaching My personal rules in regards to this are: 1.- You are an acquaintant of your friend's wife/girlfriend, you are not her friend, you are not her confidant. 2.- You don't let your male friends get too close to your wife/girlfriend, and you don't let your wife/girlfriend get close to your friends.	/r/BlackPillScience	18/03/25 06:17 PM
0	Being called a “mommas boy” had more negative connotations than being called a “daddy’s girl” Is a daddy's girl not overly protected? Men are suppoused to protect women, that's why Daddy's Girl doesn't have a negative connotation like Mama's Boy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 06:24 PM
2	Sexual double standard is irrational Not to mention, in a world of DNA testing, paternal certainty no longer requires female chastity to ensure. It just requires widespread, cheaply-available testing. More importantly, it requires women to put their egos aside and take a paternity test voluntarily without making a big deal out of it. But you and I know that's not the case. What´s the common argument women make? "If my partner asked for a paternity test, I would do it, but we would divorce afterwards".	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 05:32 PM
1	Too fast, too soon? An empirical investigation into rebound relationships - Claudia C. Brumbaugh, R. Chris Fraley, 2015 Contrary to what is commonly believed about the need for a “waiting period” following the end of a relationship (e.g., Snyder, 1993), we found that beginning a new relationship quickly after a breakup seemed to have positive consequences. Specifically, people who started a new relationship quickly had higher well-being and a better opinion of themselves compared to those who waited longer to begin their subsequent relationship. Because of their fairly rapid transition between partners, reboundin…	/r/BlackPillScience	28/02/25 04:04 PM
17	Romantic Relationships Matter More to Men than to Women It's the total opposite, only a man who experienced love and then saw how women act in regards to relationships can reach such a conclusion.	/r/BlackPillScience	28/02/25 02:44 AM
4	Marital Status, Cardiovascular Diseases, and Cardiovascular Risk Factors: A Review of the Evidence - PubMed Cohabitation with a loved one contributes positively for most people compared to living alone as a single person. Just like a two parent household contributes positively to children in comparison to one parent households. Some single people vent online how they wish they were married, and some children, teenagers and even some adults wish they had a two parent household growing up.	/r/BlackPillScience	25/02/25 06:49 PM
10	About 75% of Swedish men in the top 1% of income earners are married to a woman outside the top 10%. For women, it's the opposite, with about 75% in the top 1% married to a man also in the top 10%. It has always been like this since the dawn of man, and it's all about safety. Cavemen didn't have gold chains, ferraris, or mansions, however if they were strong warriors, skilled hunters, skilled builders, etc, they were highly sough after, because those traits could provide safety for women and their offspring.	/r/BlackPillScience	11/02/25 12:54 AM
1	Impact of maternal depressive symptoms on growth of preschool- and school-aged children - PubMed is that saying there's basically a 40% chance of them being 10% under the expected height for that age? It's all pretty confusing, but that is kind of what I understand from it.	/r/BlackPillScience	09/02/25 05:08 AM
0	Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferences Oh so for you a NO always means NO, and a YES always means YES?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 09:23 PM
2	Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferences Also I forget to mention that some women experiecnes to this do say stop to the guy, but some guys literally keep going, sounds rapey to me. The other side of the coin is, some women DO enjoy being forced, they like to pretend not to want it rough, and they act like they are being forced to have sex against their will. As a woman you have to be vocal and firm about what you don't like, and as a man you have control yourself and respect boundaries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 08:59 PM
–	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" In what sorts of situations should a woman tell you about her preferences? In-person? Online? If I am getting to know someone, I would like her to be honest since the begining so that we don't waste our time pretending to be something we are not, or trying to comform to what the other person likes or wants. We should be ourselves. If a woman rejects you, would you prefer her to be specific about why she is rejecting you? How would you like this phrased? For example if she does not date short men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 05:39 AM
–	Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences" Or "I am not a interested in a man's wallet", but she rejects all men who aren't making as much money as she would like, and also goes for the guy who has money to spoil her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 05:29 AM
3	Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils with A socially awkard woman is considered cute and quirky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 05:34 AM
1	Sexual double standard is irrational It doesn't really say anything about her value. Besides the fact that she makes some questionable choices I would argue that making questionable choices (repeatedly) does speak about someone's value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 05:20 AM
0	Male Tolerance to Same-Sex Infidelity: A Cross-Cultural Investigation - PubMed If you are a married man, and you learn your wife has been mingling with a hot chick, wouldn't you want your wife to bring her home for you to fuck her as well?	/r/BlackPillScience	24/01/25 05:25 PM
1	The double standard around promiscuity will persist as long other gender-based differences in expectations are upheld (courtship expectations, as just one example) Men don't ask about bodycount because the question is a turn off for women. If I am trying to get laid then I am not gonna risk turning a woman off by asking her how many dicks she has sucked. It should be self evident for you women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 08:57 PM
3	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging That whole post makes sense yeah. I think this type of issues usually arise when a man has expressed his needs, let's take for example anal sex, a man has repeatedly asked for anal sex and his partner refuses, she alleges that she tried it once and it hurt her so she doesn't want to ever do it, but one day he over heard his girlfriend talk with her girl friend about how she used to do anal for her ex boyfriend all the time. That's when it becomes a real issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 03:55 PM
2	Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do? Feminist isn't fighting for equality, it fights for privileges.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 04:37 AM
3	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging They believe when women truly desire men, they will be sexually exploratory with him. Therefore if she is sexually closed off to him, she must not “truly” desire him. Based on my experience, this is 100% accurate. A woman would stop putting up with coffee dates if she learned her boyfriend used to take his past girlfriends on trips every two weeks. Then why should a man put up with pity sex when he knows his girlfriend used to practice the whole kama sutra and tantra with his previous boyfriend?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 04:33 AM
1	Sexual double standard is irrational I wouldn't apply the label promiscuous to someone who frequents prostitutes. That's most likely a man who can't get laid (an incel), so he seeks the easiest path to get sex, prostitution. Doesn't take away the fact that he is an incel, because if he had no money to pay, he would not get sex at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:08 AM
3	Sexual double standard is irrational Something I have noticed when this topic comes up is, some people seem to believe that we care about the number of sexual encounters. Truth is we don't care how many times a woman has had sex, we care about the number of partners. Imagine two different women. One had a boyfriend and she had sex with him hundreds of times over three years, she then got married to another man and she had sex with her husband hundreds of times over 10 years. For the sake of this exercise, let's say this woman had s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:00 AM
1	Sexual double standard is irrational Because men don't use toys, we use our hand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 05:43 AM
1	Sexual double standard is irrational Yes. A lot of these double standards come down to what each sex values more. Here is another example: We have all heard the phrase uttered by women "My money is my money, his money is our money", this phrase tells men that a married man will not see any benefit from his wife's job, so why would a man care about a woman's career, income, etc... when it doesn't benefit him in any way. Here is a different example: A man complains that women don't care about his Hot Wheels car collection, I ask, how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 08:35 PM
3	Sexual double standard is irrational People often get angry about these double standards because they try to apply the same standard to two different beings, yes men and women are different. Here is a double standard that doesn't benefit man. A broke woman can get married and she can be lifted out of poverty. A broke man will remain broke, no woman is going to marry him and lift him out of poverty. The above statemtments can be justified by the fact that men care to a lesser degree about women's finances compare to how much women c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 08:22 PM
19	Male Tolerance to Same-Sex Infidelity: A Cross-Cultural Investigation - PubMed Agree with you. I just want to say that female homosexuality is more socially accepted than male homosexuality.	/r/BlackPillScience	14/01/25 05:59 AM
1	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit Until you see what happens there it’s difficult to grasp how barbaric and brutal they are. I am well aware, of how barbaric they are. They don't see humans as living beings with human dignity, they don't believe in human rights (rights are a social construct). These extremists are very creative and they come up with all sorts of torture and killing methods to create the most shock. I know they take little kids, as little as 6 years old, and they have them shoot and kill men with small caliber we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 03:07 PM
4	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit You are not told , more than likely the men in thr background will be killed in really brutal ways This reminds me, something like 8 or 10 years ago,, when Obama was President, there were videos of terrorists executing men. The men had their hands tied behind their back, they were blindfolded, and they were paraded towards a pier or something like that, they got shot in the head and pushed to the water. They must have executed hundreds of men each day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 06:43 AM
1	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit it was the Obama administration as a whole doing malicious stuff The US has done this repeatedly so many times for so many decades, that I wouldn't really blame this on a man, a woman, or an administration. The US as an empire has a strong arm foreign policy that includes toppling governments that don't want to bend the knee to the US. The most recent case of a US backed coup is Syria. They are currently using Ukraine as a bulwark against Russia, and now they are trying to use Taiwan as a bulwar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 06:36 AM
1	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit This reminded me of the Boko Haram girls farce. If you don't know what I mean, you are living proof of the empathy gap yourself. I had totally forgotten about this man, why did you have to make my blood boil today???	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 06:24 AM
1	Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards. Men are selective too, they just seem to be more discrete about it because you know, they get called mysogynists and women haters for having standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 06:21 AM
7	Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards. Women know they gatekeep sex, they just don't want the label. Someone who gatekeeps something, has power, but more often than not women don't want to admit they have power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 06:18 AM
12	Cuckolded Fathers Rare in Human Populations - PubMed That's not what I was saying. I was saying, some married women have a extramarital affair with another man (the lover), sometimes these women are so cunning, that they are able to introduce the lover to their husband, they usually lie saying he is their childhood friend, or he is the coworker who helped them get a promotion, etc... and sometimes these women will even have the lover and the husband eating dinner at the same table. What I am trying to say is, some women don't give a fuck to play t…	/r/BlackPillScience	09/01/25 10:11 PM
25	Cuckolded Fathers Rare in Human Populations - PubMed You know you and your 3 good friends? Yeah... A while back I read something like this "There are women who introduce their lovers to their husband, and even have them eat dinner together". Very disheartening.	/r/BlackPillScience	08/01/25 11:47 PM
8	Any advice for women like this who can't seem to find a good man worthy of a relationship? I think one problem with these so called HVW, is that they have a twisted sense of self worth/value. Imagine a 2010 Toyota Corolla believing it is as valuable as 2024 model vehicle just because it has more experience (milage). These HVW are not down to earth, and they fail to honestly assess their situation and find solutions that work. A woman , let's say 40+ years old, she cannot play the game the same way a woman in her 20s would. A 40+ year old woman CAN find a partner, but she has to be rea…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	14/12/24 02:18 PM
2	Q4M: Would you date an attractive "loser"? The only thing I have a problem with is lazy, messy room, fast food, no offline friends. If she is lazy, the house will be a mess. She is hooked on fast food, that's a quick road to your grave. Not having friends is detrimental to mental health. I think I would give her a shot, but not expect it to work on the long run due to her being a deadbeat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 02:23 AM
10	Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity. Men's gender roles are rigid. Women's gender roles are whatever it is convenient for them. Let me give you an example. Women don't want to clean and cook during peace times, but the moment a war is declared I guarantee you every feminist will be happy to pick up a broom or start cooking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 02:01 AM
6	CMV: Lesbian dating and relationships tend to be smoother because there are two women involved and no males The domestic violence rates are also crazy high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:24 PM
6	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? It's like Dr. Jordan Peterson says, men bully in the physical realm (physical violence), women bully in the social realm (gossip, insults, false accusations, reputation destruction). Vaguely paraphrasing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:22 PM
8	Relationships between age of females and attraction to the Dark Triad personality What do you mean why? Some broad couldn't lock down Chad, so she finds a "safe bet" to settle down with, who will bail her out of her life mistakes, and because she isn't actually attracted to him, she will stop having sex with him within the first or second year of marriage. Go to /r/DeadBedrooms to see some of those sad stories.	/r/BlackPillScience	28/11/24 12:08 AM
9	Relationships between age of females and attraction to the Dark Triad personality It pisses me off some dude will marry one of those dark triad junkies (women) and fall into a dead bedroom situation very quick.	/r/BlackPillScience	27/11/24 06:09 AM
15	The results showed that only single women were more interested in pursuing an attached target rather than a single target. A couple of years ago I was in a relationship with a woman, I remember every time we went out there were other women flirting with me in front of her. It has to do with the fact that a taken man is more confident and carries himself better than a single man, but it also a matter that women can't help it, they have to have that taken man. They don't want the single guy with which they could start a relationship with, no, they want the other man, the man that is going to put her in second place, w…	/r/BlackPillScience	25/11/24 08:18 AM
7	Effect of manipulated prestige-car ownership on both sex attractiveness ratings There was an experiment where they showed random women on the street pictures of men in front of really fancy cars like Corvettes, Camaros, Ferrari, etc , and then another group of women they showed pictures of the same men in front of budget cars like Corollas, Sentras, etc. To the surprise of no one, the men received significantly higher ratings in the pictures in front of the expensive vehicles.	/r/BlackPillScience	19/11/24 01:19 PM
3	Do Women Prefer “Nice Guys”? The Effect of Male Dominance Behavior on Women's Ratings of Sexual Attractiveness Yeah. I don't know how they rationalize that. They deserve a gold medal for those mental gymnastics.	/r/BlackPillScience	19/11/24 01:12 PM
25	Do Women Prefer “Nice Guys”? The Effect of Male Dominance Behavior on Women's Ratings of Sexual Attractiveness Reminds of this tiktok where a woman was saying something like "yes, women love bad boys, but guess what, at the end of the day we marry nice guys, and that's why you are the real winners", lol she was trashed in the comment section.	/r/BlackPillScience	15/11/24 07:21 PM
5	A woman is more attracted to a man when she is uncertain about how much he likes her That's why they say women are like cats. A cat doesn't want to be chased after, grabbed, they want to be left alone, however when you least expect it they will come to you when you are not giving them attention. Anecdotes are not evidence, but I am certain most men have experienced what you described.	/r/BlackPillScience	07/11/24 05:05 AM
21	A woman is more attracted to a man when she is uncertain about how much he likes her That doesn't even make sense. A lot of things about women don't make sense. From an anecdotal standpoint the research is absolutely correct. Show too much interest and they will feel secure about you, therefore they stop putting effort. Act vague and only mildly interested and they will work overtime to secure you.	/r/BlackPillScience	06/11/24 03:53 PM
7	To young American women, access to abortion is a substantially more important societal concern than inflation, threats to democracy, and internal security. What a r-----ed comment.	/r/BlackPillScience	12/10/24 03:50 PM
–	More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series] Bro, you could have just said "it's all men's fault, and women are still disadvantaged" instead of typing all that wall of text. I think part of it also comes down to men can find a job that pays a livable wage by exchanging their bodies for money. Have you ever heard of something called prostitution? Women exchange their bodies for money, earning dozens of times more money than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 02:14 AM
–	More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series] There is a very popular saying when people talk about the US and China. In China you can't change the (political) party but you can change policy. In the US you can change the (political) party, but you can't change policy. Republicans and Democrats are two sides of the same coin. Doesn't matter which side you vote for, everything remains the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 02:08 AM
18	A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBP I remember asking this sub if women’s standards have gone up The biggest irony is that women rise their standards as their sexual market value declines, some of them believing they have more leverage in their 30s and 40s compared to when they were in their 20s. I leave it to the Wall to put them in their place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 04:19 AM
–	Trauma-Bonding is the most effective means of keeping a women's emotional investment in you There is a reason the phrase "treat them mean to keep them keen" exists. In my experience this is true. Not because I treat women awful, but because the few times I wasn't interested in a woman romantically, she was all over me trying to get my attention. Last time this happened was about a year ago, a married woman who I had met more than a decade ago was trying to get me to have an affair with her, she is pretty hot, but I am not into married women, and I don't need that kind of drama in my li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:28 PM
5	CMV: Males should stop walking away from marriage Males should steer away from marriage until there is marriage and divorce law reform. Current laws regarding marriage, divorce, alimony, child support, etc... were created in a different time when women were disadvantaged in society, that's no longer then case, laws should be changed to fit modern times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 03:28 AM
5	Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspective That must be the patriarchy pushing women out of education right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 05:56 PM
14	Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspective There were around 110 students in my senior year of high school, around 40 of those were women, of those 40 I know at least 20 who were dating older guys right out of high school. This older men young women type of relationships are often sought after by women, these relationships are not imposed by men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 04:09 PM
10	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? That happens all the time. Women always asking to check their partner's phone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 02:56 AM
17	Women complaining from not getting approached anymore 90s kid here, I also heard these points all the time. I kinda got tired of rejection, so I haven't really approached anyone in a while.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 02:44 PM
1	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? I know for sure I would not rape a woman, I have had that opportunity in the past. There was this woman, we liked each other, and one day she invited me to her apartment, she apparently had been drinking BEFORE I met her at her place, and she continued to drink with me when I got there, she was very intoxicated and I wasn't, at some point she passed out, and there was no way to wake her up. I carried her from the couch to her bedroom, I placed her in her bed and left, but before I left, I notifi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 06:20 AM
1	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends WTF? If Trump did this, the media would not stop talking about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 03:15 AM
3	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends Unfortunately for you, personality and good works are secondary to how you look and the size of your... tool. Humans are shallow, we get interested in the opposite sex by how they look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 02:47 AM
1	Q4M how often do you approach other men for conversation I strike conversation with someone who is equally outraged about something we both saw. Like for example a guy and I witnessed someone throw a pile of trash outside their car, or someone cutting lane at the super market. We would look at each other in disgust and then trash talk that person who made something disrespectful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 02:44 AM
2	For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past? Right - I think they are all telling on themselves for being ephebophiliacs This is a personal attack. However, there are lots of men in this thread arguing that sexual preferences do not change, so I am merely taking that argument to its logical conclusions. If it is true that sexual preferences do not change as they age, as many here are arguing, then it follows that an individual who is sexually attracted to teenagers while they themselves are a teen will be sexually attracted to teenagers th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 03:06 PM
2	For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past? Again, no one is talking about diddling kids. You want to conflate everything with pedophilia to attack the person, not the argument. That speaks more about you than it does about me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 02:44 PM
5	Being laid back and uninvested is not what makes men attractive, women are attracted to men who act like that because those men are already attractive Good bot	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 02:17 PM
-1	For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past? No one here was speaking about fucking teenagers until you brough it up. Women's response to an accusation... call the man a pedophile. You are so fucking lame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 02:13 PM
3	For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past? No one says woman can't do anything. You can do whatever you want, but you have to accept criticism or the consequences of your actions. I could stop taking showers but this will make people avoid me. Since I don't want that, I take showers regularly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 04:17 AM
4	For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past? Would 20 year old me agree with me? No. You settled. No man wants to be that guy whose wife wouldn't have dated him when she was young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 04:14 AM
1	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? This isn't the 1950s anymore, women have had plenty of opportunities for decades, surpassing men in number of college degrees per year, and even earning more than men in some cities. This isn't a case of "women can't work or vote therefore they have to seek older men to survive". You are moving the goal post from "they are barely children who don't know better" to "they are pressured by society and the economy". You can even find women well off financially who pursue wealthy men. why? why are yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 07:47 PM
1	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? what I believe is that making your own decisions and living life on your own terms Yeah and sometimes women make the decision to fuck or marry middle aged men, doesn't matter if it is for money, pleasure or love, it is their prerogative, and it doesn't necessarily mean they are being manipulated, abused, or taken advantage of. You can not infantilize women that want to get into these age gap relationships, they can consent to it, and if you believe they can't consent, then we should discuss what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:13 PM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? Reminds me of this. Cougars in the classroom: The alarming rate of teachers charged with raping young boys in America https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13326161/Cougars-classroom-alarming-rate-teachers-charged-raping-young-boys-America.html	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 05:52 PM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? At least you are honest. Most women swear their male friends wouldn't have sex with them given the chance. "We are just friends and he would never want to do that, I don't think he is ever gotten an erection around me, calm down"	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 05:23 PM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? You are exactly the type of woman I am talking about. The type of woman who sees absolutely nothing wrong with all the things I listed, but a young woman consciously entering in a romantic relationship or engage in no strings sttached sex with an older man is a huge deal. Sure, let 18 year olds risk their lives in the police, risk their lives in combat roles in the military, sign contracts most don't even read, sell sex on the streets or through the internet, post pictures of them having sex on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 04:45 PM
3	In experience, how do women act in the presence of an "Alpha" male? It's an f-ing beach, there was plenty of space for her to swim safely but your first thought was that she wanted to "figure out if it was safe to swim by him" rather than admit that women also desire men and at times they risk being creepy to get a good look at a handsome man. That's ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 02:25 PM
–	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? I was merely giving an example of women infantilizing other women. The idea that an 18 year old woman can consent to get into crippling debt, join any branch of the armed forces, prostitute herself, open an onlyfans, sign legal contracts, etc... and all of these things are generally perceived as empowering, but that same woman has sex or marries an older man and she is suddenly a child who doesn't know better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 02:10 PM
2	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? Went straight to name calling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 03:11 AM
1	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? The women who claim an 18 year old woman with a 30 year old man means she is being manipulated and abused. You see these types of comments all the time in PPD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 02:40 AM
9	Being the safe and secure option isn't worth it most of the time Women are loyal to wife beaters and cheat on the safe guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 04:10 PM
-2	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men If I am honest with you, I am fine with men being drafted, but I would not like women be drafted. I have no grievances about the draft, men are simply better fighters than women are, war is something that has to be done sometimes, and it is for the best of everyone that men do such a thing. I do not oppose women joining non-fighting roles in the armed forces though. My grievances start the moment society becomes gynocentric at the expense of men, you see, there was a time where men had to face m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 12:24 AM
5	Just like #badboy fantasy is a fixation for (some) women, it has it's equivalent among (some) men: The hot, damaged/dangerous woman who is a livewire, mercurial, neurotic but also very pretty. I dated a woman like this briefly, it always ends horrible. There was the opportunity to date her again years later but thank god I refused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 10:52 PM
-1	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men Feminists overwhelmingly support abolishing the draft altogether Women would rather have no one drafted than women being drafted along with men. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 09:15 PM
6	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men It is a form of discrimination because you can legally force a man to be a parent, or at least force him to be financially responsible for a child he doesn't want, but you can't force a woman to have a baby she doesn't want. Both should be able to "abort" or neither should be able to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 09:11 PM
12	Misogyny is treated as a descriptor for men, and is treated as an illness for women. So a female simp basically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 09:00 PM
4	“Women aren’t a monolith” vs “Not all men” Dr. Jordan Peterson has spoken about this extensively. To summarize, Women do not have the physical capacity or skill to enact physical violence as good as men, so they engage in gossiping, reputation destruction, insults, false accusations, etc. Men do not engage in gossiping, reputation destruction, insults, false accusations, etc as much as women, because they know their biggest tool to inflict violence is physical violence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 07:06 PM
2	“Women aren’t a monolith” vs “Not all men” Most women won’t outright say misandry doesn’t exist (cause that in itself can seem misandrist), they just create an excuse why body shaming, death threats against men, etc. aren’t actually misandry. Reminds me of "Black people can't be racist", or the "women can't be sexist".	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 06:53 PM
–	What would you do in this situation? Yeah, I thought so. Mature men is what's left for mature women since young men are not lining up to wife up mature women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 04:35 AM
1	Would you allow your daughter to go to college? I would support almost whatever decision she takes in regards to her future. If she wants to go to college that's fine, if she doesn't want to go to college because she wants a different career that's also fine, maybe she wants to start her own business at home that's fine too. My absolute no would be any career where she has to post her body on social media, where she has to take her clothes off, etc... basically anything sex related, or onlyfans related is a no go from me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 04:44 PM
3	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires Yep, my advances and flirt attemps would be rejected by most women, and I would be called a creep, the same behaviour displayed by someone like Henry Cavil, or Denzel Washington would be considered sexy, confident and bold.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 04:18 PM
–	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? Bro,it is already awful to get rejected in front of one or two people at any other venue, now imagine being rejected in front of two dozen women. That's gotta be brutal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 03:51 PM
1	What would you do in this situation? Can you give examples of manipulation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 07:32 AM
2	What would you do in this situation? If it's legal she can consent and if she can consent it's not morally wrong to have casual sex with her. I keep hearing this opinion about older man younger women relationships. It seems like some women see it A ok for an older man to have sex with an 18 year old woman, but then they lose their shit if said man wanted to marry that woman. Crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 07:30 AM
9	Men, what negative dating/relationship experiences have you personally had with women? The comments from women on that thread make me want to punch a wall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 07:25 AM
3	Most "nice guys" drop clear signs that they like you, women just play dumb and pretend its him just joking And then the woman runs to /r/PurplePillDebate and creates a post titled "My guy friend vanished after I rejected his romantic advances". lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 07:10 AM
-1	Most "nice guys" drop clear signs that they like you, women just play dumb and pretend its him just joking If you know he wants more than friendship (women usually know) and you still keep him around that's called "leading him on". Do not accept the dinner invitations, do not accept invitations to get drinks, do not accept gifts, do not ask for favors, etc... simply reject him so he can move on and find someone who will consider a relationship with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 07:07 AM
6	Most "nice guys" drop clear signs that they like you, women just play dumb and pretend its him just joking Most women drop clear signs that they don’t like them, most “nice guys” are too oblivious or delusional to take note. Women are not exactly known for being direct. What they consider clear signs are just hints that they expect men to catch on. Spoiler alert, a lot of men don't do not catch indirect messages specially if their judgement is impaired by the sight of the woman they like. For example, if a woman reacts to your flirting by calling you her “friend” or pretending you’re joking, she does…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 07:01 AM
1	Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date? "Use The Force". I am now happily married, but when I was single (a fresh divorcee in my early 30's) after realizing this, for a very long time I only dated casually, hooking up, and - my favorite - FWBs. I had a few "friends" who would come over and fuck right before a date with some guy. Or they would come over after their date. I have avoided casual sex for a couple of years now for several reasons. I am in college, I am paying a car, and a mortgage, among other expenses, and I don't have mon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 02:13 AM
24	If women are hypergamous by nature, then why are there so many women in society who do not 'Date Up' I'm dating a woman who is slightly older than me by 2 years, but makes much more money than me, owns her own home (I do not), is college educated, and has a large social circle compared to my small circle of friends. Why has this girl chosen to date me if women are hypergamous? Is it solely because I may be marginally more attractive than her on a looks scale? Why is she dating a low income earner with low status when her ex boyfriend was a high income earner and good networker? She is independe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 05:33 AM
–	Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date? There are countless other ways a woman can show attraction without taking her clothes off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 05:26 AM
10	Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date? I remember a thread a while back where women were defending this argument "I like you so much that I am not going to have sex with you right away like I do with guys for whom I don't care". They were confronted and explained why such an argument is NOT a compliment in men's head, but they couldn't understand why that was more of an insult than it was a compliment. They kept insisting that giving one night stands to men they didn't care about and then making the man they care about wait for sex w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 05:20 AM
1	It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test. Paternity testing is not a subject worth discussing with women, they can't relate to this issue, because they would never face this issue. Women value their ego more than they do a relationship, the father of their children. My only advice for men is this, discuss paternity tests early in the relationship, if she doesn't explicitly agree to it, then she is secretly disagreeing with it, and it's time to just move on without her. Down the line that's gonna be a huge problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 12:09 AM
1	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. The sense of self-preservation is stronger in most of the cases. Would I risk getting shot or stabbed because some guy is forcefully stealing a random woman's phone? Of course not. Would I step in and risk my life to stop a stranger from killing my sister? Absolutely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:48 AM
2	Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service? As a man, I become a dry texter the moment I receive too many short answers to my questions. "So what did you study in college and why did you pick that career path" "Finances, I like it" "How many siblings do you have, and how often do you see them?" "2 siblings, not that often" When a woman's responses are short, and she doesn't elaborate further, then I lose all interest. I mean ffs we are in this app to get to know people, make an effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:41 AM
16	Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service? A youtuber called Anna Akana said exactly the same thing. She made a video about her experience dating women. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4E8qEDi_xg	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:32 AM
1	Q4M: Do you find it sexist when people say "Man up!"? Someone said the following like a year ago in this sub. Men's gender roles are static, a man always has to be strong, decisive, confident, etc, he has to pull out the trash bags, carry heavy things, and face dangers.... but then women's gender roles are variable according to what benefits them the most at any moment, so for example, at one moment a woman will say she is strong and independent, that she is as able as a man to do any job.... but then she is given a task that she considers too dang…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 10:06 PM
2	Single men of PPD, would you be down to try an arranged relationship with the purpose of marriage? Interesting, I didn't know this was a thing in Uzbekistan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 02:36 AM
-4	Single men of PPD, would you be down to try an arranged relationship with the purpose of marriage? How about this. An arranged relationship between a working man a woman from a poor family. You can't tell me she is not benefiting from that relationship, and he is now forced to share his resources. It really sucks a lot of people think that only men benefit from a relationship or that relationships often come to the detriment of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 06:35 PM
3	Single men of PPD, would you be down to try an arranged relationship with the purpose of marriage? I never said arranged marriage, I said arranged relationship with the purpose of marriage, what I meant was, two consenting adults are arranged a relationship, and they try to make such relationship work, if it works, great, they get married and have kids, but if they couldn't make it work, then they can split apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 06:21 PM
2	Single men of PPD, would you be down to try an arranged relationship with the purpose of marriage? Look I conjured my post in like 10 seconds after pulling a booger out of my nose, so of course the OP wasn't refined. But if something like this were to happen, of course it could be something like a 30 day trial where both parties see each other constantly and do certain things like a normal couples would, like grocery shopping, attend each other's family gatterings like a couple, go out on dates, etc. They don't have to move in together immediately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 06:12 PM
1	Single men of PPD, would you be down to try an arranged relationship with the purpose of marriage? Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 06:08 PM
-2	Single men of PPD, would you be down to try an arranged relationship with the purpose of marriage? I meant nothing was one sided and forced By one sided and forced you mean "one sided in favor of the man and forced upon the woman", but I ask you, why do you see it that way? Why don't you see arranged marriages as forced upon men, or one sided in favor of women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 06:06 PM
1	Single men of PPD, would you be down to try an arranged relationship with the purpose of marriage? I have never seen the Black Mirror tv show. Can you link to that Episode in particular so I can watch it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 05:23 PM
0	Single men of PPD, would you be down to try an arranged relationship with the purpose of marriage? If both parties were open to the idea I think that's implied by the OP. Everything is consensual. There is no expectation of sex inmediatedly after they move into a place together, but there is an expectation of both parties putting in effort to make things work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 05:22 PM
–	The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be there Experienced that once too. This woman would do anything I wanted in bed and treat me like a king. Once you experience that, you notice how little effort and interest women have for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 04:52 PM
1	Do you guys actually have female friends? Only one, but I try to keep my distance because she has a partner. There are boundaries, and we don't ask each other favors, or hang out 1-on-1, rarely do we have long conversations on the phone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 06:27 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? It is more a matter of perspective. You choose to look at it from the point of view "I forfeit my independence, I forfeit my capacity to make serious decisions, I forfeit my freedom, etc", but you never really stop to think that providing for a family is a huge responsibility, you have to make sure the mortgage is paid, the car is paid, taxes are paid, you have to pay health care for the whole family, and if you don't ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 06:22 PM
1	The moment a guy finds out a kid isn't his, he should be able to waive all paternal responsibilities Just go your own way You can't do that anymore without them getting mad at you either. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/aug/26/men-going-their-own-way-the-toxic-male-separatist-movement-that-is-now-mainstream https://www.adl.org/resources/blog/men-going-their-own-way-mgtow-what-you-need-know https://theconversation.com/why-we-need-to-approach-masculinism-as-a-terrorist-threat-qanda-with-stephanie-lamy-233257 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRjW4CzNdlA So basically, if you want to st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 04:04 PM
5	The moment a guy finds out a kid isn't his, he should be able to waive all paternal responsibilities It makes sense for a man to abandon a family that isn't his, because he can now build a new relationship and have a kid of his own blood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 06:09 PM
13	The moment a guy finds out a kid isn't his, he should be able to waive all paternal responsibilities Paternity fraud is unique in that it only affects one sex, hence why the other sex doesn't give a shit about it. If there was an epidemic of baby swapping in hospitals, trust me women would be up in arms demanding maternity tests before they walk out of the hospital.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 06:01 PM
3	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity Women don't seem aware that they shape the acceptable male behaviour in dating. "I hate toxic masculinity" meets a respectful man who is not arrogant or a misogynist "boooooring" Like I said before, women say they want one thing, but they respond to another thing. Thus men have to act according to what gives women the tingle, which is usually toxic behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 07:18 PM
1	CMV: The women on Bear Grylls' The Island would have created a better place to live than the males' island I looked up "Expeditie Robinson men vs women" and I found the episode where they send one man to help the group of women on the other island... long story short, they treat him as a slave and exploit him while they sun bath and talk nonsense. Par for the course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 07:02 PM
1	CMV: The women on Bear Grylls' The Island would have created a better place to live than the males' island Same but with good comedy and bad weather.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 06:11 PM
1	Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs? Have you told your husband you lost your V card to your male friend, and that you guys had sex a couple of times in the past?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 04:34 PM
1	Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs? Most women will assure that yes, but most men will say the opposite. But that is because men are usually the pursuers, and women reject them and put them in the friend zome. They don't see anything wrong having a guy that likes them around, men do have a problem with their gf/wife having a friend who would like to bang their gf/wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 04:31 PM
2	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating Plenty of red pill guys think it’s soooo unfair that women sleep with who they want and they should only be allowed to sleep with men exactly as attractive (or less) than them. They feel there is a great injustice unfolding and women are experiencing hoeflation by getting men they shouldn’t be allowed to get. Enforced monogamy being one solution they offer. A man that thinks like that, is definitely not red pilled. The red pill specifically tells men the world is not fair so there is no point to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 10:30 PM
5	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating It's called attraction, bro, don't overthink it. He only manipulated them to get money from them, but the only thing that kept the women there was their attraction for him. If they weren't attracted to him, they would have swiped left (dislike) and they would have never met, but every single one of those women swiped right on the guy. They have agency, no need to infantilize adult women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 10:12 PM
5	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating Stop infantilizing women. Women can feel attraction to someone even if they know it is not good for them. They have agency, but you act like women don't know any better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 10:01 PM
1	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating Young women don’t actually want dark triad traits I guess it is just a coincidence that guys with dark triad behaviour get the most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 09:57 PM
11	There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for dating There are the things that women say they want, and then there are the things they respond to. This is why people (women included) say women don't know what they want. So when women give men advice, they are giving him advice that doesn't work really. This is why as a man it is best to ask other men for advice, not women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 09:46 PM
-3	The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attraction There are a lot of wackos out there who would not hesitate to stab a woman who rejects them, so women being polite is their way to protect themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 04:03 AM
24	The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attraction This hurts to read because it's true. You know what else hurts, to know a woman will reminisce of an abuser who managed to give her the tingles, than a nice guy who bored her to death. Stay toxic fellas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 04:00 AM
1	Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy. in my progressive city, women don’t expect that at all I don't think so. You would need to conduct a survey in your city to know the expectations women have for the first date. Dating in relationships is "pay to play" for most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 11:34 PM
1	Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy. Men exploit women, and women exploit men, an open secret.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 02:20 PM
9	Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy. It's true that men don't have to pay a woman's meal, but we have to if we want to get a chance to get a girlfriend, or simply get laid. Most women won't date or screw a man who won't "put out" financially. It's like women don't have to have sex with a man, but most men will stop chasing a woman, and stop investing in dates, gifts and other shit if he is not getting laid. There are thing that you must force yourself to do, even if you don't like them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 06:27 AM
1	Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them? True but in order not to be a sex object they would have to revert to more traditional lifestyles, like dress more modest, cover their bodies, not have drinks at bars, not have casual sex, etc. But are women doing these things? No. Therefore they are making themselves sex objects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 05:54 PM
3	Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them? I was not making the point that men are superior to women, I was actually making the point that some traits are superior to others. Being tall is objectively superior to being short. Being strong is superior to being weak. Being intelligent is superior to being dumb. Having money is superior to being broke. Perhaps I didn't word my comment properly, but I never said men are superior to women, we are complementary to each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 05:47 PM
2	Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them? If being taller isn't "superior", why do women want taller men? Any human trait that is highly sought after is inherently better. Women don't fight over short men, small dick men, broke men or weak men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 07:56 AM
1	Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them? That's right. No ship has two captains..	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 07:52 AM
1	Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them? They're refusing to be sex objects and being successful at doing so. Phenomenally successful. How? Women are showing their bodies online and having no strings attached sex like never before. They in fact act like sex objects. For me it's not that women are no longer sex objects, it is the perception that is changing. The notion that women can have casual sex is no longer perceived negatively as it was 50 years ago. That women can dress with very little or very tight garments is much more accepte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 07:49 AM
9	Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them? It feels like equality doesn't work because of hypergamy. How can you want something equal but also superior at the same time. It is contradictory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 07:41 AM
1	People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselves Why is that shitty? Care yo explain?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 06:41 PM
1	People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselves How old are you? In my age group, people have stopped caring about whether their friend is a cheater unless they have a personal reason to care. I know you didn't ask me, but I wanted to give my perspective. I am early thirties. My personal opinion is, at some point you gotta stop caring about people's problems and focus on your own problems, focus on your own life. Everyone has their own problems, and it is a waste of time to care who your friend screws behind their partner's back. I wish my fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 06:39 PM
10	There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD Same vibes as a rich person saying "money doesn't give happiness".	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 04:16 PM
5	There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD I think another big reason is that it just makes a guy seem really pathetic and they don't want to date a loser who had to pay for sex. Agree. Here is the thing thou, women shame men who can't get laid (Incel hahah!!!), but then also shame men who can get sex, albeit paying for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 04:10 PM
1	Why do women generally view sugar daddies less creepily than older men dating and marrying younger women young women dating broke old men, that I have a problem with I agree and my reasoning for this is. What benefit is that young woman getting from that old man? He is broke, has no education, a minimum wage job, he is in debt, he is probably out of shape, etc. She could do better. And I feel exactly the same way when I see a young man dating a single mother, or dating a mature woman. He could also do better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/23 07:13 PM