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u/Key_Operation7403 your comment was auto-removed No, I am not a misogynist, or at least I try not to be. I can say with near 100% certainty I've never upvoted a "women are trash" comment. If you are wondering why I'm commenting in a male rights subreddit, it's because I'm trying to navigate a unique set of life circumstances and make the world around me a little better and honestly it's pretty tricky I'm guessing there's a transmed group chat of some sort putting a lot eyes on me right now. Can…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/26 08:54 AM
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I agree with basically everything mainstream feminists believe besides the parts like “prejudice against males doesn’t exist/doesn’t matter/isn’t institutional”. That’s just factually untrue and I think they’ll figure it out at some point but sure is taking a while. Probably having to do with a lack of compassion for half the population
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/26 06:50 AM
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I always understood misogyny to mean the negative ideas that people have about women, and the unfair effects those ideas cause for many people. I always thought it was a worthwhile pursuit to be on guard against these ideas because we are all conditioned to have them and they do obviously cause some serious harm. Naturally, then, I thought misandry would mean the negative ideas we have about men/males, which we are also conditioned to have and which also cause harm? Noooo. I’ve been screamed at …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/26 04:20 PM
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Maybe you’re right but that’s not what she said. I’m going off what she said. There are commenters saying “yes we should literally do that”, are they just fooling around too? It’s not the most radical thing I’ve heard a radfem say.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 10:08 PM
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Everyone collectively shrugging their shoulders at the involuntary male genital cutting that goes on our society is a great example of this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 05:52 PM
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I’ve seen too many people seriously advocating similar ideas to believe that. Does this sound like satire to you? These are just a few of my ideas. You know, off the top of my head, these interventions sound harsh only because we're not used to restricting men's autonomy the way that we restrict women's. It is high time we start viewing men as potential risks to society that require supervision. The truth is simple and deeply uncomfortable. Our social crises are not caused by women having too mu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 05:29 PM
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I found the transcript using youtubetotranscript. I don’t recommend watching the whole video mostly because it’s boring and she spends the majority of it saying nothing new or stimulating, it’s just entry-level feminism. It does get pretty weird towards the end though, so if you want to hear what she wants for society I’d start here. Let's start with reproduction. Mandatory vasectomies at age 18 subject to reversal upon the completion of a criminal background check, financial review, completion …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 05:10 PM
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The way people think about penises and foreskin is incredibly misandrist, it’s what led me here in the first place. “It’s gross” - “it’s ugly” - “it’s useless” - “cutting it off is harmless, you’re doing them a favor” The things that people think and openly say about a natural part of the human body are unreal. Imagine people saying this shit about labia minora in the year 2026. When doctors or authorities in America talk about this topic they never associate harm with removing this part of the …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 11:04 PM
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Maybe in 50 years long after the rest of the world (sans some religious parts) had moved on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 11:01 PM
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I’m still just not seeing your point of view on this, could you elaborate? It’s not a good sign if many of the same people who used to say “omg shut up MRA” are now starting to say they see some of the points as reasonable?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/26 06:30 PM
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Fascinating. So do these top comments qualify to you as misandrist or what: we should stop saying small dick energy we should stop saying small dick energy (again) it’s odd that body shaming men is considered acceptable (some sub-responses go into detail that it is in fact wrong) body shaming men is gross to watch “Gotta stop making jokes about physical features of anyone we don't agree with” “men using the word females pisses me off” body shaming men is hypocritical I guess you didn’t spend muc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/26 04:21 AM
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Did you check out the link I sent? Do you think the misandry in there is worse than it was 5 or 10 years ago?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 10:19 PM
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Exhibit A: https://archive.ph/ix0Q1 These comments would not have been popular five years ago. It is the right that is a lost cause for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 09:31 PM
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I don’t think so. I’m seeing a definite shift in queer and woke groups. People are noticing the patterns more and more, talking about them, sometimes even using the infamous m-word, and they’re not being told to stfu so often. I used to be a doomer too but my view of the future on the left is quite optimistic now. If I may make a bold prediction, 10 years from now you will see people in progressive groups openly talking about misogyny and misandry in the same way as if it’s obvious communal know…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 08:46 PM
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If someone clowned on a fascist for getting their legs extended or a cosmetic jaw expansion that ended up looking uncanny I’d be okay with that. It’s still kinda problematic, I accept that, but not nearly as bad as making fun of inherent traits.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 08:42 PM
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No answer? Either you’re fine with sexist body shaming (a failure as a progressive) or you’re fine exclusively with sexism that harms males (a failure as a progressive and as a LWMA and I’m not sure why you’re even here). Or maybe you’re just not progressive. I’m dying to know which one it is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 01:55 PM
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Are you cool with misogynistic public body shaming comments? That’s really all I need to know.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 01:11 PM
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Oh yeah, being against misandrist, public body shaming is “defending nazis”. This comment was totally made in good faith. If Newsom made a misogynistic comment about the WH press secretary’s body would you consider that acceptable? Or are you going to defend nazis? I think you’re likely still completely missing the point and applying your values differently depending on the sex of the people being hurt.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 12:57 PM
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Super weird thing to say with zero explanation and just leave. I would really like to know what they’re thinking
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 10:59 PM
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Are you saying the situation is getting bad enough in other areas that you no longer consider any male issues a priority? My response would be that creating an environment where men/boys feel safe, welcome, heard, and understood in left-leaning groups - convincing them that the left has compassion for them and wants to improve their wellbeing - eliminate bigotry against them and give them equal protection under the law where it doesn’t currently exist - is essential in getting more of them to su…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 05:15 PM
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“I don’t mean ALL women” “I don’t mean ALL black people” It’s supposed to be a get-out-of-jail-free card for bigoted statements. Rather than tone down the rhetoric some people would rather keep the bigotry and argue, no, it’s your problem for being upset by the statement I just made about you.
/r/MensRights21/12/25 10:16 PM
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You should stop spending time in toxic spaces where people say bigoted things about large groups of people. Many ‘incels’/misogynists feel the same way about women. Of course they do, they spend all their time hanging out with misogynists.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 10:05 PM
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Which is a good thing. It’s nice that the reality of it hasn’t been totally sanitized, at least in the language we use.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/25 11:13 PM
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That’s exactly the way I feel. I envision a world where, hopefully, maybe 20 years from now the average ‘progressive’ thinks more like I do. Many progressives now have ideas that really belong in a conservative, and they don’t care to improve because - just like a conservative - they really don’t give a fuck about any value so long as the right people are getting hurt.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/25 10:46 PM
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No, see, she’s not body shaming him. She’s shaming him by calling him insecure about a feature that’s generally considered unattractive - which is a character failure on his part, it’s his fault that he hasn’t gotten over that insecurity. Instead of saying “haha you’re ”, you say “haha you can’t stand the fact that you’re ”, which makes it woke. It’s a clever workaround, do note that it only works on guys though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/25 04:14 PM
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It should be obvious, if you spend any amount of time thinking about it and you’re also being honest, that men and women both create and enforce the social environment we operate in. And that environment carries a lot of baggage that seriously harms women, and also seriously harms men. My mom is the one who decided part of my genitalia should be chopped off for no good reason and feminists will insist there’s nothing worth examining there. It’s absurd.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/25 05:00 AM
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They won’t end. These people are deranged bigots and need to be handled like all the other deranged bigots.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/09/25 07:39 PM
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I’ll never give two shits about any kind of sexism men think they experience - someone whose genitals probably weren’t cut up at birth
/r/EverydayMisandry31/08/25 04:33 PM
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Welcome to politics. Do you think a guy like Gavin Newsom was ever genuinely feminist either?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/25 05:39 PM
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You might be surprised. Not saying he thinks like this (I have no idea), but I’ve talked to some people who have the attitude “anything accepted by society is moral”. Some doctors who say - sure, if I lived in a culture that practiced it, I would perform FGM. Moral relativism is some crazy shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/25 01:32 PM
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In your view, what is a predominately male issue that doesn’t come off as “an extreme nothing burger”? What would you prefer to lead with? Genital cutting not being taken seriously is far from unique among male issues. (And I don’t think male suicide would fare much better) When it comes to individual activists, I say just let people talk about what they’re passionate about, maybe what’s harmed them personally. Whatever sticks sticks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/25 07:37 PM
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If you don’t want to cut your children don’t cut them, if you do want to cut your children then do it. Really insightful stuff, thanks Tom. Yall are really worked up about what other people do. Gee I wonder why. After finishing the video I don’t think it’s right to characterize him as “neutral on circumcision”. He seems pretty firmly opposed to genital autonomy advocacy and the ideal of genital autonomy in general, so pro-status quo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/25 01:57 PM
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I also identify as a male because I have male parts. That’s about it. I present myself as towards the masculine side of the spectrum because I’ve always done that and it’s easy to do, but I don’t really care about gender at all, and I don’t really feel comfortable calling myself a “man”. Sometimes I “act like a woman” and I’m cool with that. Trying to “be a better man” is something I have no interest in doing. I want to be a better person. I also prefer if I don’t have to deal with lopsided gend…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/25 03:15 PM
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Reintegration? Progressive culture has always been sexist. It’s more unfiltered now, but that seems true of basically anything. We’re talking about a group of people who define themselves as having a strong moral compass - thoughtful and critical of tradition - endeavoring for equality and stronger protections for human rights - and yet, in the same Western societies where these people live and operate, child genital cutting traditions are enacted en masse for decades, affecting mostly males, an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/25 03:02 PM
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I understand he’s proud of himself for bringing about the “groomer” discourse that’s used by liberty-allergic conservative to vilify LGBT+ people and reverse course on the trend of accepting kids for who they are. He and his peers would like a return to the kind of environment I grew up in and was harmed by, where only “regular” people are welcome to express their gender or sexuality in public, while “irregularities” must be kept hidden for fear that homosexuality or gender nonconformance will “…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/25 06:10 PM
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I do not, sadly. English speaker in the US. My initial comment was a little too America-centric, sometimes I forget there are more reasonable parts of the world where perhaps there’s good discussion to be had on both sides. Anyone who hitches themself to the right wing here, as it exists today, would be hard pressed to defend their position in a way I imagine most of us would find reasonable. They’re almost all either evil, unserious, self-absorbed, or want to organize society around a religion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/25 01:53 PM
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Well, I did say “usually”. I understand not every serious right winger is evil, self-interested, or advocating for a supernatural being. I don’t know of any, but if you have any recommendations for someone I would benefit from listening to (someone active today) I’ll check them out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/25 12:44 PM
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I have not become more sympathetic to right wing ideas. Any right wing messaging that sounds appealing is usually just a cynical attempt to manipulate people to their side - there’s no real good will behind it. What has changed is I’m now a lot less charitable towards many “progressives”. I’ve realized that many on the left are about as awful, fundamentally, as their conservative counterparts - they participate in left wing politics for personal gain only, or to fit in with the crowd, not for an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/25 03:50 AM
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Yep. They define a pinprick as mutilation, but cutting out the frenulum (a major erogenous zone) for no other reason than “I felt like it” isn’t. It’d be funny if it wasn’t so horrific.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/25 08:38 PM
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This reminds me of when I hung out in feminist spaces years ago. When someone would bring up western genital cutting traditions, so many feminists would say things like “it’s not comparable to FGM in the slightest, FGM is actually harmful whereas the male cutting traditions are basically benign, even calling it MGM is problematic because it downplays FGM, it’s incredibly problematic when men try to hijack our platform to talk about circumcision, it’s misogynistic when people use the term female …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 08:13 PM
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The female homologue to the foreskin is the clitoral hood, so removal of the foreskin can be directly compared to clitoral hoodectomy, classified as FGM Type Ia. Far less harmful procedures (like pinpricks) are also classified as FGM. We all start as female in the womb. When the developing fetus is exposed to androgens, female organs morph and change shape and the clitoral hood becomes a foreskin, at which point it becomes legal and socially accepted to mutilate it. Fundamentally the same struct…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/24 10:46 PM
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Ok, I think there’s a difference in language here that was tripping me up. I’m not sexually interested in a foot, but at the same time I wouldn’t say I’m repulsed or that I find feet repulsive. They’re just feet, in the same way an elbow is just an elbow. This is the same way my partner has described to me seeing female sex characteristics.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 11:06 AM
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I haven’t seen the studies you’re speaking of so I’ll shut up until I have. But you’re saying my gay partner who is only sexually interested in men (to clarify: males), but is not distinctly repulsed by female sex characteristics, is therefore not homosexual but in fact bisexual?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 10:50 AM
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Some puzzling statements here so I feel the need to push back a little… They are also the only sexuality that is repulsed by female sex characteristics. This is not a requirement of homosexuality, many gay men simply aren’t interested rather than being “repulsed”. Homosexual men are the true sexual minority on the planet ??? Our struggles are very specific and they only pertain to us. There are indeed some struggles specific to gay men. Others are shared and you can find some overlap and common …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 10:35 AM
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What days were those?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/24 02:09 PM
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The mean age of woman respondents in the Gleason, Vencill, and Sprankle article (where bi men were rated as much less attractive and dateable) was actually 21. Old conservatives and young progressives being somewhat unified on this isn’t really surprising, I think. A toxic view of bisexual/gay men stems from toxic views and expectations of men in general, and mainstream progressive circles have hardly challenged anyone on those core ideas. Some work has been done, but the progressive preference …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/24 01:17 PM
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I think there’s much more of an avenue to tackle the genital mutilation issue via Democrats than via Republicans. I care more about that than almost anything else. Republicans closely guard tradition and “parental freedom” and generally just don’t really care about human rights. Democrats are mostly just ignorant. Both sides are misandrist but that’s much more likely to change on the left.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/24 10:43 PM
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I hear she also has an IQ under 200… yeah, her and virtually everyone else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/24 10:38 PM
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I subscribed to this sub for a short time until the topic of male genital cutting came up and I realized exactly what sort of people I was dealing with... here are a couple of screenshots https://imgur.com/a/QR8VwkE
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/24 10:07 PM
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Yeah, transmisogyny certainly exists. And not just the direct kind like your beauty standards example, there’s even some truth to the mainstream idea that hatred of trans women stems from misogyny, and that people see trans women as “lowering” themselves by rejecting manhood. But misandry is the larger piece of the puzzle, and most progressives miss it because they simply refuse to look there. Trans women suffer for it, everyone suffers for it. Hopefully the left begins to understand in our life…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/24 06:46 PM
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You’re right, but misandry (as in anti-male bias) as a source of problems doesn’t play well with the dominant progressive worldview. Men rule the world -> men are the source of problems for both men and women -> men are perpetrators, and women are victims. (It’s worth pointing out here that to most people, including most progressives still, men is basically a synonym for males and women for females). Under this worldview, to claim a group of women is oppressing a group of penis owners on the bas…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/24 06:03 PM
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For those unaware, the Reddit content policy prohibits hateful and violent comments toward marginalized or vulnerable groups. Males are not considered marginalized or vulnerable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 08:13 PM
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Society has always been deeply bigoted against both men and women. People have been hard at work getting rid of the misogyny, leaving only the misandry in a lot of areas. Also, I think people are addicted to hate, so if there are only a few groups left people are allowed to hate those groups are going to get dogpiled.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 01:40 PM
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"of course the main goal here is women's welfare, but this particular thing hurts women by hurting men so it's ok to talk about it" Hopefully this kind of thing is realpolitik on the part of the authors. If a men’s issue hurts women, the incentive to address it is far greater, and of course it makes it possible/popular to discuss the issue in many circles where it wouldn’t be otherwise. The practical upside to pursuing that angle to male rights greatly outweighs the downside, imo. It’s been my h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/24 07:13 PM
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