lafolieraisonnante Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Married when he had nothing I met my husband in high school, he proposed to me when we were in college when neither of us were "established" yet. Throughout our entire relationship, he had very strong work ethic and always set goals for himself, it set him apart from the other guys in our age range/peer group who only seemed to be interested in partying. It was one of the things about him that caught my interest immediately. He has accomplished a lot since then and has made major headway in his career, I am always impresse…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/06/17 01:53 PM
1	What is your story? Something else. I stumbled into the MRA community first while looking into the treatment of fathers in the family court system. I'm a child of divorce. I eventually went on to discover TRP because of this. I got more into the RP community the more that I read and familiarized myself with the different resources and communities, there was so much truth that I recognized based on my own childhood experiences and beyond. My mother cheated on my dad, left him and abandoned my brother and I, but the …	/r/askTRP	31/05/17 10:44 AM
2	How to Handle My Marital Problem the RPW Way? Sure, it's possible for a wife to bring out the worst of her husband instead of best of him. Unless you are physically attacking him and he needs to defend himself against you, there is still NO excuse or justification for violence. When it comes to the business disagreements that you explained, those types of things can be resolved with communication and effort from both sides in a relationship. Although I'd argue that your dedication to your husband in financially supporting him and then movin…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/05/17 09:50 AM
22	How to Handle My Marital Problem the RPW Way? Then he would call me names and hit me for talking back to him...His love is something you would call tough love. This behavior is not "tough love", or anything I would put alongside or including the word "love." My first reaction to this is to be absolutely disgusted. No one deserves to be treated like that in a relationship, no matter what the reason. I think you might be hard pressed to find anybody willing to give you an "RPW way" to handle this situation in this community, because you are d…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/17 10:13 PM
1	how long is 'too long' to wait to have sex? I met my husband in high school when we were both 16. We had a very honest and open discussion about entering an exclusive, committed relationship before our third date. Our first kiss happened on that date. Then, sex didn't come until 6 months later. Before and throughout the relationship, we had many conversations about sex, both of us were virgins and relayed to each other how important taking that step would be, and how neither of us took it lightly. Both us were clear that we were only inte…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/17 05:38 AM
9	Balance Male and female nature is very different, often opposite. This need not be opposing. When we work smart, we can maximize our positive contributions to the marriage while compensating for each other's shortfalls. This is how we achieve harmony in the home. I love this! This is the sentiment I've used to get across to my more feminist-leaning friends/family members who seem to think that my RPW-inspired value system is creating an inequality in my marriage. I think it has made it stronger. Thank y…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/17 11:06 PM
1	What do you as women feel you offer a relationship? The issue here is that you still haven't explained why I'm so incorrect in my point that the feminine identity we all try to emphasize and strengthen in this community is already in itself based on what we can do as women to prioritize our significant others and support them. No one is perfect of course, that understanding is why I'm here at least, but you ARE essentially freezing me out by basically only responding that my questions or points are "absurd" and not going into any more detail besi…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/17 09:19 PM
1	What do you as women feel you offer a relationship? This is the internet and we're discussing a topic that we clearly have disagreements about. I have no expectation regardless that you will act in a way that I find "pleasing". I'm a little puzzled that you're having such a strong reaction when I all I did was ask a couple of benign questions, and try to bring some light as to what many women here consider part of their feminine identity, and how that identity allows for them to provide utilities in relationships that go far beyond just "being ni…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/17 09:08 PM
1	What do you as women feel you offer a relationship? How am I shaming you? I don't think you've done anything shameful. I'm honestly just confused by you. I don't see how we've come to an impasse when you still have yet to address anything I have brought up. You shut down the discussion before it even started. I read all of your comments here, I even mentioned some of them in my own comments, because based on your comments I still have questions. And you still just haven't even addressed what I've said. This is an anonymous forum, why on Earth wou…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/17 08:47 PM
3	What do you as women feel you offer a relationship? Well, it's your right to reply or not reply, but I'm still left with a lot of curiosity as to your intentions of posting something like this, in RPW nonetheless, and then writing off responses you don't like as "absurd" without offering any insight as to why you think they're absurd or bothering to address anything that is brought up. It's just kind of weird.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/17 08:39 PM
2	What do you as women feel you offer a relationship? I'm asking you straight up because on the internet, it is easy to misinterpret tone or make an assumption about what someone is trying to say based on emotional differences. To me, based on your language, it seems like you are framing it as a negative thing. If I'm incorrect, well, I DID try to just ask you first. My point is that the traditional feminine identity, in itself, is already based on the notion that women can and should behave in a way and develop skills and functions to support thei…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/17 06:17 PM
2	What do you as women feel you offer a relationship? Why is it an absurd question?	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/17 06:02 PM
4	What do you as women feel you offer a relationship? Apparently men think of their utility as what they can do where as women consider their utility as just existing as who they are for the most part. I am curious, do you see this as a negative thing? To me, almost the entirety of my feminine identity is shaping my life and behavior in a way that prioritizes my husband first and foremost, doing anything I possibly can to make our home a loving, soft place for him to come home to, and supplementing his strengths with my own in order for us to be mo…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/17 05:53 PM
2	What do you as women feel you offer a relationship? I work in medicine and my husband is appreciative to have someone close by who can make recommendations for a healthier lifestyle in general, or to get him functioning again when he falls ill. In my career, I have a very flexible schedule while also bringing in a salary and additional benefits for us. My flexible schedule allows for me to handle all of the home stuff, not limited to just cooking or taking care of the house. His job demands a lot of mandatory overtime, so he appreciates having so…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/17 03:43 PM
2	Dating > Marriage > Children: What did your timeline look like? I'm 24. I've been married for almost a year now, we met and started dating in high school, so we've been together for about 8 years total. We just started started trying to have a baby last month. We live in NY but we grew up in CT.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/05/17 05:15 AM