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| 0 | How to stop nagging? | ADVICE | lafolle_et_labete | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 10:31 AM |
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| 1 | How to stop nagging?Hey I watched the consent video. So in the video it said if someone says maybe, you make the tea. So how does that work in the context of tiktok? How do you then determine if the person drinks the tea or not/goes live on tiktok? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/25 01:55 PM |
| 1 | How to stop nagging?I will. I've been in therapy before, currently I'm not but my budget will be better after 2 months (at the moment I'm paying to live in Ukraine AND my Polish apartment only ends in end of January) and I would be open to doing online therapy with my Polish therapist that I used to see. I know I have issues with socialisation and being too clingy and as you say, consent. I didn't really think I was that bad but the replies to my post made me realise it is a problem, for now I will definitely try t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/25 06:15 AM |
| 2 | How to stop nagging?I thought about what you said and yesterday we were together all day because he has Sundays off. I committed to not doing tiktok live and we went to the museum, ate croissants at a cafe, sat in the park, and then sat in the kitchen of the hostel I'm staying at (planning to rent a room next year after visiting Poland for a month). I am not willing to stop talking to him but I want to be a better version of myself and nicer. Not long ago I ruined a friendship by complaining about her to others and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How to stop nagging?That is who I'm talking about but we meet every day, I've met him 12 times and I've never spent so much time with anyone before. He does actually initiate meeting me and we are meeting tomorrow too. I have been told I'm immature by people, I wonder where to start in becoming more mature. Probably less tiktok stuff as a start, it was a big part of my life but the replies here are telling me not to and I did promise him that tomorrow we won't go live and I'll give him my phone to avoid temptation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 10:15 PM |
| 1 | How to stop nagging?Thank you. Objectively you are right and I guess it would be better if I had the balls to do social media on my own. Maybe I'll get there... | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 10:09 PM |
| 3 | How to stop nagging?I posted here because I want to do better. I've told him tomorrow I can give him my phone so I'm not tempted to go live with him. I have previously tried talking to people my age or older but they don't take me seriously. I do want to improve and be nicer. I'm inexperienced socially and don't talk to many people irl so this is new and I'm trying to figure it out | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 10:08 PM |
| -3 | How to stop nagging?I guess I needed a cold harsh dose of the truth, well I'll talk to him tonight and ask him point blank can we do it once a week yes or no, because before he didn't actually say no or refuse, he just said he didn't want to do it but he didn't say "absolutely no". I have told him multiple times "if you're absolutely against it we won't do it but I won't be happy." The thing is before him I used to do tiktoks with my pet in Poland but I've come to Ukraine where he lives and the border guards wouldn… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 05:33 PM |
| -1 | How to stop nagging?He didn't say a hard no so I thought that was a reluctant yes but I'll limit it to once a week. Sigh :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 04:52 PM |
| -1 | How to stop nagging?I'm trying to get more students but I make good money with the English online tutoring so it's not that bad financially. I'll try to take it easy on tiktok. Also I'll consider therapy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 04:52 PM |
| -4 | How to stop nagging?Ah I thought it was ok because it hasn't a hard no, I guess I'll limit the tiktok lives to once a week :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 04:51 PM |
| -1 | How to stop nagging?Thanks very much for the detailed comment. I should have been clearer that I am 37 not him. I do have more time because I tutor English online but just 4 classes a day on average. He is shy so that's why he's not that into going live on tiktok but is willing to do it because he knows it's important to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 12:34 PM |
| -1 | How to stop nagging?Sorry, I should have made it clear I am the 37 year old in this post. I guess I feel like people find me more interesting if I go live with someone else but he is shy. I hope he'll start liking it with time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 12:32 PM |
| 0 | How to stop nagging?Thanks, sorry I should have been clearer that I am 37. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/25 12:31 PM |
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