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Conversationlagonda69/r/seduction13/02/26 02:10 PM
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I can see how you are right, maybe I just prefer not entertaining a rude dude. I will try it tho, but I think I need to be in the right sarcastic or overall funny mood.
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:23 PM
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I'm not saying you should defend it with the truth. All I say is that doubling down is a risky game. How would I respond? "Speaking from experience?" "Takes one to know one" I don't defend myself by saying it's not true, but I am not leaning into his cunty behavior also. After that, not spending a single drop of effort on him. If he says something I ignore him. If he wants to prove himself by saying some macho shit, I tell the girl I am going to grab drinks and ask if she wanna come. If the dude…
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:10 PM
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Honestly, this is terrible advice. Yes, playing along can work, but dude, you are doing the extra mile to put yourself down. don't do that. You look pathetic.
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:54 PM
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Don't hang out with desperate people. I was talking to this girl and when she was going home, she gave me a kiss on the cheek out of the blue. My friend started to loudly claim "where is my kiss". She gave it to him out of the pressure of not making things awkward. I can forgive one mistake, but I notice it and if it's a regular occurence, I drop the friend from regular hanging out to occasional meet. I have work, hobbies, chores, and other shit to do. When I find the time to unwind and get a dr…
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:53 PM
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I've got friends like this. One time I was hanging out with one of them, he said he liked one girl that was smoking outside with us. I looked over, saw two girls, ideal set. I went there, Introduced myself, got them talking, invited them to sit with us. I am talking to my girl he is talking to his. But he hits on a quiet moment, he panics starts talking loudly, drawing attention to himself, ruining my convo with another girl, which was going good. I was pissed, but then I realized that he is jus…
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:18 PM
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Okay, a new girl that I want to take on a date is different, but basically: 24 hours: She should send a short apology, nothing extra, just "sorry I was..." or next. 48+ hours: Next. When I don't have any plates moving, maybe sent her short message inviting her to my place or drinks. When trying to date a girl, you are getting to know each other. If she ignores you, she is not that much into you, so why bother. FWB, friends, or anyone else I don't give a damn, but if they make it hard to plan stu…
/r/seduction09/03/26 01:57 PM
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Bet ya Bingles doesn't show you all the women that ignored, ridiculed or rejected him. Dude is doing it for the money ffs. If all you care for is getting laid, then sure, you can burn through the 50 women treating them like walking fleshlights without getting attached, bud most normal men are putting themselves out there, that takes a little bit of a higher toll than mechanicaly weedeng through options.
/r/seduction06/03/26 12:04 PM
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They don't make it easier for us, thats for sure :D I agree, but I add that it's no good for you to look for subtleties. Women are more nervous when giving signals, because while the risk of rejection from a man is lower, it hurts more. So it's often a glance you may catch only with a peripheral vision, or very easily misinterpret in a charged and playful environment. very simple guideline I tend to use is: If she stays > get closer. If she doesn't pull away > try touching her > if she is respon…
/r/seduction04/03/26 02:08 PM
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Just go for it man, if she takes a city tour with you, goes for drinks, lets you drop her off, all while you are vibing, you can try, just try to not force yourself on her. If she pulls off, disengage, change the subject, maybe apologize for being too forward (important to make it sound nonchalant, not like an overly apologizing) and never mention it again. Many "PUA Gurus" will tell you you can see when the girl is attracted, and while it is true, huge number of girls will hide the attraction, …
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:45 AM
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You didn't get worse. from circa mid 2025 women started to adapt more "lazy" mindset. They leaned more into "choosers" category, which has been true for the most time, but in recent practice it means, if there isn't basic attraction present, they won't bother even to think. I don't mean it in a condescending way. There are millions of references one can make and there are millions of others the other person may be familiar with. Statistically you miss more than you hit. But I remember the times,…
/r/seduction02/03/26 12:18 PM
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If a failing student asks professor if he could do something about the grade, the answer should be "no" not "let's grab a coffee and we'll see" Same principle applies, except in this case you don't have the layer of a teacher/student relationship. But it doesn't matter. Women see through this bullshit no matter how you justify it in your head. Even if she agrees, it won't be because she likes you, it will be because you are a tool and she can see it clear as day. In her eyes you will be "that gu…
/r/seduction25/02/26 03:12 PM
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Because essentialy you are trading affection for service. If you were getting dates, you wouldn't have the need to try getting them this way. From profesional standpoint it is pathetic to mix work with dating. In a sphere of photography there is actually a deal for "free work" it's called "time for print" or something similar. A starting photographer and a starting model can agree to this kind of deal to broaden their portfolio. Even more experienced professional photographer can agree to this k…
/r/seduction25/02/26 11:35 AM
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Man.... I don't give a fuck about wagging fingers. I knew a few of those types back in university, and all I am saying is yes, women went on a coffee with them, they even did boudoirs, but those men weren't "alphas" as they thought, they were laughed at as pathetic.
/r/seduction25/02/26 07:04 AM
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I have my reservations about modern relationships and you do raise few points I agree with partially. But your line is so cringe I won't believe it has any success. Sorry. Also there is a huge difference between sleeping with women in relationships that openly hit on you and want it and being a cunt and seeking out women in relationship, trying to destroy that relationship. Don't be a cunt bro....
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:55 AM
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Okay, so If a girl DM's you, that is your type and she tries to get free photos, you don't work with her, but test the waters for mutual attraction? It's a thin line, but game is game I guess, good luck my man
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:26 AM
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Okay, but has it lead somewhere? What did the interaction look like? Don't mean to be rude, I'm asking because now it does look more like the archetype of creepy photographer that "blackmails" wannabe models into coffee with him for a free photoshoot, or agrees to do free pics only if she does boudoirs, because he wants to expand his "portfolio".
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:10 AM
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The fuck dude? You can't be serious
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:29 AM
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You should approach her again? Sorry but no... I've been in this kind of situation, I tried to chat up a girl and she wasn't really being receptive. Tried two more times (nothing over the top, mind you) and nothing. Couple days later my girl friend, who is friends with that girl, told me to come sit with her because she wanted to chat. Sorry, I've approached she wasn't receptive. I don't give a shit if it was because she was shutting me down or was nervous. If she is interested, it's up to her t…
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:27 AM
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Agree, though I must add that from experience, this approach really does work for situationships and one night stands too, just lead where you want to go and don't be a cunt about it. even if she isn't sold on the idea of a sex on the first date, you can be respectful and still move forward. Women who are plainly disgusted when you move things towards sex on the first date and cut contact are usually not worth it in the long run anyways and I filter them out.
/r/seduction20/02/26 11:48 AM
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He didn't. As eyewave said, most of the PUA gimmicks focus on minmaxing your success in a single interaction, which is overall better, but fewer people can truly master this without becoming cringey. You could say that by being cringey you allow yourelf to grow and avoid those mistakes, but majority of people will develop resentment before growth, because it takes a lot of time. This is simpler, cleaner, more human, overall better. Believe in yourself, approach, make both of you feel good, lead.…
/r/seduction20/02/26 10:59 AM
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It's not... In relationships you have to compromise, otherwise you would break up over any minor disagreement or problem. You cannot hold your frame, because there is a whole another person with their own needs, desires and wants. Same as she cannot always hold her frame when in relationship. Dating is easier, because you don't need to tolerate irks that would bother you in a relationship and believe me, there always be some, that's life. In dating, you can just keep it casual with a girl who ha…
/r/seduction19/02/26 02:43 PM
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People need to want to talk to you. Easiest way is to be a good conversationalist, but that also doesn't mean the girl will suddenly want you, even if she will ask questions back. I can really get people to open up, they talk most of the time, but don't ask questions back, somewhat 60% of the time it works everytime. Clever observations, teasing, asking to elaborate, sometimes playing dumb on purpose, it can create a relaxed fun atmosphere. But I found myself many times in situations where she t…
/r/seduction11/02/26 08:56 AM
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Give me the money instead and you'll feel fucked over the same way :)
/r/seduction09/02/26 12:29 PM
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There was this girl, it started out as platonic. We were far away, so seeing each other wasn't an option and she was in relationship. Texts got longer and when we saw each other one time, the vibe was immaticulate.... we started to videocall and suddenly, she is coming over to my city to hang out. I knew she had a dude, so I called my friend up to cockblock me, because I knew that if we were alone, something would happen. The plan worked fabulously, until it didn't. I kinda forgot she was stayin…
/r/seduction06/02/26 11:04 AM
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Wow....
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:52 AM
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Cry me a river. Go practice your warface in the mirror buddy, your tough talk doesn't scare anyone. As I said, if she's putting you in the friendzone, you ain't moving nowhere reasonable. She shut you down in the time you had honest attraction towards her and made a move. If OP comes here in two months and says he "did it" that woman most likely spent her options and settled down for him, that is no way to build a relationship.
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:09 AM
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you can be your true self, but if the girl is putting you in friendzone, don't stay there. Leave, break contact, move on. Most girls will try to convince you to give her the "girlfriend treatment" without any of the benefits. and many fall for that.
/r/seduction04/02/26 01:30 PM
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If you are in the Friendzone, it's all your fault and you failed. I know what you are trying to say, but never entertain woman who you had romantic feelings for and she shut you down
/r/seduction04/02/26 12:25 PM
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It's a numbers game, plain and simple. To even the odds, at least mentally, take an evening and think about what you really want... Do you want something short and sweet? Long term relationship? What is your ideal way of meeting a woman? Do you prefer check them out little over DM's or do you prefer quick meeting and seeing if there is a spark IRL, with possibility she is crazy? Then stick to that mindset. You'll burn quite a lot matches, but with girls who will play game you'll have considerabl…
/r/seduction01/02/26 03:01 PM
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Well, if you've managed to pick up one girl in your life, the process is the same, but after the first one you still act single.
/r/seduction31/01/26 01:49 PM
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If she can't see you, she can't react to you, so there is nothing like base level attraction. Let's say you are a pro player, with years of experience and high success rate at seducing women. You tell yourself you want to try a goth girl, so you go to gothic metal or similar venue. Now, if you are dressed as a country boy, you probably won't be the type for most of the women there. If you dress accordingly, your chances grow significantly. One could argue that your facial structure plays a role,…
/r/seduction30/01/26 12:18 PM
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He's saying, that everyone can be seduced, if you know how, general principles stays the same, individual parameters change. You can best understand it on yourself. You have your ideal type, but you have also things that works on you, only you know what things. If a woman came and pushed the right buttons, you would probably drop to your knees and saw her as your soulmate, or ideal girl. Each person has their own buttons, sometimes they are shared, sometimes are similar, sometimes completely dif…
/r/seduction30/01/26 09:49 AM
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Oh, thanks for clarifying, now I see we meant the same thing, just a language barrier maybe, best of luck
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:39 PM
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I'll give you advice, look at how you write. You are overselling it, it's bordering on dogmatic belief that is dangerous to you. You are trying to convince me so hard it looks like you are convincing yourself, because if no one understands your "superior way of belief" you might figure one day it stands on sand, it's toxic and it would crash, burying you underneath with no way of escape.
/r/seduction28/01/26 11:03 AM
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You are lost dude... you speak like a telemarketer. You're overselling it, which means you try hard to believe your own words, not mean it in a bad way.
/r/seduction28/01/26 10:44 AM
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I'm not grossed out by girls who sleep with multiple guys. I knew a girl who did and she was honest about it. I respect that. But you deffinitely should be grossed out if she lies to another guys and to you. You've just taken reasonable concept to it's extremes. Also qualifying is judgement in disguise, you just don't swing a gavel and say this is universally good or universally bad. If you qualify a girl and you say she is not for you because she is lying, you've just exercised judgement and ac…
/r/seduction28/01/26 10:04 AM
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Being present and caring about what type of woman you dating, seeing, are not mutually exclusive. People with purpose are present in the moment, and being present in the moment also means you are noticing behaviors you like, agree or dislike with. You are mixing all the PUA keywords in a mess, that loops back and bite it's own tail. This is the tactics many PUA enterpreneurs use to get you buy their third book, that says basically the same shit as the previous two, but in a different words, stil…
/r/seduction28/01/26 09:24 AM
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If you walk away you are judging, it's simple logic man.... you are reacting to her behavior you don't agree with, it doesn't matter if you judge in your head or you tell her why you are leaving
/r/seduction28/01/26 08:53 AM
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I'm basing it also out of my experiences and experiences of people around me. I'm way beyond counting on my hands number of women I talked to that were still in relationship and talking to multiple men, ready to branch out. Look, I don't slut shame, I admit that women have now more freedom of choice, and okay, if you want to play the game, you need to learn new rules. I'm saying that this is a mindset that leaves you hollow, because you are indirectly supporting dishonest behavior. Yes, you can …
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:47 PM
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I swear this is being the new definition of desperate, but it takes a while to register it as such. Yes, acting like you don't give a shit at all and just have fun can subconsciously signal you are unavailable and make you attractive, but you are entering dangerous territory. If you want to meet women for more than a one night stand, you will need to face the dilemma of her fucking around and not being trusthworthy person to have a relationship with. Why should you care? So you won't be cucked b…
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:28 PM
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I once met a woman, it was past midnight, she texted me, I asked if she wanted to grab the last beer, she was enthusiastic and said okay. She prepared herself longer than anticipated, so the bar had it's last call and was closing. I texted her this, she texted back that she was still in the dorm, but wanted to do something. I suggested we may try another bar or she could go to my place, I had wine. She let me pick, seemed down to go to mine.... So this woman, who I met through Tinder and haven't…
/r/seduction27/01/26 06:12 PM
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Is the message that men should put in the work? Sorry, I have several other women I talk to. If you feel like I don't try enough and you pull out, so be it, there is another that will take your place. Sounds harsh, but that is the truth. Sad thing is, many women help to create this situation. Also it is weird you talk about desperation in the beginning, yet you mention a man that doesn't give a shit about a woman he is seeing and is failing to see her unique side. Desperate men cling on you and …
/r/seduction27/01/26 10:15 AM
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That's the neat part, you don't. There are few universal opener that give you slightly better chance of reply, but you must internalize, that there are millions of ways to start a conversation and one concrete girl will be open to only few of them depending on the day or her mood. Even if you know how to lead a conversation, if the other side is clueless, you get basic answers without moving forward. Yes, you could steer the conversation, but why would you do that outside of situations, where yo…
/r/seduction19/01/26 10:56 AM
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You can't win them all. When someone is used to displays of affection, good or bad, you can do anything you want, unless the girl finds you charming, you have really no chance. Let's say every friday night at least 5 new dudes, if she has tinder she can have at least 10 new matches every day. That's a lot of men trying to hit on her. She has seen and heard it all, good pickup lines, terrible pickup lines, and in essence seduction is a binary choice. Is he hitting on me? Yes, no. If a girl knows …
/r/seduction15/01/26 08:04 AM
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These type of girls, etc. Models, Instagram "influencers", thirst traps, are so used to attention, that their default is you are going to hit on them. They either won't give you opportunity to lead a normal, non flirty conversation or let you "entertain" them. More and more girls are becoming this type This type of girl won't commit to anything. They tell you they can meet you three hours later and change that, because something else came up that was more interesting to her. If that is your cup …
/r/seduction14/01/26 01:23 PM
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Compromise is the golden road and no relationship can survive without it. Several people here told you to leave her, and while I do agree that she caused this problem, I think real reason is different. Speaking for myself, I wouldn't have had problem with rescheduling, if she said she wanted to try something different. Meeting one specific day constantly seems very rigid and people can feel the need to change from time to time. It's normal. But it should be communicated properly. What I see here…
/r/seduction13/01/26 01:31 PM
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I agree. Picture and voice messages are pretty big indicators of interest. She wants you to see her and hear her voice. Also worth noting that it is funny, how this kind of convo never dies, even if you send something stupid. It's because she is reciprocating.
/r/seduction13/01/26 09:25 AM
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Opener, fun chat, after few messages date idea, setting up logistics ASAP, meeting. If she fails at any of these steps next. If she gives me excuse about logistics, I may try to chat for a few days - one week, if the convo is fun. If it isn't, i go silent and when I remember, I shoot the date idea. If she refuses, I drop her. Yes, I may turn off a lot of women who just need more time or rapport building, but I don't give a fuck. That's my hard filter. I want to meet, because texting without seei…
/r/seduction08/01/26 04:00 PM
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Your friend probably went on a date with similar expectations. Now ask yourself, what is better? To bullshit your way into bed or be honest, even if you blow your chances? If your friend's tactics work, it's more reflection on her
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:58 PM
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Well.... you are friends. That means you should have each others back. If you were bothered by him shooting his shot, you should have told him and he should have respected it. If you knew you didn't want anything serious and saw your friend really likes her, you should give him your blessing. That's what friends are for. The girl is still acting weird tho.... best case scenario is she doesn't really know what she wants. Worst case scenario is she wants to have everything and doesn't give a fuck …
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:42 PM
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She later realized she had a boyfriend? Dude.... You are feeling hurt because she played you. That's normal. People are entitled to do whatever they want, at least until two people agree to be exclusive. Even then people can do whatever they want and there is not much you can do. But she is dodgy and I would avoid her. As for your friend, did he know you was trying to get this girl? If no, then he got lucky and you didn't. If he knew and still pursued the girl, I would avoid this friend too. But…
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:18 PM
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he literally just said that if you being so in your head like this on a rave you doing it wrong.
/r/seduction07/12/25 12:44 PM
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reads nice but you ain't said shit
/r/seduction12/11/25 05:51 PM
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who is the autor of the book?
/r/seduction17/12/24 08:16 AM
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Those traits are here, more valuable than ever. I just starting to feel, that the dating game has changed. Choosing partners always was hard, but now, it is almost impossibile, at least if we speak long-term. Girls are looking for genuine, nice men, that could be their support, but the way they do it made me think, that better be stupid and ignorant, or have ambition to be fwb, with no intention of commiting to relationship. I recently spoke to several of my girl friends, and they without hesita…
/r/seduction04/11/24 10:34 AM
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