laidtorest47 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I just want to experience “sexual abundance” just so my brain can realize that there’s nothing special to it It may be better to reframe "sexual abundance" to something more neutral, like "sexual normalcy" or "regularity." Wanting an "abundance" seems to me like a slippery slope to "overabundance," which I've experienced (due to a bad relationship with an abusive dynamic, and I wouldn't recommend even looking that direction to anyone).	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/24 06:48 AM
9	Redpillers are extremely childish I'm not a psych by any means, but I bet age regression is a factor. A lot of what I've seen of them also stems from, not just being unable to communicate their feelings, but largely unwilling to. Like they've had a negative worldview fed to them, and they want to keep confirming it. It's self-perpetuating AND self-defeating.	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/24 03:50 AM
2	What is everyone’s thoughts on the Whatever Podcast? Wow, what the fuck are you on? I was just saying that the draft doesn't even matter and hasn't mattered for decades, so you're coming out saying "women shouldn't vote just because they aren't drafted?" Here's some good news: neither are men! Really, fuck off. If you try to keep this conversation going, as if I'm going to give you an inch on this topic, I'm blocking you. I have nothing good to say to you.	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 05:00 AM
32	A failure of this, and similar subs is that the majority of people attempting to provide advice are women Help is a two way street, and it doesn't sound to me like you're doing your part. I say this as a purported "man," even if I'm not the exact same brand of "man" you might think of yourself as, but I used to be on the fringe of these MRA communities. A lot of early MRA/MGTOW, as far as I remember it, actually did want the best for men. And then it got co-opted by the gamergate motherfuckers. And then it stopped being about caring for other men, and about manipulating other men into their marketin…	/r/ExRedPill	24/04/24 04:01 AM
8	My boyfriend is a red piller, help! I couldn't get past "I believe in biological differences." Belief should never determine governance, and biology is often used to "concern troll." It's also an argument point that's largely, if not exclusively, used by red pillers, and thereby not worth engaging. You can't fight that battle alone and win. Just get out of there.	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/23 03:00 AM
4	Why do redpillers see all liberals as extremists ? Do they not realize that extremist right-wings are advocating for genocide? Are they comparable to these people? I feel like you have an incomplete understanding of what "radical left" means. It's not just one group.	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/23 10:37 PM
18	What is everyone’s thoughts on the Whatever Podcast? The moment a guy complains about men being eligible for the draft and not women, I just roll my eyes. The same archetype of dude will complain about women being allowed in combat roles not being "good enough" for the combat roles for whatever reason. Like, we haven't been drafting people into the military for such a long time, and that's the hill you want to die on? Okay. "Not my time, moving on," is what I'd say to myself and just ignore them. I guess the real issue is combating the type of peo…	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/23 11:06 PM
3	Sadly I have fallen back into the red pill. I have been watching the33secrets and better bachelor etc. I no it’s bad but for me it’s almost like a train wreck I can’t look away also when I get bored if I’m doing nothing I go back too those YouTube channels. I hate them. I can second all of this. I haven't heard of these videos or playlists but I've watched and enjoyed all of those guys	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/23 05:22 PM
31	Sadly I have fallen back into the red pill. I have been watching the33secrets and better bachelor etc. I no it’s bad but for me it’s almost like a train wreck I can’t look away also when I get bored if I’m doing nothing I go back too those YouTube channels. I hate them. One thing I've personally found to hinder my "success with women" is my level of self confidence, which is better obtained through self actualization (betterment of the self). If you ask yourself, "do I have everything that I need?" And you fulfill your needs, you'll be better off for anything relationship-wise, either romantic or platonic (just as friends). Also it's much better to aim to be friends first with a woman. If you're not friends and you date, it makes the relationship harder. Someth…	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/23 12:27 AM
2	The God Hole I'd argue that last sentence isn't necessarily true since I grew up in an area where most girls I went to school with were aggressively looking to become housewives to the point of sabotaging birth control methods and getting pregnant in high school/ right after high school. I thought so that maybe you were talking about a more metaphorical "mother" but I take everything on reddit at face value, I guess I was right the first time in my assumption. "Career driven" in itself is probably more of an…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/18 12:39 AM
2	The God Hole I'd argue that some women do. A few of my tangential friends seem massively independent as far as just being really career driven and don't seem to be defined by their relationships or status thereof. And I sure as hell don't want a deeper connection with my mom after dealing with her nigh constant relationship drama and other issues that my sister and I complain about almost every time we get together without her.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/18 12:14 AM
1	Why Millennial Men are failing I didn't say masculinity is on its way out, that was the first guy you responded to	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/18 02:54 PM
2	Why Millennial Men are failing Literally everyone's Facebook posts and memes are whiny bullshit, it doesn't matter who you're talking about. I hate speaking too generally but gen z probably is the more laid back generation, and more emotionally mature.	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/18 10:57 PM
2	Why Millennial Men are failing I'm just against bullshit labels. Masculinity seems to be confused with valor here, or whatever else it may be confused with. It's not masculinity that protects shit. Masculinity is just male traits. Protecting things is not an inherently male trait. Just because we're conditioned to think that men are always the protectors doesn't mean that it's masculine to protect or fight wars. I'm not even speaking from a feminist perspective, I'm speaking from a no bullshit perspective. Just because someth…	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/18 10:52 PM
2	Why Millennial Men are failing As if you have the intel to say how a WWIII will play out	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/18 02:50 PM
4	Why Millennial Men are failing This argument is one of the biggest strawmen I've ever seen and maybe why I shouldn't even be subbed to this. For one using only your own life as an example isn't scientifically valid. Two, you're saying "millenials are fucking stupid and that's the blunt truth" and expecting people to take you seriously, which of course you will be because this is the biggest echo chamber for that kind of mentality. History repeats itself and unless we learn our history we are doomed to repeat it. As a few peop…	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/18 02:49 PM
1	Dating girls does not equal happiness I mean, we’re conditioned to want to date because of how society views love and romance. Of course we see dating as a reward or else we wouldn’t want to date, couple, whatever. The problem comes when you convince yourself that you NEED to date. Once you get off of that mindset it’s obvious and you ironically start being more appealing because you’re not desperate. Not caring about dating for a long time has helped me date. I know my reality is that I’m not a very outgoing person towards people I…	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/18 09:24 PM