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LEVEL UPlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:48 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:43 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:08 PM
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RANTlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:22 PM
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RANTlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:49 PM
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NOTHING BUT FACTSlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 09:04 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:25 AM
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#JustLVMThingslaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:42 PM
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DISCUSSIONlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:42 PM
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SEEKING ADVICElaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:36 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:04 PM
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STRATEGYlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:23 PM
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DISCUSSIONlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:31 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:34 PM
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SEEKING ADVICElaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:06 PM
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SCROTES MADlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:28 PM
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DISCUSSIONlaila123456789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:56 PM
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Why would you want nudes?
/r/seduction10/05/20 07:23 PM
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I'm pathetic for wanting human contact? Fuck you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:27 AM
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No, he's definitely a LVM. My god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:50 PM
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Yeah! I don't want to change my last name ever, and if I'm going to be pregnant for 9 months and squeeze out something the size of watermelon from my vagina, it's gonna fucking have my last name too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:14 AM
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PREACH SIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:15 PM
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Exactly! This way he knows exactly why he wont be getting any sex from me ever again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:16 PM
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It was not about him. Its about me proving to myself that I can trust myself not to fall for a man's shit, no matter how attractive he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:02 AM
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The worst part of being gay is not the homophobes calling us names and dooming us to hell. The worst part is actually other gay men. YAH. I wish I weren't sexually attracted to men too bro One of the worst parts of being gay is the sex. At 5’8”, I’m considered to be short in the gay world. Guys always assume that I want to be passive/the receiver in anal sex. Because the only thing men understand is domination over people physically smaller/weaker than themselves being in love with a woman sound…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 09:11 AM
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I'm actually not angry about it. I don't regret my decision. I said what I wanted. I shot him down. He's blocked. And I feel good about it Literally all I wanted was for him to know I'm not stupid and I see through his shit. I don't give a shit if he feels remorseful. Not trying to knock sense or morals into him. Not trying to make him change. I don't care about anything he does. It's really not about him. It's about me and how I leveled up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:37 AM
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He thought I didn't know he was using me for sex. He legitimately thought I was that stupid. I want him to know that I see through his bullshit and I'm not falling for it. Other men I've straight up ignored, but this was different. He was so disgustingly obvious about how he was using me for sex. He's a pretty boy wannabe actor. He needs to know he ain't that special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:08 AM
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This was a guy who was blatantly using me for easy sex. Before FDS. He used to be my next door neighbor, a 26 year old very attractive guy. He would just show up, bang me, then leave. Very obviously using me for sex. At the time I was like "iM uSiNg HiM fOr SeX tOo BeCaUsE fEmInIsM." I'm done letting men use me for anything. He's blocked. He can go to hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:52 AM
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I'm just. Speechless. How fucking stupid is this guy? "I feel sick in the middle of the worst pandemic in a century. Oh well, better go see my wife and newborn baby! I'm sure they'll be fine." LIke. WTF WAS GOING THROUGH HIS BRAIN?! I can't fathom the extreme lack of empathy and outright stupidity of this fucking scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:47 PM
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Hmmm that's different. Whenever I'm upset to the point of tears the last thing I want is a guy trying to fuck me. Sadness is so far away from sexual desire in my spectrum of emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:00 AM
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Why should she be vague? A simple "this relationship is over" is simple and concise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:52 AM
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BuT aLl WoRdS aRe MaDe Up 🤡 Seriously though... how did we allow prostitution to be rebranded as sex work 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:42 AM
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Seconded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:10 PM
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IVF for an infertile woman is vastly different from using it on a fertile young woman. U.S. donors are almost always overstimulated to produce 25-45 eggs per cycle, which puts her at risk for a whole mess of things. A healthy number of eggs to aim for is 5-10 per cycle. The doctors don't give a shit about the donor's health because she isn't the one giving them money. The intended parents are the ones IVF doctors care about I'm a former egg donor, can you tell? Btw there are long term effects th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:44 PM
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You know, the donor herself only gets like $5000-$10,000 of that money. The rest goes to the IVF clinic. Egg donor compensation was calculated based on how much men earn for sperm donation and the U.S. government originally recommended that the maximum a donor receives is $10k per donation. But it's taxable income y'all, so she only takes home $8k from a $10k donation Meanwhile, nobody is studying the actual long term effects of egg donation because nobody gives a shit about female health. Does …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:12 PM
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It's really sad that he didn't even attempt to trick them. He's just laying all his cards on the table, like "Yeah I'm fat, old, disgusting, and you have to fuck me to stay here. What's it gonna be?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:14 PM
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Oh yes. I saw the show. Joe Exotic and Bhavagan Antle are prime examples of the warped male mind acting without constraints. These men use their money and power to behave like disgusting apes. Viewing people and animals as disposable things. When the woman was attacked by the tiger, Joe Exotic says something to the effect of: "This will financially ruin me." Ok, what about the woman who was fucking attacked by your tiger who is physically maimed?! This showed that he doesn't give a shit about an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:35 PM
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But y'all, RaPe CuLtUrE dOeSnT eXiSt 🤡 Y'know what this pervert reminds me of? "Every system is designed for the results it gets." Quote from the book Upstream: The Quest to Solve Problems Before They Happen. This fine male specimen you encountered is the end result of a patriarchal system designed to give males privileges while affording women none
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:44 PM
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we had gotten into an argument earlier in the week because I said “what’s up” instead of “good afternoon” and he refused to pick me up and kicked me out of the car Of course your dad has the emotional maturity of a toddler. Why wouldn't he? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:35 PM
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Wow you're lucky. You actually got to have a childhood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:30 PM
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internet hugs I'm sorry :/ Men are so disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:28 PM
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Omfg so he's a crazy obnoxious pornsick mother fucker. Why do men have to sexualize and pervert every normal human interaction?!?!?!? You did something so sweet and kind for the little boy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:26 PM
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called me a pedophile Lmao what?!?!? That doesn't make any sense! So not only is he an obnoxious pervert, he's a crazy obnoxious pervert. Nice. 👌 Sensitivities?!?!? Rofl WHAAAAT IN HADES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:22 PM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 what a fucking pervert omfg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 11:52 AM
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I don't agree with or support prostitution, but I support the women and girls who find themselves doing it for whatever reason. I don't fault women for doing what they have to in order to survive. I fault the patriarchal system that created this situation in the first place Whether she is/was an escort doesn't matter, she came here for advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:46 AM
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🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:33 AM
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I think we're all assuming that she's here for advice, trying to learn about how to deal with men (who are massively predatory to women). I'm sure she's confused if she is still being a sugar baby. Btw I had to scroll reeeeeeally far down to find her posts about sugaring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:32 AM
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....?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:26 AM
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Yep. This x 10000000 He seems nice enough now. OP, if you stay with him I guarantee the relationship will turn abusive within a year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:24 AM
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Dating apps are a cesspool. Any man of value isn't going to use an app to meet women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:20 AM
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Holy shit. This should be required learning so girls and women know how much we bring to the table Wtf does a man offer (assuming he's not abusive)? Sperm donation? What's that cost, like $50? God knows the vast majority of men don't cook/do laundry/offer emotional support to their partners/give their partners orgasms/care for their own children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:12 AM
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Yes sis!!!! And also, there's evidence pointing towards women being the inventors of language. Likely started out with moms cooing over their babies. Oh and it's pretty obvious that women made the first calendars (to track their menstrual cycles) and likely started plant domestication
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:05 AM
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Lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:41 AM
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Yeah OP, don't go for anyone who is more than 2 years older than you. Super important. I'd suggest you only entertain the thought of dating older men if you're still single at age 30. Up until then, stick to guys around the same age as you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:37 AM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮 jesus fucking christ! Why can't they put some fucking effort into their appearances! Looks like pubes scraggling from his face BARF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:31 AM
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they will have to believe that it is coming from another man. YEEEEEEEEUP. OP better pick a male pseudonym quick! I like using Richard Leimon. That pseudonym got me a great deal on my new car. I pretended I was my stepfather lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:28 AM
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Which gender comprises the largest percentage of rapists, pedophiles, mass murderers, and serial killers? Hint: not women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:23 AM
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Of course they don't notice because it's not directed at them! They don't want to believe you because they'd have to look critically at themselves. I think deep down, most men know they're the problem. They just don't want to admit it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:20 AM
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Yeah, assuming I had survived the encounter 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:31 AM
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Yesterday I told a man the story about the time I literally had to run away from an SUV full of men who were visibly enraged. I was minding my own business in a public spot when these assholes screamed something vulgar at me. I snapped and screamed back, told them to fuck off and flipped them off. These guys slammed on the breaks and turned around to come get me. So I ran away and hid from them. His response? "They wouldn't have hurt you." Oh, ok, so they turned the SUV around while shouting ang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:26 AM
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I was eleven years old the first time a man catcalled me. After that, all men considered it open season on me. I was 14 when a man in his 70s expressed disappointment that (he thought) I had a boyfriend... like he had a chance with me up until that moment? Lol fucking delusional and gross. I WAS A CHILD. Men who were old enough to be my father, grandfather, and great-grandfather were making sexual advances at me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:21 AM
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Krav Maga sounds really intense! Yeah, my upper body strength isn't developed right now. All my strength is in my legs. I still find it so fun, even if I can only do level 0 routes right now lol Sounds like you're on a self-healing journey? If that's the case it definitely makes sense to direct your focus inwards right now. Educational podcasts are a part of my daily routine. You have any favorites?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:08 AM
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If I may make a suggestion? I noticed that your strategies are focused inwards, like you're trying to fix yourself (but you're not broken). Therapy, working out (presumably to be more conventionally attractive), social skills (making people like you more). So... if I may... perhaps you would consider doing something empowering? For me, that means developing physical strength and agility. When this covid-19 wave subsides, I'm going to start rock climbing again. Not to improve my appearance, but t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:54 AM
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You are worthy of love just like every other human being. Sending you internet hugs 💜💜💜💜 Women are capable of fully loving and respecting men, viewing them as human beings (not sex objects) even if he has "undesirable" qualities (as determined by society), but when we make concessions for them by loving them despite that, they aren't appreciative. It just inflates their egos and makes them think they can dump that woman and date an even more conventionally attractive woman. It's sad and gross, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:09 PM
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The 99% is obviously an estimated statistic. It's just less reading to say "99% of" instead of "the vast majority of." My point remains the same. There's a few posts on here of health workers discussing how it's part of their training to expect men to abandon their partner if she's, for instance, diagnosed with breast cancer. The same holds true for if a woman got into a car accident and became paralyzed during the relationship. Most of the time, the man will dump her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:02 PM
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The vast majority of men wouldn't consider dating a disabled woman and would dump her if she became disabled during the relationship. But we as women are supposed to consider it a desirable quality in a man? How exactly does that help women? Women view disabled people as worthy human beings deserving of love and respect, just the same as an able bodied person. The sad reality is that men don't see it that way! To them, disability = massive dealbreaker. Why should we enable their terrible behavio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:57 PM
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🤦‍♀️ Spend some time reading the posts in this sub and you'll see. It's extremely rare for a man not to dump his partner if she becomes sick or disabled No one is saying that YOU are less desirable for being disabled. You have just as much worth and value as any other human being. However, you should understand that the vast majority of men aren't good, and they definitely don't look at it the way you do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:51 PM
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99% of men would dump their partner if they became disabled. It's a huge dealbreaker for men, but women are supposed to consider it a desirable quality in a man? Please PLEEEEEEASE explain this to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:44 PM
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Wow. That's disgusting behavior from him. He has an extremely fragile ego, and it seems like he might snap and hurt you or your mother if he feels sufficiently threatened. Please don't engage with him anymore during this quarantine. I know he's your dad, but men hurt their daughters every day on planet earth. If you test him in a way he's never been tested before he might lash out and hurt you... to put you in the place he thinks you should be. I'm speaking from experience. I've been betrayed by…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:57 AM
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Ughhhh they're stupid. Men don't have as much skin in the game as women. They don't fucking get it. When you have sex with a new male partner, there is always a risk of pregnancy, yeast infection, UTI, or bacterial vaginosis. Men just don't have to worry about that shit when they have sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:29 AM
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He said he was feeling really down about me not being interested in him Oh I love how he insinuates it's your fault. "iF yOu HaD oNlY sHoWn Me aTtEnTiOn I wOuLdNt HaVe DoNe iT 🤡🤡🤡" Never take an ex back. Every time I did, it was a huge mistake. Don't second guess yourself. Breaking it off permanently is the best thing for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:45 AM
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This!!!!! He's pushing her boundaries. Seeing what he can get away with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:29 AM
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You're not overreacting. He's being pervy and gross. Honestly, I'd block him. Overlooking red flags like this will get you hurt. This gives you an insight into how the typical male mind works. They don't ask where your boundaries are. They push and push your boundaries, and whenever you don't push back they take it as a sign that it's ok. Then they'll push some more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:28 AM
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You make a lot of good points! And another important thing to consider is that facial fillers migrate to other areas of the face. A lot of them don't dissolve. Be wary of any plastic surgery!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 11:06 PM
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Oh I do feel the same way. It's not worth it to put so much time and energy into your appearance. Men will fuck literally anything. It's better to put your time and energy into improving yourself, like educating yourself or doing hobbies you enjoy. Volunteering, helping out the community
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:32 PM
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Men have fragile little egos. If you say nasty shit back at them it tends to make them shut up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:09 PM
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Idgaf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:47 PM
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Saying we're "female incels." Doesn't incel mean involuntarily celibate? Uhhhhh. If anything I wish men would stop turning everything sexual and trying to get in my pants. More like "voluntarily celibate but pressured into sex by creeps"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:46 AM
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Yep! Last dude I kissed is probably the worst kisser I've ever had. Tried to shove his entire tongue into my mouth. Like, it's a penis and my mouth is a vagina or something...? I was like "Eeeeasssyy there." Just terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:30 AM
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Yet another reason why I'm fed up with men and tired of coddling their fragile egos. Most men fucking SUCK in bed, but if I'm honest they'll be absolutely crushed! And I don't want to risk that, because they might go psycho and attack me 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:19 AM
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This guy is very clearly not worth any time or effort. Matching with someone for years...? Not looking for anything serious? #DumpHim2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:15 AM
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Be wary of any man "helping" you in a vulnerable moment. Vulnerable = prey. That's how they think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:08 AM
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Exactly! And I've been forced to be strong in order to survive as a woman, but nobody gives me any credit for it. At least if I were a man I'd get some fucking respect for being strong and surviving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:06 AM
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Sounds like he wants a woman to give birth to his offspring and carry his lineage. Not sure what your point is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:03 AM
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I found your other comment, had to scroll down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:40 AM
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Well, I don't fault you or any woman who does that. I fault the systems in place that put pressure on women to do things like that. I have to point out though, finding a guy in a check out line attractive and briefly imagining sex with him is a far cry from watching porn on the regular. Porn dehumanizes women and reinforces the idea of women being sex objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:37 AM
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I don't understand. You think porn is ok? And women being sugar babies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:34 AM
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I didn't mean if I became a man. I meant, if I was still me but had male privilege 😍 Oh what a fabulous alternate reality that would be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:31 AM
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Ugh I saw this. "The hardest part of being a man? I only get 2 compliments a year 🥺" FUCK I'd take that shite over being a woman any day. I can't even imagine how much easier my life would be with male privilege omfg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:02 AM
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Yeh I can see it too. Ughh so cringey. Scrotes will be scrotes tho !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:59 AM
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I have a dog. She's my precious angel but I'm still lonely as fuck. 😣 I'm glad you saved the cat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:56 AM
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Aw honey, don't subject yourself to the cesspool of dating apps. I can just see it now--men messaging you with "how about a friend with benefits? WINK WINK 🤡🤡🤡" They don't want the friend, they just want the benefits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:53 AM
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I was literally just thinking the same thing. 6 days of quarantine and I'm feeling extremely lonely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:44 AM
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No... this isn't a debate. I'm wondering whether you deserve the FDS Discipline tag, based on how you're behaving towards me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:05 AM
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??? What is your problem? Get a life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:03 AM
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Nah, I think you are though. I said most criminals are stupid. Learn how to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:59 AM
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"Waaaahhhh pay attention to ME, mom--I mean wife! WAHHHHHHHH I need you to treat me like a baby WAHHHHHH I'm 38 years old and never matured past the age of 2 WAHHHHHHHHHH"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:18 AM
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You're 100% right. And then there's men who treat women like shit up until they have a daughter and they go, "Ooooohhh wait, women are people lol"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:12 AM
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Oh yes. Definitely. Most criminals are stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:49 PM
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Alright, since I guess it went over your head... I was being cheeky. cheek·y /ˈCHēkē/ adjective BRITISH impudent or irreverent, typically in an endearing or amusing way. Really don't understand why we're arguing about this, but aight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:45 PM
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I'm saying I've never been caught. Because I'm not stupid. Dumb people who break the law are more likely to be caught and thus become criminals. Intelligent people are more likely to get away with it and thus avoid being labeled a criminal. Being convicted doesn't make one's intelligence drop 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:36 PM
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I'm not looking for reassurance. Don't need it! People only let you see what they want you to see. Just because a man does a few nice things where you can see it doesn't mean he isn't doing shitty things outside your view. Men are all the same at their core. I know a 62 year old married man who appears to the outside world like a good man, yet he's been cheating on his wife for decades. Without using condoms. If you asked his 24 year old daughter what her dad is like I guarantee she would descri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 10:42 PM
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A criminal is someone who breaks the law and is caught and convicted. :) I'm not a criminal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 10:34 PM
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Well, when you work in a restaurant there's a small chance of meeting someone who came there for dinner. I wouldn't go for a coworker unless all the stars aligned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:49 PM
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I don't know how to meet men these days. The dating scene is so different from 10 years ago when I was 22. But that doesn't mean I'm going to expose myself to the cesspool that is online dating. If I meet a man, it's going to be through my job or hobby or random chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:47 PM
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Be that as it may, I'm still never going to use a dating app again as long as I live 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:39 PM
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Yeah, I agree. Most criminals aren't that smart. It's rare for a criminal to be intelligent. I'm not saying men should get free passes by any means. I'm thoroughly disgusted with them as a whole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:37 PM
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I'm well aware that women can be shitty. In my experience like 20% of women are shitty vs 100% of men. Overall, women are more selfless and caring. Approximately 99% of rapists, pedophiles, and mass murderers are MALE. That shows you which sex is better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:27 PM
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You are women? How many women are you? /s Yeah no I don't believe it unless you post a photo of yourself holding a paper with your username written on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:24 PM
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Are you female? Yes or no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:48 PM
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Dude, just shut up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:43 PM
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You're incredibly naive. You don't know how to get the truth out of a man. I do. And guess what? They're all the same. If you think he's good, it's because you don't know the truth. I know a millionaire "HVM" who pays men for sex and cheats on his wife!!! To all the world he appears to be a good man, but he still fucking pays men for gay sex and hides it! I know a 62 year old man who appears sweet and good, but he's been cheating on his wife for decades without using condoms, and in private says…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:42 PM
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That sweet sensitive man you met? He goes home and watches porn of underage girls. That other sweet man you met? He cheats on his wife, without using condoms. You can never truly know another human being. You only know what people let you see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:27 PM
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Maybe it is absurd, but it's the reality we live in. Reality is absurd. My mental health is just fine. I'm not wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:23 PM
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I've never encountered a man in all my 32 years of life who didn't have secrets that he kept from the women in his life. If he's not an abusive wife beater then he's cheating on her. If he's not cheating on her he's watching disgusting porn. If he's not watching porn then he's doing something else that he doesn't want her to know If you think a man is good then you just don't know everything about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:22 PM
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Uhhh you only think they're amazing because you don't know everything about them. 🙂 I know a 62 year old married man with 3 kids. I'm sure his daughter thinks he's amazing... because she doesn't know the truth. She doesn't know that her father has been cheating on her mother for decades. Without even using condoms. Every single supposed HVM I've encountered in my life has harbored dark secrets. Because all men are fundamentally the same. They all have the same nature. Your vitriol towards me is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:17 PM
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Lmao um ok, wave your magic wand and produce a good man for me! I'm 32 years old and I've come across ZERO good men. Father, brothers, boyfriends, fathers of boyfriends, male coworkers--ALL of them are the saaaaaaame. Lmao you think I need therapy for seeing men how they truly are. That's hilarious. I am not the problem. Men are the problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:01 PM
21

Hah! He probably thought it's just not worth the effort to cheat when he has a sure thing at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:54 PM
31

UGHHHH what a fucking degenerate. Like every other man. Fucking disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:51 PM
65

Yeah. Soooo many men think they're smarter than me. They're not. I pretend to be naive. They're too stupid to consider the possibility that I'm faking my naivety 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:46 PM
21

I think even HVM have the same nature... they're just smart enough to realize that treating a woman well yields them maximum rewards whereas treating a woman like shit yields them very little rewards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:44 PM
23

I came to this conclusion based on the evidence. Don't get it twisted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:36 PM
16

I guarantee that he has the same gross thoughts as every other man. He's simply choosing not to say them to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:31 PM
29

💜💜💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:45 PM
14

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:26 PM
43

Prepare for extra depravity when we get through this first wave of coronavirus. Ughhhh why are so many men disgusting animals?! Sex dolls are antibacterial? Give me a fucking break 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:06 PM
3

I don't have a primary care physician. I can't get tested :/ Nobody knows anything! They kept transferring me to a different department until someone finally transferred me back to the original number I called. 🥴 All I can do is stay home and continue my self quarantine while keeping hydrated and getting rest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:47 PM
9

Oh I reported him that day. He got fired. I felt really bad because he confided that information in me, but one of my coworkers is a 65 year old woman and he could have killed her by spreading the virus to her. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:34 PM
10

This is what I would say if I were her: "Alright, honey. I'll quit my job and be a stay at home mom, just as soon as you get a job earning more money than me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:19 PM
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Pro life = pro forced pregnancy & birth The pro life stance is that all pregnant women should bring the fetus to term and give birth, whether or not the woman wants to. How tf is that better than forced abortions? It's absolutely bonkers that women exist who think all women should be forced to give birth whether they like it or not. Absolutely nuts. It's also massively fucked up that people prefer male babies and are more likely to abort female fetuses. But taking away a woman's right to choose …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:07 AM
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"Previously an autosome, Y chromosome evolution has been characterized by massive gene decay." https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4120474/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:23 PM
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Terrrrrrible advice. Even before I found FDS I realized that men don't like it when you pursue them. If you make the first move, they'll think you're easy/desperate/crazy/nymphomaniac and will never respect you. When they think you're not worthy of respect, they think it gives them the right to treat you however they want. Speaking from experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 11:12 PM
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How tf is it a choice when your only two options are Starve to death/be homeless/live in poverty Or Allow men you do not find attractive to fuck you for money ???? That's not a fucking choice and it's most certainly not empowering Picking chocolate or vanilla ice cream is a choice. Doing what you have to do in order to survive isn't a choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:42 AM
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You are so right. When was the last time you heard of a roaming gang of women who tortured and lit an elephant on fire, just for fun? Oh that's right--never! But you're damn right that gangs of men do that shit. Women would never form a group like Boko Haram because we are good people. Women are just better human beings than men. Even the most famous female serial killer (Aileen Wournos) only killed because she was beaten, raped, and abused by men her entire life. If that hadn't happened to her,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:24 PM
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Not agonizing over him. I'm depressed over the state of the world. I'm depressed because he's the typical male. I'm depressed because I'm 32 and in all these years have yet to come across a good man. I'm depressed because it's looking like there are no good men, not for me, and I'll die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:54 PM
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Yes. It's degrading over time. In the distant past, the Y chromosome had the shape of an X. A whole leg of it disintegrated, turning it into a Y shape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:51 PM
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I haven't had sex since November. Not planning on breaking my no sex streak anytime soon. I honestly don't miss it. Most guys suck in bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:20 AM
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Thank you, I don't feel like my self worth is in jeopardy. I'm depressed because I'm 32 years old and this is the typical male I've encountered. I've met so many males in my life, and they're pretty much all just garbage! It's fucking depressing. It's looking like I'll never find a good man because they just don't fucking exist in my world! It's like a bad joke. I could be the smartest, most beautiful and accomplished woman in the world and it wouldn't mean anything in terms of finding a good ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:18 AM
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This is true, and holy shit you're the only other person I've encountered who also realizes this. The Y chromosome used to look like an X in the distant past. It's degrading over time. Some scientists speculate that it will eventually degrade into nothingness in the distant future. Men are genetically inferior to women. Female is the default blueprint for humans and most life on the planet. That's why men have nipples--all human fetuses start out development as female. Women are just straight up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:13 AM
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Honestly, I only found .01% of men attractive on OLD. It's just a waste of my time and brought me nothing but pain. So many fucking ugly guys on tinder and bumble. Fucking UGHHHHHHHH. I swiped right on guys I didn't find attractive just so I'd have a handful of matches. There's literally no good men on dating apps where I live. I don't even know how to do offline dating anymore. It's all a cluster fuck. I hate the state of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:04 AM
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Yep. He was the last guy I met and slept with from OLD. Back in November. I deleted all the dating apps and I have not and will not ever use them again as long as I live. I haven't been dating and haven't had sex since this guy in November. Yeah, guess it's time to block him. Smh. He already fucking deleted my number. The screenshots are from Instagram btw. Dating apps are nothing but a cesspool full of the scummiest men on the planet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:50 AM
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Oh, yeah that. The only thing I don't understand is why men insist on being absolute fucking trash. 50% of the human race is fucking garbage. Goddamn is that so fucking depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:37 AM
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Apparently all men are literal trash. I'm feeling incredibly defeated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:29 AM
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I'm not confused. I'm so disappointed/disheartened/depressed. It looks like all men are trash. So fucking depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:28 AM
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😒 jesus christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 10:32 PM
16

They're rare all over the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:57 PM
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Ooookay then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:49 PM
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Yes, what's your point? Also I said AS LONG AS. If we change the system we can change everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:40 PM
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Murder has existed since then too. What's your point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:38 PM
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Why you so salty, sis? You do know that you're not the only educated woman in this sub, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:38 PM
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It's adequate for me! As in, it'll do just fine. I've measured the penises of boyfriends so I do know what I'm talking about. :) What about botched circumcisions? I've seen a few circumcised penises that were definitely mangled, and they were small and crooked with hair in weird places The term is "intact" or "uncut," not "uncircumcised."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:34 PM
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Edit: I seriously have no idea why people are downvoting me. I'm not defending shitty male behavior or saying anything factually inaccurate. What gives? Idgi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:24 PM
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Men will never see women as equal as long as there are women who willingly let them pay to access their bodies. If you're doing this, you're doing your gender a huge disservice. There's a reason why the vast majority of sex workers are women while the purchasers of sex are men. Most women would never pay a man for sex, first of all because men are easy to bed, and secondly because women don't view men as objects. We view them as human beings. Men just don't see us that same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:20 PM
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Happened to me too! One stalker ex who is blocked on everything (but my phone still shows me when he calls) and my first serious bf who I dated from 18-20. So weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:08 PM
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What about this tho "Second to fourth digit ratio: a predictor of adult penile length Abstract The second to fourth digit ratio (2D:4D) has been proposed as a putative biomarker for prenatal testosterone and covaries with the sensitivity of the androgen receptor (AR). Both prenatal testosterone and the AR play a central role in penile growth. In this study, we investigated the relationship between digit ratio and penile length." https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3739592/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:00 PM
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There is some science that says a man's 4th finger size is probably indicative of his penis size "Second to fourth digit ratio: a predictor of adult penile length Abstract The second to fourth digit ratio (2D:4D) has been proposed as a putative biomarker for prenatal testosterone and covaries with the sensitivity of the androgen receptor (AR). Both prenatal testosterone and the AR play a central role in penile growth. In this study, we investigated the relationship between digit ratio and penile…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:59 PM
2

I just read that book about a month ago! It's really good except for his theory of "temporary autism."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:53 PM
9

Lmao what? Vilify men...? You should read the handbook, sweetie. Look, fact of the matter is it's shitty behavior from him to perform a sexual act that you're only tolerating for his benefit and not because you like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:48 PM
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What's wrong with using a hashtag? Sometimes you get tough love here but it's coming from a place of looking out for your best interest, not the guy's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 08:00 PM
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You have every right to revoke consent. He doesn't get to use your body how he wants just because you're married. Moving forward he can get the fuck over it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:55 PM
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He ate your ass and it did nothing for you? Let me guess, that's what he wanted to do? He probably suggested it too, right? Seems like two huge red flags--him doing a sexual act on you that you aren't into plus his tiny dick. DumpHim2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:50 PM
27

Any man who calls his dick "big and fat" has a 2 incher. Guaranteed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:26 PM
18

Wtf ew what a fucking creep! They really treat us like we're all prostitutes. Ew ew ew ughhh I hate LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:06 PM
34

Important reminder: never get back together with a guy you broke up with or entertain the notion of getting back together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:59 PM
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I used to think a woman had to be conventionally attractive to land a HVM. And then I started working in a mansion... for a millionaire family. I've seen plenty of pictures of his wife and to be 100% honest she wasn't cute when they got married. But she won the fucking lottery with the guy she married. He would move heaven and earth for her. He would do anything for her and provides for her and her children 100%. She is living proof that you don't have to be super hot to have a great man and a g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 08:15 PM
43

Jealous of a baby? Are you fucking kidding meeeEeEeee I can't even omfg TeamDumpHisAss2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 08:08 PM
27

I'd rather take my chances while being comfortable. No push up bras or heels or uncomfortable jewelry or spending hours at the salon bleaching my hair. It only cost me time and money. Being comfortable doesn't mean looking ugly, fyi. I look cuter in yoga pants anyhow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:24 AM
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Being comfortable doesn't mean I have to look frumpy :) My life experience is that wearing the heels and push up bras and bleaching my hair--all that shite yielded nothing good for me. There was literally no benefit to it. What did I get from it? Nothing. Might as well be comfortable Glad you're doing so well. Dating is a fucking joke where I live
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:20 AM
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If that's the case, why did I never get a HVM all the years I wore the uncomfortable "attractive" attire? All I got were abusive assholes coming around. Seems to me like a few decades of being uncomfortable with a net yield of zero 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:10 AM
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Omfg, DumpHisAss2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:01 AM
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In my experience, yah sis! Don't buy into their shit for one second. Don't doubt your own perception for one second. Directly call them out and give no ground. My male coworker doesn't fuck with me anymore. He's so weak, all it took was that one instance of not giving in lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:56 AM
22

Hahaha I was so hesitant to spend 200 bucks strictly on myself, but I'm so glad I did! I invested that money into me and my wellbeing 😎 Every day I'm so happy with the decision I made
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:51 AM
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Call them out on their shit. Toxic men are pathetic weaklings on the inside, and directly calling them out on their shit tends to shut them down. Example: Me talking with a male coworker. I say a thing. He says, "I don't know what you're talking about," with a shit eating grin on his face. Instead of bending over backwards trying to explain to him the thing (and play into his stupid little game), I said, "That's probably for the best." He was completely shut down. He can't handle the slightest b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:40 AM
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I'm glad you weren't brainwashed like I was! I was taught that being a woman means always wearing something uncomfortable. Wish I could go back in time and help out my younger self
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:32 AM
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Np! Hope you get yourself a snazzy new pair of comfortable shoes :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:30 AM
5

Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:30 AM
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Lol they're so great I bought 2 pairs--one for work and one for home https://www.allbirds.com/products/womens-wool-runners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:17 AM
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I'm going to keep my apartment... and not tell the guy. That way if he does decide to do a 180 after we're living together, I can just leave. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:38 PM
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My heart goes out to her. She seems very hurt and confused. I'm 32 now, and I remember how hurt and confused I was at her age (24 I believe). Cut toxic men out of your life and never second guess yourself. Don't give men another chance to hurt you when you're still dealing with unhealed trauma. I made the mistake of trusting men and guess what? They all hurt me, especially when I was vulnerable. I swear to god, the worst toxic men are like sharks--attracted to the smell of blood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:59 PM
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You accused me of bullying you for simply disagreeing with you... it seems like you have unhealed trauma. I encourage you to go to therapy so you can heal the pain you're in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:40 PM
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Whoooooaaaa. I'm not bullying you. You're the one attacking me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:20 PM
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So you think a pedophile receiving therapy will help him not be a pedophile? This is an awfully strange hill to die on, sis. Why are you so defensive of narcissistic abusive men that you're attacking me over it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:16 PM
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I'm not joking at all. Why would you think it was a joke? Narcissist abusive men are huge pieces of shit and they can't change themselves anymore than a pedophile can change his true nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:58 PM
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Can a pedophile change with enough therapy? I'm afraid not. It's the same with LVM. Once an abusive narcissistic piece of shit, always an abusive narcissistic piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:53 PM
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And when you tell the "friend" you don't think sex work is a real choice, she'll call you a TERF and become hostile If your only options are 1. Starve/become homeless or 2. Sex work, it's not a real choice. It's something you're forced to do in order to survive. The vast majority of sex workers fall into the profession because they don't have another option. My heart goes out to every woman in that position
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:20 PM
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This, exactly! I'm saying, women should be able to freely choose who they reproduce with, which would essentially "award" reproduction to the fittest males. Men don't have the right to force women to carry their children. Mate selection should happen organically, on the individual level. Government should have no place in this, obviously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:58 AM
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Ok, I don't espouse nazi ideology. I'm of jewish descent. What makes a man a fit individual? Basically everything that makes a man a HVM. It has nothing to do with race and everything to do with his character and how he treats his partner and children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:50 AM
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Um, no. I didn't put any Nazi wording in my post. Perhaps you're misremembering Edit: I really love how you accuse me of editing my original post without noting it, when you did that about 2 seconds later ✌ Talk about the pot calling the kettle black It isn't even remotely nazi-like to say that shitty, abusive men shouldn't reproduce. Without patriarchy in place these abusive pieces of shit wouldn't pass along their shitty DNA, because women wouldn't freely choose to have their kids. How dare yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:46 AM
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Nah I think you misunderstood. I'm talking from an evolutionary perspective--the fittest individuals are the ones who reproduce. I'm saying that misogyny and patriarchy have perverted the natural order and made it so that unfit men are able to reproduce. Without patriarchy in place, women wouldn't be pressured to mate with unfit males and produce their offspring, and in non-western cultures women often don't get to choose who they have children with. I'm saying, let women choose who they want to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:42 AM
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Online dating is a huge NO from me. It's a cesspool that I want no part of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:26 PM
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💜💜💜💜💜 love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:31 PM
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Exactly! In my city I see attractive girls every day. It's a very rare day indeed that I see an attractive man. Attractive girls outnumber attractive guys about 20 to 1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:32 AM
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Yep. It happened to me. The asshole kept me socially isolated for years. He ditched me on Christmas... two years in a row... and the first time I protested, he screamed in my face that I was a bitch. I'm so glad I left that asshole. Last I heard he was pulling the same shit on a single mom, but was still in the love bombing phase while also trying to fuck me. I contacted her and warned her. That's more than anyone did for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:47 PM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:43 PM
6

That is so great! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:18 PM
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Oh, I am in no way shape or form considering romantic involvement with the askers. I'm considering what people say about me when I'm not around. Whatever I say in response when they ask why I'm single will probably be repeated to other people, and I want to create a positive image of myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:58 PM
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