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Hey, give me your number so we can go [do thing discussed earlier in conversation] sometime.
/r/seduction04/11/14 06:49 AM
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There are now Coke bottles that you can buy that say "Share a Coke with ______" and have a bunch of different names. He brought one with a random female name on it. In this scenario it's Malin. The name could have been Jessica, or Sarah, or whatever. The actual name on the bottle doesn't matter - he just used it as an opener to talk to any random girl he decided to open.
/r/seduction23/06/14 07:21 PM
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From a girl's perspective, OMG yes it makes a huge difference. I guess if I analyze why it makes a difference it comes down to two things. There's comfort in the usual progression. You know what to expect. A guy jumping to sex to the first time without fingering me at all seems weird. There's a bunch of steps missing. Plus, I can kind of gauge from the way a guy fingers me how the sex will be. It's part of the build up. Sure, after the first time it can be skipped sometimes, but leading up to th…
/r/seduction19/02/14 04:51 AM
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But what if he hasn't considered you sexually before? I feel like when guys give this advice they are picturing 8s or 9s doing it to them, not 6s or 7s.
/r/seduction31/01/14 01:46 PM
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This is awesome and not crude at all I don't think.
/r/seduction31/01/14 01:45 PM
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I hooked up with a guy this week. (And a note to guys here, hopefully y'all know this, but sitting and watching Youtube videos, even mildly sexual ones, is not escalation. I went over to this guys house knowing it was for a hookup but he wouldn't escalate physically at all. I finally had to start kinoing him and at that point it was on, but if I were timid or sexually shy at all he would have missed out on essentially a sure thing because he didn't initiate or escalate any physical contact.) How…
/r/seduction22/10/13 05:26 AM
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She doesn't need to ask if they're into woman. As a woman who sometimes sleeps with other woman, it's all about reading social cues (and they're mostly the same social cues I look at when trying to determine whether or not a guy is into me). Does she smile when I make eye contact? If I come over does she hold conversation or is she suddenly "busy" with her phone? If I start kino-ing her does she respond and escalate or does she seem uncomfortable or does she just ignore it? I've watched my gay m…
/r/seduction25/09/13 02:21 PM
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Come join us over at /r/fPUA ! How do you know this guy? Do you see him alone or is it always in a group setting or at work or school? I would read up on kino and escalate physically. It is a lot less likely to freak him out than going, "Hey, wanna fuck?" and is more likely to actually to lead to getting him into bed than endless flirting and talking about sex. A lot of the guys here are advising to just take him and drag him into bed, and saying things like, "I guarantee he won't say no." Howev…
/r/seduction09/09/13 05:38 AM
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+1 on the "I'm going to do X. You should come along." It works beautifully. I've had success with it twice in the past couple weeks, and had it work once where I was initially blown off because they had other plans. I responded "Okay, well if you change your mind you know where to find me," and they wound up showing up later anyway.
/r/seduction04/09/13 08:49 AM
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Why bother saying anything? Just wait. If she responds she responds. If she doesn't, she doesn't. Saying "I guess you don't want to talk," makes you sound bitter or needy.
/r/seduction29/08/13 03:37 AM
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I don't know if I would really call that putting it out there that you find her attractive. You said that you found her accent (that apparently she doesn't even have anymore) "cute". That's barely hinting around the area of attraction. It isn't going to help frame your intentions as sexual at all and isn't going to do anything to build attraction.
/r/seduction29/08/13 03:35 AM
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I went out with a friend from work the other night. (I'm female and he's male). I was pretty drunk and escalated on him the whole night. I kino-ed him pretty significantly, including running my fingers through his hair on the back of his head. And I grabbed his tie and told him that he shouldn't be wearing it because it made me want to grab it and make out with him. He didn't reject at any point (though I did not actually try to make out with him). And he reinitiated the next day by basically fi…
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:10 AM
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Same here. I'm in my late 20s and I moved half-way across the country. I met people primarily though work and meetup.com. I wouldn't say that I have more friends than I know what to do with, but I do have more friends than I did in my old state. I go out at least two nights a week and could go out more if I felt like it and wanted to spend the money to do it.
/r/seduction11/08/13 06:19 AM
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I've found it easiest to invite people out to do something right after club meet ups (and right after work). For me it's easier to say, "Hey, I'm starving. Want to grab a pizza and a beer from the bar?" than it is to come up with completely different plans on a different day. I like going out to a quiet, low key bar. Someplace where you can grab food, play some pool, and talk. Otherwise, anything either related to the club (i.e. if it is a photography club go out and take pictures, if it is a sp…
/r/seduction11/08/13 06:12 AM
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Yes, I don't know how to signal to a guy that I am interested without seeming like I'm overly giggly, vapid, and silly. And I don't want a guy who is interested in something like that. I do have some physical assets, but I'm probably a 7 rather than an 8, 9, or 10. I don't know if being direct will be a good thing or if it will scare off guys who might have otherwise approached. Same thing with clothing - I don't know whether to go all out and show off what I've got, or to dress more demurely an…
/r/seduction16/07/13 07:21 AM
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How old are you? If you're 22 and just graduated and are back visiting friends then sure. If you're 30 and trolling around campus hitting on 18 year olds you're probably going to be called creepy and not have much luck.
/r/seduction05/03/13 09:55 AM
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Depends. If girl 1 tells girl 2 (which in my experience she probably will - in my little circle of acquaintances we gossip about guys all the time and will tell each other if Kristin is flirting with Justin even though she really has no intentions with Justin and really likes Jim instead, and will sit with Kristin and analyze what Jim says/does/might be thinking even though I would not consider us to be great friends) you will probably come off as needy or at least over-eager - especially if you…
/r/seduction05/03/13 09:53 AM
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Much better than most of the stuff I've seen written for women. In light of a recent post where guys have mentioned that it is a turn off for girls to be too forward or available to them, I find it interesting that there are people commenting that leaving for awhile is a bad thing to do. Is there some sort of balance that needs to be struck between being too forward and too available or is this more of a different strokes for different folks type of thing where one guy might like a girl hanging …
/r/seduction28/02/13 07:12 AM
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+1 for hands. And confidence is my biggest one. Tall, short, skinny, fat, whatever - if you're the most confident motherfucker in the room chances are you're the one who has my attention. And tall is more likely to be a dealbreaker than short for me. My range doesn't go much taller than 5'9 because I'm 5'3 and don't want to be looking at a guy's stomach or chest when I talk to him. Anything over 5'5 is really okay for me.
/r/seduction18/02/13 11:33 AM
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I hate everything about this article (and the ones for women in their teens and twenties).
/r/seduction18/02/13 11:16 AM
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Awesome advice about starting your own group. This is something I've been struggling with since I am new to my area and newly single. I have one best friend down here and a lot of acquaintances, so I think I'm going to give this a try.
/r/seduction16/02/13 06:24 AM
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I would check your body language and facial expressions. I never had boyfriends in high school and thought it was because I was too ugly for anybody to ever like. However, people (guys and girls) were put off from approaching me due to closed off and off-putting body language and facial expressions. I put some focus onto changing these things and now I am a lot more approachable. Single guys can most easily be found at bars and clubs. I approach because while I don't think I'm unattractive, I'm …
/r/seduction16/02/13 06:21 AM
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Invited myself out with some acquaintances and had a great time. (I had severe social anxiety so inviting myself to anything is awful for me. Usually they ask me or I don't go and instead sit around and feel sorry for myself.) Gave goofy little kid Valentines Day cards to my coworkers. Included a little tease/neg on the one to the guy I'm actually attracted to. (It said something like, "Happy Valentines Day to someone who's funny, nice, and awesome" and I wrote "So definitely not you then.") Saw…
/r/seduction16/02/13 03:30 AM
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Haha I'm trying. I know it's a poor life decision but I can't help myself.
/r/seduction08/02/13 08:26 AM
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As a woman who reads seddit, I'm familiar with most of the techniques PUAs use. However, when I'm out in the moment, I'm not thinking "Oh, this guy is negging me" or whatever. It's just a human interaction. In fact, there's this kid that I work with that is running game all the time. He literally told me the other day that he was going to stand outside until he got a few more approaches in. He's always flirting and getting girls' numbers. It only occurred to me after four months of knowing him t…
/r/seduction22/01/13 08:34 AM
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100% this. I've tried to post something similar to this several times but I don't know whether I've succeeded before. Complements on my eyes or face or whatever I just don't know what to do with - okay I have gorgeous eyes through no effort on my behalf, I guess I say thanks and that's it. I didn't choose my eyes. On the other hand I put a lot of effort into my hair/makeup/outfit/accessories before I go out. I do this partially because I want to look good when I go out, but also partially to att…
/r/seduction22/01/13 07:56 AM
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The attitudes that you're showing here - that you're not good enough for girls and there's no way you can change that AND that girls are all shallow golddiggers that only go for cut sexy guys with money - are both really unattractive, and I can guarantee you that these are the reasons you are not getting girls, not the fact that you aren't a 10 or that you aren't showing them your paystubs.
/r/seduction17/01/13 11:37 AM
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How do you pick up people at work? I talk to this guy a lot (and some conversations veer into the pseudo-sexual - today we were discussing strip clubs and how high school girls and guys do each other's homework in hopes of sex). Hung out with him once outside of work at a house party at his place (was a guest of his roommate) but we were both in relationships at the time so nothing happened. I don't feel like it's at the point yet where I can ask him to drinks or coffee or whatever yet - I'm sti…
/r/seduction15/01/13 01:23 PM
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I really like your makeup example because it is definitely true. Most guys I have seen who say they like a girl who wears no makeup actually like girls who are skilled at applying their makeup so it is not caked on looking or super-obvious. They can't tell these girls are wearing makeup so they think they prefer no makeup. I think some a lot of the issue is gender socialization. As girls we are socialized from a young age that certain things are desirable in a mate - a guy who opens doors for yo…
/r/seduction13/01/13 04:37 AM
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And as to how to seem approachable - smile and make eye contact and asking questions are the important ones. Smiling and eye contact make you just seem approachable in general, and smiling also makes you seem like a nice person to be around. Asking questions about his life and his opinion show that you are interested in people besides yourself and are open to looking at his life and way of doing things. Being asked about yourself is flattering in general.
/r/seduction11/01/13 06:25 AM
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Definitely playful teasing! Talks about things he feels are DHVs in your general vicinity (parties he's going to, sports prowess, military service, his job, etc) - often goes along with the talking louder so you can hear how awesome he is. Mirroring body language - his body stance winds up being roughly the same as yours as you are talking. Initiates eye contact, conversation, or kino. Basically anything on the list of female IOIs (http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/cortx/heres_a_little_…
/r/seduction11/01/13 06:20 AM
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I'm having trouble understanding your question. Do you mean you want to ask her to a dance that neither of you are actually able to go to just to let her know that you are interested in her? If that is what you mean, that's a horrible idea. If you want to let her know that you like her, use the techniques described in this subreddit to begin building attraction and making your intent clear. Then ask her someplace on a day you can actually both go - to the movies, to get ice cream, to hang out at…
/r/seduction29/12/12 08:49 AM
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Not the girl you're asking, but I figured I would chime in anyway. I found it because it was linked in a discussion on one of the subreddits I was subscribed to, and initially I looked at it because I thought it would be train-wrecky gimmicky crap I could laugh at. However, after reading some of the threads and watching some videos from the pua community I've found it's actually a decent resource for learning how to interact with everyone. I'm not ugly, but I'm certainly not an HB9 or 10, and I …
/r/seduction01/12/12 08:59 AM
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