lakat17 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1249	Women aren't morally obligated to have babies.	LIES MEN TELL	lakat17	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 01:19 AM
1174	You are not an equal opportunity employer. Your intimate relationships are not centers of civil rights. Your body and mind are not subject to anti-discrimination standards.		lakat17	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 04:03 PM
820	Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In Therapy	DISCUSSION	lakat17	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 10:29 PM
123	HV relationships, age difference, and poll.	STRATEGY	lakat17	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 08:04 PM
71	Taking on spiritual practices or meditative practices for spiritual/personal growth	DISCUSSION	lakat17	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/22 09:01 PM
1	Women aren't morally obligated to have children.	LIES MEN TELL	lakat17	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 01:09 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform. The new platform is very secure and the FDS podcast also noticed that their still able to grow on other platforms.. I’ll now you miss it on Reddit - but as they explained in the podcast, FDS is stacked against everything and every male on Reddit. there is also the way back machine website you can use to get access	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/22 02:48 AM
32	Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform. It’s not back. They explained on the podcast that they would make it un private in order for to save your material, save posts that you liked, and delete want you didn’t want Reddit to own. They didn’t say when they would it - it would be random so men wouldn’t have time to coordinate anything against FDS. It’s not going to last long - so make the most of it until they make it private again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/22 02:38 AM
15	If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right. QUEEN!!! 👑. Omg. I loved the way you articulated it. If They were confident, self assured in themselves, or knew thier value/ what they offered they wouldn’t see you as scary. Thier not use to working for female attention and companionship. But it’s easier to label you as scary then for them to see the reality that’s it’s thier own insecurities or thier unwillingness to level up to have something to offer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/22 11:38 PM
5	Taking on spiritual practices or meditative practices for spiritual/personal growth Yes I love this! I love being around giant trees near my forest. It’s just so calming.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/03/22 05:42 AM
232	Most men are misogynist but Right wing men are just open about. I work in Right wing politics. Yes!! Thank you Queen . No man of any political party is our friend. Your experience reminds me of Andrea Dworkin quote “ to right wing men, we are private property. To left wing men, we are public property”. Both men spew misogyny and many women just like yourself see the right . While leftist men fight for justice and progress , they also want “wives and whores” which pushes, many women to the right since they don’t openly see the mysogynt until later. No male dominated political party will ha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/22 07:41 PM
36	Spotted one in the wild. Well he let the all the women know he’s basically trash	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 05:28 AM
58	💯 Leave that devil sis!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 05:26 AM
22	"wait to have sex" labeled as "bad dating advice"...and all of the people in the comments applauding... “The timing of sex has no measure of difference for men or women. So I will propose a sexual behavior that ultimately benefits men and can put women in harms way. There is no need to think or vet your potential sexual partner, just live in the moment, since this practice benefits men, who don’t have to live with the consequences of pregnancy, rate of STDs compared to women, and male sexual violence. You see if you were really a cool 😎 girl, you’d think just like a man, so men can benefit, and pr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/22 12:29 AM
14	This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'. “Merely thinking of the company”? … nah my dude would have flung loyalty out the door if he was offered a better paid internship/job somewhere else. What he couldn’t accept was a women, he perceived as degraded and nothing more than jerking off material, even be considered worthy as him at the company. He’ll happily jerk of to her images but it’s unacceptable that they work for the same company. Also, wtf is the hiring dude problem, what employees do on thier time , is non of thier business.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 07:15 AM
315	It's too late, the Porn Industry won, the children are corrupted. Todays young people think rape is good and the people who think its bad are the problem. How do we protect kids, teens and young adults from being indoctrinated into Porn and LibFem culture? Kinks now are used to disguise the underlying power dynamics in heterosexual relationships. kinks obscure how behaviors are influenced by men’s sexual desires and domination. And women are being “shamed” into being critical of these behavior. First women were prudes and now were kink-shamers. No behavior is above analysis or reproach - anything that tries to terminate your critical thinking is a tool to demand your submission. let’s not be scared to be called kink shamers while male violence and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 11:58 PM
6	LVM f*cked around, found out. So HE feels embarrassed and so decided his girlfriend take out his feelings on her? I mean like what a man child… a beta is always trying to pin their emotions and actions unto others and not take no responsibility themselves. I’m glad she saw the light	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 11:47 PM
79	FDS: thank you for helping me to open my heart to women Yes 🙌! Sisterhood is so necessary	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/22 10:47 PM
45	Average "Dating" Time Before Engagement in the Early 1900s: Two Weeks Exactly. I think I once saw a segment on celebrity men about how they knew thier wife’s were the one. And all of them knew by the first meet or the first date she was the one. Obviously they didn’t reveal this, but acted accordingly. So yes, if a man is giving you mixed signals, is hot and cold, ghosts and reappears, your just a pawn in thier sexual game.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/22 10:46 PM
3	I noticed in the podcast they were having a hard time awarding a high value man. I nominate Flip the Rooster. Omg! How cute and wholesome	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/22 07:14 PM
26	Dating During This Omicron Phase I’ve read some articles when covid 19 lockdowns were first happening that people would have dates over zoom, order door dash so your date could have dinner, or have a Netflix party. I mean you could share a YouTube video over zoom or google hangouts and it’s like you two are together.. point is.. if he wanted to he would figure out a way.. there’s plenty of articles of how to be romantic staying home	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 05:44 PM
8	Relationship status = single A real man would want his children healthy, strong and feed! And that means them eating first. I swear the level of inferiority complex in these trash men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/21 01:43 AM
10	Healing and taking my power back Thank you for sharing your spiritual, emotional, and physical leveling up Queen! You deserve to be safe in your own body!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/21 12:34 AM
144	Female Researcher undertakes research on Ayuhuasca with NVM Shaman (while trying to be politically correct and ignoring her instincts) and is later sexually assaulted - Sexual Assault in the Amazon This is where cultural relativism obscures violence against women in other societies. she was thought that it was not “PC” or intellectual if she imposed her own values into the interaction with a male from a different culture. This may hold true for men in general, but in almost every modern culture, men oppress and take advantage of females in thier culture. I’m not sure if describing men as “flawed” perhaps capture the reality of Amazonian women under male violence. How these women know these…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 12:52 AM
31	Sometimes I feel like all hope is lost. Don’t ever mistake that this society doesn’t care for men or thier sexual needs. Sometimes I see posts about how the patriarchy shames men too or boys aren’t allowed to develop feelings. In reality, they are allowed to express them - through anger, shouting, tanstrums. How is example not a prime example how society will literally allow male sexual behavior in public at the expense of safety and dignity of everyone else. In a society where women are constant exposed to public sexual harassment. T…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 03:51 PM
15	A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy. First of all, queens need to eat. Second , if men are intimidated by your appetite he ain’t the one. 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 04:24 PM
77	Adding on to the funny post earlier about hobosexuals. Men using women to have a roof over their head is common this time of year. Here is a very helpful video I watch every now and then that I believe will be helpful to you ladies in weeding out men who just want to use you to have a place to stay Queen energy mother!! Kick🦵 these broke as man outta here! Why should we subsidize a man living arrangement!??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/21 07:35 PM
63	Choice feminism - propaganda? It’s the same tactic today. Substitute a few words and men and handmaidens are using the same rhetoric to redefine subordinate conditions as freely chosen. “Men and liberal feminists are obscuring the coercive pipeline that tracks women into accepting male sadistic sexual intercourse, normalization of porn and “sex work”, and free physical and emotional labor in marriage within a discourse about women’s consent, agency, empowerment, and choice. “	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/21 05:55 AM
103	For any woman who has ever been negged about her appearance... Standards????? Who do I talk to because I’m not seeing any standards present on post Malone.. he’s essentially allowed to be his natural self while this beautiful women probably has a strict diet and exercise regiment	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 06:26 AM
95	When evaluating a man, don't just look at how you perceive his behaviour. Also look at the factual realities of your life before/after he came into it. This is absolutely amazing and so insightful. Honestly this higher level sociopathy behavior from men that needs professional expertise to expose. When the behavior itself is checks all the marks but only in ways that disconnect you from your social circle and life - i think it’s almost impossible for the average women notice. It connects to the point of how a man is not just conducting himself with HV behavior - but how is he also materially benefitting or adding your life. We need to be vigila…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 09:07 PM
16	Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In Therapy Oh wow! What a beautiful story! I’m glad to hear we have a badass therapist like yourself in the field!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/21 04:22 PM
80	Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In Therapy ThAts incredible! Can you give me some examples of what your therapist predicted?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/21 05:30 AM
83	Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In Therapy Oh wow. What was your ex’s behavior that made the therapist say that?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/21 05:27 AM
5	I did it. (TW: r*pe) I hope the universe gives so much Queen and Warrior energy to help you through this process!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 10:31 PM
147	These NVM ain’t even trying to cover up what they really think anymore… it’s truly sad that their are women that will actually choose to match with these sick men. So men are soft because women expect of level of defense and respect from men in intimate relationships?? This man just expects women to not have any standards and think his behavior is ok. 🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/21 10:55 PM
71	Dealing with embarrassment after dating poorly Sis. It’s happened or is happening to all of us. When I first discovered FDS and reflected back on my poor decisions with men, I too was embarrassed and cringed 😬 at my behavior. I couldn’t even stand to share, even though Reddit is anonymous. That’s how I felt. Until eventually I saw so many similar experiences and worst experiences, I shared my own. I suggest you go past posts where the OP talks about their past pickme behavior or post where FDSers are invited to share thier past pickmeisha be…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 06:16 PM
8	HV relationships, age difference, and poll. the data was almost 2 million danish couples.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 12:09 AM
7	HV relationships, age difference, and poll. very good points. All the things you described is how we should be looking for in the men we date.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 12:08 AM
16	HV relationships, age difference, and poll. ThAts a good point. I can’t really control if outside community members vote.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 10:27 PM
14	HV relationships, age difference, and poll. Forgot about that! Next time there is a poll it should include 0 for , 0 years apart…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 10:25 PM
17	HV relationships, age difference, and poll. ok thanks!!! ill give a preliminary tally!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 09:53 PM
33	HV relationships, age difference, and poll. Thanks! How do i exactly do that? This is my first time doing a poll. How do i go back and edit and make sure thats visible?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 08:22 PM
5	This is why we should NEVER give any man a child, especially if he’s not our husband This women needs Lundy’s “why does he do that”. She’s figured he’s a narcissist but still actively engaged with him, especially in a very vulnerable state where he could harm Her and her child. If anyone with a tik tok can dm her about the book maybe it can help cut him out completely from her life. He shows all the red flags 🚩. No word of encouragement or empathy during this very hard ordeal, especially as a black women. “Look at the fuck you act” — like she’s responsible for his feelings in th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 05:56 PM
2	This is why we should NEVER give any man a child, especially if he’s not our husband Maybe she realized his narcissism in the middle of the 2nd pregnancy pregnancy?? I don’t know..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 05:45 PM
174	Finally left my fiance thanks to this sub Congrats 🎊🍾 Queen!! I’m happy for you. I think it’s so important to realize that women don’t need a whole book of red flags 🚩 to justify leaving LVM. At the first sign of instability, anxiousness, abuse , regardless of the time spent - you out yourself first and leave. I hope you take this time to heal, focus on self care and leveling up, set up proper boundaries, articulate your rights and needs, invest in your career or personal growth!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 05:18 PM
40	Woman killed by apartment maintenance man, who had a key. We need to push for a Miya Marcano law. I was always scared of this happening. Wtf? ThAts such a violation. Does Chicago of some renters rights over this? What did you do?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 05:41 AM
8	The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman. Danm this dude is super gross. Jealous that the ex got have sex but not that he spend time and had a relation ship with her? That’s they part he should get jealous if he respected and loved her the “I only wish I had known you before”.. 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 05:39 AM
174	You are not an equal opportunity employer. Your intimate relationships are not centers of civil rights. Your body and mind are not subject to anti-discrimination standards. You mom has Queen energy! We ain't subsidizing men's access to our body or emotional labor anymore.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 04:15 PM
24	They always come back for a temp check Queen energy! That was the minimum he could do to make you waste the time it took to read that pathetic ass message.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 03:50 PM
11	FDS is featured on Jezebel Jezebel writer : “hmmmm… how can I manipulate the reader into thinking this female centered dating, boundary setting, male behavior critique, and self improvement strategy subreddit, is actually outdated sexist nonsense “ Jezebel writer: “ looks something like a 1950s dating manual”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 07:30 AM
51	Excuse me? That’s what I’m saying!! He’s stealing vital sustenance from his child. A developing baby that’s needs all nutrients it can get. Dude as a man it should be an honor to provide for your baby. This man is degenerate and just shows another level of perversion.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/21 04:43 AM
51	Excuse me? Wow. This is absolutely degenerate. This man is literally stealing vital formula from his son and not taking responsibility of keeping the bottle hygienic and minimizing her concern about it. I can even articulate the depth of depravity of his unwillingness to pay to for his own baby’s formula. He’s egotistical and the mom and child need to be stay away from him asap	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/21 04:40 AM
143	“Why Sex-Positive Feminism is Falling out of Fashion” Also this journalist for VOX calling the anti porn movement on Tic tok “conservatism” is lazy journalism. That was clearly intentional and manipulative to get the reader ready that these women are “prudes, vanilla” and aren’t basing thier analysis on personal experience	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/21 02:13 PM
154	“Why Sex-Positive Feminism is Falling out of Fashion” Hearing that we have a professor teaching anti porn at a university is like a breath of fresh air.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/21 02:08 PM
8	What to do when your friend is being emotionally or physically abused Do you remember what book she asked your read from in the first session?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 09:28 AM
33	Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them? Why is it that what women “need to see in themselves” is always the same generic skinny women with perky boobs and skinny body? In other words what “men would like women to be”. Where is the post portum body, where is the breast cancer survivor, the senior body, the stretch marks. Just another pornified fantasy for men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 04:12 AM
8	Anyone notice guys get uncomfortable if you want to stay at home after kids? Agree 💯. There is value in having a family and having your wife become a stay at home mother. The family is the value. Having your wife become a stay at home is the value in of itself. A man who values children’s and you will see this as an investment and be eager to see how he can get a raise or invest is some other way	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/21 07:07 PM
41	Be careful out there with these hobosexuals Why is it that men who do this have the dignity of having a “sexuality” named for this but women are just labeled “gold diggers”. Like it’s a light hearted joke for men but a serious 🧐 con from women?? Hate that double standard. Minimum standard to even consider dating a man have a job and have a legit roof over thier place (not a van)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/21 06:58 PM
60	AI Deepfake app allows users to face swap women's faces into porn. There are also one where they can digitally remove your clothes. Lo and behold this kind of thing gained popularity on Reddit and was said to be created here.Men are disgusting and this is horrifying. If it can digitally remove clothes? Does the AI figure out how the body should look? Or does it use some algorithms to fill that out? I heard the same thing was happening on tik Tok as well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 01:55 AM
195	Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal? This is definitely not normal. This is I think a relatively new phenomena that’s gotten mainstream because of pornography. Now that is widely available , boys and men are using it as their sexual template, and imitating it when they have sex. They don’t ask thier parnter, they just think it’s a normal expectation now to slap or choke them. I had a friend who was making out or having sex, not sure when one who said this dude choked her. I think this was 3-4 years ago. Men, in order to justify thi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 12:57 PM
3	Emotional incest and pick me moms- stay out of it Yes! And for further reading to spot more red flags and how they manifest is the book “when he’s married to mom”. Very gol and informative and plenty of patient anecdotes who sought therapy to recover	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 04:24 AM
38	Quick unmatch after one early text. I’m finally learning to not waste time by trusting my gut. If he had real responsibilities, he would just reply when he could .. and that’s it. These men always tell on themselves. Men are ruthless when it comes to unmatching and not giving a fuck… this attitude screams of desperation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 03:21 AM
62	What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell? Girl…. I also drove like 30 min to see him… and it wasn’t even halfway… it was to pick him up… you know why???? Because his street had very bad parking and he didn’t want to lose his spot… and me like a dog was all like “yeah sure” even thought I was like … “this doesn’t seem right”… this men clearly know when they have a pickmeisha on thier hand and take full advantage..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 04:32 PM
39	What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell? Ugh… when I started to read FDS and realized my own pickme behavior… I would feel so cring.. and embarrassed 😳 🙈 because how could I let my younger self do that? Sometimes I feel in all aspects of our life we know how to act in our best interest, but with men, it does down the drain (at least for me)! Anyways … I dated or was seeing this guy ten years older than me.. and he didn’t even “court” me.. all he had to do was give me some ducking minuscule amount of attention and there I was feeling li…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 04:23 PM
10	Women aren't morally obligated to have babies. Right?!?!! So what if it’s evidence as birth control.. we have evidence that women performed their own abortion and cultivated these plants.. but obviously that not info they want is to know… Again abortion is “evil” or “acceptable” when it’s convenient for men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 04:11 PM
21	Women aren't morally obligated to have babies. It’s neither immoral or moral. I’m not citing sources, but abortion have been practiced for thousand of years. Plants that even aided in abortion were cultivated. It’s a way to manipulate women out of our decision to control out reproduction. Tell women they are “immoral, sinful, bad, going to hell, murderers” and you get to control their bodies with out actually saying that’s what you want to do. And these men don’t care about the trauma or quality of life for mom or many, it’s about controllin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 04:06 PM
18	Women aren't morally obligated to have babies. Exactly! Abortion is dealing with the consequence. Abortion is taking responsibility for how women want to deal with it. But because men don’t like it they call it “evading responsibility” “gods plan” “murder”. All terms that set up a standard that women are suppose to have the baby’s and/or are “bad” for killing the fetus.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 03:59 PM
98	Women aren't morally obligated to have babies. Absolutely....its either "a gift from god" or "consequences" depending on which is more convenient for them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 04:25 AM
46	Men want to believe porn is empowering to women so they can to consume it without guilt Exactly. They will say anything in order manipúlate us into thinking it’s completely normal. Again setting expectations for us for sexual abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 01:47 AM
159	Men want to believe porn is empowering to women so they can to consume it without guilt Porn is the theory. Rape is the practice. I believe Andrea dworkin said this about porn. Porn teaches men what women are “whores, sluts, things to be fucked.” Thier is no need to sugar coat it. porn is the manifestation of men’s entitlement to women’s bodies and patriarchal beliefs that women always want it and women should expect violence and degradation. Being called a “prude , sex negative, repressed” isn’t an argument and does nothing to Analyze how porn harms women as a class. Further readi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 01:46 AM
19	I’m really curious to know.. Learn how to be assertive. I honestly think learning how be assertive and respecting your wants and desires and see the many ways people and society try to manipulate us from being assertive, is one of the best avenues to learn and feel self love. Which I lacked or feel I didn’t deserve when I was younger. Once you know what to say, act and pinpoint assertiveness and tackle manipulation, confidence and self low grows and you get less scared. ( READ “when I say no, I feel guilty). Also “dick/men …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/21 07:01 PM
122	SeXual SeLecTiOn is A hAte CriMe aGainSt mEn Male speak: ignore the monumental evidence of male violence and male predation against women because it’s inconvenient to men. And yes we are biased. Like it’s a bad thing. These mean speak and salivate at the chance to be biased for violent and abusive men. Being bias is a life saving strategy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/21 02:15 AM
106	SeXual SeLecTiOn is A hAte CriMe aGainSt mEn It’s always telling women to make better choices and never holding men accountable and responsible for their behavior ( and ignoring power men hold in society). And when women finally decide to do something - we’re entitled princess , golddiggers, bitches. it’s always been about controlling us. First It’s “shut up stop complaining - it’s your fault.”Then it’s “stop what your doing - it’s inconvenient for us”.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/21 02:06 AM
28	Does it ever just make you sad how much women will put up with? I’m more angry at the patriarchical messaging and condition women receive since birth. from the moment we’re born we’re trained to value and fight for male validation and to have a man by our side no matter the cost to our self interest. It’s only because of this conditioning do we allow ourselves to put up with a abusive degrading , and undignified relationships. Sis, we should channel our sadness into concrete action. Like Lilith in the podcast says we need to fight for better working conditio…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/21 01:40 AM
82	Why are Jordan Peterson’s views problematic to FDS? Didn’t he talk about “enforced monogamy” to counteract the problem of incels. Isn’t this guy whole thing on personal responsibility? But when it comes to men who are socially awkward or can’t get dates is that women become sexual slaves?? I guess it’s personal responsibility and not calling in the “nanny state” when its convenient.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 06:15 PM
76	Watch this scrote get roasted for his views. Hands up if you’ve encountered an angry short guy with a complex like this 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️ Absolutely! The audacity to think that your choice to provide equates to women giving up thier autonomy. Your not providing then, you don’t want a relationship. What you want is the jusrification to treat her like property.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 04:14 AM
14	Watch this scrote get roasted for his views. Hands up if you’ve encountered an angry short guy with a complex like this 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️ Rip him apart!!! Many of these men who claim they have no problem providing also take offense when women don’t automatic become thier sheep dogs. Also what’s with the mentality with these scrotes that want a submissive women if thier “providers”.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 04:10 AM
1	Welcome to FDS! Can I get reviewed for a flair? Please and thank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/21 03:43 PM
3	I told a man he needed therapy last night. Check him sis… shiiiitt. Queen energy!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/21 09:21 PM
3	Had a HVM and lost him☹️ I know it’s really difficult to imagine yourself outside of this relationship or even being single after being with a man you consider HV. But it will do you no good to stay in this mental rut and sulk about how you lost “a good guy”. take this time to take care of yourself and your needs so you get change that internal dialogue with yourself. Don’t prioritize staying with this dude because of fear. Don’t make decisions based on fear, make them based on your integrity, principles, values and sel…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/21 10:45 PM
130	"Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft has a whole section describing the abuse tactics of softbois (Mr. Sensitive in the book) As I began to read this, I honeslty thought, "well, I think I'm assertive enough and experienced to realize this if it happened to me in real life". But Bancraft level of analysis, and seeing how he picked up the contrast between the guys words and how he pushed Lundy and how Lundy explicity showed how this guy became the victim by "begging" Lundy to stop, really paints the picture how insidious it really is. I wish there was more awareness of the abusive behavior around "male emotional fragilit…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 07:08 AM
103	Another example of why we don't entertain pick me friends This was super inconsiderate of this friend to just invite another person, even if it was her boyfriend. I'm not sure how the conversation to meet up went , but I think its implied that when your meeting up with a friend you haven't seen in a while, its safe to assume it will only be the two of you. I think the proper response for any women who respects her time and the time it takes to get ready for this kind of meet up is to say that adding a third person wasn't the expectation and leave. Like…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/21 08:58 PM