TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

lalabats Archive

View 1 posts and 134 comments by lalabats on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

lalabats/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 10:23 AM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

How should I know, dude? Maybe try mixing it up like you said? Try different looks and personality types, see if anything sticks. All I'm saying is that women who act like that, are more than likely not great people and probably not someone who would do well in a relationship to begin with, so of course they wont react how you want when you give them your undivided attention. How old are you and these women? Because it sounds like pretty immature behavior on all sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:53 PM
2

Have you considered that you're just choosing shitty women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:43 PM
1

Yes, I am a practicing Catholic. Kind of. I definitely believe that love exists. And that there is someone for everyone. However, I don't know if there is only ever 1 person for someone. I did. Kind of. When we started dating my husband was basically a non-dinom Christian who was not strong in his beliefs. He has since converted to Catholicism. I don't think I could date someone who was an atheist. Absolutely. There is something that exists in sentient beings that makes us different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:37 PM
2

For example, my political views on family values tend to line up with red pill pretty closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 09:01 PM
1

I'm female, a left leaning centrist and about 70% red pill, 30% blue pill. I'm not sure that my pill(s) has an extreme connection with my political stance but, I can definitely see how they interconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:53 PM
3

Some of it may be cultural. My dad didn't let me cut my hair for the first time untill after my Quincenera. Also, long hair is associated with innocence and you're, at least in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:44 PM
2

Lol sorry! But he is! He even says it! Don't worry, just get you a girl that's shorter!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 03:31 AM
2

I would say, most women prefer a man who is taller than they are. For example, my dad is short. He is 5'9 but my mom is only 5'1. He may be short, but the height difference between them in fairly large.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 12:43 AM
1

my sex junk junkaroo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 02:31 AM
2

Yeah it is interesting. I don't think any 10 year olds are concerned about fine lines, but I know aging can be scary for a lot of people! I have some fairly deep "11" creases on my forehead even though I'm only 24, they're genetic but I've thought about getting Botox to smooth them out. My husband wouldn't let me though. He said that I would look weird and that he would much prefer if I had the mindset of "aging with grace", as opposed to trying to fight it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:11 PM
5

I don't think anything really changed. We live a fairly "traditional" lifestyle. This has not and will not change. He never took on some of the more intense aspects of the RP (plate spinning ect.). I think that had he continued to participate in the redpill sub, and if he had employed their more recent tactics, it would have hurt our relationship. I'm glad he is smart enough to know where to draw the line and to avoid being influenced by negative thoughts/ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 01:31 AM
4

My husband used to visit their sub regularly. However, once it started to turn into it's current state he lost interest. It's too extreme and angry for him now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 01:20 AM
1

Maybe! I think it also has a cultural aspect to it for me. I'm Latina and in TX. If guys acted too "girly" they would be made fun of relentlessly, including by their families. I was taught that a "good man" is strong and "ugly".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 10:59 PM
1

I'm 24 and have never found the baby faced look attractive. Even as a teenager(during the Beiber fever and twighlight years) I was attracted to traditionally masculine guys. My husband is tattooed and has a decent sized beard, I'm very into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 12:31 AM
2

I don't think so. I think it has almost everything to do with biology and our instinctual need to be "protected". It makes biological sense for a female to be attracted to a male that can 1. Pass on desirable traits 2. Provide 3. Protect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 07:03 PM
2

I would never have casual sex with anyone. Interestingly, I do have a male friend who is 24, with a good professional career and is still a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 01:13 AM
2

They sounds equally disgusting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:05 PM
1

I agree that it doesn't. But, generally speaking it does. Also, the tone of the OP was definitely negative. Weather or not it was meant, the absolutes stated and the manner in which they were stated implied a negative connotation of the word degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:46 PM
1

I agree to an extent. Morality is definitely arbitrary. However, from a more independent perspective, a heartbeat is generally associated with being alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:04 PM
1

If I'm setting my personal, religious beliefs aside, I don't see how BC is the moral equivalent of abortion. BC prevents an egg from ever even being fertilized. Hence, there is no embyro/fetus/baby. When you have an abortion, even a super early abortion, there is life there. There is something to abort. Preventing life is not the same as ending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 01:33 PM
1

Essentially, yes. I have a moral objection to using any BC at all, but I understand that not everyone has this objection and BC is the lesser evil as opposed to abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 12:26 PM
2

I never said the world was a happy place. I said that weather or not it's true, a women who believes that she will never find a good man, will never find a good man. Weather it is consciously or unconsciencly, she will seek out a shit man or participate in things that will put her in the line of fire of a shit man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 05:13 AM
2

This sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy. If the woman in question actually and whole heartedly believes this, then it will be true because she'll make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 05:08 AM
2

But that's not what we're talking about is it? You're derailing, and I said generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 05:06 AM
3

In the title?? Saying that something is degrading generally implies that it's not enjoyable for the person being degraded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 05:01 AM
7

I'm a women and I enjoy sex. It's not degrading to me, it's pretty fucking enjoyable. Maybe you're having shit sex? Or sex with shit partners? Not sure, but please don't speak in terms of absolutes. You don't get to decide what my sexual experience is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:59 AM
2

He isn't crazy attractive but I definitely wouldn't call him ugly. He just lacks a backbone. He is also probably one of the stingiest people I know also.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 01:35 AM
3

Yes. My sister is law is married to one. He works and she stays home but she bosses him around constantly. She makes all the big decisions and constantly puts him down by calling him old, bald, and joking she is going to trade him in for a younger model. It's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:13 PM
1

So do I. However, I wish they would make BC less expensive and more accessible. This should decrease the overall need for an abortion. Of course, women would have to take responsibility and actually take the BC
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:03 PM
2

Slightly related topic, I've heard from a multitude of men that the currently most sought after ethnicities of women are Hispanic and Asian. Not sure that this is the norm, maybe men in my area just have this preference. Apparently women of these ethnic groups tend to be more traditional, doting and family oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:53 PM
2

Obviously, she's gotta be 5'11, smell like heaven, she was born in 86 or maybe 87. She's got full intentions of getting her PHD. She got some big ol boobies, a countrified booty. She's a certified bonified cold blooded cutie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:11 PM
5

I agree with this for the most part. Not much fun sitting on the side lines waiting while your future husband is wineing and dinning his gfs. I'm lucky, I got the best of both worlds. My Husband and I started dating in HS and have gotten the chance to experience all the GF/BF spontaneity as well as the inevitable slow down that comes with maturing and getting married. I got the 2 week trip to Europe, the tattoos, and now I gladly pick up his dry cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:04 PM
2

I don't hate anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:49 PM
1

Yeah that's a no on the opiates. Doc offered but I don't mess with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:00 AM
1

As far as I'm concerned, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:50 PM
1

I'm mostly redpill. Like 86.234 percent redpill. And I'm not an anti-Semitic, racist, Trump supporter. Also, I don't believe in those conspiracy theories. Also, I'm a Hispanic chick of that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:46 PM
1

Women here, No to the first part, yes to the last.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:19 PM
2

Yeah, my Dr straight up told me that I needed to lie to a surgeon and say I had debilitating pain to get the reduction approved. I can't imagine how bad it must be for a J cup. Poor girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:17 PM
3

LMAO. Okay, that was really clever and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:17 PM
1

Again, I'm trying to convince my husband to let me get a reduction. Don't think showing off my goodies to random internet people will help get me in his good graces.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:18 PM
4

Could be both. I have noticed though that my center of gravity is at my chest. This can make it hard to stay balanced. Also, big boobs hurt a lot when they bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:43 PM
8

Back pain, increased risk of breast cancer, bra prices, they make me look fatter than I am, ill fitting clothes, and they get in my way. Also, I'm tired of being oogled by people other than my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:30 PM
1

Don't think that's gonna help my chances of landing a smaller cup size.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:21 PM
2

Tell that my DDD's/F's. Trying to convince my SO to agree to a reduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:18 PM
2

"Don't be a ho." YES! A million times yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:28 PM
2

Who the fuck cares? She was just another unnecessarily angry woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:33 AM
2

That's fucking hilarious, I'm choking from laughing so hard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:35 PM
1

I definitely consider that cheating. Id considering kissing and hand holding to be cheating. I'd even consider texting lovey dovey/sexy things without ever having met cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 02:29 AM
1

Of course! And yes, with her it's definitely cultural. Despite my husband coming from a broken home, and growing up with less income than my 2 parent home did, according to her, I married WAY up. She is a funny woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 01:03 PM
3

For me, it had nothing to do with his ethnicity. I had previously only been attracted to Hispanic guys. It was honestly just him that I'm attracted to. Interestingly enough, I've found that he is one of the only white men (besides celebs) that I find attractive. My grandmother and older relatives were thrilled that he is white though. The first time my grandmother met him, she told me that maybe our future babies would be light and have pretty eyes like him. That hurt, but that's another story. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 11:59 AM
2

Lol of there is, I don't wanna find it. I got enough crap about this from my very angry (and VERY Mexican) ex when he found I started dating a white guy. Complete with years of obssesive social media stalking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 11:31 AM
5

I am 5'4 and my husband is 5'11 but often wears boots of some sort and that tends to put him at about 6'1. Height is one of those weird things that shouldn't matter in attraction, but does. We are from a city where there are a ton of Hispanics (like me!), Hispanic men tend to be fairly short compared to white men (like my husband). This made my husband literally, stick out to me and his height was something that I found attractive, because it was so different than what I was used to. I think he …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 03:44 PM
1

I'm conflicted. I would never in a million years date/marry a man with young (under 21) children. I want the kids that we have to be his only priority. However, I am married and find my husband even more attractive when I see him interacting with kids (neices/nephews, students). I get the attraction, but the practicality of the situation is what gets me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 07:34 PM
1

I'd say sexually desirable because aesthetically pleasing is open to interpretation. For instance, to me, the "threatening/non approachable" men, are the most aesthetically pleasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 06:37 PM
1

Yeah I get that. My husband and I, as well as our friends fall into that age group too (22-23). I guess we are all just outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 07:57 PM
2

To me, 25 is insanely high, and upper double digits seems unthinkable. To each, their own but, I couldn't imagine being intimate with someone who had slept with 10-20 other people. Not all of us go through a "whore" phase. Like I said, I guess I'm a prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:06 PM
1

That's not the translation I was going for. More along the lines of: Are the men you're interested in interested in having a relationship? Or is he just looking to screw and move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 08:39 PM
2

I'm not sure "be a slut!" should ever be given as a piece of relationship advice. If a woman is having a difficult time finding a relationship I think she should: 1. Evaluate the type of partner she is seeking out. Is she trying to find a man that is "boyfriend/husband material"? Or has she just been chasing F**kboys? 2: Evaluate herself and try to determine if she is doing anything to sabatoge herself. Is she saying one thing but doing a whole other? Good men don't want to marry sluts, they jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 05:32 PM
5

A couple are religious, the rest are run of the mill folks. We are all pretty liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 04:03 AM
13

So I guess I'm a prude, but I've always thought any more than 5 is a lot. All of my friends have no more than 3, including their current BF/Husband. I've got one, my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 04:46 PM
4

Couldn't agree more!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 11:38 PM
3

Like anything, it's a cost/benefit thing. Housework and taking care of kids is not this crazy hard task. I've done it, if you're a capable person, it's pretty simple. However, my husband and I have decided that we will not be putting any future kids in daycare. It's way too expensive and we just don't like the idea. He is okay "taking care of me" so that I can be the person who raises our kids. For him, knowing that his kids are benefiting from their mother being with them is more valuable than …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 05:16 PM
1

The only person of the opposite sex I aim to please is my husband. And he loves that I only go out of my way to please him and no one else. Aside from the givens(food, laundry, grocery shopping, ect.) I try very hard to find a balance where he feels motivated yet adored. The easiest thing I do that pleases him, is bake. I bake his favorite treats and on slow, rainy days like today, fresh homemade bread. I think it's something about the non-essentialness of doing this that he appreciates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:49 PM
2

Im a millennial. I grew up fairly religious and in a more traditional setting, so yes, I have always wanted to get married. More so, I've always wanted to get married young. Marriage for us was never a financial decision, it was the ultimate commitment and something that we both wanted. We were together for 7ish years before getting married (lived together for 2) but still, we both new that marriage was the ultimate goal for our relationship. Marriage is not settling, or at least it shouldn't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 06:02 PM
5

That could be it on a wider scale, however I also think that people in this area just hold strongly to all sorts of traditions. This just being one of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 05:55 PM
8

This is still really common in the area of TX I'm in. Especially when the couple is young (many people here still get married pretty young, 18-mid 20s). The tradition remains alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 05:52 PM
1

Lol of course it's not genuine. It's just an excuse to be an a-hole to random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 11:58 PM
1

I think SAHMs should receive the same respect that any other human being deserves. They don't deserve to be mocked or harassed. However, as someone who plans to be a SAHM and as someone who previously and currently plays a major role in raising small children I know that it's not a super difficult job. At least, it shouldn't be for a fully capable person. It definitely is not "the hardest job there is" as I've heard some SAHMs I know claim. I could see it being a little challenging if you didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 09:20 PM
3

Thank you! Same to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 07:16 PM
20

I'm a female, happily married, been together for going on 8 years and am fat. I know I'm fat and I'm taking steps to leading a healthier life but in the mean time, I'm still fat. I fall somewhere in the middle between pro and anti fat acceptance. On one hand, we shouldn't encourage people to be unhealthy and we definitely should not mandate that other people act or even worse, feel a particular way about someone. On the other, I don't think that someone has the right to tell someone else to do a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 04:45 PM
2

My husband and I talked about this before we ever had sex. We were both teenagers and virgins however I was the more sexually experienced of the 2 of us. He made it very clear that he would not have been terribly interested in me if I had not been a virgin at the time we first got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 01:46 AM
4

Easily option 2. I've been with my husband since we were 15, I've never had casual sex nor had the desire to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 05:11 PM
2

Opposing views: In my neck of the woods (South Texas) this seems to be the opposite. In fact, the wealthier a family gets, the more liberal/bluepill they seem to become. The most redpill people that I personally know, are lower middle class families. The most bluepill people that I know are upper middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 05:08 PM
1

Don't go to Baylor, you'll just get into debt. Take the full scholarship to that local school. Go to church, really go to church and listen. And yes, you're going to marry him so don't be stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 05:31 PM
2

Good luck! 😊
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 10:20 PM
2

You may be right, we live in a large Texas city and were able to snag our reception venue(very lovely hotel) for about 8K, including food (65$ a person), 4 nights stay in honeymoon suite, and all the chairs, tables, set up. We also goy married in February (I despise Texas summer weddings for obvious reasons) so that helped with the price. We are Catholic, so we had our ceremony in my home church (800$). Then all the other fluff large weddings need lol. I do not regret anything about our wedding,…
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 01:26 AM
6

Wow 40k is a lot! I thought our wedding was extravagant at 15K and 250 attendees lol. Many people in my family have gotten married for under 1K so I heard a lot of those old wives tales. As long as you and your Fiance know what's in your heart and you both have no qualms spending the money, go for it! Y'all will be fine.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 01:00 AM
1

So, this might not be what your looking for because my SO and I were in highschool when we started dating. Well, we never officially started dating. As in, there was no "will you be my BF/GF?" We hung out more and more and suddenly we just were a couple. Similar thing when we got engaged. There was no proposal, he just bought me a ring with a nicer stone (I had a series of promise rings up to that point), and we started planning a wedding. Sometimes, it really does just happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:43 PM
3

Oh you don't have to tell me about discrimination and sexism. I am a minorty women, raised in a traditional Hispanic culture. I have no control over what other people do/say/think but I do have control over how I respond to sexism and descrimination. At the end of the day, I am ultimately responsible for how my life turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 12:29 AM
3

We have the ability to make further choices to either counteract or encourage the choices that others have made that affect us. "Life is hard" is not an excuse to play the victim. Life is hard for everyone at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 09:21 PM
15

I very surprisingly enjoy going to gun ranges. Prior to being with my now husband, I had never even seen a firearm up close. The first time I shot one, I had so much anxiety that I started crying lol. Luckily he calmed me down and since then he has taught me to shoot a variety of guns (our rule is that I have to know how to operate any firearm that he plans to keep in our home) and we have a lot of fun at the range! I even have a membership card to our favorite place!(I keep it right next to my …
/r/RedPillWives25/08/18 02:30 PM
8

I really really dislike the "victim" role that a lot of women take on. Like, just because you're a woman, your life is harder? C'mon, you are responsible for your own life and the choices you make. Be an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 03:15 AM
6

I am finally reading (listening to) Roots by Alex Haley. While listening to Roots I am working on my husband and I's costumes for the Texas Renaissance Festival. 😊 Lots of fun but definitely challenging!
/r/RedPillWives18/08/18 03:33 PM
1

There has only been a 3 month window of my 23 (almost 24!)years that I haven't had at least 1 pet. 😊 We currently have a 3 legged coon hound named (Captian) Morgan, a one eyes cat named Holly (After Buddy Holly), a 15 year old pitbull named Layla, and a Dachshund named Rooster (Cornelius Cogburn).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 03:29 PM
2

Lol yes it is interesting to think about how early our relatives had to mature. At my age (23) one grandmother had a 4 year old and was pregnant with my mom. My other grandmother was pregnant with her 4th. My mom on the other hand, at my age she had already been divorced for 3 years and had just met my dad/gotten pregnant with me. I guess I'm not too far off from her. Married, no kids yet though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 05:25 AM
1

That could be a possibility. One set of Grandparents grew up in a very small community so that makes sense. That grandmother got married at 15. My other set were in a large city but my grandmother being a teenage Hispanic girl, never left her immideate area. She got married 3 days after turning 18. Common experience seems to be younger girl with little to no worldly experience, which is exactly what made them prime marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 04:51 AM
3

It was more socially acceptable and therefore more common in past decades. My great grandmothers seem to be the most recent ancectors of mine that took place in marrying a man drastically older than them (1940s). One G-Grandma was 13 when she married my G-Grandpa, who was nearly 40. Age difference of other G-Grand parents was about 10 years. Both my parents' (married in 94) and both sets of Grandparents (married in 1950/60)have an age Gap of at least 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 04:40 AM
2

Ditto!😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 05:48 PM
1

Yup, I understand you completely. It definitely is easier (I was pressured by a Dr. and had the Nexplanon implant for a year), I'm just giving an alternate view as a practicing Catholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 04:33 PM
1

I too appriciate this view of sex. When my husband and I took our pre cana marriage preparation classes, our preist spent a considerable about of time talking about this. It really created a beautified view of sex for us as a couple. We lived together and had sex prior to our marriage and now seeing how fulfilling and loving our post marriage sex life is, we both definitely wish we had waited. The difference between the 2 is very noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 04:21 PM
1

I know plenty of Catholic couples who practice natural family planning. This enables them to limit the amount of children they have while still abstaining from use of BC. My husband and myself use it successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 04:15 PM
1

Right I get that, but with anything, some individuals will have varying results and if this works for them than that's great! Usually these individuals are in the minority though, wherein lies the problem. Even if this works for some (minority) individuals, it isn't right to encourage this for all (majority). I don't think it's all stigma. Some people just aren't gay. Like, not even a tiny itty bit experimental gay. And that's okay. Pressuring someone who isn't gay to participate in homosexual i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 05:41 AM
3

Honestly, my husband does not really care what I wear unless we are going somewhere specific. I tend to dress more modestly, both for myself and out of respect for him. I dress pretty simply, lots of t shirts and shorts/jeans and he has no issues with this. Obviously when we go out or if it's a holiday I will dress up and he likes that. I tried dressing up an every day look and he asked "why are you bothering wearing that nice stuff when we're just sitting at home/running errands?" Lol! I apprec…
/r/RedPillWives14/08/18 03:54 AM
1

I'm sorry, I just don't see the benefit (especially for someone as emotionally raw as a lot of incels seem to be) of encouraging someone to go against their natural sexual orientation. If anything it seems like this could further alienate them sexually from possible partners, as well as make them even more insecure about their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:47 AM
1

Physically yes. But one would have to get past the mental/emotional aspect first, which is something I think a lot of people would have an issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:20 AM
1

I would assume that homosexual sex is not as pleasurable for you if you're not gay (at least with men). I'm just not sure that would "scratch the itch", if ya know what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:17 AM
1

I definitely don't think it's a thing in the adult world, and it wasn't a thing when I was in HS (2009-2013). I was never called a prude and can only recall being called a slut once, despite never having any type of sexual interaction at that point. I feel like I was in an interesting position because I started having sex regularly at about 16, so still young (slutty). But, I've only ever sex with that 1 person who I'm now married to (prude).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 05:29 AM
1

Hmmm, I have a hard time assigning peak because personal preference plays such a big role in it. I think to the general public, a man's peak is probably between 25 and 35. That being said, I personally think that the most attractive men are (or look like they are) between 45-55. This includes celebraties/public figures that I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 05:08 AM
1

Yeah I would think that is pretty natural. I'm now 23 and I don't find a guy who even looks under 25 attractive at all, much less a 16 year old boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:00 PM
1

I have to disagree. Teenage boys are just boys, they're children. Even as a teenage girl, I was only attracted to older (or older looking) guys. Maybe I'm weird though, or maybe I just can't get past the idea that they're kids and that's unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:39 PM
1

Right, I get that and agree. More resources should be used to reduce the number of attacks period. Although a female talking self defense or carrying a weapon of any sort can't do anything but help her. It's definitely a case by case choice, as I would much rather fight and die than give up and live knowing that I let that happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:40 PM
2

"Fighting back dramatically increases the likelihood of being murdered, and given the weight and strength differential, it's very unlikely to succeed." Sorry, off topic but are you suggesting that a perferable strategy for a women being attacked is to just let it happen? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:30 AM
2

The only Sex Ed I received as a kid was my dad telling me "Boys only care about 1 thing, and they will do anything to get it. And my mom and grandmother telling me that my virginity was the greatest gift I could give to my future husband. So yeah, I had some issues with sex as a teenager. Luckily for me, I met my now husband in HS and he is the only sexual partner I've ever had....so I guess my grandma wins this round.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:06 AM
3

I couldn't do it if they were young kids that his ex had custody of. I would want kids of our own, and I would want our kids to have their fathers full attention/commitment/monetary resources. However if he had full custody of the young kids, or if they were grown and on their own, I wouldn't have had a problem with it. Luckily though, I don't have to make this choice as I'm already married. Actually broke up with my first BF because he found out he had a kid with some chick he dated a couple ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 07:45 PM
1

Not nessecarily slutty, but definitely not something I'd do while in a relationship. Particularly if you're going out without your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:22 AM
1

As a married woman, commitment from any man doesn't mean anything to me. But, commitment from THE man means the world to me. Someone to spend my life, build a home and raise a family with is incredibly attractive to me. On a more tangible level though, I get companionship, sex, duel income, emotional support, a 2 parent household, and a constant supply of hysterical sarcasm. Worth it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:13 AM
1

The only claim that I think is unreasonable is the debt seeing as how the article connects debt to having a college education. Assuming that a serious and secure marriage proposal does not exist before college entrance, attending college for even a short amount of time gives the female something to fall back on if she doesnt get married young. As for virginity and tattoos, I can definetly see why men would prefer these, and as long as the female is fairly young and of good moral character, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 12:32 PM
1

In the case of escorts, I couldn't care less. Everyone should have the right to do whatever they want with their body. However, escorts are definetly the minority in prostitution. Most prostitutes do not choose to be a prostitute, they are trafficked, manipulated, or are not of sound mind to make that decision. I would not care if I was called a whore because I'm not one. In my experience, only women who are whores get upset when they are called out. I think most of our society associates prosti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:53 AM
1

These questions are always so difficult for me because my husband and I have been together since high school (going on 8 years), and I dont have experience in the adult dating world. But I find older men generally attractive, so the last one probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 05:59 PM
1

Yup. My mom was going to elope with her boyfriend at the time and her and her friends went out the night before and that's where she met my dad. They hooked up (the night I was conceived) and she broke up with her boyfriend the next day. 2 weeks later my mom moved into my dads apartment and then they got married when she was 5 months prego.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:55 PM
1

I also find it funny lol. I like to joke with my siblings and say that I'm the reason any of them even exist. Glad I could make you smile! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 07:36 PM
3

My parents like to refer to me as the "had to baby". Because my mom got pregnant, they had to get married. My mom was a 24 year old ex party girl, and my dad was a 31 year old body building protestor when I was born. They met at my moms bachelorette party to another man and hooked up, resulting in me. While they were getting their lives together, I spend the vast majority of my time with my moms parents and well as my dads mom. Both are VERY traditional hispanic households, and I was loved immen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 06:46 PM
1

I'm a female and about 70% Red 30% Blue. I have a moral/religious objection to abortion. However, I believe that there should be more access to birth control (both for men and women), if anything, to prevent the "need" for an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 08:18 PM
2

"I don't care about women like you" That's exactly why I grew out of feminism. A movement who's original purpose was to empower women and their choices has been perverted. Curiosity is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 10:23 PM
1

Thats just it. He does not have to be a leader. I am perfectly capable of leading if and when I need to. But, I am secure enough in myself to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 09:51 PM
2

Wasn't feminism supposed to be about women having a choice in how their lives worked out? I dont care that you dont want to live a submissive lifestyle. Why do you care so much that I choose to submit to my husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 09:48 PM
1

You're right. I would not be submissive to any man that is not my husband. I do not choose to be submissive to my husband because he is a man. I choose to be submissive to him because he has proven to be a good leader and I feel comfortable and safe when he is leading us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 09:25 PM
0

Submissive wife does not equal a weak woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 08:55 PM
2

Yes, exactly. Men and women do not have equal abilities. That's just plain biology. In a partnership, why would I try to fight/manipulate my husband to make decisions on things that he is better qualified to make decisions about? It makes logistical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 08:48 PM
2

I completely understand. I happen to be hispanic and my husband is white. You would not believe the comments I've gotten from radical latina feminists. It can be very hurtfulto be told you're not _______ enough, but as long as you remember not to compromise your own beliefs, you'll be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 06:04 PM
3

Exactly. Because my narrative does not jive with what they're getting at, I don't count. According to this logic, I am less of a woman because I choose to live a life that doesnt totally correspond with what they would like to see. Then the name calling lol. My favorite was "silly woman" purely because of the irony of that statement coming from rad feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 05:27 PM
5

I too find it interesting how quickly the facade of "feminism=equality" crumbles when rad feminists interact with a women who has chosen to live a more "traditional" life. If feminism is about female empowerment, why does my feeling empowered by being a submissive wife not count?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 11:34 PM
2

Ruggedly masculine is what I'm attracted to. My husband has a better-groomed mountain man thing going on, and I'm (obviously) super into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 07:40 PM
5

I only ever speak my truth. Not on behalf of any one else. Suddenly my voice isn't important because I dont support your agenda? So much for equality and female empowerment. Have fun being angry!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 07:25 PM
1

I will as long as you refrain from speaking on behalf of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 07:21 PM
5

" what is this fad with women defering to males and being submissive? no, thanks. no woman wants that." Um, I do. My husband and I's relationship is not equal by feminist views but that's because men and women are not equal. We have a mutual respect for each other and part of my respect for my husband includes being submissive to him. (Which is not always easy given that we are quite young (23) and have been raised in a modern feminist society loving society. He is happy to hear my thoughts on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 07:16 PM
5

I have recently joined redpillwives and am excited to help them grow! That's really a shame about "plate school" what the RP men acting like woman dont realize (or maybe they do and just dont care?) is that by misinforming/manipulating these young girls, they are actually driving them closer to extreme feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:43 AM
3

I completely agree. Having so much Male influence in a female community doesnt seem very effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 06:25 PM
2

From the posts and discussions I've read and from The info provided by others, I think that the Male self serving presence in RPW mirrors the self serving attitudes among alot of modern feminists. Also, the idea that gratification and/or power/social standing is gained through sex (encouraging plating, SMV, ect.) Is present in both the RPW world and well is the modern feminism scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 06:22 PM
6

Thanks for this info! This really cleared things up for me. The male-centric rhetoric found in RPW is toxic and dangerous at worst, and just downright creepy at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:10 PM
5

Talking you into something is not my goal. It honestly does not effect me in any way if you aren't swayed by my statements. Also, this post had nothing to do with convincing anyone or anything. Just pointing out something that I noticed. You're grasping at straws here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:49 AM
2

A wolf teaching the sheep sounds about right....poor girls. I hope they come to find their truth in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:40 AM
8

Well both can be true simultaneously can they not? Can a woman not be well educated and speak with purpose but also act catty and childish? This is not a either-or statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:36 AM
1

Thank you! Glad to hear I'm not just imagining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:19 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter