lalalalaalaoooq Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Glamour Mag: If He Wanted To, He Would Is "Horrible Advice" The thing is the guy is an extrovert and not shy. I’m super awkward and he has tried talking tl to me, but I make it weird .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/22 03:06 AM
1	Glamour Mag: If He Wanted To, He Would Is "Horrible Advice" He could think I don’t like him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/22 01:45 AM
31	Glamour Mag: If He Wanted To, He Would Is "Horrible Advice" There’s this guy that I’m not remotely dating. We have a shared hobby and see each other 3-4 times a week. I suspect he likes me, he looks me at often and makes attempts to chat with me when we’re around each other. But most of the time, we’re just awkward. We’re always in big group settings so sometimes we can’t chat bc we’re busy doing our hobby. I never see him flirt with other women even tho there are plenty around. He seems disciplined but also intimidated by me. He has asked me questions a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/22 11:52 PM
82	Glamour Mag: If He Wanted To, He Would Is "Horrible Advice" I needed to hear this. Was giving a guy that seems intimidated by me the benefit of the doubt.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/22 06:49 PM
3	If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right. Wow I’m a lot older than you and this is resonating with me. A guy at my shared hobby seem to be crushing on me- gawking, and making attempts to cross paths. I sometimes see he is hesitant with approaching me. I know I’m awkward when he does talk to me but I feel like a HVM would persist so long as I an receptive to him. People tell me I am intimidating all the time and I hate the idea of having to ‘disarm’ myself to make men more comfortable approaching me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/22 01:56 AM
4	Life Update After Finding FDS Yay sis! Sounds great. I also found FDS after a bad break up. I’ve been on here about 1.5 years although I deleted my old account. Some accomplishments of mine include: finally quitting my weed habit, using my extra time to get a freelance gig on top of my career as a lawyer ($$$), invested more of my $, better relationship with parents, more confidence, deleted dating apps, distanced myself from toxic people/jealous people/users, and not dwelling on men. So much more than this too! I see people…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/22 02:02 PM
82	this is why I will never settle for less until I meet someone who loves me and respects our relationship like this I love this. I’m tired of hearing “marriage is WORK” from my friends.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/22 03:24 AM
40	As a Ukrainian living in USA, here is how most of my dates used to go for the past 10 years Yes. I have friends of many ethnic backgrounds that face it. East Asian women, Latin American women, Eastern European women, Ethiopian/East African women. On and on…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/22 01:28 AM
71	What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you? This also happened to a friend of mine, but the ‘other woman’ friend requested the friends/family members of my friend on FB. Vicious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/22 10:05 PM
29	Family annihilators and how to spot one quickly when dating. Long-ish post. TW [murder, suicide] I wonder if it’s just because August is the hottest month? Crime in general tends to increase during hot summer months.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/22 02:19 AM
126	on being told (over and over) that I have "walls up" Introverted as well and was always like this, esp towards men. Even my former female friends would tell me I need to open up to men, be less guarded, have fun, give them a chance ..sadly I briefly followed that advice and it only hurt me. So many men I date ask why I’m guarded, even my last ‘ex’ said he wondered when I’ll let him ‘truly in’ before he even committed to me. It’s an honor to have my walls up, it keeps the garbage away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 03:10 PM
18	If you dated men who expressed they were not attracted to women from their own culture, what red flags did they have? What other problematic behaviors and personalities did these men exhibit? I’m a WOC and I have dated white men that prefer non-white women. In my case, it’s not for the reasons you suspect..I don’t even put out lol. Some can’t cope with the looks I get from other men in their presence and are jealous of it. But I only date white men that also have a diverse/multicultural friend group and lifestyle.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 04:19 AM
10	She did that! A woman can’t even run a business without a scrote having the audacity. She cleared his ass and I know his ego was deflated. Yes i saved this post for inspiration lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 04:06 AM
37	If you dated men who expressed they were not attracted to women from their own culture, what red flags did they have? What other problematic behaviors and personalities did these men exhibit? I’m a WOC and briefly entertained (dated/was pursued by) a man of my race but different ethnicity (we’re both Black but different ethnicities- my ethnic background is generally considered ‘exotic’ based on featurism, hair texture, colorism). He is very successful and has a platform where he is outspoken on racial matters. But all of the Black women he has dated are racially ambiguous and he has never dated a women of his ethnic group or one with his features or his sisters/mom. I asked him about…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 02:18 AM