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You seem to know very few things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:11 PM
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That’s a cute story :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:11 AM
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It’s the only thing that works for me. Common interests are the most important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:10 AM
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Funny how all the men mostly describe physical features and have no regard for a individual personality but of course women are shallow and bad if they dare to choose someone they are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:05 AM
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Maybe a sex doll will do it for you. Pease don’t engage with a real person
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:03 AM
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It literally does not say that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:31 PM
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You have no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:55 PM
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It’s by definition a circle jerk on here. The guys here only want confirmation for their views
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:23 PM
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Same political views, good communication in terms of feelings, emotional maturity, kindness, reliability, passion for interests or hobbies, stable friendships and of course a certain chemistry because that’s what’s getting you interested in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:17 PM
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You are already abusive don’t worry. And I hope no women will ever be “saved” by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:28 AM
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So you feel like the victim here because a raped and traumatised women don’t do what you want her to? Newsflash: your not a nice guy and your not a good person if you only do things for your own personal gain. There is a whole ass psychology on why victims of abuse return to their abuser it’s called trauma response. But whatever because everything in the good damn world is about you. So from now on you will only help women if they have sex with you in exchange? Well I work with victims of abuse …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:55 AM
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Like yes we as women just wait for the moment they will finally go their own way. It reminds of little children that storm off and say they will leave but don’t because they just wanted the attention.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/22 09:46 PM
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Confirmation bias it is my dear
/r/ExRedPill27/10/22 09:40 PM
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Again you can not generalise half of the worlds population into a stereotype and reduce them to it, talking away all their individuality. No I won’t agree with you that there is truth in TRP, why would I? It’s absolutely contradictory to my life experience and as you said that is what you base your “knowledge” onto, so I can for sure do the same thing. Have fun believing these generic things about women I am sure you will attract the right kind of women with these talking points, the decent ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:24 PM
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Even the lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:07 PM
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No one says asking for advice is bad. The problem is these insane generalisations about women on here. It’s to a point where women aren’t even considered human beings with individual preferences but just generic dolls who all think and want the same thing. I’ve been around many women in my life and they have dated so many different men (and women bc not all women are interested in men) that there absolutely was no pattern. They are normal average people dating other normal average people and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:04 PM
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Your „life experience” that women are meany meany to you. I am sorry to disappoint but I did not have sex with a total of three men in my life. And I can even tell you that I have been not very successful in the dating game myself but I don’t make all men responsible for this and decide to view them as a homogeneous group with no personality and individuality and convince myself that they collectively have conspired against me because they are shallow and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:00 PM
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So anecdotal evidence is a pattern right? Well if that’s the case I have some bad news. But you just seem very comfortable in your worldview and I am honestly sorry for you. You have a life of misery and hate ahead of you believing that self improvement or being rich or tall will give you an obedient robot wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:56 PM
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Who is stopping you from having an opinion. Just because someone doesn’t agree with your opinion doesn’t mean your not allowed to have one. The problem starts with your generalisation and I just hoped to point out how nonsensical it is to have such a generalised and stereotyped view on an entire demographic based on your very limited personal experience. And once you have formed a certain opinion on the world your brain automatically will only look at evidence to proof that, that’s why this pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:48 PM
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So what if I tell you that I have a lot of female friends who play video games and a lot of male friends who go to events (crazy thing we even do both things together sometimes). What if I tell you that all women in my friend group are highly political people and that we discuss various topics each and everyday, going to reading circles where we discuss even more topics with even more women coming from all kinds of careers, studies and backgrounds (we even discuss crypto, as though for sure not …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:37 PM
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So now you have reached the wise age of let’s guess 25? Ever heard of confirmation bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:27 PM
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You did not answer the question and you did generalise again. Of course you only can talk about the women you have dated but what again leads you to the belief that this is related to their gender and not to your selection of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:40 PM
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Okay here my question again: why did you even think that women aren’t interested in these topics if you are fully aware that your experience is not representative? So I have met a lot of guys in my life who I found boring and even dumb but I would have never concluded to say “why are men not interested in xy, why is it that they always talk about xy and xx”. Because it would never occur to me to equate someone’s gender with their intellectual capacity or their interests. So I really would like u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:38 PM
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Then why did you even assume that women are generally less interested in these topics if you aware that experience isn’t representative of an entire gender? I would really like to understand how did you come to think that in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:33 PM
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Oh come on it’s so obvious what you are trying to do here. Just imagine a women would have posted the same thing here and the outrage of the guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:30 PM
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So does that maybe shed some light onto the situation hmm? It’s your specific experience, that you have with the individual women that you choose to date. Why do you think that qualifies you to make a generalisation about 50% of the worlds population? Thinking that women are shallow dumb dumbs who only talk about superficial things is a misogynistic tale as old as time and you just bring it up as some rational debate. If you don’t want to date shallow women, meet others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:27 PM
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Dude you sound like a terrible conversation partner who just wants to brag about his smartness and the shallowness of others. Your the definition of the stupid persons idea of a smart person. Let me guess huge Jordan Peterson fan?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:20 PM
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Most men I know are extremely stupid, therefor all men are stupid. Life’s easy and I think I’m smarter than everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:16 PM
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So the thing is if men are not around women basically fall into some sort of stand by mode. That means we don’t really have any hobbies or interests or careers. We just circle around men and our looks as ways to get men. We are actually not even real people and god forbid we of course don’t have any personality, we are just generic dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:15 PM
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So as a teenager with a life experience of around 14-17 years and around maybe 3 or 4 years of sexual interest in women you are already able to conclude that no women will ever like you and that women therefore as a collective are evil to you. That’s like trying to skateboard for one day, throwing a tantrum that you will never be able to skateboarding and start a lifelong hate for skateboarders. Very reasonable dude. Jesus Christ everyone’s life sucks as a teenager, grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:10 PM
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It’s so pointless these guys on here really lack the most basic human empathy. Everything is about them and their suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:06 PM
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So you agree that you only help women because you want a reward? You don’t do it because it’s the right thing and you want to help someone in need?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:02 PM
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So you blame a traumatised women for her actions and yet you are somehow the victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:01 PM
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Ah so easy just make everyone else responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:51 PM
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Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:50 PM
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And you guys really wonder why your single
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:49 PM
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How many high class escorts are there? Yes of course very few women do it for fun, the majority because they don’t have any other options. The few high class women are not representative of prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:26 AM
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Ah now you just derail bc you know exactly what you would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:08 PM
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Like who is badly punishing male homosexuality? It’s mostly other men. Just go up to a men and ask him if he is gay, you will certainly have a fist in your face at one point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:06 PM
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Like who is badly punishing male homosexuality? It’s mostly other men. Just go up to a men and ask him if he is gay, you will certainly have a fist in your face at one point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:06 PM
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Yes but that’s rooted in patriarchy. Male homosexuality is judged more because it totally goes against the stereotypical male sexuality. A man is a men if he fucks a women, that’s defining for masculinity. Female homosexuality isn’t that much intertwined with their perception as women. And on top of that female homosexuality isn’t taken that seriously, and usually viewed as performed for men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:04 PM
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From my experience that is not the case. The majority if sex workers live in terrible situations and sex work is their only possibility. To me this is hardly consensual if one person only agrees to have sex with me if that enables them to put food on the table for their child. If consent is the choice between starving and not starving I don’t see the free choice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:00 PM
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It’s not about you, just generally about the current discussion on male sexlessness. Although I believe that not having sex is not the problem, the problem is that they have no meaningful and intimate connections with other human beings and are told the only way through which they can have such a connecting is within the monogamous heterosexual romantic relationship. They’ve been fucked really bad but they choose to run with their own oppression And regarding femcels well it’s the same thing. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:53 PM
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Showing basic respect for people is not a preference it’s literally the lowest bar. I have no problem if you want to date a virgin, but be a virgin yourself and don’t devalue other people for their sexual choices. Respect as a person is not to be earned and you don’t get to decide who is valuable as a person. No one says you can’t choose whom you want to have sex with, have your preferences but accept that your preferences show a lot about you as a person. And again if you think n count is impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:49 PM
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Why does than no one care for the women who are left out of it? How old is the crazy lonely cat women trope or the spinster. If women are lonely it’s laughable but if men are lonely society needs to solve it for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:42 PM
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Except not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:40 PM
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Normal people who struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:40 PM
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Why would it matter if he never had a sexual experience with another guy? So either you are okay with dating someone who is bi or not. I don’t see what their sexual history has to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:39 PM
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If there is a bowl of candy, in that bowl is one poisoned candy but you don’t know which one. Would you eat just one candy or would you treat all of them as if they are poisoned?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:37 PM
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You are so oblivious. There is no country on earth we’re women don’t get harassed on a daily basis
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:35 PM
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Just yesterday same thing happened to me in a Western European country. Was at a bar just casually looking around and without intent had eye contact with a guy. He starred at me thevrest of the night, followed me afterwards and harassed me. Things like that happen regularly, that’s why I absolutely avoid eye contact with men I don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:34 PM
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Yes because women are afraid of getting murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:31 PM
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Really it’s so sad. The answer to good sex is actually fairly easy , you just have to ask what the other person likes and soon you will be great in bed with that specific person. Boom it’s not rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:30 PM
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Even if they would tell you, you wouldn’t believe because it contradicts your world view
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:28 PM
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No bc sex is different with every person because again people are Individuals. Why do you think all women like the same thing? The only thing that makes a men good in bed is communication. Open your mouth and ask the other person what they like. It’s really not that hard if you do that you can be really good in bed even if it’s your first time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:27 PM
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You guys are simply unable to understand that the problem is that the question about n count shows their view of women. If you value a person less, if you have less respect for someone just because the have had sex with a certain number of people you are simply not a nice person. And if the reason for your decision is that you are afraid you will be judged, I am sorry than this is for sure rooted in insecurity. Because if you think you have nothing else than your sexual performance speaking for …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:24 PM
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Why do you compare these things? I would have no problem with a guy who had sex with 200 women, but I would have a problem with a guy who once paid for sex because it’s not about his sexual history but about his view on women and consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:19 PM
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In my opinion it’s an entirely different thing. To me it’s not about the sex with a sex worker but about the idea that this men really believes that consent can be bought. I worked with sex workers for years and I heard the most disgusting and horrorfying stories about abuse and violence from men who pay for sex and in all the years I have never met a single women who did that job because she wanted to, they all were in desperate situations, trying to support their families, battling addiction o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:17 PM
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You can never know wharves person has done if they are not honest with you, so what’s your question even about? You can also never know if your partner has murdered someone or is a drug dealer. You have to trust or you draw your consequences if you have reasonable doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:12 PM
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But men don’t birth them ripping up from vagina to anus right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:31 PM
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No amount would be high enough. It’s irresponsible to put children into the world if your not willing to fully commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:29 PM
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But you know STDs exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:25 PM
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And all kinds of diseases
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:24 PM
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Literally everybody with half a brain says you should never have unprotected sex. If the guy doesn’t want to use a condom kick him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:24 PM
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Yes you do, your comment is proof enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:25 AM
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It truly is but unfortunately I don’t meet so many single men on a daily basis, so I’ll stick to it. But again I have my red flags and if I ever am totally over OLD i will stop it, as I prefer being single over putting myself through humiliating situations just to be in a relationship. A relationship is a nice add on but not a necessity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:02 PM
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I know what you mean but still it’s not possible to always from the first encounter know someone’s values. So nobody is ever completely safe from picking the wrong people and it’s of course total bullshit to blame people for picking the wrong people. The problem still is misogyny or racism, not the people-picking skills of the person. I know enough good men to know that they exist but on the dating apps I have made the experience that a lot of guys there are very resentful towards women and lash…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:54 PM
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It’s necessary for my safety. And I’ve been through enough dating to set that standard. Well a lot of men hold misogynistic views, it’s sometimes very subtle but it shows very quickly usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:36 PM
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No misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:20 PM
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Exactly. And then wondering why you still feel like shit and then continue to blame everyone else for your suffering. It’s very painful but it’s also very convenient. If you want to get better, you have to confront a lot of things and it’s going to be painful. But it’s more painful to stay in that situation. That’s the thing about mental illness: you need to make the decision to confront your issues and do the work, if your not committed to that, nothing won’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:11 PM
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Again why do you believe others are not suffering? Why should the world stop only for your suffering. Other people are not your therapist abs they will certainly not going to fix you. That’s the hard part, you have to do it yourself. But in order to do that you have to give up the self pity. I know that’s hard, I’ve been there myself. If we hate ourselves we believe that’s all we deserve but that’s not going to fix anything. If you’re not willing to let go of that self pity you won’t heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:06 PM
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I have a lot of empathy and that’s why hard words are sometimes necessary. If you expect others to save you, you will be miserable forever. And again the problem is that he believes the issues he has are within the outside world. He simply isn’t hated for how he is born, that’s bullshit. That’s what he’s hiding behind to avoid confronting the real issues. Get out of your self pity hole and do the work. Will it be painful, yes of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:00 PM
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I am very happy to hear that you have such a balanced view and I agree totally. I personally would just say we should just completely abandon the generalisation and the looking for trends or tendencies as on this sub it’s very unhealthy and it does more harm than good because the premise in here is such a mechanical and generic picture of human relationships that really doesn’t help anyone looking for true connection. I believe most men who are struggling on here would do themselves a great favo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:23 AM
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Yes but don’t forget that gender isn’t the only thing that defines their viewpoint. Not every heterosexual relationship follows the same pattern, not every women are men behave like every other women and men in a relationship. If you want to know about a specific person, ask that person, talk, communicate and don’t just assume their actions have only to do with their gender. The way I act in a dating context has so less to do with me being a women and everything to do with me being an insecure p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:50 AM
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Why do you think you are entitled to be in a better place? From your text it seems that you didn’t really confront your real issues. Putting on some nice clothes and going to the gym is not magically solving your problems? Whoa that’s some news man, I thought it was that easy. All you did was just to please others, to perform to a certain stereotype that you thought would make you worthwhile. You didn’t seek out human connections for the sake of it, but only for your deluded idea that once you f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:41 AM
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I assume you are not very smart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:31 AM
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So why do you date than if your not interested in genuine connections? Just pay a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:30 AM
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Come on just say you hate women and enjoy when the experience pain because you believe women, society (and whoever) collectively conspired against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:28 AM
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Why not go to a sex worker if you only care about a mechanical act?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:27 AM
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Someone you claim to be a jerk right? Maybe someone else’s perception of that person is very different. Also again one single women doing something is not representative of the entire gender. Being nice is the most basic standard in society and you don’t get a reward for it. Women are no machines in which you put kindness coins until sex falls out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:25 AM
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So you can assume a womens sexuality by just looking at her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:19 AM
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Just look at the forum whenever a women says something that contradicts the narrative of the people on here they just dismiss it and say it’s unauthentic or deluded. Very convenient circle jerk to never really question your own views
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:18 AM
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That is exactly the point. Women are not humans to them. But what they don’t realise is that they in fact also dehumanise men in the process of hating women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:15 AM
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Why do you constantly envision men and women as collectives and represented of their gender. People are individuals and not defined by their gender solely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:13 AM
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So you punish one individual women for the „actions“ of women as a collective? Isn’t that what you guys constantly claim women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:10 AM
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So you just assume that someone dressed for you to look?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:07 AM
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And the way the move! I sometimes find a picture not really attractive but seeing the person live and moving is a whole other thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:04 AM
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And when it hurts and it’s uncomfortable you know that you are actually doing the work necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:55 AM
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So in various different settings, with different women in different situations you always had the same outcome and yet you still believe others are the problem. If I would make the same experience over and over again I would question myself and my behaviour instead of assuming that women as a collective conspire against me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:54 AM
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I don’t see a source for your numbers so I assume it’s anecdotal evidence? From my experience this doesn’t add up. In every given friend/peer group (school, work, uni, hobbies, sport) I had over the last 10 years around 30-40% were in committed relationships at any point. So who are these people? Who are they dating then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:07 AM
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No the point is that women are attracted to a variety of men and not just one generic chad guy that they always envision
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:11 PM
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All the women I know say the firs times were the worst ones with almost no pleasure from it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:08 PM
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Or they want to manipulate you into believing that bad or painful sex is acceptable bc they only care about their own pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:07 PM
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What about your own baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:06 PM
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Sex is so much less fun if people are insecure and unexperienced
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:04 PM
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You must be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:03 PM
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But he is not the masculine ideal that is pictured, he literally wears a dress and girls go crazy. So no men in this forum are chasing an ideal of masculinity that isn’t actually desired by most women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:59 PM
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That’s the general question on here: men seem to hate everything women say or do but still want to be with them? If it’s only about sex, than go and pay for it. But that’s not what they want, they want little dolls admiring and desiring them but without their own personalities or opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:56 PM
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They do if you compare them to muscular and extremely “masculine” men that guys on here think are “chads”, they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:52 PM
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You know that just having a dick inside you doesn’t equal pleasant sex, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:50 PM
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Why can’t they do the same thing as the women? Build good connections with their children, have friends, hobbies, interests, fill their life with social relationships and not solely focus onto women to solve all their emotional needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:49 PM
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No it shows that the way you view women is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:47 PM
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She said she is separated so what does it matter that she is legally married, she is still single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:46 PM
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No they are happy bc they don’t have to be a secondary mother to a man baby
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:44 PM
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No women are not natural caretakers, but being socialised into believing so. In relationships men drain that care from them, while being single women can focus on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:42 PM
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No reasons are that relationships and families place a lot of responsibility and work onto women. As soon as a women move in with their partner their work often doubles, and if children come along even more so. That leads to women neglecting and loosing friends, getting more and more isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:40 PM
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Just check the forum where so many guys say that because they are depressed by having no dates they can’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:37 PM
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Isn’t the son that never leaves the house more common than a women staying with her parents. Why make this single case into a general problem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:35 PM
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The fact that you only talk about physical attraction when taking about dating standards already tells everything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:32 PM
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A lot of what you guys think is attractive is more of a male fantasy than a female one. Why do you think men like harry styles or the guys from BTS are thirsted over by a lot of women? And 600lb life is a pretty bad example must of the partners there just have a feeder fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:25 PM
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Strange why do women not want to date someone who doesn’t respect their basic human rights and disagrees with them on every topic. That’s so crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:12 PM
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Again the real world is different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:07 PM
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Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:04 PM
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It’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:26 AM
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No I don’t believe you but you don’t care bc it’s easier to throw a pity party than to go out and meet real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:30 PM
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Thanks that seems about the only service you can do to the public. It’s probably for all of our best interest if you delude yourself further into believing a Reddit echo chamber represents reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:28 PM
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Jesus I was not talking about you specifically, it’s about a hypothetical conversation. If you (as a general rhetorical you) think a high count is a dealbreaker, you have to communicate it when looking for a partner. If you (as a general rhetorical you) don’t do that, it’s your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:25 PM
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So no problem then. Keep it like that if you ever want to date a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:23 PM
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Because you know all women on the planet, right? From my experience I could say the same. I dated three guys and all of them didn’t want to get to know me bc of my inexperience. But that does not make for a general rule. Yes it’s not easy once you surpassed a certain age and sex is expected but do you want to be with someone who judges you for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:21 PM
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But again if that is really such a dealbreaker for you, you have the responsibility to communicate that openly. Everything else is just bad behaviour and you have no right to shame the person afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:16 PM
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You call women used goods but women are the picky ones. Guess what you are so picky that you basically want to have a dog because you can’t cope with women having their own personality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:13 PM
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And you really question yourself why you are not in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:10 PM
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But do you think the relationships would be good? Genuinely? If your only selection is that someone has boobs and a pulse that doesn’t guarantee you a satisfying relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:08 PM
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I dont know about you but somewhere in between meeting someone and getting into a committed relationship you might talk about past experiences. I know it’s wild but you can actually communicate what you are looking for. Like if your religious and want a virgin, be a virgin yourself and communicate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:05 PM
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I just told you that it happened to me also, but I don’t make the entire male gender responsible for my misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:03 PM
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As long as you keep to your standards yourself, fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:00 PM
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On here women get shamed for having sex to early, with the wrong men, with too many men, for not having sex at all. But good thing this sub doesn’t represent reality and most people out there are decent and wouldn’t be rude idiot just because you never fucked someone. Shaming others is always a sign of insecurity, the problem is always with the person shaming. Classic you not me problem situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:58 PM
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I think it matters when it’s a) a pattern. Like a person continuously dating much older or younger. That indicates that there maybe is a fetishisation. Or b) if it’s grooming, meaning the the older person was already in touch when the younger person was still a minor
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:52 PM
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That women are indeed insecure about promiscuous men. Apart from that why do you think more shame adds something? Shouldn’t we not have to goal of no one being shamed for the amount of sex the had or hadn’t. I am a virgin women and I have been shamed by both Menander women and I don’t gain anything from shaming virgin men or promiscuity women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:49 PM
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You know the term fuckboy exists and that it’s not something positive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:44 PM
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You don’t have to accept it but keep your count low aswell then if it’s genuinely about that. But if you don’t care about a mens body count but about a women it begs the question why do you make a difference? And the answer lies within you and the fear of not being able to hold up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:43 PM
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With that in and of itself nothing is wrong. The way you deal with these feelings and what is and wasn’t important to you is the interesting part. If you choose to leave, than fine but it shows that you never cared for the person. But if your willing to openly communicate, maybe find out what has changed, maybe also question beauty standards than that’s a different conversation. If you are in a long term relationship I can guarantee you that your partners body (and your own) will change over tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:31 PM
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Because it’s superficial. It depends on you wether you find that „right“ or „wrong“. If your only parameter for a partner is their body, that’s your thing. I personally find it a lame ass move that indicates that there was never a real connection with your partner as a human being. I wouldn’t want to be with a partner who would leave if something so minor like gaining would happen. How could a person like that be trusted if life really gets hard? Like bodies change over time, diseases, injuries,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:23 PM
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Who said something about cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:24 PM
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Do a test for example: go to your closest IKEA on a Saturday and look at the young couples there. Absolute normal people dating each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:59 AM
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I wouldn’t care about the virginity but living at your parents and being unemployment would raise some questions for me, unless there is an explanation like a disease or parents need care. What would I suggest? First find a therapist if you are depressed, women will not cure you only professionals can do that. Second find a job, find some directions in your life! What do want to do? What are good at, what do you enjoy doing? Maybe finde Hobby, do Sport. Things that get you out of your shell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:53 AM
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Because the one thing is based on not liking someone anymore because of their Charakter and their actions and the other is based on not liking someone anymore because of their body. You must understand the difference right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:48 AM
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Because not every person wants to be with every other person on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:28 PM
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28 year old female virgin here. Yes I feel to many it is a red flag and it’s hard to explain why bc there is no reason I just haven’t met anyone with whom I fell comfortable and safe enough. Bad luck I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:31 PM
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He doesn’t want to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:27 PM
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Than you should really start to question your experiences or mit generalise from that. Forst and foremost women are human beings. Stop putting us on a pedestal, we really are not different. Someone’s gender is not their entire personality. Having friends and social activities is really not a womens thing, it’s a peoples thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:12 PM
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Nah reading this subreddit I am quite sure a lot people here would gladly enact their fantasy if given the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:35 PM
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Yes and that’s fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:00 PM
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Just ask them about Jordan Peterson if they like him, run
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:59 PM
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So force them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:57 PM
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So force people into the lifestyle you prefere?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:56 PM
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Um These places exist you just have to leave reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:55 PM
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I can only speak for myself: yes I do get rejected quite often bc I actually only do OD and that doesn’t really go well. Yes I am often worrying about never finding someone who will love me and I am at a point where I see myself as unlovable and questioning what is wrong with me. I have a very low selfworth and there is a lot of days where I hate myself deeply. The thing just is that I know that’s my problem, it’s no one else’s fault and I have to work on myself bc no one and no relationship wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:48 PM
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Again you do not understand correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:49 PM
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The fact that he believe this is what popper said shows that you still don’t understand. He basically said the exact opposite but whatever. And Einstein applied the very method popper made into a core principle: he tried to falsificate his theory. Please take a first grade science class
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:48 PM
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You clearly are incapable of understanding studies. No one said that hormones might not influence homosexuality, just not abuse. And none of the studies says so. But it’s really pointless, to talk to someone who doesn’t understand the absolute basics of how study is to be read.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:46 PM
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You are so hilarious. It’s like saying who is Einstein and claiming your own version of the theory of relativity. That’s not how science and empirical evidence works you have to prove your hypothesis by using falsification as a method. Just say that you don’t care about evidence because you have alternative facts representing your feeled truth. There is also a theory about ppl like you it’s called dunning Kruger
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:40 PM
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So here are current studies, peer reviewed (in case you know what that means): https://academic.oup.com/book/9450 https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-021-02312-0 https://www.science.org/content/article/homosexuality-may-be-caused-chemical-modifications-dna https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-26089486 https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/cross-cultural-evidence-for-the-genetics-of-homosexuality/ https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/european-psychiatry/article/abs/biology-of-homosexualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:36 PM
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And again you confuse so many things. So first of the population that was examined was gay, so no straight people were included in the research. Second being abused isn’t the cause, it’s a correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:31 PM
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You must be joking right? You really don’t know the most basic scientific principle called falsification, a theory by famous philosopher Karl popper? Wow I would love to have your confidence, to be so incredibly uneducated and still believe you are the smart one. Just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:29 PM
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You don’t understand the term falsification, Jesus it’s hilarious. Are you really that uneducated?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:20 PM
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No you have to provide evidence that’s how science works, you make a claim, your job to add sources
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:19 PM
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You know what science is right? And from a scientific point of view there is proof of love, it’s a biochemical process that can be measured.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:18 PM
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But that’s the thing you constantly try to paint the picture that women are just a homogeneous mass with no individuality but guess what different women like different things you simply can’t make a general rule
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:17 PM
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Female robots maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:14 PM
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He just hates women and has made up the entire thing to circle jerk to his fellow misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:13 PM
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I have heard so many guys gossiping especially at work but again I don’t say my anecdotal evidence is general, that’s the difference here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:09 PM
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One anecdotal evidence against another shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:08 PM
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And you have what evidence for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:08 PM
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From my experience with working with men they are the coldest and most calculating humans ever, backstabbing constantly, lazy and overall just annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:52 AM
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Have you read and understood anything I have written. Nose here I said that men aren’t oppressed in any sense. Jesus your so obsessed with your straw man argument that you don’t even read what I have written. Abortions always existed and they were always performed, just not safe. Abortions and midwifery were actually one of the very few domains of women through history and knowledge was passed along generations. Claims of performing abortions or causing stillbirths were very prominent charges du…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:11 AM
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Well are you familiar with history? Women could in fact not work up until the 18th century and the beginning of industrialization which had such a high labour need that women and children were forced into the labour market. But that of course was only the case for a smaller (but growing number) of women as most work was still agricultural were women and men worked alongside since always. Before that time sex work was in fact the only source of income a women without a husband or father could see…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:29 AM
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I don’t understand what you are saying but we live under capitalism so each and every member of the working class has to sell their labour in order to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:16 AM
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He sex trafficked minors and moved to another country to rape women. And you question why women don’t like men who celebrate a person like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:59 AM
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So you blame that women are no longer forced to marry and have sex with men they don’t choose
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:57 AM
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He was “blowing up” bc everyone agreed that he said the most outrageous shit ever. Even my dad who isn’t on the internet at all told me that if I ever come across a guy like this I should make sure to tell him so he can go and trash that piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:54 AM
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Wow how does it feel to be so wrong and yet to think you outsmart us
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:42 AM
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Pahhaha that is not how sience works. Have you ever heard about falsification? Poor Karl popper rolling in his grave
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:40 AM
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Why do you actually believe that everything you say is representing the 99? What are your qualifications to speak for the majority of people, what are your sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:33 AM
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Dude you understand nothing. It’s about confidence, not taking oneself to serious and showing that your masculinity doesn’t need the whole alpha men caricature of a person. Also less masculine men simply look less treating to women so for most women they look more sympathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:29 AM
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So bi or homosexuality in women is the result of trauma in your opinion. Okay and you wonder why everyone outside of Reddit thinks you’re just a bunch of misogynistic crybaby’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:22 AM
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But not for every women masculine equates with dominance, like I would find nothing more unattractive than a men not treating me as an equal. Like do I want to fuck someone who things I am less capable. No I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:16 AM
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Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:15 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:12 AM
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They want to believe it bc for them women are just a homogeneous mass who is conspiring against them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:12 AM
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Okay so women are humans, humans have different interests, preferences, they live in different cultures, they look for different things so that means they will like different people as partners. Is that so hard to understand, is it so difficult to see women as humans for once?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:09 AM
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Can you read statistics? Of course most women today work wtf why would you deny that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:06 AM
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„Women who sleep around“ ahh here we go again. It always shows what it is about in the end: „what you want me to respect you as a human being and treat you with the decency every person deserves, well then you have to play by my rules and when you do something I don’t like I no longer regard you as a individual person but as an object I can treat as I please.“ It’s always the same with people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:04 AM
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Dude i also WANT a lot of things doesn’t mean someone owes them to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:39 AM
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Well I think he must be a very insecure guy who takes me not wanting to havevsex in that situation as a rejection and feels the need to prove that he is the one rejecting. It gives of a lot of „ you’re ugly anyway“-energy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:36 AM
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Why can’t women just exist in there normal lives. I don’t wanna be sexualised by some guy my dads age while doing groceries. Like wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:12 PM
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Happened to me recently. He didn’t say it that straight forward but said that he isn’t attracted and his type is skinny petite girls. What did I do? Well nothing, what should I do? I turn around and leave and try to forget it and rebuild my confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:08 PM
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It sounds a hell lot like your pushing piv orgasams are possible because you seem to not want to put effort in giving her other orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:01 PM
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Remembering little things I told them about myself and bringing them up. Like really showing that the person listend and thought it’s important enough to remember. Would make me feel so seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:54 PM
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Never, absolutely never. All of the dates I had so far were initiated by me. I am not ugly but not pretty either just average and forgettable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:46 PM
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You proved the point. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:20 PM
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Yes and because they don’t admire women as people they only see men as possible platonic partners, not women as they are only sexual bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:29 PM
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No I don’t think so. They simply hate women but just want to fuck them. They don’t see women as human beings and therefore don’t see them as possible friends. Only men to them are humans with whom they can share friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:28 PM
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It actually shows how homophobic a lot of men are. They are so afraid of it that they don’t even allow friendships to be seen as normal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:26 PM
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Boy have you watched mean girls and thought it’s real?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:24 PM
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I absolutely rarely get compliments from strangers, mostly friends and family. But I think that’s wroth a lot more because they really know enough about me to make a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:23 PM
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Yes exactly what’s the consequence: forcing people to stay together? We simply have to stop believing that forever and always bullshit. We have a variety of potential partners in our life’s and some stay longer, some shorter that doesn’t devalue the love we feel for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:20 PM
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I am so sorry that apparently no one ever really wanted to get to know you, you must be very hurt. See a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:15 PM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:14 PM
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Than you don’t know how painful and unpleasant sex can be for women if it is done without true consent and communication. And to women sex definitely is a potential thread. You have to go somewhere private with a guy, be totally vulnerable. In this situation you need to decide wether you can trust that guy or not. And I personally would never do that after the first meeting, never would I get myself in such a situation with a complete stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:13 PM
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Fat disagree I can not fuck any guy on the first date no matter how hot. I need to get comfortable otherwise it will be horrible experience for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:09 PM
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I would encourage you to stay out of the sex life of your future daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:08 PM
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Yes not everyone can have sex right away for some it just needs more time otherwise it will be a painful and potentially traumatic experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:07 PM
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Well what may seem like letting someone wait is maybe just one person needing a bit more time. I personally need some sort of trust before sex and that takes a bit, that does not mean I let them wait because I want to let them wait. Again simply communicate with the other person, instead of assuming shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:05 PM
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Are women the reason climate change exists? Are women the reason poverty exists? Are women the reason world hunger exists? It’s always women, so convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:45 PM
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A boundary? Who are you to decide with whom your partner speaks you don’t own that person. And yes it’s very insecure, feeling threatened by every penis on the universe doesn’t scream confidence, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:43 PM
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It’s one thing to ask to be friends. That doesn’t mean it’s demanded, if the guy refuses to be friends than that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:40 PM
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No one said that you owed as a friendship. If one side develops feelings and that a friendship is no longer doable it’s perfectly okay to walk away. What is not okay is only building a friendship with someone in hope of getting more from it AND then being pissed if the feelings aren’t reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:38 PM
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What is a dating climate? I think it’s different for everybody. I definitely suck at dating but that’s my fault and has nothing to do with a dating climate or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:31 PM
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Dude again just because you listen to your friends does not make them drop their panties for you. Listening to others is basic human decency, you will not be awarded sex for this basic task of living in a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:04 PM
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Why do you even think it’s a matter of convincing someone? If there is no attraction on one side it just is like that. It always sound as if you guys think women do that to be evil and mean, but truth is not everyone is attracted to everyone. So just being nice and a friend doesn’t mean your a potential love interest. That’s entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:54 PM
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It’s not a decision. Either you are attracted to someone or you don’t. Just because a guy exists and is friendly doesn’t make him a potential love interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:51 PM
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Exactly. But that also goes the other way round. If you don’t tell your crush about your feelings you have no right to be mad at them for not possibly reciprocating them. I expierenced that quite a few times that guys claimed they were stringed along but never said a damn thing about how they felt and got angry bc the women couldn’t smell that they were not interested in a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:50 PM
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There is no friend zone. Someone who is friends with you doesn’t owe you more than that. If someone you romantically like does not reciprocate your feelings there is no way of changing that or convincing the other person. Simply respect it and move on. Yes it sucks not having your feelings reciprocated, we all been there but that’s life and it does not devalue someone’s friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:46 PM
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Yes I don’t told a guy I was a virgin at 25 bc I was ashamed and didn’t want to come of as a prude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:10 AM
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See the person you are dating as an individual with their own history and don’t assume that everything they do is some sort of expression of their perceived collective gender identity such as “this is typical for women/men, women always do this and that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:08 AM
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I would never tell a guy I just met in person that I don’t want to date him again bc of safety reasons. I play it cool until I am in a safe place bc the amount of unhinged behaviour I have seen and experienced is just wild. Sounds unfair, it maybe is but my safety is wroth more to me than some guys hurt ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:03 AM
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This. He isn’t a nice guy and the girls sensed it and pulled emergency break
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:00 AM
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Weird bc all of my female friends experience ghosting frequently and I never met a girl active in online dating who hasn’t been ghosted yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:59 AM
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I am a women and I also get ghosted frequently by guys. The other day had the craziest behaviour. I wanted to meet up with a guy and he was very eager to meet but then he postponed and never answered again. It just happens in online dating, people don’t bother to tell you why don’t turn this into a you problem, it’s most likely a them problem! Also the way you talk about women maybe indicates that you are not that nice as you think you might be and maybe the women have the feeling that your not …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:52 AM
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Yeah but the topic is not about these born again Christians it’s about why the women doesn’t want to give him sex and the question is weird bc it’s clear that religion is the reason. Also of the boyfriend is a church guy he should also want to wait as the rules also apply to him. The whole thing in this “scenario” doesn’t gave anything to do with age or women in general but with this couples religious choices so I really don’t understand the point of the question here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:48 AM
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According to statistics probably the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:32 PM
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Wasn’t there a similar story a few weeks ago. Sounds fake
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:31 PM
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There is no normal, society shapes human behaviour. And even if their would be you can not recreate that in modern society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:44 AM
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There is male sex workers and porn is also sex work. And yes there is less demand for male sex workers but I also think in the escort market for rich women there is also not a lot of men who do this job, while the female market is completely full especially if there is forced prostitution which lowers prices a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:16 PM
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I wouldn’t necessarily call virgina Wolfe a feminist theorist but I guess what you critique is simply neoliberal feminism and that is nothing more than a capture of feminism for the use of capitalism which only benefits a certain class of women while exploit the majority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:11 PM
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Yes I do think that but I am sure a lot don’t. I am from Germany and here by far the most women in sex work are foreigners from poor Eastern European and increasingly African countries. Why is that? Do those women like sex work more than white German women? No they don’t have any other options they have to choose this work, they are cheaper bc they are desperate and vulnerable bc they often have no residence permits. I worked in a support office for prostitues as a social worker and you wouldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:09 PM
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Why do you think that. Those people would live in an entirely different society that would develop its own rules and maybe monogamy or romantic partnerships would t even have that position in society that you think it would have because your view at so is shaped by the society that you grew up in. So you would study things that probably wouldn’t even relevant to the population of this particular society. Monogamy isn’t a concept that grew out of “nature” it is the product of material conditions …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:03 PM
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What insides would it prove? We life in a society if you put them in a different society what insight would that give you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:58 PM
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So then why do you think it’s different for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:54 PM
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No not all, there is a small percentage of privileged mostly white women who are able to work on their own terms, the majority works in very very different conditions. But people don’t like to hear that because then they would have to understand who inhumane sex work really is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:54 PM
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Apart from the nonsense but what does your coworker has to do with you looking for a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:51 PM
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Did you ever read any feminist theory? Because feminist say exactly what you are saying. This is literally the claim of all Marxist feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:51 PM
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In the 1800s women (and children btw) were already present in factories. Look at the description of London around 1800 and the conditions of the working class. Men and women in these cities were in the same position regarding being forced to sell their labour
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:48 PM
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And conveniently forgetting all the black enslaved women who worked alongside black men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:46 PM
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Well it’s true that women entering certain jobs reduced male workers wages, but the reason isn’t that women are valued less it’s that this was used to generally reduce wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:45 PM
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So crazy I thought I only do it for dick but turns out I have rent to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:43 PM
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First of all women were not allowed to join the workforce, they fought for this right. It was not something that was mercifully granted by those in power (like literally every right we have today has been fought for fiercely in past decades) Second of all women were always part of the workforce their labour was and is still not payed equally today. Women were enslaved too, the worked in factories, they do the majority of domestic labour (yes reproductive work is work, it enables the entire workf…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:42 PM
2

It’s because women are not humans to them so they fundamentally can’t relate to the idea of women being individuals and having feelings. They view everything in their weird marked ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:36 PM
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You seem to live in a fairytale world. Most men who visit sex workers do it bc they like the power, they like to have someone for their total use without caring about them. Just because you are heterosexual doesn’t mean you want to fuck every single individual from the other gender, that’s insane to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:27 PM
1

Well good morning that is the reality of sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:24 PM
1

Okay so what are your reasons to not become a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:23 PM
3

Yes thank you. Listen to men who regularly visit sex workers they talk nasty about them, they are not humans for them but just meat for their own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:21 PM
2

Do you honestly think being forced (yes forced bc the average prostitute can not deny costumers because she needs to make money) to sleep with every guy how is willing to pay no matter how nasty, disgusting, aggressive he is, is easier than to work in a warehouse? Surrendering yourself completely vulnerable to a strange men who could possible do everything he wants with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:17 PM
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No because in my opinion you can not buy consent. I would rather take every other job than to become a prostitute bc I don’t want to get myself raped. Sex work is a highly dangerous workfield, sex workers are incredibly vulnerable and experience abuse, rape and murder in higher numbers than other women. If you can’t believe that it’s not fun to be forced to have sex with different men every day in order to survive you maybe ask male prostitutes if they genuinely enjoy this kind of work. The trut…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:10 PM
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I don’t need a paper to prove my relationship to someone. A marriage does not give you more security, you can still be left and love can fade. I don’t believe that we only have one true love but a variety of possible partners in life and with some we simply share a longer time and with others a shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:19 AM
2

Why is that unlikely? Do you know the sex life of married or long term couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:17 AM
2

So you put your personal moral as a universal rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:15 AM
1

Bc attraction is all the value they have such skewed views about dating and normal people woul laugh about their ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:12 AM
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But that wasn’t the question. OP wanted to know about physical attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:10 AM
1

Individual people have individual preferences. I have a friend who is into chubby „bear“like guys with long beards while I wouldn’t consider that attractive for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:08 AM
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No. Me and me friends have very different tastes and I never found any of the boyfriends of my friends particular attractive. In the beginning of dating we often show each other photos of the guys we are dating and it’s completely fine if someone says oh that wouldn’t be my type. And never did any of them stop dating the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:07 AM
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I only want males with no emotions like a robot bc that is how real men are. Emotions arefor women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:52 PM
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Wow you talk about women as if they would’ve some zoo animals. Some women are louder, some not, it’s individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:49 PM
1

Obviously our guy here doesn’t think women above 30 have the right to be entitled that’s why he came on here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:53 PM
1

Wow you give one source and not even a credible source. Rape is about power, that’s a fact. Bad for the rest you’re a piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:49 PM
1

Well but if I don’t that is called entitlement, isn’t that the whole point of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:15 PM
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You proved us right thanks for enlighting us with your wisdom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:53 PM
3

Compared to which times? In these studies they usually refer to the 80er, 90ies and not the 40ies, 50ies or 60ie (which is what is understood here as good old times)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:43 PM
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Not true same sex parents studies heave shown no difference. Children need parents not a specific gender. https://journals.lww.com/jrnldbp/Abstract/2016/04000/Same_Sex_and_Different_Sex_Parent_Households_and.1.aspx https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11113-014-9329-6 https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/1471-2458-14-635 https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/jpc.13171
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:40 PM
3

Haha you needed to prove that here right? Oh your a real man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:35 PM
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No we are saying that only the phrase “oh you’re moving fast” isn’t necessary a rejection. Maybe if you acted cool conversation would not have ended or the conversation would have ended anyway bc she never was that interested in you in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:24 PM
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Okay but why would I as a women above 30 wish to be with someone who thinks I am worth less? Why would I want that? Why should I decide to accept someone thinking that? I would really like to understand. I am ageing, that’s natural I can’t stop it but I can decide not to spend time with people who think that I lose worth as a human being bc of an unstoppable natural process.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:18 PM
2

Now we are coming closer to the core issue your little ego can’t talk women who have their own opinions and decisions. Ah to bad times are over where you can force women to marry you and rape them as you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:02 PM
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Also from my position as a women it sounds like she was maybe at this point to comfortable enough to say yes but maybe would have been later if they talked a bit more. Also I am pretty sure he would be pissed off if she simply said no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:55 PM
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Let’s stay with the given example. What about the phrase „oh you go right in there“ is knocking someone down. That’s a very common thing to say and maybe she simply didn’t expect him to ask her out after this short exchange. Do you think the guy in this scenario wouldn’t have wrote this on here if she said „oh no thanks“ bc his whole point was that she seemed interested but than seemingly didn’t agree to go on a date and that is what he called entitlement. For the rest of the comment you simply …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:52 PM
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Which means worth less because why else should they lower their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:46 PM
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But you sure as hell shame women how only want to date tall guys right? But calling all women over 30 worthless is totally fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:32 PM
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Exactly saying something like „oh you are going right in“ isn’t even necessary a rejection. He could have just said something funny like „yeah I’m one of the fast guys“ or whatever and the conversation maybe would have continued.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:30 PM
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So you think women are worth less when they age and therefore should accept every guy bc they should be lucky someone’s showing interest in them? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:26 PM
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Yes I understand and fight or flight has nothing to do with gender so claiming that men who love their partner would always choose to sacrifice themselves is bs bc you can’t predict how you will react in such a situation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:22 PM
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That is an ongoing debate and not a scientific fact like how you present it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:13 PM
0

What natural norms. There is no human nature, we are products of society
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:46 PM
1

Women also can not be pregnant alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:34 PM
1

Well you can become fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:34 PM
1

You guys think we women like what is a male fantasy to YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:26 PM
1

In the paid workforce but not around reproductive work, so women had way more work to do in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:21 PM
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There was way less casual sex in the past because women were shamed and punished for it and effective birth control only exists since the 60ies so what past are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:17 PM
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Women did not work less.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:16 PM
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The bias is that you don’t consider women as people who have individual preferences and like different things and that you only go with what already proves your hateful worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:13 PM
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You were not answering my question. If you have to similar men: similar height, same job category, similar income, similar social circle etc. Those things would still not guarantee that women are equally interested in both of them or even interested in them at all. Attraction and love is not based on these factors, personal preferences, individual personality, the way someone talks, moves, smells plays a huge role in it. You can be the perfect guy with all the „right“ (what is that even) attribu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:07 AM
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What if sex is not something you give away because you don’t have less after it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:03 AM
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Than just leave us the fuck alone but this entire sub is just whining about why women don’t like you. If you don’t like us, don’t engage with us. Sincerely thank you for doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:02 AM
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On what data you base the knowledge that women can’t love their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:59 AM
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How are you so sure? A reaction in a life and death situation is not followed by decision it’s fight or flight and you can’t really know how you would react, maybe you would run
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:58 AM
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When a lot of men not even bring out the trash or pay child support for their literal offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:56 AM
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Is the whole sacrificing thing like a daily task for you? Does that happen regularly to you? I would prefer to have a partner who shows me love in the daily life, in the little things because tbh I don’t regularly need someone to sacrifice his life for me on a daily basis, it just doesn’t happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:55 AM
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Dude get help really
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:44 AM
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Isn’t that totally normal you would also do more for your father than for your neighbour. We are willing to go to lengths for people we have a real connection and relationship than for people who are just casually in our lives. That’s not a women or men thing it’s just normal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:42 AM
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Honestly you can’t have either. Me deciding to have sex is not giving myself away sex and intimacy is not something you lose when you share it. So no one thing is not better than the other for me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:40 AM
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I would be weirded out and hurt bc it’s quite clear what he would be trying to do and his attractiveness would drop to a 0
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:33 AM
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Yes I didn’t found him physically attractive although not ugly just like neutral in the beginning but the way I got to know him and us working together on something we were both passionate about changed it completely and suddenly he was the hottest guy in town to me haha. End even after our separation I still think he is handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:28 AM
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Well this entire sub is proof of that hypothesis
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:24 AM
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Do you think that people would be attracted to everyone if everyone would fit into the average standard? Like yes someone can tick all the boxes but that doesn’t automatically make this person attractive to me there has to be some chemistry otherwise it’s just platonic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:22 AM
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My standard would be that you actually see me as an individual human being with individual personality and not just a representative of the female gender that is somehow entirely different than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:19 AM
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Please never be with actual human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:15 AM
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Maybe because they are individuals and they like one better than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:13 PM
1

Not being on here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:11 PM
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Of course men can be raped but same as for murders they are usually raped or murdered by other MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:09 PM
2

Please show me the society in which women are polygamous and men have to be monogamous? Where is that the social norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:01 PM
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I would call him an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:59 PM
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Good news for everyone on here: you are not nice people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:54 PM
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So it does not cross your mind that they simply love each other and want to be together? It’s in sickness and health for a reason, Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:48 PM
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WTF are you talking about? Many women experience pain during penetration, a lot of women report that they don’t organs during sex, the female “equivalent” to erectile dysfunction is vaginismus which makes penetration impossible. It shows you have no idea about vaginas also men can also cum without doing anything it’s a mechanical thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:44 PM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:41 PM
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You guys don’t live in the normal world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:41 PM
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Do you know my age?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:39 PM
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We are, just to observe this dumpster fire
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:59 PM
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Really? You don’t see what might give that impression?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:36 PM
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Okay so actually never interacted with women, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:18 PM
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They did all this while talking about chad or was this during the 10% were they did talk about something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:14 PM
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Please tell me that you were raised in the forest and the only education you had did come from Jordan Peterson self help book bc otherwise I can not fathom that someone like you has ever been in contact with humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:10 PM
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I am serious: you guys actually really wonder why women don’t like you? Like for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:06 PM
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Yes just like I said we don’t have anything else in our little heads. Why would it not make sense that millions of people are exactly the same, while men on the other side are so individual and divers?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:04 PM
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But I think here they would even disagree with a women like Margot robbie just to prove their point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:02 PM
2

I thought being ugly is not a problem for women unless their overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:00 PM
3

If you think Facebook is still a thing I don’t know if your opinion qualifies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:58 PM
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Exactly this sub is like a horrible car crash. You don’t want to look but you can’t resist because it’s just too absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:57 PM
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No we only talk about how much we only want chad. Nothing else we don’t have any personalities, interests or individuality at all. We are basically walking dolls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:53 PM
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Ah one study proves that women are shallow. Yeah that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:51 PM
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They always find a reason why this or this womens opinion doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:44 PM
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Everytime a women here disagrees or says that she has a different opinion it does not count. It’s very very easy to keep your view of the world intact if you simply dismiss any conflicting information. Simply create your own world in which you are doomed to fail but at least you’re not forced to interact with real people outside of your bias
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:42 PM
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What about the word CHOICE do you not understand? It’s not called pro abortion, it’s called pro choice, because umm women should have a umm choice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:36 PM
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Last time I checked men are humans
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:33 PM
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If you don’t want to pay child support become the main caretaker of the child. If you don’t allow women to opt out not only of having a child but also not of having to raise the child why should you go the easy way out with a paper abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:38 PM
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Well you could always take the child and raise it yourself and have the mother pay you child support, that’s a choice you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:35 PM
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You still have the choice to take the child and raise it yourself and have the mother pay you child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:32 PM
2

A life in foster care full of neglect and possible abuse, followed by poverty sounds like a great win
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:21 PM
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You sound a lot like all the pro lifers who secretly have abortions bc once they realise how shitty the situation is the find an exception for themselves. Seen that 100 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:20 PM
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You could still argue that you brought the child in this world and therefore are required to even potentially sacrifice your own life to safe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:16 PM
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Of course it has the dna of the mother it grows out of her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:15 PM
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I guess you have never read even a single page of actual leftist theory bc otherwise you would know the extent of Marxist critique towards the concept of human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:02 PM
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Where do you have an interference with your bodily autonomy on the level that equals pregnancies? So including various heath risk, complete change of your body and hormonal system, injuries and scars, risk of death, severe bleeding, restriction of movement, intense pain? What is it? Give me an example (and please don’t say work, bc women also work)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:59 PM
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What about the phrase womens rights = human rights is contradictory to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:50 PM
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Me and me friends also had our experiences with men, still I don’t believe all men are the same. There is no such thing as all men or all women, Jesus realise peoples individuality and maybe stop trying to manipulate people and just be genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:49 PM
1

This one girl, not girls in general
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:14 PM
1

No I am sorry if you think children are desirable you have a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:10 PM
-1

How the fuck can you be hot through childhood? What pervert would call children hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:41 AM
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To be honest as a women I feel very strong that penetration or the way we are taught about it makes me very vulnerable and I actually hated penetration for a long time because I felt that I have no control in that situation. But as in many things regarding sexuality trust and communication is most important. Once I found a partner whom I really trusted and how was open to communicate I felt safe and not vulnerable anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:27 PM
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So I personally know only average guys as though I am also an average person living an average life and all the average people I know have sex and relationships with other average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:20 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:18 PM
-1

Than let us have abortions and you don’t have to pay for unwanted children
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:13 PM
2

Most days it does not rain but many days it rains - equally nonsense argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:08 PM
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That’s nice for you, why do you think you are entitled to make that choice for other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:47 AM
4

Is there a law that prohibits drinking while being pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:46 AM
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Because it’s allows them to control a womens sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:35 AM
1

Should we talk again once you have been pregnant, given birth and cared for an infant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:32 AM
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You know that pro choice people would simply have an abortion instead of poisoning a possible child with alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:28 AM
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Therapy, go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:25 AM
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It’s honestly difficult. I recently dated a guy for a few weeks who seemed very nice and genuine but after time his attitude slightly changed and he started to show that he actually didn’t regard my opinions as important as his and that he believed he was above me in everything. We had a little argument about that when I told him how I feel totally invalid in our conversations and I asked him why he wants to meet again if he thinks I am stupid anyway. And he really showed that for him women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:22 AM
2

Sure it does
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:37 AM
1

Sorry but in Europe we laugh about the US and most people think Americans are dumb and uneducated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:33 AM
2

This guy is just a good old fascist, it shows fast
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:16 AM
0

So why you care about abortions then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:12 AM
1

You can not ban abortion, you can just ban safe abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:07 AM
3

And you guys on this sub really wonder why you are not getting laid … interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:05 AM
1

I feel like everybody once fell crazy in love with someone even though it was clear from the beginning that it wouldn’t work out, but that’s the power of attraction and projection so we sometimes throw our „list“ (or things we know are a better fit for us) out of the window and just go after it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:03 AM
1

So if women stop having sex who are the guys on here potentially having sex to ease their suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:57 AM
0

It’s never about the children it’s only about controlling women and their sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:54 AM
1

Isn’t this the whole point of this sub, men crying that they are living hellish life’s because they don’t have sex? So what are you saying here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:52 AM
1

It might be, but then again it’s the same with clothes on. People who dress sexy and show off their toned bodies also get more „attention“. And women with big boobs for example get stares even when fully dressed!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:48 AM
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You can see it in the sauna or at nude beaches. Here in Germany, especially in the east nudity beaches, lakes are very common and people don’t really care about the bodies of the others. Also in my area more and more women go sunbathing topless and really no one cares or stares at them it’s just more and more normalised and not immediately connected to sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:27 PM
1

The exact opposite would happen, bodies would be desexualised
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:36 AM
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It’s because they think that once in a relationship the work will stop and they are magically happy for the rest of their life. They forget that they then have to be with another human being and all their baggage and issues. A relationship is fucking hard work and the women is not a machine that drops out sex when they want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:31 AM
1

Well why not just believe what she said: she changed her mind and wants to do it in her religious way. If that’s not for you just separate. If it’s okay for you go on. Why would she spend so much time with you if she actually doesn’t like you? And yes she might sleep with someone after your relationship but what does that change? She clearly has some issues going on with that and maybe she is struggling to combine a „normal“ sex life with a relationship, maybe she thinks only sex gives her value…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:28 AM
1

Well but then you exactly did what OP claims is shit advice from women: you left your house, decided to join a social event and got familiar with new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:19 AM
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What do you want to hear? That a women will teleport in your room and fuck you? I wish you good luck waiting for that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:17 AM
1

I always wonder who these guys in relationships are, the guys at my sport club, at my uni, at my workplace, the friends of friends. These are men who are perfectly average and yet they all have relationships from time to time. Or maybe I am just a star and all people I interact with are top tier. Apart from that people tell you to do nice social things to enjoy yourself and have fun, someone who is confident and enjoys life is so much more attractive than a guy who sits alone in his room and fra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:10 AM
1

I would prefer someone who is smart enough to not believe theories about an entire gender made up by lone misogynistic men on the internet which they prove by anecdotal evidence of once talking to a women in school
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:22 PM
9

And you question yourself why no one wants to fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:18 PM
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Crazy women they want to date likeable men what an insane standard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:17 PM
6

Wow people get together with people they spend time with and get to know over time. What are you discovering next, the wheel?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:15 PM
2

Nope I never complain that guys are not picking up signs. If you like someone tell them and ask, that’s the easiest way. Anyway getting to know each other trying to figure out if the other person likes you is always awkward, that’s part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:12 PM
2

But I mean it’s still very nice of her and it’s not her fault that guys are thought that every thing a women does means they are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:12 PM
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As an introvert and being terrified of rejection I am soo bad at making my attraction noticeable. When I have a crush I become quiet and awkward around them and after every encounter I think to myself what was that again. So I don’t know to be honest, but I also have more female friends who feel very insecure when liking someone. It’s just a very normal thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:11 PM
3

If you are so miserable I garantee you that you will also be unhappy in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:04 PM
0

Why do you expect that a relationship would make you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:25 PM
1

Yes it is and I expierced being shamed for being a virgin both by men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:26 PM
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Well just tell your partners and see if they are okay with it, if not leave. End of story. BUT and I think here lies the real problem: you should still not be an asshole to the other person and treat them like a sex doll just because you don’t love them. Human decency should always be applied
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:24 PM
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Because you feel like a failure, because maybe you don’t want to disappoint your partner, because you don’t know what’s wrong, because you fear being dumped, because you are ashamed. There is a million reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:21 PM
1

They exist but they don’t look like in the movies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:15 PM
1

A lot of words for the good old: if a women gets raped, it was her fault. She should have just not choosen to be around a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:13 PM
2

You have no idea how often sex is painful and unpleasant for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:08 PM
1

Nothing our lives are perfect, we don’t have any feelings or emotions so nothing bothers us. I am never sad or anything bc I know there is always guys who would f*** me and that magically cures every problem or every emotion I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:04 PM
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I (27 yo women) was very unsuccessful with guys during my teenage years and most of my 20ies. This had several reasons first of I was simply a grey mouse and no one rembered me, i remember that at parties I usually had to introduce myself multiple times bc they couldn’t remember my name. I was always standing next to my friends who magically gotten into the dating game while I was left out. I really hated myself, thought I am the ugliest and most disgusting person in the world and that no one wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:57 PM
1

Unlike you I ask myself that every day when I walk home from work during the night and have to pass men on the street calling me names, looking at me or even follow me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:44 PM
1

That’s what the capitalist mode of production told us so that it can appropriate free labour. Just imagine who expensive it would be to produce anything if workers had to be paid for the reproduction of the workforce. It would not work. Housework is work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:42 PM
1

What is the difference? If you are raped by a person you know you are most likely forced to still be in contact with them and that intensives trauma further. So why is it less terrible to be raped by someone you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:26 AM
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The straight up make these theories up to justify their hate for women and cover their self hate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:21 AM
1

All you do is complaining otherwise you wouldn’t be on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:07 AM
1

Why do you think it’s a difference? Don’t you think husbands can’t rape their wife’s in a violent way resulting in injuries? Why do you think it’s worse to be raped by a stranger? Do t you think it’s disgusting being raped by your 50 year old uncle?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:07 AM
1

Whatever you still are not involuntary celibate you just have to high standards, stop complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:03 AM
1

Well all you do is dismissing trauma. And it sound a hell lot you trying to excuse rape in relationships. And it’s disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:01 AM
2

Again it’s a choice. You scrutinize women for choosing men they are attracted to but you do the exact same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:52 AM
1

You don’t even understand the point. Yes rape is „common“ that does not make it less traumatising and painful for the individual. Are you saying because not all women break down after that experience their trauma isn’t bad enough and then altogether rape isn’t so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:48 AM
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And that makes it even more disgusting and I feel sad for that person that they obviously have someone in their circle that is belittling their trauma and pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:01 AM
1

Okay so the problem is not that you can’t get NO women at all, you just choose to only want specific women. So the whole thing is not involuntary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:58 AM
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But if women don’t want to have sex with unattractive guys it’s them being shallow and denying men their natural right to their bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:53 AM
5

You guys are so insane. I honestly never wish anything bad onto someone but hearing guys like you talk about rape is so disgusting. I really hope it will never happen to you or your family members because regardless of it being done by a stranger, friend or even family member is horrible. It does not only destroy the life of the victim but also of the people around them. The shame and stigma is so enormous and I breaks people. My own sister took her life years after she was rapped by a “friend” …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:42 AM
2

Yes because housework and caring for children is not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:29 AM
6

Yeah all the poor women who are forced into sexwork or have to make themselves dependent on violent partners just to be able to survive … so easy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:23 AM
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Well you don’t die if you don’t have sex, so it’s also a choice. Really it’s so fucking crazy guys on here hate everything about women and yet are completely obsessed with them. As a women I would really appreciate that guys who hate us so much would simply leave us alone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:22 PM
2

How do you know if you don’t ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:56 PM
8

So you basically rape your partner potentially? I might be a special snowflake here but it really doesn’t turn me on knowing my partner isn’t in the mood and would not equally like to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:47 PM
1

How exactly can you make a statistical generalisation based on anecdotal evidence, these two things are the exact opposites? Like one time I saw a black swan, so swans must be black (don’t tell popper)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:44 PM
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And I pray to god every single that I will never have a relationship like yours were I basically have to pressure my partner into sex because he owes me and not because he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:40 PM
1

Yes because we all collectively decided on that so none of us is forced to think for themselves or god beware is forced to have a own opinion and own taste. Like it would be so complicated if a women had to think about whether she is attracted to a specific guy and his personality, so instead she just checks on our decision and if he is to small or works retail in the supermarket he gets a no. Easy process.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:38 PM
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No sorry to break it to you no person on this planet owes you to fulfill all your needs. You are not entitled to your partner and you don’t own them. If the needs of you and your partner don’t fit anymore and no compromise can’t be made it’s time to say good bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:32 PM
3

Well because for them we are not human beings and therefor have no individuality or personality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:27 PM
17

Well then don’t view it as something that is owed to you instead ask your partner why their interest in sex dropped and figure it out together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:23 PM
3

Yes and of course to fuck around with men and make them miserable bc that is our only fun and we don’t have any interests or passions ourselves except for existing to bother men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:19 PM
2

But obviously A women is doing what you deem is totally strange to the female gender? Who does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:17 PM
8

So usually we (the entire female gender) meet around once a year, it used to be in person but since covid we shifted to zoom (foods and drinks were always nice) … anyway at this secret conference we decide on what we like, what we dislike, which men are attractive (height, money, status) and then we completely unify our behaviour to that decisions, no place for individuality or personality we just become one homogeneous block of flesh. And then we wait around for next years meeting to form a new…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:16 PM
5

I think it’s the general problem of these guys on here: they simply don’t talk to real women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:11 PM
26

Or just bad communication and not understanding that relationship are not like porn films and real people go through phases in their life’s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:09 PM
5

The old in and out game gets boring soon enough but you know you have a mouth and you can open it and ask your partner why their interest in sex has declined and then find a solution for it together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:07 PM
155

Well in every other part of life if something continuously is happening to you are you a) questioning whether you might be the problem or b) blame an entire group of millions of different individuals for secretly conspiring against you and feeding you lies since your entire life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:05 PM
3

Why do you think women can’t be incel? The whole thing was created by a women. There is women out there who have disabilities, who have psychological trauma that makes intimacy impossible, there is autistic women or women with vaginismus and so on. And I know you will say well there is always a guy that would “take” these women, so there is for men it’s a whole business branch called sex work. But I am sure that you are interested in having sex with someone who likes you and with whom you feel c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:00 PM
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Why are you friends with them? If you need someone to start your car you can hire someone. People are usually friends with each other because they enjoy each other’s company, personality and have memories and a history together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:51 AM
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Well I am not the person who cries on the internet about something I just made up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:47 AM
0

So you blame women for only wanting to sleep with guys the want to? What world do you envision? A world were someone is required to have sexual intercourse with you? Do you honestly believe that is fulfilling? And there seems to be a lot of getting in your comment but if you want to view it that way you also have to give intimacy and affection and not just take
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:45 AM
1

How does it feel to constantly live in a self created version of reality and be angry over things that aren’t true?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:44 PM
12

Genuine question: you seem to hate everything about women as a general group, why do you even want to engage with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:51 PM
1

Yes bc for a long time that was the only thing women had power over (and not even that very often bc you rape). Everybody should be picky with there sex partners why would I have sex with someone I don’t like? You only do that if you actually don’t care about sex at all and only care about how others think of you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:49 PM
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And see here is the problem for guys on here sex is merely transactional, it’s not about being intimate with someone because you generally like them it’s just about ticking a box and thinking that magically solves all your issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:46 PM
1

I am not sure but maybe bc Reddit isn’t representative of society
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:41 PM
1

Your entire argument consists of but I want it, like a little child throwing a tantrum in the store because it wants candy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:17 PM
1

You seemingly have a lot to work on. I really hope that you find a girl AFTER you addressed those issues bc if not I feel sorry for her already
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:22 PM
1

What does settle mean? I am not saying you should start to believe that you will never ever have a romantic partner bc no one can look in the future and see what will happen. I mean you should start to see and respect the love that you already have and be grateful for it. Literally nothing is more unattractive than a person who is obsessed with finding romantic love and is seeing their whole life purpose in that. I personally don’t know whether I will ever find romantic love but I sure as hell k…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:47 PM
1

You just proved to point by completely ignoring everything else I said. There is a huge difference between being sad about something and bathing yourself in self pity like you do. It is not the fact that you don’t have a partner that makes you unhappy it is your perspective on it bc you believe your life depends on romantic love and you believe that having an idealised version of a girlfriend will cure all your issues, your insecurities and will make you happy but newsflash: it won’t. If you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:30 PM
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Isn’t that also a representation of what is in style today. Like for womens bodies big butts and small hips are in and considered hot while a few years ago very skinny women where considered hot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:10 PM
1

From physical point of view I like guys who are a bit “nerdy” maybe curly hair, fit but not buff and just looking friendly (often I see guys that legit scare me eve though they look good). But I dated all kinds of guys and often I didn’t found them super attractive at first sight but they become more and more hot until I thought that this guy is the most beautiful man on the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:08 PM
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What do you do in case of homosexual friends? Or do you simply assume ppl of opposite genders always want to fuck each other regardless of preference and attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:03 PM
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Well first of all that is life, you don’t get certain things just because you badly want them. And if you are unhappy bc you can’t find a romantic partner that is totally understandable and a very human thing to feel but you have to options here. First: bath yourself in self-pity and believe that the only thing that makes your life worthwhile is a romantic partner (this also will put so much pressure on your potential partner and might be a sign that you have a very idealised version of a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:44 PM
2

No I am not saying that but maybe to realise that romantic love is not everything and your life can be wonderful and fulfilled without it (usually that also attracts other people to want to be a part of your life). The thing is you are not owed romantic love, it might happen or it maybe doesn’t. In our society we put so much weight on romantic relationships, friendships are often seen as something less important and a lot of people lose their friendships when in a relationship bc all they do is …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:34 PM
2

Who is people? I thought women and men can’t be friends anyway so men should want to be friends with you? Stopp making women responsible for your own failures. You have fallen in the trap of believing that feelings and vulnerability is unattractive but literally every women values these things in men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:27 AM
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Because a bad relationship for a women might be her death sentence or at least result in abuse and violence. That’s why women are way more careful and prefer to stay alone than risk harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:22 AM
0

Well it’s mostly bad because of lack of communication. Most ppl just do their program in bed without talking about what they like and how they like it. Sex with someone new can be great if you open your mouth and tell them what you like
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:17 AM
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I also have never experienced romantic love in that sense but I would think of my parent, my friends and I would feel the same love for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:13 AM
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Exactly love is more than romantic love, it’s friendship, comradeship, solidarity. It’s an amazing book about resilience of a human being who protected his humanity while being thrown in the most inhumane situation. He deeply loved humans despite what humans had done to him and that kept him going. If you want to have one lesson from this book let it not be that you need to find a wife that will love you but that it’s compassion and humanity for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:10 AM
1

So usually once a year all women on the planet secretly meet and discuss the nature of women. In this meeting we all collectively decide what women want and no women is allowed to express any kind of individuality after that decision is made. We usually decide that we only like tall rich white guys with a sharp jawline and we also decide that we strictly are only allowed to date the top 20 percent of men (it’s of course agreed on what kind of man that is).
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 09:43 PM
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Why does anyone think it is okay to call HUMAN BEINGS damaged goods!
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 09:35 PM
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So you see a real relationship (that if your sister) which is very different from wat these guys tell you about relationships. Could it be that those guys actually have no clue about real relationships because they life in their fantasy world?
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 09:31 PM
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