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0	I just entered my first relationship with a girl I really like. She has tons of friends and is very confident. I invite her out but she already has plans... Good way to respond to this? I asked her last minute and did not have any backup plans Good stuff, thanks! Let me mention a couple other things that bothered me: When I first asked her out, she said she wanted more time to think about it but agreed we'd meet up around midnight. She has her phone off and only calls me back around 1:00 am. We're hanging out with different friend groups and she doesn't want to meet up yet. I call her again at 2:00am and she's drunk and giving a massage to someone. She leaves, though, and comes to get to bed... how would you respond to this? We weren'…	/r/seduction	21/12/12 07:41 AM
10	Question for the community. Our journey takes alot of work and I'm feeling burnt out and want to quit. Why does it seem so easy for women to seduce men but not the opposite? It's easy for attractive females because society generally places more value on the female's appearance. It's absolutely not easy for unattractive females for the same reason. Look at it this way: Men's actions have more influence over their outcome, because a man's value is more based upon his actions.	/r/seduction	21/12/12 07:31 AM
3	I just entered my first relationship with a girl I really like. She has tons of friends and is very confident. I invite her out but she already has plans... Good way to respond to this? I asked her last minute and did not have any backup plans I had the expectation we'd get together on her first night back in town. I didn't communicate this, though, and she'd been invited by an old friend to hang out. I know the problem is the expectation. Otherwise I'd be totally content and unbothered.	/r/seduction	21/12/12 07:18 AM
3	I just entered my first relationship with a girl I really like. She has tons of friends and is very confident. I invite her out but she already has plans... Good way to respond to this? I asked her last minute and did not have any backup plans This sounds like troll advice	/r/seduction	21/12/12 06:43 AM
1	I'm in a Cuban salsa dance class at my university. There are more girls than guys, and lots of them are cute... this should be easy, right? Advice, por favor! will update Thanks. I think it's pretty early at this point, but I do think I want to make moves before the end of class. There are a few girls I'm interested in, so I want to play my odds a bit. But of course I don't want everyone knowing I asked out multiple girls.	/r/seduction	08/10/12 09:17 PM
1	I'm in a Cuban salsa dance class at my university. There are more girls than guys, and lots of them are cute... this should be easy, right? Advice, por favor! will update Thanks! I'll consider all of this. The main thing I'm wondering is when to make moves. You say when the class is done. Do you mean when the entire 10 weeks are up? I don't like this for two reasons: It goes against the whole idea of acting immediately. There are a few girls I'm interested in, and waiting until the end would limit to dating just one.	/r/seduction	08/10/12 09:14 PM

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