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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
69	Self Improvement Reflections of my Teenage Years		lampbulb12	/r/seduction	19/12/16 12:43 AM

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6	Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot. Honestly I think that book should be required reading, people are obsessed with not failing instead of just being able to benefit from any outcome.	/r/seduction	26/04/17 02:40 PM
6	Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot. Read the book "antifragile" by Nassim Taleb, it's essentially the maths/theory behind this and why it works.	/r/seduction	26/04/17 01:35 PM
1	Self Improvement Reflections of my Teenage Years Thank you, I really appreciate your comment. All the best for you too!	/r/seduction	19/12/16 04:26 PM
1	Self Improvement Reflections of my Teenage Years Okay now I'm not an expert however I'll give a go at some potential improvement points. For listening, realise that people often give you clues about what they want to talk about. One easy way to get people talking is "how was your day?" And if they give any information other than "good" or "not bad" then expand on that point. E.g. "Yeah it was good, just studied and met a friend". Then you can expand and ask about either studying (what do they study, I study this, how is it going, what do you w…	/r/seduction	19/12/16 04:25 PM
3	Self Improvement Reflections of my Teenage Years Fair play, I didn't mean to come across as trying to qualify myself, however I see how it can be interpreted as me trying to show off.	/r/seduction	19/12/16 11:49 AM
2	Self Improvement Reflections of my Teenage Years Sure thing, and if i'm honest I think the books can help but with action at the same time. Social anxiety for me never really goes away, but it does lessen with experience. What I would recommend is thinking about what makes you socially anxious? For me it was always the initial introduction and following 10 seconds, after that I can get into the swing of it. As for social skills, which of yours aren't so good? Listening skills, conversation skills, body language, humour or what? I think social …	/r/seduction	19/12/16 11:46 AM
1	My personal principles for getting better with women and staying sane when shit hits the fan 7, 16, 20 and 21 are so important once you know a little bit of theory. Apply these four with theory and life is good. Awesome post OP!	/r/seduction	15/08/16 04:19 AM
15	If you suck at reading signals from women (like me) what are some things to look for? Read "the definitive book of body language" there are loads of free PDFs if you google it. It takes a bit of time but applies to social settings in general as well as seduction so I would recommend it.	/r/seduction	11/06/16 01:45 PM
1	How to pull yourself out of depression Brilliant post! I've been not the best mental state recently and this has given me a framework to work with so I appreciate this! I've bookmarked and will come back if needed	/r/seduction	25/05/16 10:53 AM
3	Five years in the Game and Yes, it ALL comes down to Confidence Yeah good point, I do really enjoy music though and analysing music is kind of a hobby of mine so perhaps I'm an extreme. But often times I put it on as the natural surroundings aren't exciting enough or whatever, your way is a good way to think of it. Appreciate your comment!	/r/seduction	25/04/16 03:25 AM
3	Five years in the Game and Yes, it ALL comes down to Confidence This is super interesting, I thought for a bit I was addicted to music haha and that it was causing me to feel down far more than necessary. Now I see this it kind of makes sense. Cool links, thank you!	/r/seduction	25/04/16 02:34 AM