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How incredibly true. I was engaged once, about a year ago. Broke it off because something just didn't ever feel "right". I think this was my intuition telling me something was very very wrong. She was always trying to get more out of me, and when I would open up, and let her in, she would see the opening, that vulnerability. And instead of appreciating that, she saw that window of opportunity to try to shape me, and change me to better her life, at the expense of mine. Felt absolutely horrible. …
/r/MGTOW18/11/20 02:00 PM
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Yeah, seriously. I'm starting to see the loop, scares the shit out of me. I only found MGTOW about 2 years ago, and its really changed my way of thinking, but my actions haven't caught up yet.
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 01:23 PM
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Hey man, I just wanted to say sincerely thank you for the advise. I've lurked on MGTOW for a few years now, it has given me tremendous strength and introspection....and I think the fact that I was willing to actually post something very raw showed me that its time, I know something is not right. You are right, why am "I" trying to convince her. I'm really happy with myself. I'm not perfect, but I do my best, i try not to hurt others, love my family, take care of myself, etc. I don't ask much. In…
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 01:20 PM
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thanks man, sincerely
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 11:11 AM
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yeah, I'm realizing this, I'm not sure why, but I always want to "explain" myself. I'm realizing (and excuse my ignorance, as this really was my first real relationship, 4+ years) but the more I try to explain, the more she picks apart everything i'm saying, it just sucks me back in, endless cycle. Just so fucking tired of it. No vagina is worth all this, fuck it.
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 11:02 AM
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thanks bro
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 11:01 AM
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yeah, i'm realizing its impossible
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 11:01 AM
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yeah, worst part is she is insanely attractive, she's a corporate executive, wealthy (we both are) , and incredibly physically fit, she is a cyclist, amateur fitness competitor, etc. I'm in great shape, and we both make good money, but I actually thought she liked me for me, NOPE, she likes the ATTENTION, and that sucks man.
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 11:01 AM
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I'm learning this as well. I'm a pretty emotionally sensitive guy, and so was my family, we are very kind people, and a little bit to apologetic for taking care of our own needs, I'm realizing this is something I have to work on. And as you said, the more I say, there more it shows I'm still susceptible to manipulation, not cool
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 10:59 AM
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yeah, talk about feeling used, like a product or something (disposable)
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 10:58 AM
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good quote, I feel kinda dumb, but also being here has helped me learn that this is toxic shit
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 10:57 AM
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thanks my man, much appreciated. I've been on reddit for 8+ years, and I don't post much, but I needed some help last night, thank you.
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 10:57 AM
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you are absolutely right, just reading all the comments now. This is my first time really sticking up for myself, I've got a lot to learn, but like the other guys says, I'm realizing friendship isn't even a possibility
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 10:56 AM
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I'm realizing friendship is not possible, which sucks because I enjoy sports and activities with her, but I'm realizing women don't have "friends"
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 10:55 AM
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Thanks brother, reading this myself, yeah, I should have run earlier, stupid on me for staying, I agree
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 10:55 AM
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Relevant great read The Storm Before the Storm: The Beginning of the End of the Roman Republic https://www.amazon.com/dp/1610397215/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_glSnEbGDSTD7Q
/r/MGTOW02/02/20 12:39 PM
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Man, this gives me hope. Just turned 41 and I'm really struggling.
/r/MGTOW19/11/19 06:37 AM
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I'm here with ya. 40 years old here. I make good six figures, still pay 1400.00 a month for just child support, plus take care of the health insurance for just one child. I've finally (after many years of complete poverty due to NY child support laws) have managed to climb out into a somewhat stable place, but the psychological damage can never be undone. Stay strong. You aren't alone.
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 09:24 PM
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Thank guys. Sincerely. I've been so damned down on myself. I never felt this way before. Dating and living with a truly Alpha female (C level executive at Bosch) constantly belittled, ridiculed gaslighted, minimized, invalidated and diminished my self worth over several years resulted in me finding an inner strength I did not have. That being said , I found this sub Reddit about a year ago and it was the first time I started to see alternate opinions, concepts, possibilities. Over the last year …
/r/MGTOW07/09/19 01:52 PM
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I wish I could find a high resolution version
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 08:37 AM
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