| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | How to smoothly go for one girl in a two set? | Logistics | lamyarus | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:29 AM |
| 4 | [Unsuccessful FR][Question]Club Strategy, what am I doing wrong? What can I/we learn from it? | lamyarus | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 12:51 AM | |
| 3 | [Short-FR]Fast #-close leading to flaky behaviour. How to get past it? | lamyarus | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 05:26 PM | |
| 1 | Opening sets of two or more? | lamyarus | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 12:58 AM | |
| 1 | How to think emotionally? Or how to deal with women who are emotional thinkers in the essence? | lamyarus | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 09:47 PM | |
| 1 | Being too direct is bad. How to learn to be indirect and convert directness to an attractive trait? | lamyarus | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 09:07 PM | |
| 0 | A song about seduction, that is disguising itself as a song about bees and flowers. | lamyarus | /r/seduction | 17/03/15 10:07 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Unintentionally an asshole, how to address it ?I am similar to you and I can only tell you that you should try to work on it. I asked my very close friends for feedback and a general pattern in their responses emerged. I wrote down everything and I read it at least once a week. I try to act accordingly and when the unwanted behaviour eventually comes out, I try to apologize and reflect on it. I try to analyze my interactions afterwards and also I talk to my friends about it. This is not something that you can easily get rid of in one day, be… | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 02:58 PM |
| 29 | On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place?One time, the date was going well and she invited herself to my place to meet my cat. She came in and really played and cuddled with the cat. We still made out a bit but then she left. Next day, she told me there was no spark. So she used me to get to my cat. My cat has more rizz than me! | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.Can you do an ama? Ask the mods maybe? Or can you write up a post without the ama? | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 06:04 PM |
| 20 | I just approached a woman in a bar for the first time in my life (unsuccessfully) and I'm close to crying at how proud I am with myselfI just tried to game the hottest woman I've ever seen in my life. She was a bartender and I knew it was a long shot but I tried anyway. She said her boyfriend was coming soon. So it was an unsuccessful approach. But I feel awesome right now. Finally, I don't feel sad and depressed because I let a chance go. Life is much better when you shoot your shot! | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 12:01 AM |
| 12 | How’s your luck with Tinder?Give an update please after a month to let us know how it went | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 12:25 PM |
| 2 | On a date, do you ever ask if she's looking for a relationship or looking to have fun or anything like that ?Do you have any tips on playing to the emotional side rather than the logical? Not only in this situation but generally. I take pride in being a very logic oriented person. It hurts my game though. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 10:22 AM |
| 3 | A girl flakes twice on me and she also emphasized that she is not making excuses and she wants to see me. WHAT'S THE LOGIC HERE?This happens a lot on tinder. Its nature is for the girls to be flaky. When I set up a date with a girl, I confirm one or two days before just like you. If the girl flakes, I try to reschedule a second time. If she accepts again and flakes in a day or so before like the first time, I next her in my head, write a message saying it was nice talking with her and maybe an inside joke that I have with her but it seems she doesn't want to meet, so have fun and good luck. Then I forget about her. Some … | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 08:06 AM |
| 78 | How to Lead Women (And Why Most Men Suck at Dating)Lately, I don't like reading posts on this sub, because I find the amount of quality posts lacking. But this post really resonated with me and what I feel like what general seduction is about. Thanks for posting. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 10:58 PM |
| 2 | On a trip to austria, Small town and a lot of locals pass by, should I start a conversation oder nicht?;pTry it, at worst they will look at you like you are crazy and you will have a story to tell on your next date :) Then come visit me in Vienna. | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 06:45 PM |
| 5 | What make a woman unattractive? What turns you off? Do you set standards for the women you date/have sex with?This is the dream. As an aspirant and yet unsuccessful seductionist, all I want to do is get laid with any girl who breathes. But my end goal is to be succesful with so many women that I can some day be the chooser and not the settler. So I can choose a girl who fits with me(and she would choose me). This is a very noble goal in my opinion and people from outside this community don't always get it. Though it doesn't matter that much, because I am a man and I want to fuck women. | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Don't Be This Guy [3rd person FR]Cool FR. There should be more 3rd person FRs in this sub, because they are more objective and might provide some insight, which we normally don't get. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 09:59 AM |
| 3 | My 8+ Month Real-World Experiences, 18 Tips & 9 Realizations Using Tinder Across 6 Countries… (Inside)Sounds like you are good looking. I mean, I didn't try with an animal but action and buddies shots, I have tried. Everyone around me is having great experiences with this app and I just feel like I am a try-hard without success. | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 08:56 AM |
| 2 | My 8+ Month Real-World Experiences, 18 Tips & 9 Realizations Using Tinder Across 6 Countries… (Inside)I tried 4-6 photos. | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 08:54 AM |
| 6 | My 8+ Month Real-World Experiences, 18 Tips & 9 Realizations Using Tinder Across 6 Countries… (Inside)Great advice man. Thank you for sharing your experiences. My challenge is getting enough matches to have the abundance mentality you have. My average is one match a week and they usually don't lead anywhere. I tried all kind of photos and I don't know what works anymore. I even listened to advice from this link. The photos I used include 1)me with a girl, my armes wrapped around her, 2)me and another girl who is laughing, 3) me playing basketball, 4)me eating grapes like a roman deboucher :), 5)… | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Stop Calling Them Shit Tests: A Real Guide to Passing Any Test a Woman Gives YouThank you for this post. If you respond with resentment, sarcasm, aggression or discomfort, you will fail. I could not deduce a general answering style to these tests other than being honest and confident. Can you give a general behaviour that we should attain, when dealing with these tests? I mean, even if I am honest and confident, I feel like I fail these kind of tests, because I miss the subtle ones. | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 04:26 PM |
| 7 | I've read so much I forgot what to even do, anyone else?I remember when he was Shia LaPlagiarism(read this joke on reddit). It looks like, he paid some good PR agent after that appearantly and he is on the rise again. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what's next.Hello, are the rules really followed? I've seen many posts about individual girls or specific situations posted here, which should belong to askseddit. Are you guys adopting a stricter policy now? | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Women who say that they saw me before I have met them.This happened to me a week ago and I was totaly oblivious. Damn, my social awareness and game awareness need improvement. | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 06:29 PM |
| 4 | [ArousalScience] Observations on Tinder through the eyes of an attractive female. 4 types of profile pictures that will end with you getting rejected.Hello OP. I just finished reading all three articles and changed my pictures accordingly. 2 minutes later: BAM! A match. Can't believe how it worked. Although I still need further study to see if more girls like it so that we know it wasn't just one hit. Will edit tomorrow with the match count. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 11:38 AM |
| 3 | I almost got arrested doing pickupDont listen to this guy/girl. You are self aware enough and not everybody(approached women) has a clear mind. It was probably some girls who can't appreciate being approached or some white knight who saw you and got jelous. Keep on going. Don't go yelling at girls obscenities though:). | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Successful 'ugly' sedditors: how did you get over the fact that you're ugly?There is a lesson to be learned from that story. Everyone didn't die in your life, right OP? That means you are not as ugly as the ugly barnacle. On a serious note: Just to reiterate what others said: Ignore that bitch and move on. | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Best clubs/activities to meet and interact with women?Soccer advice coming from an american :) If you want to play football and meet women during the process, you gotta be really lucky and find a good coed team/course. There aren't much of those in Europe. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 04:04 PM |
| 4 | ItalyCan confirm. Am Turk. I wonder if it would work the other way. | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Opening sets of two or more?You are right. When they are inside, they don't have an excuse, unless I creep them out(don't worry I won't). But how does one game girls inside a club, where it is really loud? I am feeling like I am asking either an age old question or a really dumb one. I would say dancing is an option, but for us who have to use their words, what is there to do? | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 08:27 AM |
| 1 | [Short-FR]Fast #-close leading to flaky behaviour. How to get past it?Thanks. Your username changes the meaning of your comment though. :) | /r/seduction | 07/10/14 08:31 AM |
| 0 | [Short-FR]Fast #-close leading to flaky behaviour. How to get past it?Did I do something wrong posting this question? One of you says so much text, I can't read. Another one says no one's taking her offer, which I did. I am sorry, this was not my impression of this sub. | /r/seduction | 07/10/14 12:06 AM |
| 1 | [Short-FR]Fast #-close leading to flaky behaviour. How to get past it?I did? | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 11:39 PM |
| 1 | [Short-FR]Fast #-close leading to flaky behaviour. How to get past it?You may have a point, but I had to act fast, because she invited everyone during her speech and after class, I had to leave. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 09:47 PM |
| 4 | I'm Vadim from Honest Signalz. Ask me anything : )How much did Vatican cost to rent out for you Bar Mitzvah? Haha on a more serious note: Do you come up with your own lines like the one above or do you get help? I'm guessing both. Source video: http://youtu.be/YXB9-k82oOY | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Some random thoughts over two yearsI agree fully. I've had tinder for a month and I've had like 9-10 matches and all of them flaked out. It might be a blow to my libido but fuck it, I don't care. The game is to help us guys who can't achieve what we want through looks alone. So Tinder is not the perfect place to practice the game. To be a Pollyanna here, it is an awesome app to see real hot girls in the area and see that there are really other fish in the sea. | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Best opener suggestion gets used and a report."Did you cook(prepare? cause its a salad bar) these yourself? They are really delicious. I will make you my third wife to cook." Seriously though, just go say Hi :) | /r/seduction | 10/09/14 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone else... tired of it?I'm really interested in this as a foreigner. Could you care to elaborate on language barriers and how they can be utilized in the game? | /r/seduction | 10/09/14 01:46 PM |
| 8 | How I overcame my fear of rejection.It might have been or not, we can't possibly know the girl's intentions but it is better to encourage people than saying: "You might have overpredicted your abilities and the girl probably didn't like you anyway." As a community we are far better off, encouraging beginners. | /r/seduction | 20/08/14 09:00 PM |
| 4 | How I overcame my fear of rejection.You guys are missing the point he made. He felt powerful for the first time rejecting that girl and this gave him confidence. The reason he thinks, he thought he could get a date was because he was feeling confindent. Not because he claimed to be a pick-up master. | /r/seduction | 20/08/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Starting to see things different + need adviceThank you for sharing your uplifting story. As a person who is trying to change his life seductionwise, I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 06:26 PM |
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