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Average (meaning you have food, shelter and health security) that is not most women. You are privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:37 AM
1

It takes a privileged woman to say most women are prostitutes/sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:31 AM
1

They don't have to find him sexy, they just need to find him attractive for his wealth, status etc. And it's not just about being sugar babies, it's a survival strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:19 AM
1

Millions of women would marry him if given the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:17 AM
0

What you are inadvertently saying is millions of women are not decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:11 AM
1

Name?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:31 AM
0

Donald Trump is high value which is why he can get beautiful women en masse, the proof is in the pudding
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:31 AM
1

Shit tests are just like negs because women tease, poke, pry and make fun of things and gauge reactions to try and assess and make value judgements. Both are irritating and make the recipient feel like a lab rat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:14 PM
1

Hypergamy is a curse. I don't blame women for it though ultimately it's a survival strategy in an unequal world, ultimately men design the world and hence the parameters that women can and will be encouraged to operate in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:04 PM
1

He's a beta bux RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:57 PM
1

Shit test - anything done or said to try and see if a guy is being truthful about his portrayed image
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:46 PM
1

Virgins obviously have less expectations and demands from a sexual standpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:44 PM
0

If a man holds the key to opportunity then he is obviously high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:42 PM
1

He wasn't rich and famous enough to solicit submission from you period.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:37 PM
1

Red pill works if the woman considers you to be 'high value' women won't submit to a bum but will gladly lick a Chris Hemsworth's Gooch on command.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:36 PM
1

Almost every industry is a scam to somebody, whether you get scammed or get value is all up to you as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:33 PM
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Misogynists get laid all the time, provided they are physically attractive or rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:27 PM
7

Brutal
/r/BlackPillScience16/05/21 10:29 AM
3

True but I've noticed that Kevin often fails to mention that while women have a plethora of men throwing themselves at them, they aren't always the men that they're attracted to. And Kevin's solution is to tell women that they should settle. I personally don't agree with this, I think capitalism and liberal feminism are incompatible because the inequalities that come with capitalism make most men undesirable for marriage. So the problem to address is why men are undesirable not to force women in…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 11:06 AM
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That's some of them not all of them a lot of them were genuinely nice people, I know friends personally who were just ignorant of how unfair the dating market is and couldn't handle it when it was exposed to them. For many men it just reinforces how much of a loser they are when girls are lining up for Athletes but rejecting them and it also disincentivises them from participating.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 02:51 AM
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With regards to women entering clubs for free, he doesn't blame women for it he just states that's what it is, men are simps and will go above and beyond to get sex with women, therefore women have certain advantages. The point was to just highlight that men and women can't approach life the same.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 02:46 AM
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They're mad that Billionaires and Celebrities get pussy on the fly, on auto pilot and they don't, all this red pill stuff is just about men being mad that females have selectivity and aren't forced by culture to preserve themselves for a hard working man and as a result the market becomes heavily unfair.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 02:36 AM
1

Mental illness not disorder is a more apt term
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 02:34 AM
1

Swallow the 'noir' pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:48 AM
1

Brootal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:42 AM
1

Ok, so are you advocating for socialism or something. Because the discussion on toxic masculinity is carried out in America- a hierarchical society
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:47 PM
1

War is ever present in many forms, it is after all a form of dominance assertion, the battlefield just becomes more sophisticated with increasing civilization, but ultimately it's something we can't remove or suppress due to the ever present need for dominance assertion in a hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:35 PM
1

Novelty is just part of it, realising that your idealistic views of what people should be aren't reality is another larger and more important part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:00 PM
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So basically you learn that people ain't shit, and you modulate your expectations as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:34 PM
1

Anger is an emotion too, lol. People just embrace whatever works for them best, anger works for guys because it intimidates and motivates. Crying works for women because people are more empathic to women in general and thus will assist them. Crying for most guys doesn't work coz No1 gives a fuck about them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:40 PM
2

How is this not just being stoic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:27 PM
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These are toxic 'humanity' traits. The reason why males are focused on is because we are physically powerful and can exert our form of toxicity outward in gravely consequential ways much easier than most women can. But yeah it's a people problem not just men
/r/MensRights06/02/21 11:12 AM
1

A long finger at that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:37 PM
1

🤣🤣lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:51 AM
0

Learn how to dirty talk bro, there are sexy ways to get consent
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:46 AM
3

Learn how to talk dirty, one can ask for consent without the appearance of supplication
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:44 AM
17

Why would you want to sleep with such a dishonest and manipulative person anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:36 AM
1

Cold approaching is weird in general unless you're a hot guy. If you're average meeting organically via friends or mutual interests is the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:45 AM
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Telling a young man to believe everything women tell him, is very dangerous advice. Women are not angels, neither are men. And tbh whether he chooses to blame his romantic failures on men is fine with me, women can and do the same as well, nothing in this world is dished out symmetrically, injustice and inequality is baked into the fabric of mother nature, nothing wrong in observing that the dating arena is just another example of that inherently unfair asymmetry.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 11:52 PM
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There's a reason why we have psychotherapists who work closely with law enforcement to try help people who have risk factors for developing psychopathic behaviours or paraphilia because prevention matters, if we don't give a shit about why people become mass murderers we will have an unending cycle of barbaric madness. Choosing to remain ignorant of some of the causes is foolish in my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 11:17 PM
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Very few acts are done in isolation especially if the doer is mentally sane, yes the killers are responsible for their actions but pretending that factors in their life had no influence on them becoming what they became ultimately prevents us from stepping in before they slide off the precipice into the abyss of terror which society then ends up paying for.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 11:02 PM
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Ultimately women can do whatever they want to do. But part of what makes a society is the constant modulation of behaviour for the sake of harmonious cooperation between groups whose agendas don't perfectly align.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 10:45 PM
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They do. But people like you make some of them by feeding them fantasies of what women should be like and having them structure their lives and hopes around falsehoods, the culmination of which is disillusionment and despair which can become homicidal.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 10:30 PM
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Nobody is owed civility or basic human rights either, yet these are things society has collectively decided we should award each other
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 10:22 PM
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This is how you create 'Yorkshire rippers' and similar serial killers. "Believe everything a woman says. All the time." WHAT??🤣🤣 Believing anyone blindly is a sure fire way to some massive resentment. Women are just like men, so many evil treacherous women and men out here, you can't put any group of people on such a pedestal.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 10:20 PM
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Positive social reinforcement is necessary for success in life, unless you're attractive or have stubborn self love you won't make it in this day and age.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 10:05 PM
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When you remain comfortable and undeterred in the face of hate, that in itself is a 'show of strength' and increases your attractiveness to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 10:38 AM
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Yes, like a validation 'hierarchy of needs', they are all important both the personal success and sexual success
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:04 AM
8

OP talked about disgust and repulsion in synonymity with hate, those two terms better represent the emotions that a woman rejecting an ugly man would feel, at least in the eyes of the rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:01 AM
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We are social animals and need validation, your worth can't exist in your own head, it has to verified externally. So constant rejection is women telling a man he is worthless in the dominance hierarchy, which is why we get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 03:49 AM
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We are social animals and need validation, your worth can't exist in your own head, it has to verified externally. So constant rejection is women telling a man he is worthless in the dominance hierarchy, which is why we get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 03:48 AM
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This is why there is high crime in certain areas, because they feel the system isn't for them. Low value men are more likely to cause chaos via acts of violence, terror, crime than to just opt out quietly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:16 PM
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It seems IQ isn't the biggest determinant of success like Jordan Peterson and the Charles Murray say. Tyranny abounds
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:08 PM
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That girl is psychopathic and emotionally sadistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:41 PM
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For how long is she going to be pursued?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:33 AM
0

A shallow way of viewing the worth of women's sexuality in my view
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:29 AM
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They don't like you but they need an underclass to feel superior to and subjugate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:22 AM
1

Great point; women can just reside in their genetic fate and accept it quietly. Men can't due to our competitive nature, we can't accept being a 'loser'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 07:57 PM
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Porn sick guy here🖐️. Do a lot of your guys come with weird fetishes e.g scat play, watersports, rimming/asshole obsession. My desire for normal vaginal sex has been destroyed by porn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:01 PM
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Right. Men no longer feel the obligation to pursue a woman the same way previous generations had to. Marriage was socially enforced back then and there was multiple benefits to it. Now it's for the most part a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:33 PM
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Makeup, plastic, looks like a mannequin
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 01:33 PM
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Laura ingraham is an exception, but she has personality though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 01:32 PM
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Abso-fucking-lutely. Confrontation is necessary for mutual respect. Otherwise one person is going to get taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:27 AM
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This is incel fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:53 AM
1

I see what you did there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:17 PM
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Don't mind what I said, Reddit can breed hive thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:14 PM
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Correction: tall, rich, attractive Actors. Athletes. Comedians get cheated on. NO ONE IS SAFE lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:59 AM
0

I think it's quite simple apart from genetics, it's all about the sexually fulfilling relationships or lack thereof that young men have with 'of age' women. If these are lacking these men begin to hate and distrust these women and see them as 'evil' and mentally poisoned by age as these women are conscious and assertive enough to reject them unlike the kids who will unconsentingly accept their advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:46 AM
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Except for the fact that Einstein and Epstein were quite similar, both super intelligent and sexual freaks(Epstein takes the cake of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:41 AM
1

Sometimes you can have your cake and eat it too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:33 PM
1

Such value systems are outdated, to add on most Girls will only have a couple of thousand fans and will not be famous thus their antics can be hidden from potential mates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:38 PM
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The way they explained it to me was women empowerment means being able to choose how I live my life without society telling me how I should live it. "Nudity empowers some, modesty empowers others"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:20 AM
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Ok n this current social climate it won't. It's called 'women empowerment'
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:07 AM
0

Having an onlyfans will not jeopardize anyone's future
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:52 AM
0

Onlyfans does not lead to social suicide my guy, feminism is making it socially acceptable for a woman to sell her nudes online, nobody will bat an eye as every pretty woman starts to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:50 AM
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"Daddy's little princess". She can do no wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:42 PM
1

For the most part yes, that doesn't discount the effects of culture and environment to a particular group of people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:45 PM
1

Over a lifespan, and the influence of a person's exposure to different stimuli and environments is not fully understood
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:28 PM
2

That it changes over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:21 PM
2

The fact that it's a variable trait, makes me question that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:19 PM
1

Some of them look way better than the average woman after taking hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:28 AM
1

STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:52 PM
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Women aren't lying they don't want all men to be alphas, it's not beneficial for society, they want hardworking naive men to take advantage of. They tell you the truth which is"I want a hardworking successful simp who will cater to my needs"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 10:26 AM
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That's my point, if she fucked everybody then there would be no need to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:53 PM
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No because women decide who gets sex and if they gave it freely there wouldn't be a need for competition. The other guy is just tryna get sum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:48 AM
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It is, which is why unattractive men will always hate and abuse women: because they can't get their desires fulfilled willingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 01:13 PM
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You just aren't aware of how many people are silent members of the 'manosphere'. Most average men who've had any challenges in relationships are a part of the manosphere or identify with the ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 07:29 AM
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Good morning....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 07:08 AM
0

When women use you and disregard you, hating them is a natural result.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 07:06 AM
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Good morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 07:02 AM
2

Of course m'lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:00 PM
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I'm glad you understand where I'm coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 11:32 AM
2

It's an insult because I'm expected to jump over Olympic hurdles for a woman who has been used as a toilet and asswipe by Chad on multiple occasions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:14 AM
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After all how can we respect you if other men use you as toilets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:07 AM
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Breaking our backs to gain access to a woman some other guy doesn't respect and uses as a toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:03 AM
0

It's funny how these guys are weak and timid till they commit acts of mass violence. Teaching guys to be pseudo masculine in order to get pussy only leads to assault and harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:37 PM
1

Tell that to Jeremy Meeks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:56 PM
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If they had low T they wouldn't be complaining. Even players just fuck and toss most women, coz they know most women nowadays aren't worth it. These average guys just don't have the genetic luxury to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 06:58 PM
1

A lot of guys just feel like the juice isn't worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:00 PM
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Of course but in a modern world where women have equal social power, using money as leverage is a fool's game
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:21 PM
10

Right, it's a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:21 PM
21

Why waste a thousand dollars on Becky when she sucks Chad off in the public bathroom for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:30 AM
1

Most relationships begin casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:02 PM
9

Kind of.. most women publicly say looks aren't important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:47 PM
0

Technically you're right, but expanding the sex industry does nothing to defeat the delineation between normals and degenerates in terms of equal opportunity.
/r/MensRights18/02/20 07:00 PM
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Men understand pragmatism and the sad reality is that improving oneself does not guarantee sex either. Most men who improve themselves and get sex were guys who could get it as a loser but just struggled to. True degenerates can't be saved by going to the gym or being social. Sex redistribution is amoral but it's something we should atleast consider
/r/MensRights18/02/20 06:52 PM
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Make peace with it? Lol. humans would not be where they are now if they just made peace with sad realities.
/r/MensRights18/02/20 06:36 PM
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Many blame women for their misfortune. Not only that, there's many that believe they are owed another person's body or companionship, which I think many people here can acknowledge as ludicrous. Sad or not, you are not *owed* a person. what exactly do you expect men starved of intimate attention to do when they helplessly fail to get it.
/r/MensRights18/02/20 06:03 PM
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Right; the code was executed at birth and it is unfortunately read-only.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:18 PM
5

Right physical attractiveness is all genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:17 PM
0

True I always hate going to public gyms coz guys there expect me to be lifting heavy weight based off how I look, then think I'm a lazy lifter when I can only bench 60kgs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:15 PM
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FACE>>>>>>>muscle. Being jacked only looks great if you have a naturally large frame AND decent jaw bones, if not forget it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:12 PM
1

Well then we should suffer bitchy rejections because of a few acid attackers, fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:19 AM
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And women spread lies as gossip about you when rejected. "He's gay", "he's a misogynist" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:54 AM
1

People are different, psychopaths only value social situations based of what they can manipulate people into getting for themselves those who can become successful those who can't become misogynists and murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:36 PM
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The former; it sometimes turns into the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:16 PM
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Everytime a woman teases or laughs at you is an invitation to demonstrate your mental and social toughness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 08:34 AM
0

Start making "clones" of beautiful women like in 'Westworld'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:58 AM
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Apparently ugly women still get fucked by Chad so they don't need ugly men for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:53 AM
2

Yeah have gotten "you look like my ex" and "you look familiar" quite often, quite subtle and starkly different from "hey big guy are you DTF tonight?" Most guys are just oblivious to the signals women throw at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:41 AM
3

Uh oh! I think you got her mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:19 AM
1

Nah, will it be able to simulate body odours, pussy smell, asshole smell, taste etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:25 AM
0

Increase in sex trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:21 AM
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He wants to make all those hoes suffer for rejecting him all those years 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:16 AM
1

Hot chicks...I was turned off chasing pussy as a young guy because I saw how easy it was to fake preselection and use that to game chicks, the average woman is quite dumb and fickle. I seek quality now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:05 AM
1

No because I don't attach worth/emotion to the word, am simply using it for it's literal meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:55 AM
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I'm a guy and I think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:42 AM
1

Get a domesticated bear.....psst they have 11 inch dicks on average and totally chadlike
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:34 AM
1

Like a dog with his master, blindly obey
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:32 AM
2

Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:28 AM
1

Once again random fucks are not that exciting, at least for me, it takes more than just a pretty face or a nice body to turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:25 AM
1

True, People obsess over what they don't have. If you're an 'alpha' who's got a productive lifestyle, all of this shallow pussy hunting is not that appealing, one good woman is better than 20 ratchet club thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:19 AM
0

Some alphas like myself have a low sex drive, we can't fuck anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:09 AM
0

Without the abundance of sexual attention they would still follow natural selection, they would be less sexualized that's all, more modest and ladylike like in the older days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:57 PM
1

Yes, her value socially is based on who commits to her not who fucks her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:37 PM
-1

Women value themselves based on who they can lock down not who they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:19 PM
1

How the fuck is this incel content? Use Kinobody as an example he's 5'10 shredded at around 180lbs and he's an advanced lifter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:48 PM
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If you want to be jacked and shredded/ripped you'll max around 180-190 going higher than that would mean post 15% body fat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:51 PM
1

If you aren't on steroids forget it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:17 PM
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I seriously hope people aren't this naive, there's nothing that will pill you more than being an empathic ear to girls during their early 20s, they spill the beans on hypergamy shamelessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:16 PM
2

So cute☺️☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:04 PM
1

Actually wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:08 PM
3

No guy is 5'9 and ripped at 200lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:08 PM
1

This is what the incels call jestermaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:43 PM
10

RAW, PRIMAL, PRIMITIVE SEXUAL DESIRE. that's what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:36 PM
3

The only cure for envy is satisfaction and most men can never be satisfied with the reality of being beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:38 AM
3

The availability of casual sex exposes the duality of female strategy (the whole alpha and beta thing), the hookup culture is despised because only a few privileged have access to it without the need for beta qualifiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:16 AM
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The reason why the 'safe option' exists is because women are having multiple ONS with guys in the first place, if they weren't then the dichotomy of alpha Chad and safe option Billy wouldn't be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:03 AM
2

Plus it obscures the faces true structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:01 AM
1

To be fair to logic and reason the term 'fair' doesn't apply here it's not fair that you are ugly nonetheless it is your fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:50 AM
1

If you really think most men only care about having sex you're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:46 AM
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LOL, guys who use beta game think it's the only way to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:45 AM
1

Just like the average guy you most likely haven't experienced the type of desire I'm talking about. It's very different from the idealistic ideas of true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:39 AM
1

True validational sex comes from being desired on a primal physical level, without the need for seduction skills or other qualifiers, the same way a guy will like a woman without giving a fuck about their personality. Most incels can't be helped because not all men will receive that primal level of attraction which is what they crave. Most of them could game chicks but it wouldn't satisfy them because the sex is bartered by skill/personality/charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:31 AM
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I think you're conflating love with desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:23 AM
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The problem with incels is they've observed too much. The alternate realities of the dating game have made them despise the average man's route to sex which is game/seduction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:20 AM
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True guys who actually get laid, just laugh at incels and find them funny. IncelTears is full of the typical white Knight fellow who is on the verge of becoming incel but mocks them to prevent himself from spiralling into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:49 AM
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Incels yes, these guys go on to become MGTOWS after getting a job and having sex a couple times
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:46 AM
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You clearly are ignorant of social Dynamics, good seduction skills are not required for every sexual interaction on this planet a lot of sex happens without the employment of seduction skills. And not everyone who has a lot of sex is a Chad, a Chad is someone who has sex primarily because of his physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:40 AM
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I wasn't talking about normies I was talking about Chads. True Chads don't need great seduction skills, normies do. PUA is for normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:31 AM
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That happens very often mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:58 AM
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The internet definition of Chad is the guy who cruises because of genetics (looks), the guys who score because of game are called 'normies'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:47 AM
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Ok cool but seduction attests to the use of qualifiers which based the author's whole point, Chad needs to be just Chad. We need to bring qualifiers (intelligence, wittiness, bubbly personality, money, fashion).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:40 AM
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I feel like it's mostly confusion, there are so many social nuances when dealing with women that some guys just say fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:32 AM
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Not every man can become a typical Chad (tall, chiseled jaw, Hunter eyes etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:26 AM
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It's also human nature to be envious of other men(Chads) which the poster is, so I guess you also have to change human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:22 AM
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Another factor is social media, these Instagram thots have fucked up my view of what's attractive, back in the day I could get hard for 5's and 6's now I'm disgusted. It's 9's and 10's only now. Dating pool is severely restricted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:17 AM
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This wouldn't be an issue if people ONLY fucked people who were serious about family and long term commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:11 AM
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Back in the day, people of same social status hanged around each other, people were segregated so cold approaches weren't viewed as threatening, now people of different classes mingle and that's where problems arise because if you approach and are deemed of lower class, you are seen as threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:05 AM
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It's all about optics nowadays. Trying to get someone that makes you look good on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:00 AM
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I think the whole point of the thread flew past you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:48 AM
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Some guys just wait for pussy to fall on their lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:02 PM
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Right "how can I be great when everyone is the same, I need you to be poor and destitute to feel like I'm somebody special" We are still primitive in many ways. The day we lose the need for validation we become robots, the essence of what makes us human will then be lost, how can you love without hate, how can you appreciate somebody without seeing someone else as inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 01:37 PM
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Theoretically that's what socialism is supposed to solve, but in reality people are never going to accept that everyone is equal and we'll always try to usurp each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 01:02 PM
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Bruh every woman can be bought, the most valuable men pick the most valuable women period. There are very few 10's that will have low counts by 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:43 PM
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I fluctuate between 1500-2300 calories a day, run 10 miles every other day. Stay in a student accommodation so am pretty much always socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:17 PM
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Rich men tend to marry sluts so I guess poor/average men like virgins coz that's how they're validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:04 PM
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Because they seek external validation from women-childish behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:00 PM
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Not true, I'll use myself as an example, at normal body fat percentages I hold most of my fat in my face compared to the average male and I have to be super disciplined with diet and exercise to get shredded for my facial structure to show. Some guys fatter than me have lean faces. Some guys are effortlessly attractive for others it's an exercise in discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:49 AM
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I think some men just don't want to put in more work than others, they see some guys getting sex/relationships effortlessly and they are like "why should I do more than him".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:44 AM
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Ok what about everything but penetration eg eating you out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 10:14 AM
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Would you be with a guy who barely likes to have sex at all e.g. likes to just kiss and cuddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:29 AM
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Guys have to understand women are in a biological race, there's no time to be bullshitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:09 AM
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Yep, when you really look at it women still in many respects have it harder than men. The only real problem men have is their own egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:13 PM
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Not all of us are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:01 PM
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Yes, a full red blooded male. Yeah you're right, out of curiosity what is the base minimum?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:27 PM
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Very much so, a big dick is a ln indicator of dominance especially if it's thick and slightly curved upward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:31 PM
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It hurts to know you like big dicks just as much as we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:49 PM
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Thanks for hurting our egos😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:47 PM
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I guess so maybe I've been poisoned by YouTube fitness coz general consensus amongst the fitness community is a bench of less than 100kg/225lbs is weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:23 PM
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Ok cool but the stereotypical gym bro is Uber jacked and 'gains' focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:55 AM
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I'm a weak gym goer with a physique similar to the 1st, I can bet you that guy can only bench about 80-90kg, he's just lean that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:58 AM
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She's referring to the jacked guys who go to the gym every other day, girls tend to like guys who workout but who seem to be effortless about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:49 AM
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Am curious as to why this is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:44 AM
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I would assume it's all about the optics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:37 AM
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Most women say they like massive dicks just to make men insecure, most women don't even cum from penetration anyways. A girl will leave you for a small dick guy if he eats her out and has good finger work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:34 AM
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Or suck dick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:13 AM
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I would argue it is sustainable, it will take time to build up the fitness level to be able to do it in optimal time but most people can spare at least 2 hours of their day, if they reduce tv and idle time. If not that one can take 10min of walking per hour of sitting to allow for good blood flow and prevent lipase inhibition. I once tried losing weight as a sedentary person and it was mentally excruciating, keeping your body moving and reducing sitting time as much as you can will save you from…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:25 AM
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And studies show that being sedentary causes the lipase enzyme to be partially inhibited thus reducing the bodies ability to break down fat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:22 PM
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Yeah because of the addiction to fast carbs and sugars, a guaranteed way to lose weight: run/walk 9miles a day and eat non processed food, even if you stuff yourself youll struggle to eat enough to get fat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:14 PM
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Is it weird that I'd like to watch my girl getting pulverised by a group of guys while I shove her face into a guys cock and tell her softly how much of a nasty whore she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:55 PM
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Tell them early on you hate 'pick mes'. And love girls who have a high count like yours as they don't judge you for sleeping a lot, that might make her feel comfortable with telling you her high count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:49 PM
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Ugly girls are talented in the 🛏️, guys who say they only go for 6 and above don't know what they're missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:18 PM
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,😂😂😂 reality is brutal, I thank God for the myriad of female friends I used to have, they would always tell me of how they viewed men and boy was it bruuutal!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:42 PM
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Power dynamic is a huge thing,Just getting laid alone is boring for me, I need to be able to get the woman's soul. There's nothing like being able to make a woman do absolutely anything for you. Hookers can serve as a temporary simulation for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:29 PM
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The marketplace is much harder for women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:36 PM
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Girls make rules for betas and break them for alphas. Guys make rules for Betty's and break them for Stacies. It all comes down to your SMP, if I can't wait 3 months it's because you aren't worth it. If Bella Hadid told me to wait 3 months then fuck it. The problem is most girls aren't at that level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:28 PM
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So you'd wait three months just to find out he's a 3 incher
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:20 PM
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Untrue they're only antagonistic when perceptions of value between the two are misaligned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:56 PM
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True Unk, alphas don't bitch they just go back home and speed dial Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:51 PM
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Neither of the male coping strategies you have listed are good for society because the sexes are supposed to work together not share antagonism, ultimately this sub aims to serve that purpose which is why these debates are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:36 PM
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What's being discussed here is scale of balance tipping over unfavorably for an increasing percentage of males to a point where it's becoming a well recognized social phenomenon. Incels, MGTOWS, disgruntled men have always been there, they are just increasing in numbers all of a sudden because of the current social inequalities that favor a minority of men whilst leaving them desperately relegated to levels that would have never been at any other time in history. What used to be normal and in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:12 PM
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Well it becomes society's problem when incels eventually make up more than a1/3rd of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 04:47 PM
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She could be a billionaire as well then what
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 04:30 PM
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That's a good idea but I guess I could make way more selling my butt to Catholic priests. Nonetheless, your strategy will turn a lot of men away because by denying them sex, you're effectively saying that's what matters to men the most, if it really didn't matter you'd have had sex easily and quickly with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:51 PM
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Make sure they're extra crunchy too, peanut butter and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:37 PM
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Ok I'll pay you $50 for your panties just to prove to you how easy it is to make money if you're willing to sell your soul to random strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:37 PM
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Come on teibe you know those guys on e-girl sites are so thirsty even you could make $1200 a month selling your soiled panties over there. And about marriage,you would marry the best choice out of those that proposed, so lf the Chads came, watered your garden and decided that the soil is not so arable(which happens most of the time) they'd leave without proposing, leaving you with a selection of Billy boys to choose from. So yes you chose alright but from what you could, which is the Billy boy f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:25 PM
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Well men are naturally very competitive and thus we don't like being 2nd or last options it's how we're raised. Most Stacies I know put out. It's not like they're saying "marry/commit to me before we have sex", that's rarely the case. Most Stacies don't feel the need to lay such ultimatums because they're in a place of abundance. It's the average/ugly pink pill chick that needs to tease a man so as to control him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:13 PM
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Rich men tend to care less about body counts because they aren't looking for validation. Average men care cause of the validation of exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:22 PM
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The idea is I HAVE to do this(commit to you in a relationship), and only then will sex become a possibility but Chad can get your sexual attention without committing to you. Chad can get both the sex without committment and the sex with commitment. Ultimately then I'm not good enough to be able to receive either of both like Chad is, therefore I have less options and am less valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:13 PM
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I honestly don't know why guys are still hung up on whether someone is virtuous or not, all I care about is that you are completely honest with me about who you are, be unashamed of your slutty history and bad decisions, let me know because those gangbangs and orgies you partook of are and always will be a part of you. Respect me enough to let me know all I need to know to make a good decision. Relationships are about trust, therefore unfiltered honesty is key
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:14 AM
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Not so typical hey Hermit?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:51 AM
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Personality is unsurprisingly important for relationships, are you someone he can enjoy both platonically and sexually, most women aren't good at noticing what their man likes or is about, men are vastly different some guys only care about their image and how you affect it. Others men are looking for a second mother to take care of them. Other guys love slutty and sexually unbounded women, your job is to identify what makes your guy tick and choose whether you will mold or not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:39 AM
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More men will be investing just like their female counterparts in makeup and surgery to compete in the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 03:43 PM
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I love turning prudes into sluts, by the time I'm done prayers up I'm running a train on her with my boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 03:39 PM
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True that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 03:34 PM
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Technically different but perceived the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 03:30 PM
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If they are average or ugly yes, if they're hot oftentimes the extroverted/bold girls will try chat them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 03:28 PM
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Acting the way you would in front of your family and close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:58 PM
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I go as far to say you should expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:00 AM
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Try to ensure he gets as much tail as he can by the time he's 18. It will ensure he's confident around women and not pedestalizing sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:57 AM
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Right, being overly invested in fidelity apart from paternal reasons is simply being ego driven and putting a woman on a pedestal if you truly believe in TRP, you would know that most people are cheaters by nature, monogamy is a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:21 AM
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A lot of guys just want female attention virgin or not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:08 AM
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Sex is not the only value she has but I need to have sex with her to know if we are sexually compatible before I get to know her further. The last thing I want is to like someone then discover that the sex is trash after 6 months, coz now we've wasted each other's time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:02 AM
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Women fuck 'perceived value' period. Some guys are good at demonstrating that value immediately without the need for 'getting to know the person' e.g their famous or hot with a lot of sex appeal and confidence. Personally I don't have the will or time to be gaming chicks, if you can't see my value when we meet then that's that. I take it as an insult really if you want to be taken on multiple dates, tell me about your life(PS: If we haven't fucked I haven't determined whether I would like to sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:45 PM
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Lololololololol!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/19 07:16 PM
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right, it's the same way people assume if you have acne it's because you don't wash your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 10:55 PM
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Right! What a joke!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 09:04 PM
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Was she forced to resign??? How is this a double standard.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/19 07:47 AM
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Not at all - emotional tampon.
/r/BlackPillScience01/06/19 12:25 PM
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Well.... that was an expensive nut to bust
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 09:30 PM
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This post is golden, dudes don't want to prioritize themselves, we've been taught to derive our value from women
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 10:31 PM
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