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You’re missing a BIG element: GAME (aka social skills). Looks, money, status, game. I was at a pool party / day club in Vegas a few weeks ago. Had a table with my bro, which sort of signaled money/status (at least in that microcosm) because it requires a minimum of $3,500 to get a table. We are some decent looking guys, but probably not 100% chads. He’s under 6’. The table next to us was also all guys, also signaling looks/money/status. Guess who got 5 girls to come party with us and who didn’t.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:43 PM
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Excellent questions, and I’ll be glad to educate you. Prepare for a novel. My approach is pure red pill minus harsh judgement or telling women what to do in any way. I only adjust MY actions based on who they are and what they do. I’ve been doing this for almost 4 years now with many different women, so it’s not a fluke at this point and I think I have a pretty good grasp of it. I do think that with the right approach, beliefs and mental attitude, almost any non-hideous looking guy with average …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:49 PM
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39 year old white guy, 6’4 180 lbs-ish. Formerly skinny nerd. Now less nerdy, cleaned up my look a bit and got in shape. Fixed my posture. Toned muscles & shoulders due to exercise and good genetics but not jacked. No 6-pack, but not much belly fat either for a dude my age. Fairly big nose. Not the most symmetrical face, but not terrible either. Exercise 4x a week with body weight and resistance bands. Hair is beginning to thin a little bit in front, but not terribly yet. I’ve been told I look b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:34 PM
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I’m one of these guys, but I don’t ask my girls to sleep only with me. They can do what they want, I just don’t want to know. That said, I’ve noticed that the more serious they are with me, the less likely they are to be sleeping with anyone else. Right now, my two main girls are not seeing anyone else. Side girls most definitely are and I don’t care. I don’t cheat, but I also don’t offer full transparency after we’ve had “the talk” about how I’m not a very monogamous guy and I’m not ready for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:07 PM
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I like this strategy. 💭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:56 PM
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Thank you for your input. Have you ever cooked dinner with one of these friends just 1-1? Been to date-like activities 1-1? I understand it all in the context of a friend group, but 1-1 seems date-y to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:04 PM
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I asked over 35 because I was wondering if this is a generational thing, also these women are more likely to be in or have bad LTR’s statistically speaking. Sometimes being in an LTR changes one’s perspective of what is acceptable. I was also wondering if they had any wisdom I hadn’t considered yet. Under 35 because this is the demographic I am dating and I wonder how common this is and if it has caused any issues for them before. You say I described a friendship. This is true inasmuch as this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:00 PM
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I’m less concerned if he’s in a relationship, until he breaks up and is single again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:32 PM
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I agree with you. That’s why it’s bothered me so much… but they insist these guys are “just friends.” Barf!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:28 PM
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Very helpful. Thanks. Upon reflection, I think most of the women have been paying for themselves, but I can’t think of many times when the guy in question asked her for a favor. In almost all cases it’s been the girl needing favors or help. A ride here or there (if they don’t drive), or help fixing or assembling things, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:26 PM
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Do you have any good ideas for how a potential suitor like me could quickly discover whether a guy is an orbiter or a real friend? Usually I’m not meeting these guys… they are kept separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:31 PM
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Awesome. You are rare. How would you define an orbiter vs a regular guy friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:28 PM
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Isn’t this a lot of effort and unnecessary stress, though? Wondering about all of these little things and trying to see how the two react in every situation is exhausting. In one case, one of the girls decided to cook with me and her guy friend together… kind of to prove that they are just friends. But then she lied to him about what I was to her (she said I was a mentor… not a romantic partner) right in front of my face. He was also pretty handsy. I called bullshit and she got defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:27 PM
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This is a useful comparison for me, thanks. Treating a guy as “one of the girls” removes some of the ick factor. But then it sort of proves my point… these guys aren’t treating the girls in question as “one of the guys.” We don’t do usually these things with other guys. That’s why I think they are orbiters. Where the ick comes in usually is the girls’ lack of awareness or acknowledgement of this. When I express my perspective, they usually get defensive rather than try to see my logic. It doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:22 PM
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Thank you for your perspective. The type of thing you mentioned also doesn’t bother me. It’s the intimate friendships, with 1-1 cooking at home, dinner outings with just the two of them to typically romantic spots, cocktails, sleeping in the same bed, traveling together, etc. that does. But they swear they are “just friends.” Would those activities have bothered you if your wife had been doing them with another guy, prior to marriage? Call me old fashioned, but these activities seem over the lin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:20 PM
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Regarding moving: in what parts of the country or world do women not keep non-gay close guy friends? I’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:14 PM
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What do you consider an orbiter vs a male friend? From my perspective as a guy, I don’t do these kinds of activities I outlined with my guy friends… so when I see other guys do it with my girl, I’m suspicious and think “orbiter!” 1-1 cooking together at home, dinner dates, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:48 PM
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I disagree. In my world, women are gate keepers to sex and intimacy. Men are the gate keepers to relationship when she brings up the “what are we?” talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:20 AM
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Declining testosterone levels in men over the last 20 years vs historically. Look it up. I’m positive that this is at least 50% of the problem. Almost no one is talking about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:12 AM
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These things do not boost attractiveness at all, so still a 5. In fact, for me, the career path is actually somewhat unattractive because that’s what I do. This kind of stress does not look good on women. That fact might make her a 4. The education is slightly attractive to me ONLY IF I’m thinking of a relationship with them. As an initial SMV factor, it does nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:51 PM
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Your opinion is valid, but “I feel like” and “in my experience” does not prove anything about how society or most people work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:17 PM
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As a guy, there is only so much you can improve your bait. Short? Tough. Uglier than average? Tough… unless you get surgery. Lack of self confidence due to constant rejection your whole life? That’s a hard one to fix short of becoming zen or fully stoic which most guys can’t do. Did you choose a line of work without potential for 6-figures+ as a young man and going back for more education would entirely derail you? Tough. It’s far easier to just go where you’re treated better and receive actual …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:23 PM
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Chiming-in as someone who is aware that many women sleep with the same guy because that guy is me. I’m 38 year old 6’4, socially calibrated, easy going, fairly financially successful divorced dad. I was always a skinny guy but spent covid getting in better shape. I was married young and very monogamous for 16 years. I’d say looks wise I’m a 7-8/10… for my age. After my divorce, I swore off monogamy and since have maintained a rotation. Since 2019 I’ve had a 2-5 girls around most of the time. Two…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:17 AM
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I opened up about being in a shaky financial situation. She immediately started to pull back and within a few months, she ended it for good. Yuck! Horrible feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:54 AM
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Divorced because I (man) was too young when I got married, and relatively sexually inexperienced, with only 2 other partners. We had a great marriage for 16 years and two kids, but then three things happened: I became financially successful, I had a spiritual awakening, and my dad died unexpectedly. This combo had a weird effect on me. I started questioning the way I had designed my life because I was feeling really off, despite material success. On top of that, my libido went through the roof (…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:50 AM
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