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There's a correlation between high partner count and divorce for both genders. Perpetuating a belief in double standards based on no empirical evidence is hypocritical. Their motivation is the same, their actions are the same, the long term consequences are (mostly) the same. No gendered differences in anything but his own perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 04:52 AM
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I'm not gonna deny that there's a lot of benefits associated with being straight, white, and young. I'm kind of glad to see you agree how much this trifecta helps out in life, backed up time and time again by statistics. However, being specifically female? I feel like rich, white girls aren't accepted examples of victimhood, especially sociologically. Yes, it's easier for white girls to meet beauty standards, but any associated benefit only applies to the attractive ones of the bunch. On social …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 06:27 AM
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Women are probably socialized to be more honest than men, as it turns out. (Not peer reviewed)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 08:48 AM
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Here's my point, dude: you picked a highly subjective quality and claim it applies to everything in your category. If someone presents examples against your argument, they're just picking outliers. Someone presents examples for, they're selecting from the bell curve. And since TRP is full of injured men, chances are you run into more for than against. So you can still say AWALT, right? Because it's a general rule for dealing with the world. Even if your proof of such is supremely unscientific, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 08:06 AM
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Haha what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 09:16 PM
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And you don't think that a community with a negative outlook on women would almost exclusively attract people with negative experiences/opinions about women? I don't mean to go all debate 101 on you, but that is the definition of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 09:14 PM
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I hope you pick a fight with a female kick boxing champ. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 09:03 PM
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TRP's point is women suck at sports? Cause women do play sports, and lots of women are taller than men. My point was blanket statements don't contribute anything. They just expose preexisting biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 02:43 AM
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...it was an analogy that really has nothing to do with sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 02:26 AM
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A sexual strategy based on gendered differences that are not mainstream scientific consensus. And that assigns responsibilities based on a philosophy about male/female dynamics. Not heuristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 01:54 AM
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But you use your ev psych view of gender differences to rationalize different gender responsibilities, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 01:28 AM
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I've never seen anyone apply heuristics like TRP does. I see why you use AWALT, as creating clear rules is very important within your community. On the other hand, it's not just using it to predict how you interact with women. It's the basis for your views on family, community power-structure. You use it to rationalize double standards in sex, in child raising, in trust. Nobody would use heuristics to single out one arbitrary human characteristic, then go on make blanket assumptions about everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 12:42 AM
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What a fucked up analogy, dude. One, you can pretty easily test height, it's nothing like evolutionary psych. Two, missing a key word. More like someone asks about basketball teams for women, met with, "that's stupid, all women are shorter than men." Like, okay, so we can directly refute that. "No, it's just a rule of thumb, I mean most women are shorter." ...so most women are shorter than men? But you say all women are. "Duh. And that's why they can't play sports."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 12:30 AM
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I meant "not really" as in there's nothing to indicate different capability for rationality. Especially not when it comes to things like making decisions on behalf of a household or whatever. It's bloody hard for anyone to say how much of human brain structure is nurture rather than nature. And the 100 years of ideas about gender equality is even less. What? No, that's the opposite of my point. Science is the best thing to happen to humanity in my books. I'm just saying all of the things that ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 05:08 AM
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Okay, to horribly simplify, that little nub of brain that's been there since we were lizards is largely in control of hormonal things, flight or flight, those "biological" urges. That is pretty gender differentiated for obvious reasons, we have different hormone levels (a really complex field of research, but worth noting that blanket rules don't work so well). Not to mention male and female lizards behave pretty different for reproductive reasons. The mammalian brain and the huge capacity for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 04:23 AM
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People say RPW is RP shills, but I'm just starting to suspect TRP is RPW shills who just want dudes who shut up and go to the gym a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 05:39 AM
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Let's all rise to your level of debate, critiquing her use of first person when discussing her own personal life. First personal anecdote I found on TRP, full of "I"s. Amazingly, that's how grammar works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 05:33 AM
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I think it's salty enough on it's own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 05:19 AM
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"It's about equal power." B-but where is it then? Two places at once? Where is IT?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 05:18 AM
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I'm glad, as a bi girl, I'm immune to being hit on by alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 07:23 AM
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That gap just seems different in practice to a "wall", that's my point. Just a shrinking age gap between partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 11:05 PM
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So some women want to settle down and married... and some men also want to settle down and get married. Even if they want to just keep fucking twenty year olds, if point A stays the same, and point B moves further from point A, there still an increasing gap between expectations and reality. For either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 10:00 PM
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Well, according to statistics likely 2-3 years younger, and the age gap is shrinking. That article is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 09:56 PM
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Yeah, I think you've described my own dislike of narrowing down complex cultural interactions into dominance dynamics like "shit tests". No point being on guard 24/7 or seeing conversations as competitions where there is one. Narrows down how you can connect to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 07:26 AM
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While I think there's a risk of that, I was just trying to make the observation that it's possible that these "tests" aren't as prevalent as someone reading a list like that might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 06:03 AM
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I'd contend "not in equal measure", just check out r/celebs or the like. Of course there's behavior hardwired into our genes, but you've got to actually prove it first. Not just state what you anecdotally believe happens and then working backwards to a biological reason why. Of those three things you compared, two are preferences that can be EASILY tested. One is completely subjective. Women show a preference for older guys, yes, but that doesn't mean men are spared from becoming unattractive, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 04:22 AM
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I guess I'd say that's edging more into "checking your partner isn't an oblivious moron" than whatever alpha/beta dynamics. In that sort of context there's no way it's not playful flirting, you're right. I still think that in a lot of cases those sorts of discouragements are an attempt to get someone to back off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 04:13 AM
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That was facetious out of context, sorry. I thought the point of a shit test was that it discouraged some people, ie, could be taken either way. If she is participating in fruit felatio in front of you and says "stop staring" in a flirty voice, is that a shit test?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 03:23 AM
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There's not really an advantage in women dating a celebrity either by your definition. The fact is, people of both genders pine over unattainable celebrities, no matter what your penis feels about Mary Sue. Of course, you are right that men eventually deteriorate, and looks do matter in men. But we deteriorate slower, looks matter less, and we are more able to stave off the effects with rigorous exercise and other elements of a healthy lifestyle. Source please. Just sounds like speculation, thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 03:09 AM
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Well in that list alone, "what are you doing", "stop staring", "I have a boyfriend", "does this usually work?". Pretty discouraging in any context. (Sorry for the edit, clumsy phone work.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 02:33 AM
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Or they just aren't into you for other reasons and just want to send you on your way. Appearance or attitude or whatever. The point is, you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 02:00 AM
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Some of those just seem like... discouragement. Maybe it is just playful, flirty discouragement, maybe it's genuinely telling you to back off. I loathe the attitude of boxing nuanced human behavior into set scripts or catchphrases. If you generalize people you're trying to pursue, you'll run into trouble as soon as they don't fit into the cookie cutter idea you have of them. If you like back and forth banter with someone you date, great for you. What percentage of these sorts of interactions hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 01:35 AM
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Way to misunderstand ad hominem. If someone has done something that is not pertinent to the argument and it is brought up to slander them, that is ad hominem. Eg. Hitler's views on nationalism are bad because he was a vegetarian, and vegetarians are inherently irrational. It's not ad hominem to say "Hitler's views on nationalism are bad because he was a huge, HUGE racist who was happy to exclude people from his nation on arbitrary characteristics". Even the statistics aren't the slam dunk you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 01:05 AM
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The "delta" does exist for men. Attractive younger men want to fuck attractive younger women. I think the peak attractiveness of men might be a little bit older, but check out any list of hottest male celebrities and you'll see a bunch of 25-40 year olds (mostly tall, with thick hair, strong jaws, clear eyes), some exceptions going either way of the age bracket. Women might want a slightly older guy, so they "peak" earlier, but men still peak. As you can see above, many men still want a cute vir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 12:24 AM
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