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Sweet! That makes me really excited for the book. I think that's the next step in the evolution of pickup theory/programs. Mark Manson was the first one to actually create pickup programs with action items after every single lesson. But it's not the cheapest thing in the world at $30-$40/month. Hopefully that trend picks up in all pickup books/programs for everyone's sake. Can't wait to read the book and hopefully I'll get to meet you sometime soon out here in Gotham
/r/seduction08/06/13 10:28 PM
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I really like the fact that every single post in the above the game series on /r/seduction has action items attached to it. Will that be a regular occurrence for the different chapters/sub-sections of the book? That is probably the most useful part of the ATG posts so far, since reading the content is one thing, but going out and having a goal to practice is a whole different story
/r/seduction08/06/13 03:37 PM
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Thanks for this! I have been neglecting my fashion a little bit lately so this was a good reminder, and I never really payed attention to how much/little I was smiling, so I'll definitely try and be more conscious of this. Also, I'm curious if you got the journal-ing 3 things you're grateful for from this TED talk: http://www.ted.com/talks/shawn_achor_the_happy_secret_to_better_work.html If so, what effects do you think that doing so had on you? I only did it for a couple of days but didn't foll…
/r/seduction02/11/12 07:40 AM
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I opened this thread with the thought process of "no way, he didn't...not again...really?" And then I read the short but sweet FR of the 3/3 on fire shot (nba jam reference) being made. So sick
/r/seduction08/08/11 10:59 PM
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read the sidebar
/r/seduction24/07/11 12:38 AM
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and have trouble with conversation sounds like the opposite actually
/r/seduction22/07/11 05:08 PM
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http://www.pickupartistevents.com/media.php 2nd link on the page
/r/seduction22/07/11 04:37 PM
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/r/LASeddit
/r/seduction21/07/11 09:24 PM
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we also got some love (and by that I mean hate) in the "creeping sub-reddits" thread on /r/askreddit
/r/seduction21/07/11 09:23 PM
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search this sub-reddit. This topic has come up quite a few times. You should find most of what you need there. Also, I suggest you watch DJ Fuji's The 21 Convention talk from 2009 (or 2010, but I'm pretty sure it's 2009). In the last 10 minutes or so, he gives a couple of drills to work on getting better at improvising conversation topics in set, that have helped me out a bit. Between this and conversation threading, you should make vast strides in your ability to converse with others
/r/seduction14/07/11 11:03 PM
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here's a good post + drill to do at home by DJ Fuji that should help with humor: http://www.taoofdjfuji.com/2010/12/25/mailmag-how-to-handle-1-word-responses-and-a-special-xmas-gift-inside/
/r/seduction14/07/11 05:28 PM
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solo game. I know it's super tough. I spent 3 hours at a venue and only did 2 approaches. But you just gotta go out, and the AA will lessen each time and eventually disappear. That's what I plan to do.
/r/seduction14/07/11 06:37 AM
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this plus being an awesome dancer sure didn't hurt
/r/seduction14/07/11 04:46 AM
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Why oh why oh why oh why did I not learn about this tactic until 1 year after graduating college :(. Would've been so money 2-3 years ago
/r/seduction13/07/11 07:49 AM
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yes and a GIGANTIC no
/r/seduction12/07/11 08:23 AM
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a guy
/r/seduction12/07/11 07:40 AM
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lol dude you're in a seduction sub-reddit that's 98% dudes. You can be as crude as you want
/r/seduction12/07/11 12:08 AM
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flirting/teasing is one of my biggest sticking points right now so: were you good at flirting before pick-up or is it a skill you learned along the way? If it's the latter, how did you work on this skill? Do you think going out solo was better for you in the long-run than having a wing? How easy/hard was it for you to approach 2+ girl sets/what did you do to isolate without a wing? how long did you practice game before you were starting to get satisfied with the quality of girl you were hooking …
/r/seduction10/07/11 05:42 PM
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this link was the first time I actually strolled around the guy's site and I'm really digging some of his articles like the "getting past small talk" one and the "deep connections" one. Really like his style
/r/seduction10/07/11 04:06 AM
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I've read this comment two different times, and both times I burst out laughing
/r/seduction10/07/11 12:01 AM
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Go Out and do some approaches before the bootcamp starts. The more approaches you do, the less AA you'll have, and the less $$$/time of the weekend you'll have to waste on having them help you get rid of AA. You want them spending their time on helping you with kino, attraction, comfort, etc
/r/seduction07/07/11 08:56 AM
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yea basically this It's also good for a laugh every now and then
/r/seduction06/07/11 06:18 PM
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on your forum recently you said that what a person said doesn't really matter in the long run during pick-up. Based on that I have a few questions: 1) since you place such high importance on non-verbal stuff, could you give a brief list of what you think the most important non-verbal pick-up skills are? 2) what are some of the biggest non-verbal mistakes you see begginer PUAs make? And what are the easiest ways to fix these mistakes? Thanks for answering questions btw. And a shout out for your G…
/r/seduction29/06/11 06:26 AM
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I'm usually playful enough that I haven't offended anyone. I'm just trying to become funnier so I can build attraction better. thank god for netflix and it's 100s of hours of stand-up it has
/r/seduction29/06/11 04:53 AM
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Any tips on getting better at teasing? I'm probably somewhere around average in terms of humor
/r/seduction29/06/11 04:33 AM
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Holding a conversation. As long as I can keep a conversation going, I'd like to think I'm decent at doing most of the other stuff like teasing, kino, etc. But a lot of my conversations just kinda flutter out. I'm doing 3 different drills, all revolving around word association stuff. Hopefully it'll help me with threading conversations so that they don't die out as much.
/r/seduction24/06/11 11:09 PM
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Can't edit my post right now, but I found the speech you're talking about on the NYC lair's site. I'm listening to it right now
/r/seduction23/06/11 08:50 AM
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Ok thanks. I know it's not a case of nervousness because I'm generally a quiet person, and it's solely because a lot of times I can't think of things to say. This occurs around my friends and even my parents. I'll definitely check out your 2010 21 convention talk. And I'm guessing I'll be able to find your NYC lair talk on your website? Also, I really wanna thank you for answering my questions. Most coaches just stick around for a few hours but you're still answering stuff the next day.
/r/seduction23/06/11 08:40 AM
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Hopefully you're still answering questions: I feel like my biggest weakness by far is holding a conversation. It's the main reason I get AA since I know I'll run out of things to say very fast. So I'm going to practice 3 things to help with that: 1) the ADD self-talk thread-cutting technique you mentioned at the 2009 T21C, 2) after reading this thread and your comments to Origin, I'm going to try increasing the # of word associations I can do in 1 minute, and 3) taking 10 words and trying to tal…
/r/seduction23/06/11 07:35 AM
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didn't realize you had written this up. Funny night, crazy angry ex-pornstar calling me a terrorist.
/r/seduction05/06/11 01:40 AM
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awesome! I've learned something from all 4 of those guys, and think they're all very genuinely good guys and coaches. Great job TofuTofu
/r/seduction23/05/11 07:27 PM
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definitely a solid list from Mark
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:57 AM
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completely disagree. If you don't have to work in college to pay off loans or something like that, then don't. It's great not having real-world responsibilities while in school, when you just have to worry about class and getting drunk. I don't have any actual suggestions for the OP, but just wanted to agree with everyone else that being broke isn't really a big deal in college, since it's pretty much the norm. And if you really want some cash for spending money, work like 10-15 hrs/week. That s…
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:52 AM
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moving out to West Hollywood tomorrow/day after. Looking to go out 3+ times a week hopefully. If any of you guys wanna meet up that would be awesome. Fair warning: I haven't done this in about 2 years. When I did go out in the past I was doing OK and got a few numbers. But I'm going to have pretty massive AA to start. But just having a wing makes it way easier, even if both have AA since they can push each other, so don't hesitate to contact me just because you think it'll be pointless for 2 peo…
/r/seduction02/05/11 05:37 PM
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