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How old are you my friend? And whats your dating approach? Spinning plates forever? Open long term relationships? I am genuinely curious.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/25 02:43 PM
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Trailer park are bottom percentage on attractivenes. However, they reproduce like rabbits, so they skew the numbers of what average is...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:40 PM
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Hey there, thanks for your perspective, it makes a lot of sense. Yeah actually, I had access to a lot of 21-25 women in my residency training. However I just moved city and being stuck in the hospital with long working hours, i been kinda limited to this circle of women in this higher age group. And what you write, is exactly what I have found out: Same expectations than when they were younger, and even more demands. I actually never dated in this range of age before, but its just the circle tha…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/25 02:39 AM
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Yep going for a younger women its the best and obvious answer. Im looking for a ltr, so that reinforces the idea of going for younger women. However, my mind has been going a bit crazy this last months from this sudden spark of women throwing at me, and not getting anything good out of it. I was used to the younger women I had access to in the city when I was doing residency training, more fun, less pressure, less drama, more joy. Now dealing with older women have had some great lays, followed b…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/25 02:31 AM
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Reversing the question is the women entitled to any husband money she wants? Just to add more spice...Seems marriage is an extremely complex thing....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:05 PM
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Whats your age? What age range would you recommend to settle and go for a LTR as a men?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/24 04:34 AM
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Amazing intelligent, and realistic post. I dont see this around on here so often. Keep it going.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:37 PM
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idk. prolly same thing that happens when u believe that living with ur best friend would be amazing, then after a few days, you start seeing the flaws....after years it must get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:14 AM
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Every married couple I Know was happier as a couple before being married/living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:58 AM
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Every guy I know even in “great marriages” with good relation with their wifes say the sex is almost null. They even make fun of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:53 PM
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Thats wierd cause i heard that statics say the more a women earn/educates herself the harder it is to get married. Maybe the few ones that marry do good, but how many high educated women do get married? Im a doctor and almost every women doctor of my generation is single
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:51 PM
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Very good written. Do you recomend any book/blogs that goes deeper on this kind of reflections? You seem to know about these subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:36 AM
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Thats short for the USA. But in hispanic countries you are good. You could go for a hispanic shorter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:02 AM
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Theres a research done by psychologyst jordan petterson, he talks about it in a podcast Plus the movie and books sales numbers back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:09 PM
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It is ok. But women dont need to ask, they will date you and veto you depending on what your lifestyle shows as an income. No wonder the guy of 50 shades of grey is the top women sexual fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:57 PM
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That only works in very small circles. Like when you are at college or high school. Even if you excel at those qualities, they start to be more irrelevant after 22-23 years and women become more aware/give more priority to social status and money. And even if you excel at those qualities they are hard to "use" unless you already spending some time with women, like in uni/college. They wont get you dates on apps, and will get you rejected if you could approach before you can show your skills unli…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:53 PM
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A neonatologist nurse? Becuase if you are a MD im sorry for your shitty training. Im an MD myself and did my 4 month internship rotation on a state OB-GYN high volume center. And while you are alright saying that women can have babies at 40, its not good that you go around saying its safe or normal for any women, you are gonna dissapoint a lot of your patients if you go around saying that. The few percentage who want it and achieve it healthy its low. Most of the pregnant mothers I knew at that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:08 PM
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You are taking it to the extreme. at 35 a pregnancy is already hard to achieve and when achieved its considered a high risk pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:22 AM
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men aren't learning men are bombarded by women, media, movies, etc. from a young age on how to incorrectly date a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:47 AM
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No actually 😯 most of the women I know are christian & go to church with me. We are celibate until marriage, none are on any medications that I'm aware of or even use therapy. We talk to eachother and use our faith as a guildline... I genuinely don't understand why you're making these kinds of assumptions about them as they really are beautiful people and I love them. I can get a little defensive over the people I love so I'm sorry if I'm being rude. I dont doubt this is true for you and your ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:12 PM
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Thanks for such a great response. Im on Mexico, where people are much more religious and conservative than in the US. Girls expect to be married after few years of LTR, Parents expect us hard aswell. I got a very good girl family oriented, etc. wanting to take the next step, but trp tells me to be smart and dont do it. Another big issue its that i feel theres a lot and good information for starting TRP, but once you are achieved and are doing well with girls theres few information about whats ne…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/23 11:27 PM
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Will marrying her make you happy? For me, I actually do enjoy her company, and I’m not opposed to the idea of it. If we do get married, I want only a small wedding with very few people. I actually feel a lot like you in everything you said. But I still have a lot of FOMO/doubts since at 30 years old im just about to end my major and enter a high earning career field. I spent most of my 20s studying, dated a few girls and had sex with like 7 in total. In your case, did you had a more "wild" 20s? …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/23 05:15 AM
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What an amazing post. I was wondering if I could get some help by someone like you with more life experience. Im at 30 years old, close to my peak about to start working in a very high paid field, very high SMV and RMV. Been dating a girl for few years, amazing girl 25 y.o. traditional women with all RP checkmarks. I love her but at this point she wants to know if we are going for a marriage or not. And this is where I struggle, I dont feel I have enough life experience right now to decide if ge…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/23 04:47 AM
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Do you see marriying her? Im 30, been dating a great 25 y.o. girl fo 2 years that is great just as you described, great looks, family oriented, cooks me great meals, etc. But shes been sending some signals about wanting getting married or atleast get engaged. Now, idk what to do. Should I marry? I feel marriage isnt for me (Is it a good decision ever?). I mean I know I will be very happy living single, but even if you are with a great girl is marriage worth the risk?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/23 04:27 AM
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Im from Mexico and something like 50% of women dont know how to drive, 95% dont know how to park, and i dont mean parallel parking, they cant park the car straight on a sidewalk and usually call someone to help them. Most are broke, like 80% of total women make less than 10k usd a year. Same thing you see all below the south american countinent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:42 PM
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Somewhat agree, its a bit wierd how it works for women tho. They have this wierd chip then can just turn off and stay on a monogamy relationship. (Few girls at my uni that slept with 50+ guys, including threesomes and shit everyone knew about). Then suddenly at 25-27 years, turn that chip off and lock on to some dude who is ready to marry them, even if its clear theres no much vibe there. Its hard to understand whats going on their mind right now after living such rollercoaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:36 AM
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I wouldn’t consider Kristen Stewart ‘average looking I guess this varies a lot by location but in half the states of my country (Mexico) She is average at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:03 AM
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y thought women found Solace in being a SAHM Most women want it, but most women cant hook a high earning attractive male for it. But all the very attractives usually prioritize their home/kids than their worklife, because they end up marrying someone who can provide all their economical needs anyways. Atleast thats what I have seen most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:39 AM
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but didn't want marriage/kids with you...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:14 AM
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You were the one discussing about men and fighting, which can be catalogued as violence. I just stated a fact about what you started speaking about. You need a therapist and a basic reading and comprehension class. Every new post you make you make more a fool of yourself than before, its not funny anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:23 AM
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What conflict am I on? Stop making up fantasies on your head. Go see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:48 AM
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I earn more than top 0.01% on my country, and i dont even have to worry about dating lol, women come incredibly easy when you have money. Stop with the generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:45 AM
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Where the hell do you live that men live a life of "fighting"? More than half of the world is not the US utopia this subreddit lives on. Most countries, specially poor ones are pretty violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:23 AM
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Most women are thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:39 AM
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This, dont listen to advice from those damaged people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:33 AM
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In the past, right now women just stay single rather than marry bb
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:33 PM
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But one loves you and the other doesn't, if the money is gone one will stay with you the other will not. If you were dating girls with similar incomes you wouldn't get that. lol i havent seen a marriage survive when the guy loses his high paying job for a lower one. When the money is out, the women fly away. Love is conditional. Just like a guy would leave a women if she gets fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:09 AM
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1 Was very handsome, not even tall just a bit above average and decent social life. 1 Was handsome, somewhat tall and had good social life. 1 Wasnt good looking, but was tall and had a crazy social life, was popular everywhere and had good game aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:11 AM
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We were extremely close friends, we were a uni generation 4 years together so we all knew each other Could actually see them heavy flirting on partys and leaving together, etc. or caught them at a bar etc etc sometimes i knew from the girls directly telling me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:38 PM
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So the top 10% of men not only sleep with 80% of the women from OLD, but they also cheat on these same women? The math has to be off. There's no way such a small percentage of the population is having that much sex On my uni generation of around 120 people. We were even 50-50% men-women. But there were 3 guys that were the ones having sex with most of the women of generation. Sometimes while being on a relationship, sometimes while single. All girls knew they were having sex or had sex with thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:40 AM
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Physical attraction is the 'you must be this tall to ride' but if that's all you focus on on your LTRs are going to be a nightmare. HVM dont even care about having LTRs. As a HVM you have wealth, great social circles, amazing hobbys and vacations with family/friends. You can pull girls easily if you feel like it. Find a LTR fast if you want. And dump it if you like it. So no, NO LTR is gonna be a nightmare for a HVM. Heck, you can dump a girl and have a next one in a week. You are pretty lost he…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:30 AM
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It makes zero difference to choose a 10 that is also all those things vs not, if the things aren’t valuable. Its not zero difference, but its not that much important really. Looks will always be 90% or more of the attraction equation for men. The thing is that as a HVM theres so much options that you would rather choose the whole package (Who wouldnt?).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:25 AM
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Yes what you say is true. But OP make it sound like HVM are not interested in the cashier because of her education level-wealth status, which isnt true. In reality HVM are interested. But HVM just have much options that they just stay in their social circle for convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:21 AM
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short term dating/sex and not LTR / marriage. It could be true, but I think the reason is that as I said the offer of hot women for HVM is too high. Specially outside the US where is much harder to become wealthy and sucessful as a men because US economy is just much better. Theres few HVM, and hot girls keep poping everywhere. If there wasnt so much hot women willing to date me in my own circle I would 100% date and even LTR/marry a barista or Mcdonnalds worker if we get along. If I had to choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:07 AM
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Is not like all cashiers working at mcdonnalds are some kind of trashy or dumb girls. Theres a ton of them working there while going to university.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:03 AM
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28, im not in the US by the way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:00 AM
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Wealthy men care about wealth, status, and education (their own words). They will date hot girls, but won’t LTR or take them seriously unless they bring other things to the table. Because real HVM can find hot girls anywhere. Wealth, status and education are not that important, but HVM can easily find a girl that is hot and has that aswell, so no point on going for a cashier if he has hot, wealthy and high social status girls in line. If a girl without all this traits wasnt avaiable to HVM and j…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:59 AM
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Are you a HVM? Do you know any? Where are you getting this information from about what these men would do? Im a doctor on a surgical field, fit, decent face from a wealthy family. So I guess I qualify as HVM. I have so much options to date on the hospital from med students to attending doctors, to dentist, nurses, nutritionist. And every semester theres a ton of new young women to date, i dont have a move a finger to find new women, they come by theirself. This just at work. Im from a wealthy fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:50 AM
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This is 1000% accurate. It is not. Its just HVM have a lot of options in their social circles, so no need to bother going hitting random persons, specially a cashier at her work. But if said girl was met in a social event like a festival, ofc a HVM would take her if she was hot and charming enough. But guess what? HVM are already taken most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:40 AM
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Yes they will. Is not common because most high value men can find a hot girl in their social circle (Hot girls are much more abundant than HVM). So they are already dating there. But if a HVM looking for a relationship find a hot, charming and young Mcdonnalds worker, for sure he would go for her. (But a girl fitting that description would be rare aswell). So the chances of both meeting for romantic purposes would be rare. Plus hitting a cashier at her work would be wierd, specially if you are H…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:29 AM
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Most of the attention craving seeking women (80% of young girls) wont turn to mothers. And the ones who turn to mothers will most likely have damaged kids, who wont care anyways and will prolly make fun of it along with their damaged mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:30 AM
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Guys have 3 levels of of how much they like a girl, and the main factor in determining how much they like you is your looks: 1.- Not interested 2.- Interested in having sex with you but nothing else 3.- Interested in having sex and commit to a relation with you. The guys you describe seem to be stuck on point 2, so they find you attractive enough for sex, but that much to go all the way to commit. The fact you state you are overweight could be a pretty strong reason. And fortunately something yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:42 AM
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Best response, makes a lot of sense. What I have seen is mostly attractive girls the ones who go like this. Girls that are less attractive tend to develop “oneitis” on the guy they date and the guys end up dumping them or cheating on them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:10 PM
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My life experience might be different from a lot of people here since my country is more conservative than USA. But usually women I see "sleeping without feelings or casually" do it with guys they actually like and would like that guy to commit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:29 AM
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Secondly, there are loads of women out there not looking for commitment and they are increasing by the day. I am one of them. If the sex is good and he knows how to please me and he is also good fun to talk to for a bit after, then I will keep him around till whenever. We both get what we want (sex, pleasure) without having to commit. So by all what you are describing. Could you say that you can really like a guy even to the point to say that you are in love or that he gives you the "butterflies…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:23 AM
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I thought something like this. But what about women that have sex without wanting to commit? Its easy to understand what men gain from sex without commitment. But on the women side? I find it much harder. They get sex pleasure yeah, but that doesnt seem to be something so much valuable for most women anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:12 AM
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Something I really wonder about this. With men this is understood, since men give such a big priority to sex and are always horny. And once the sex part is satisfied they might not care about really being with a women emotionally. But with women could you explain more how you think it works? Because women doesnt seem to put much priority to sex as men and they have a lot of easy access to sex. SO lets say a women is sleeping with a man and not wanting to commit, why would said women sleep with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:09 AM
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If you are so sucessful as you say, why are you making this post then? You are contradicting yourself. Why are you having trouble with the men you say you like then? You say you have trouble with men falling in love with you, whatever that means...trust me show to that men a girl that is more attractive than you and they will do things for her that they wouldnt to you just because of that factor. For locking up a male is all about how attractive you are to them. A girl that is in line with the w…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/21 10:04 PM
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All man fall in love with a women only based on looks primarly, looks is 95% of the equation for men. Specially attractive men who have more options. You can disagree, but thats how reality is. If a man isnt falling with you but is dating you or sleeping with you without giving you all the boyfriend experience he simply is not that attracted to you. It has nothing to do with "Past Baggage".
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/21 12:47 AM
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As someone said in one comment: Men are delighted by innocence, loyalty, and enthusiasm. However as a women all you have to worry about if you wanna be sucesful in dating is mainly at your looks (To attract men to invite you to dates, etc) and how charming you are (To keep men). So ask yourself honestly how good are you in that, and what can you do to improve.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 05:24 AM
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You are seeing things from a wrong perspective. Men are not women. They are not falling in love with you for a simple reason: They dont find you attractive enough. Emotional baggage sounds like a bad excuse the men you been dating have given to you aas an excuse maybe to not commit, or maybe thats what you want to believe to dont face the hard truth: That they are not that into you. Sorry if its harsh, but this is the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 05:17 AM
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the reason men in their prime won't fall in love with you is because of their emotional baggage As a men I think this is totally wrong. They wont fall with OP, because either OP is not attractive enough for the guy standars she refers to, or the exes are way more attractive than OP . It has not to do with emotional baggage.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 05:13 AM
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A big one and with all respect somewhat ignorant. If you stay in good areas and tourist places you are almost as safe as in usa. If you do dumb stuff like going to a hood then yes you could be in danger. Baja california is pretty safe, unless you do something dumb. Other states like Tamaulipas are very dangerous tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:18 PM
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Tijuana is full of san diegons living there because its more cheaper And san diego people go a lot to Tijuana to party on weekends, to the beaches or for chilling or for vacations And Tijuana people also go a lot to san diego for similar reason and shopping Theres dating apps aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:44 PM
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I live in Mexico but just in the border with US so I have seen both dynamics. In Mexico its usually harder because of hypergamy and how harder its to suceed as a man. In Mexico even if you go to college to a high paying career like STEM salary sucks, so most men are struggling to just survive, most males at 30 still live with their parents and if they dont, they can barely afford a extremely small apartment or live in an ugly one. This makes the 80/20 much worse. Is something like 95/5. The few …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:15 AM
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So, why would a HOT guy waste his time fucking around with an average women instead of a hot woman? I'm not talking about a drunken one night stand- I'm talking about a FWB situation in which you hang out and fuck, but not commit to the label. Because they are not "wasting their time" as you think. They are having fun having free sex without commitment, a lot of times thrown out at them. Having sex is one of the biggest joy for men. As I wrote before man are horny as fuck, if he is already datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:07 AM
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t makes the guy seem desperate if that's how the optics look. Why would a guy care to seem "desperate"? No guy cares about that if hes getting what he wants (sex). Like, he'd rather risk getting someone pregnant or STI's just to get some poon poon he doesnt even deem worthy? He can't even get with a hot girl already, yet he's holding out for one when he's already seeing someone else? That's hypergamy, and that's why so many guys end up alone. Most guys casually sleeping are top guys, thats why t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:44 AM
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Indeed, we men are incredibly horny so thats why most men will take sleeping with a women even if they dont like her enough for a relation. Some do it out of desperation yes, but dont put all the blame on men, most women know what they get into most of the time but they prefer to ignore the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 12:52 AM
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Why? Is not our mens fault thats the way we are designed. I sometimes wish I could change this, but we cant. Same with women, they cant control what attract thems about the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 12:08 AM
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sorry to be harsh but the real reason was you werent attractive enough for him (In looks). He might gave you a lot of excuses but the truth is we man either like someone enough for a relationship or just for a fling, or for nothing of these. How good looking a women is is 95% of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:18 AM
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He finds you attractive enough to have sex with you, but NOTHING ELSE. Not enough attractive to become monogamous with you. You are shooting out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:24 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:12 AM
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The human sexuality research And any other good sources you have come across by to understand about these dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:09 AM
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Nowadays it’s mostly just based on my own intuition and some of it is based on what researchers on human sexuality have explained themselves (as opposed to me reading their research and hoping I’m interpreting it correctly). The more effort I put in to making myself more attractive and desirable, the more intuitive women’s sexuality became. Dating is extremely confusing and difficult as a beginner when you’re way behind the curve; especially when your only source of information is full of errors…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:46 AM
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Men dont “turn” to be bad, they show it without remorse but most women ignore it because they find bad boy behaviours attractive. How many women even forgive being cheated? Most of them do... But thats why people date before taking more serious steps like having a child. So you actually know what kind of person you are getting with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 10:10 PM
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. But the quantity of men that abandon their wife or girlfriends with kids to raise Example my own father who never gave us anything. The man that sees my sisters once a year and not even 1 euro gives and decides to show off That´s the type of men women love to choose to have kids with. Dont blame men, women are extremely faulty too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 07:19 AM
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Do you have a book or a blog?
/r/askTRP29/10/20 04:56 AM
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I dont like splitting because I feel it can be a bit cringe, as most said up you dont go to a fancy place unless you are already fucking the girl so you should be ok paying a full check at a coffe place. However you can take action depending on how the date goes: In my experience MOST girls that are interested in you will take their wallet out to pay when the check is on the table and will either try to pay full check or ask if you wanna split. I usually pay the first one then let her pay the ne…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:52 AM
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