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| 1 | How are we supposed to flirt actually, according to Mark Manson?There is a difference between joking or teasing a girl and negging. It's all about the intention behind what you say. For example if you're making a joke with an athletic in shape girl teasing her saying she has a belly, because you know she is confident and can take the joke it could come off as a good tease. However if you are saying the same thing to a girl who is self conscious about her body and you are making that joke with the intention to bring her down and win her over than you are just… | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 05:05 AM |
| 15 | It's not talking to the girl that scares me, it's for when they see what I got in my pants.It might be a needle but it works like a sewing machine. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, messaging a girl on Facebook who doesn't know meIf you have mutual friends try to have them introduce you. If not send her a message saying some like "Hey I noticed we are from the same village and I wanted to introduce myself. My name is ______." | /r/seduction | 04/11/15 06:39 AM |
| 1 | When, "not ready for a relationship" actually means just that?Maybe she really wasn't ready, maybe she was just trying to let you down easy both are possible. The signs you're saying are a good indication maybe she just wasn't ready. Only one way to find out, make your move again. | /r/seduction | 04/11/15 06:21 AM |
| 4 | How should I improve myself socially and become less socially awkward?A lot of social skills come from confidence. A lot of times it's not what you say, but how you say it. When you speak to someone new just be yourself and not outcome dependent. Try to learn about who they are and make connections with the things you like, and be honest but nice about things you disagree on. If someone who doesn't like you for who you are then it doesn't matter because you just met them, you don't have to waste more time on them and there is other people out there who are better … | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 08:18 PM |
| 7 | New to US dating scene. Need some cultural advice.Greet her how you would normally would like where you are from. Most Americans are accepting of other cultures and being yourself is always the best. Pay for the first date or two. And it's not a matter of how many dates before you have a relationship. Talking about it with each other as you two progress meeting each other is the best option. If you like her tell her and eventually ask her to be your girlfriend. If you are looking for something casual tell her you're not looking for anything ser… | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle the thin line between being persistent and having abundance ?My general rule is two no's means no. I would make an attempt to ask one more time. If she says no again than accept it and if you want to be friends tell her that you understand and hope you can be friends. Also you should have asked her when you saw her in person. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How hard is it to get a job as a bartender or club promoter at places that attract a lot of hot girls?Las Vegas nightclub promoter here :) I got my job by chance. I was friends with a lot of girls to begin with, and one day I was out applying for jobs, and this girl I use to talk to saw me and told me I should take an interview where she worked and got me the job. This industry is all about who you know. 99% of the jobs come from being friends or knowing someone. | /r/seduction | 17/10/15 07:28 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce your female friendsAsk her out on a date. If she says yes great, if she says no accept it and move on. If you can handle being her friend good stay friends, if you can't cut ties. | /r/seduction | 17/10/15 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Wanted to try haunted house first date, but it's gonna be expensive...I don't know your financial situation. If you can afford it take her. Maybe you have to make some sacrifices like not buying that video game or some other thing you've been wanting for example. If you're not going to make rent because of it then definitely chose something else. Hopefully it goes well and you can get to a date two or three where she can start chipping in. | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Might have found someone I like a lot, we met last weekend, then we matched on tinder, need advice!You can invite her out tomorrow just cut to the chase though, you already have her attracted to you. Now you just need to have fun and go escalate in person. | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Might have found someone I like a lot, we met last weekend, then we matched on tinder, need advice!Text her right now and ask her on a date. Say something like "I would like to get to know you more in person. I'm free these days__, and __." Have something planned to invite her too after she tells you what day. Try to avoid dinner dates if possible, and absolutely don't do a movie date for the first couple dates. | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 09:36 PM |
| 4 | How do you start a conversation with a girl you have never talked to before in high school?"Hi I'm throwawaypokerplayer I don't think I've met you yet." Then stick out your hand to shake the girls hand. | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Asked out a very busy girl who told me to wait; Her response didn't effect me in anyway.Since you can handle being just friends I would recommend to keep being her friend. Friends are great to have. If you really like her, she has not told you no, she said to ask again in a month. So ask her again in a month. Also your'e pretty young so keep pursuing other girls during this time. Leave your options open. In the future when you meet a girl you like physically escalate early on so you don't get put in the friendzone again. | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How to answer 'Number of Sexual Partners'??I always answer honestly and if they don't like what I have to say, then NEXT! | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Did I fail to escalate in time or did I just fail a shit test? [Dance floor/Club game]At some point unless she is extremely down you need to build verbal connection, It seems you had attraction built, so you could have lead her off the dance floor and and worked verbal game to build connection, and escalate more while doing this. or start with a neck or cheek kiss if she doesn't resist then she is probably ready to be kissed. | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Never posted here before, How to approach a beautiful girl in my class that I don't even know here name?Walk over to her reach your hand out to shake hers and say "Hi I'm ___ I don't think I've met you yet." After that build attraction and get to know her a little bit, then ask her to hang out. | /r/seduction | 03/10/15 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2015sup | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Can I tell a girl that she's exactly what I am looking for?Yes, of course. You didn't give much details about the situation though, I would recommend waiting until you have slept together, or at the very least she is at least somewhat attracted to you at first. It might not be a good thing to say on a first date, but you never know maybe it is and this girl is special and wants the same things. | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 04:39 AM |
| 3 | If you had to come up with either one or two words to describe the most attractive thing to women, what would it be?two words: Boobs | /r/seduction | 26/09/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | I want a life that consists of partying , drinking, having alpha males as friends, and sex with hot girls but I am afraid I am too old to ever be in a fraternity, how do I make this a reality now?If you want to party a lot and meet beautiful woman go out and night game. You could also work for a nightclub or something else similar. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Bringing Up My Ex (Yay or Nay)If you are honestly over your ex it's okay to talk about. If you are not completely over it than it's best to avoid because other girls can often read between the lines. The first part about why you moved saying your ex was great and glad you're here now is okay. Second part is okay to talk about break up being tough and you learned a lot from it, but don't talk about being clinically depressed. | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 10:44 PM |
| 2 | How to initiate the kiss with a girl?Don't wait for the end of the date, that will create a high pressure moment. You want it to feel as natural as possible. I highly recommend looking up micro escalation. In short you should be touching her constantly through out the date. start slow by touching arm then escalate to putting arm around her/holding hands. Get close and talk to her in her ear. Then kiss her cheek possibly. If she hasn't backed away from you by this point kiss her and there is a very small chance that you would be rej… | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 08:40 AM |
| 2 | How do you decide on an opener?"Hi my name is LasVegasFun" (reach hand out for handshake) | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Coffee date: Need some ideas on flirting, kino, eye contact, things to say. Pls help!I've seen this video before, he's not saying to be silent right away. This is if the conversation dies after awhile. Relax and let the girl speak. | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 05:04 AM |
| 2 | How do I approach a girl or inbox a girl that I have never spoken to?Do not message her on the internet when you have the opportunity to meet her in person. This will make it seem like you have no confidence to say Hi in person. Put on your big girl panties walk up to her in person and say "Hi I don't think I've met you yet. My name is BearCanoe." | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Coffee date: Need some ideas on flirting, kino, eye contact, things to say. Pls help!Don't sit don't and stay silent until she says something. One of the most important things is getting the girl to talk. Try to learn who she is and why she is who she is. Use assumptions to ask questions. Such as "you look like a California girl." Let her respond. LISTEN to what she says and keep the conversation moving forward from something she says. Be honest about what you are relating too. If you connect with something let her know and tell her why. If you disagree be respectable but tell h… | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 04:30 AM |
| 5 | If a girl is already digging you is it cool if you buy her a drink (if she dosn't ask for one before you do it)? Or does that come off as too nice?It's your choice at this point. The only real 100% rule is to never buy a girl a drink to buy time with her. Once she has invested in you in a sincere way then go for it if you want to. | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Meeting a girl through FB who you haven't talked to IRL?Approach in person if possible still and say "hey I haven't introduced my self yet I'm omziraal" or if class is over and too late message and say "Hey I've seen you in class but don't think I've formally introduced myself yet." If you have class together I consider that meeting someone through social circle, so likely to get a good response. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Is it ever a good idea to try again with a girl who kinda rejected you?After they no twice then you have to move on or you are becoming needy. Some girls honestly just do need some warming up to. Give it one more try just be honest tell her that you really liked her and thought you would give it one more try or you would regret it later. If she says no this time then you have to move on or you can become a stalker/creepy. | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How much does height matter to women?It matters as much as you think it matters. Also a tip get in the gym and get a rock solid body. Focus on the things that you can control.Another tip get some shoes that give you a lift and add some height inserts nothing too drastic though I wouldnt recommend more than 2 inches. Also if you have a full head of hair, hair styles that stand up high will make you look a bit taller too. | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 05:12 AM |
| 1 | direct approach? how would this work..?It doesn't matter if it does weird her out you have to make a move. and Just don't be creepy about it. Let her know and if she denies tell her you had to find out or you would have never known if you didn't ask accept what she says and ask to be friends. Most people who get asked out feel flattered. It's after the guy wont leave them alone when they start to get annoyed. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 06:30 PM |
| 1 | direct approach? how would this work..?If you suffer from depression you should consider quitting drinking. As for the girl you need to make a move. Just tell her that you like her or invite her out and make sure she knows it's a date. 5 months is a long time and you should have done it much sooner. Be prepared for any answer from her, generally speaking there is a good chance if you have waited this long that you have been friend zoned, but every situation and girl is different. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 03:08 PM |
| 28 | My (19f) girlfriend wants me (20m) to go to a club... and i am scaredLas Vegas Nightclub promoter here. 95 percent of guys inside the nightclub have no idea how to dance or are are self conscious about dancing. If you walk in with a care free attitude and just move around you are going to be in the top 5% of dancers in there. As for technical tips. If you're listening to house music jumping to the beat is a good start. Also shuffling is very easy to learn if you take half an hour and watch a youtube video. I get approached a lot for my shuffling skills. If you're… | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 05:36 AM |
| 1 | My (19f) girlfriend wants me (20m) to go to a club... and i am scaredI disagree with the end of your statement I don't recommend using alcohol as a clutch. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with girls who say they only want something serious?No need to lie to them, there are plenty of other attractive girls out there who aren't currently looking for anything serious. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 05:21 AM |
| 1 | What's it like to have sex with a really hot girl?Having attractive girl with no connection- okay having decent looking girl with connection- good having attractive girl with connection(complete package)- fulfilling In my eyes girls can only be a certain amount of attractive let's say an 8 is as high as they can get. After that it's their personality. An 8 with an amazing personality can becoming a 10, or with a horrible personality become a 5. Also my perception of attractive and yours is probably way different. For example maybe you like big … | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn't allow feelingsOnly you know the girl and how she is, but IMO it sounds like one of two things. Either she is telling you that she is just looking to hook up. If you can handle that then you should continue to hook up. If you cannot handle that then you need to let her go. Otherwise she could honestly be scared because someone has hurt her before or many other reasons, and if this is the case you need to be yourself, build a connection and show her why you are different and wont hurt her. As far as getting mor… | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Asking for a kiss??It works best to be doing micro escalation throughout the date so the kiss comes more natural. This is one of the best things I've learned from the community. As I was already really outgoing. Watch this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5DsVwYqVhdU | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Never had a girlfriend, ever, and I don't want to ruin this chance.This ^ and to add to it, make sure she knows its a date. Example "Hey I like you because of X, Y, Z, and I would like to get to know you better. would you like to come do (insert activity) with me? I'm free on these days." | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Seduction without alcohol?You talk to the woman about common interest and such. If you both are attracted to each other than you should continue and possibly date. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 08:18 AM |
| 1 | How should I navigate this?If you want to keep the girl in your life for the long term you need to be honest, you may have to decide what's more important your girl or experimenting with drugs. | /r/seduction | 09/08/15 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Texting girls can be frustrating.I see a lot of problems in such a short statement. I wouldn't recommend using pick up lines unless done completely cheeky and if you have a lot of confidence, and can switch to being direct after. You should have gotten her name in person. Also you should have created more of a connection while you were in person this would have made her more willing to respond back to you and allowed you to text about some call back humor or something that you talked about in person. Another thing is that it ha… | /r/seduction | 09/08/15 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Hi, I'm a female PUA learning the ropes here. What's the best (nicest), no-nonsense way to reject a man?Tell them you're not interested, ignore them, tell them you have to use the bathroom, Talk about your pretend boyfriend, tell them your about to meet your boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Two dates at one day and I lost both girls.When the girl said "we don't know each other" that wasn't a shit test, that was a real concern. You don't seem to have built up much of a connection with the girls. How much do you know about them? Did you learn where they grew up, what their hobbies are, why they are who they are, What they do in their free time. Girls love to talk and you need to learn to get the girls to talk and connect with the things you like and challenge them on the things you don't. Also if you want to hang out again yo… | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Where are real women who likes bald men?You need to be mass approaching hundreds of woman to improve your skills. Be prepared to get rejected plenty of times but who cares everyone gets rejected and if they don't like you then move on to the next. And all it takes is one great woman and it's all worth it. | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Let it go or try again.I don't listen to my voice messages usually. Try one more time sending a text. If no reply after that then let it go. Also you should have asked her out in person instead of waiting to leave a voice message. you're giving mixed signals. In person you ask to be business acquaintances, then all of a sudden you go straight asking for coffee without talking to her any further. What if I met you and asked you for a business card and then called you left a voice message hesitating and beating around t… | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 01:12 AM |
| 4 | I fucked a girl on a party and now she texts me all the time and wants to date me. I only wanted to fuck. How do I avoid her without hurting her?"I'm not looking for anything serious right now." | /r/seduction | 06/08/15 09:30 AM |
| 3 | How do rich guys get a lot of hot girls?Some advantages of being rich is it can get you into exclusive parties, events and certain VIP areas at the clubs where only people spending money and hot girls are going to be. This isn't everything though. I am a Las Vegas club promoter and I don't know how many times I see the attractive girls go suck all the alcohol out of the guys spending money and then walk back to some other guys who have way better social skills. However putting a lot of attractive girls in front of you can be a good nu… | /r/seduction | 06/08/15 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Quick..how do I answer this text shit test?Texting isn't something that requires an immediate response. I usually take longer than the girls do to reply to me bc I am so busy, but when a girl says this to me which happens sometimes when I start talking to a girl I reply something like "you don't need to apologize for being busy and living your life" then i just continue with the conversation like normal. I've never had this not work for me. | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 10:06 PM |
| 4 | anyone ever tried to pickup a female celebrity ?Yes I have. The main thing is to not put them on a pedestal and treat them like a normal person. this will put you in the 1% category of people that talk to them. | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 10:01 PM |
| 1 | [What shod I do?] This girl confuses meYou need to man up and make a move before you get friend zoned again. | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Texting back and forth, I told her we should watch a movie, no replyUnless it's a girl you met online you should not be asking her out through text. Act like nothing happened, and next time ask her to hangout in person. Also make this hangout request somewhere other than your bedroom. | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 08:36 AM |
| 0 | How can I pursue girls that are out of my league??Didn't even read what he wrote other than the headline. Came to say the exact same thing. | /r/seduction | 01/08/15 09:29 AM |
| 2 | New to cold approaching, beginner wants adviceIt sounds like you weren't building a connection with them before you invited them to have a milkshake with you. I highly recommend watching the series called daygame blueprint. it is the best material that I have seen thus far for daygame. | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | I have a dilemma - It's easy for me to approach but incredibly difficult to close, what am I doing wrong?You have the exact opposite mentality of what you should. Girls love to talk. Be interested in what they have to say. Figure out your commonalities and your differences. Try to figure out why they are who they are and you will have much more success. Also micro escalate while you are doing this. | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 08:54 PM |
| 2 | If I notice a girl and I'm attracted to her what should I do?Go talk to her. | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 12:33 AM |
| 3 | How to make love to a woman so she will come back for more?Most guys in bed are concerned with themselves. Do the opposite. Make sure she finishes before you do. Warm her up using your fingers and tongue, tease her around those gentle areas before actually touching them. Know it's not a porno or a race. There are times to go fast and times to go slow. Take the lead(most of the time) girls like to be roughed up a bit. Pull their hair, bite the, squeeze them, spank them. Just hard enough to where it hurts but gentle enough it doesn't take away from the fu… | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Why does it have to be so difficult to get laid, yet alone date women? I have succeeded at everything I've wanted to succeed at in life except for women.From what I read the only method you are using to meet woman is online dating. You should put focus to meeting woman in person first and online dating as something in the background. Many attractive nice girls are not on online dating sites and the ones that are receive hundreds of matches and messages a day. The answer is simple start approaching girls you fancy in person. Attractive girls that you want in your life do not need to be approaching people. You have to take the initiative, make sur… | /r/seduction | 30/07/15 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Am I boring at texting?You are also messaging her on a day that literally everyone she knows and their mothers are messaging her too. Imagine how many birthday text she is getting from others who are just trying to catch up with her as well. If someone tried starting a full blown conversation with me through text on my bday it would be pretty tough to keep up with how many people I know. | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Good sign if a girl keeps FB poking?It means message her. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 03:38 AM |
| 32 | How to Have a Perfect First DateYou do not wait until the end of the first date for the kiss because this causes a high pressure situation, you should be using micro kino escalation constantly from the beginning to avoid this high pressure situation. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 03:36 AM |
| 2 | When is the right time to ask for a second date, and under which circumstances, how do get into the subject?Future reference make plans while you're with them on the first date, but now you can say something like this. "hey I had fun with you (give reason why or something you like about them other than their looks) would you like to hang out again?" | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 03:34 AM |
| 2 | How to Have a Perfect First Datehe meant not to wait until the end like you see on many movies. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 03:26 AM |
| 17 | How to Have a Perfect First Datehe meant to wait until the end like you see on many movies. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 03:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you stop her in a street?Take an upvote | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 03:28 AM |
| 1 | How to approach the "exclusive" talk"Would you like to be my girlfriend." | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Working in a hospital delivering food, pretty nurses everywhere, how to improve game?I like the opener "Hi I don't think I've met you yet." for situations like this. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach via internet?this. My opening words in a situation where it's at school or social circles is "I don't think I've met you yet" | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 06:34 AM |
| 1 | I am the John Snow of seductionInstead of waiting to approach for this trip walk out side the door this very second and start approaching now and do this every day until then. You will have two more weeks of experience for this trip, and you might have someone special waiting for you to come home to if things to exceptionally well. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 03:22 AM |
| 1 | For different girls, do you guys do different first dates? Or do you have a sort of template you go by each time more or less?A bar can be a good first date, low pressure and loud music allows physical escalation to be a little bit easier. I think it depends on the girl. For example if I met the girl at a bar and I've already physically escalated on her enough to know she is attracted, I would rather take her somewhere else where we haven't been and show her a different side than the bar me. If I met her quickly like online or daygame I would chose a coffee or a bar depending on my mood. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 02:52 AM |
| 5 | For different girls, do you guys do different first dates? Or do you have a sort of template you go by each time more or less?IMO that is what routines are finding lines and tactics that work and then repeating them. Me personally I like to be spontaneous and don't like to do the same thing twice. I find I grow more as a person this way, and what happens once you get past those routines to someone you really like and want to keep around if you are doing the same things over and over? Be spontaneous find things you and the different girls enjoy together. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Question on kino...am I doing it right?Richard La Ruina's stealth attraction series is the best I've seen from micro escalation which is a huge advantage have and easy to understand. IMO the one of the top two things I have learned from the community. I highly recommend it. His youtube channel has some clips from it you can check out first for free. | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Can you morally justify juggling women?you say something like this. "I just want to let you know I'm not looking for anything serious." if getting intimate continuous then you both are on the same page. | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 11:42 PM |
| 3 | I've had some success at seduction, but I'm all about improvement. I've run into a few problems and would appreciate advice on how to solve themI only read the first couple paragraphs but what I read was that you met a girl who likes to sleep around. You told her you're not comfortable and to get tested for an STD. She didn't want to talk anymore. One thing I see wrong, This girl is looking for zero commitment and you came off as someone who is looking for something more serious. Another thing is you basically called her out when saying you don't feel safe with her not having an STD and she probably was a little bit offended by this. | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 11:32 AM |
| 5 | How do you stop being a "hopeless romantic"?There is nothing wrong with wanting to find someone special to spend the rest of your life with, but you need to be able find happiness in yourself first and the eventual lucky lady will be a supplement to your own happiness. You need to understand that to find that one person it takes talking to a whole lot of people, many girls who are special but not quite it and not changing who you are to make someone else happy. You also need to understand that your'e a good guy and that the special girl d… | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 08:08 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls ignore texts?One problem I see is you hesitated too much and waited too long. You're intentions about hanging out don't seem completely clear. Does she know you're interested in her more than a friend? When you have abundance some times you get busy and miss texts. She might have seen it been busy and you weren't a high enough priority and she completely forgot to respond back. Or she lost interest and moved on if she ever had any. | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 02:34 AM |
| 2 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successIMO Everything I have seen you post recently has been negative. Be more positive about things. If you really have put in more work than others then be proud of that. Keep pushing yourself and good things will happen. http://imgur.com/gallery/evccYSA | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 04:50 AM |
| -2 | Are there FWB date ideas different from GF date ideas?IMO you can take them places if you like to have them around as a friend too, just always be honest and tell her up front "I'm not looking for anything serious." unless you're someone who doesn't care about their feelings. on the other hand if you want them only as a bootie call then only ever invite them over to watch a movie. | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 04:43 AM |
| 2 | K-closed girl at music festival but she lives far away...I do one of two things that works for me. A: I'll say "as much as I like getting to know you through texting I think it would be more fun in person. So I'll text you a few days before we meet up." B: I'll take my time texting back and keep a running conversation so usually I'm sending a text or two a day. I am a busy person and this will happen often times naturally until someone becomes more special then I'll text back quicker. | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to ask a girl out by text?If you're already friends with her ask her in person. If that's not an option send her a text and ask when she will be around her phone, and then call her when you both have a minute. | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Lets say you gt her number monday but because of logistics you can't meet till 3 or 4 days later. How do you maintain attraction?Agree with this. After meeting someone online and have enough attraction to set up a date, I'll say "as much as I would like to get to know you through texting I think it would be more fun in person. So I'll text you Thursday before we meet up." | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 10:18 PM |
| 6 | How do I concentrate when I talk to an attractive girl who also seems to like me back?You need more repetitions of talking to attractive woman. If you talk to them regularly it won't seem as big of a deal. You can go one of two routes start approaching indirectly such as simply asking for directions or what time it is and then start a conversation from there, or my recommendation is to be sincere and approach directly. Example "Hey I saw you and thought you looked nice and wanted to come meet you." Another route is to start building a social circle that will put attractive girls … | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 07:23 AM |
| 3 | I haven't initiated a relationship in at least 3 years. How can I make a girl go crazy about me?First you need to get awesome girls around you so you have options. You can do this by building a good social circle, doing cold approaches, and going to places and events where your type of girl might be at. If you're looking for a relationship when you meet girls try to form a deep connection. Do this by trying to figure out why they are who they are. Be yourself and relate on things that you agree with, and challenge them on things you don't agree with. role play, tease, flirt, and do all thi… | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Uh..How do I ..use a girl for sex without hurting her?At some point you say something similar to this. "I'm not looking for anything serious." She then knows anything that happens will be fun and not serious. If she doesn't like it she can walk away, and you can find someone else who doesn't want anything serious. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I initiate a friends-with-benefits situation with a friend?Invite her out on a date and after you know she is attracted to you as more than a friend such as after you kiss her just state somewhere in the conversation you aren't looking for anything serious right now like its no big deal. Continue to escalate she knows what she's getting into after that. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Can I send a text to straight up tell a girl that I like her?Text or call her right away in this situation. You don't even need to read any further do it. She has already invested in you and kissed you more than once. She is probably either waiting for you to ask her out, or starting to move on because you're taking too long. Make sure to be direct in your intentions, it may be hard if you haven't done this many times before. How you tell her is what's best for you with your personality. Me personally depending on the girl I would text something like "Hey… | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with physical tension after approachingI was talking about any part of the interaction | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with physical tension after approachingIt's all in your head. Just know that if it doesn't go well and you're willing to put in the work there will be another great girl to meet soon. And if the current girl isn't willing to deal with the fact that you got a little nervous there is a better girl for you who will understand and even like that part of you. The best way to fix the problem is to put you self in the situation many times until you get use to it. That is what worked for me at least. | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 06:13 PM |
| 1 | After how many dates do you bring up going Dutch or paying for yourself?"Hey I feel like we are getting more serious and we should start splitting the bills" | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 08:48 AM |
| 1 | K-close, then she deleted her number from my phone.If you say the same thing to every girl you talk to then it is a routine. Not all routines are bad and its good to have stories to tell and what not sometimes. I wasn't there so I don't know exactly what was said only you know that. I'm just going off the little info I read. What popped into my head was A- "he asked if I'm single and told me I'm cute" B- "he said the same thing to me" | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 06:17 AM |
| -5 | How do I respond to someone who said they're busy without sounding needy?Try giving them more time. Most cool girls or people for that matter will be busy most of the time so they will not be able to just get up and go within an hour. Good response- "next time then... and this is what you missed out on" with a picture of something fun | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 02:21 AM |
| 1 | K-close, then she deleted her number from my phone.What PewPew said is the most likely scenario. You got caught using the same lines to two friends. Try to be more authentic with less routines. | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Tips on when to pay and when not to pay for a girl's drinksThere is no right answer, but in my opinion you pay for a girls drink after she has invested in you. If she is going on a date with you than she has already invested in you. Be the man and pay for the first date. If you can't afford it opt for an activity together such as hiking, walk in the park, or anything that doesn't cost money that your into. Also Usually right at the beginning of the date I will just state ill get this first one but in the future i'll expect it to be 50/50. Obviously ther… | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 07:17 PM |
| 2 | 23 and never had a GF. I want oneWhen meeting a girl you need to build an exiting deep connection with her if you are looking for more than a hook up. Do this after you know she is attracted to you and is equally investing in the conversation. Make good eye contact and try to figure out as much as you can about her without it feeling like an interview. Get her to talk, girls love to talk. Be honest with who you are if you like something she is interested in let her know and explain why you like that. If you dislike something sh… | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Is abstinence from sex as a lifestyle choice unattractive?You can use escalation and not have sex such as slowly escalating to kissing and touching. You just need to be up front with the girl after you know she is attracted to you. It is going to be rare to find a girl who wants to remain abstinent, as most girls deep down are very sexual. You may lose a girl who becomes important to you because she has a need that you are not fulfilling. So to make up for the area that she is not getting attention in you need to be amazing in other areas to keep her a… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 11:09 PM |
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