| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Worst mistake of my lifeTrue | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/24 03:41 AM |
| 5 | Higher earner afraid of losing big in divorceI was fucked and I’m still crestfallen. At least the alimony is not tax deductible. Oh yeah, fuck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/23 03:15 AM |
| 2 | How many of you have had an amicable divorce?The more money and when one works and one doesn’t and the marriage is long is an explosive fact pattern | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/23 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Wife having affair with woman, need adviceShe may be gay. I hope it works out for you friend | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/23 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Wife having affair with woman, need adviceHow do you “work on it” in this scenario? Conversation therapy is illegal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/23 08:16 AM |
| 1 | It gets easier, right?I’m so sorry. The process is a “man and money destroying machine.” Im 18 months post leaving. I took a horrible deal that I didn’t want because my lawyers sucked and we might have ended right here anyway after spending another 500k on law bills. Not sure how much longer I can pay the alimony, all so she can keep going on her upward trajectory in her $2mm house with cheap debt while I circle the drain and my business fails. It’s not easier yet and it could get a lot worse. My kids are still upset… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/23 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Anyone actually left the country?I moved to Mexico. I still pay massive alimony and will for 11 years. My business is failing and the courts are very reluctant to grant me relief. I’m getting closer to just saying fuck you and stop paying. I don’t want to cut ties with the country I love but if I get to zero they will throw me in jail anyway. I’m lost. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/23 10:41 AM |
| 9 | This sub is actually kind of cool and inspiringI found that my friends don’t want to hear it actually. “You got screwed by the system Fred? Bummer. Let’s get a beer!!” | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/23 09:53 AM |
| 7 | My (28M) wife (24F) won’t stop bringing up the past. Any help?I think your reaction is encouraging very toxic behavior. Don’t be a Simp. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/23 09:54 PM |
| 13 | My (28M) wife (24F) won’t stop bringing up the past. Any help?CONTROL | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/23 03:07 PM |
| 25 | My (28M) wife (24F) won’t stop bringing up the past. Any help?I mean, we can only take OPs story at face value so “glancing at a (pretty) woman” is something ever man has is and will do. This is not overstep or disrespecting. I would rather be divorced than live like this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/23 02:59 PM |
| 2 | First Divorced HolidayYou are not alone. Better days are ahead brother. I would recommend you be vulnerable and authentic with your kids (without tearing her down). | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | So what exactly happens if you dump your life savings into Bitcoin and 'forget' the password?Big Alimony where I pay the tax over 11 years | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 06:09 PM |
| 11 | So what exactly happens if you dump your life savings into Bitcoin and 'forget' the password?This process is a machine designed to destroy men and money. I got 25% of a $10mm estate (when you impute alimony) I built from nothing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/23 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Anybody glad they divorced even though it meant not retiring and 5-10 years of alimony that took up most of your take home pay?Nope. Judges don’t give a shit about taxes in my state. I’m considering taking my $5mm out of the country and not paying. That’s how bad this is in my life. Courts five her half because “there is no way you could have earned it without her” but these same dipshits assume you can earn it with out her going forward as an old man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/23 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Anybody glad they divorced even though it meant not retiring and 5-10 years of alimony that took up most of your take home pay?I got fucked too. We split $10mm and I was ready to do retire and meet a woman who I loved and would love me but the ex used her legal advantage to bully me into huge alimony (not tax deductible) for 11 more years. Now I literally work for this bitch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/23 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Double standard?How do you even know what’s going on with you ex? Why do you care? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/23 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Met another womanSome questions. Not sure why you are in constant and detailed conversation with your ex. That’s not the way it was for me. Second be careful. That massive rush of chemistry does not mean your divorce related pain is over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 02:28 PM |
| 3 | "How a Weekend Trip Unveiled the Cracks in Our Marriage"Residential address? Where was she telling you she stayed? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/23 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Any chance for lower alimony or retaining more than 50% of marital assets?Not on my case. She got $5mm at 56 years old and still got alimony and a lot. I got fucked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/23 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Just need to ventThe courts don’t care about a recording saying she doesn’t want or need alimony | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/23 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Crippled by divorce processIf you are the money maker, there will be endless document demands and depositions, asking you questions, and there is nothing you can do about it, and you will not be able to put her through the same misery because she has nothing to disclose. The whole system is designed to protect the person without the assets at the expense of the person who made all the fucking money in the first place. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/23 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Crippled by divorce processMost marriages end. The divorce is something else. My wife decided to make my life a living hell. I ended up giving her 60% of a $10mm estate. I just could take the beating over years with me paying all the bills btw. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Ahh, fuck. Ex blowing up mediationMen are at a tremendous disadvantage in court. The women know it and are encouraged to be unreasonable by their shitty lawyers because there are countless cases of judges giving women 2/3rds and men 1/3. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | If you were to remarry, who would you look for?I might get married again but no way will I be leveraged financially and this time I’ll have a “quick hook” because if I’m going to be miserable I’m going to do that alone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | If you were to remarry, who would you look for?Amen | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 02:43 AM |
| 4 | Why don't fathers tell sons not to get married?The statistics speak for themselves, and of those that remain married I wonder what percent would leave if they “could.” My kids wouldn’t listen to me. My new rule is no lectures. They have to ask for my advice and they almost never do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/23 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Anyone keep in contact with the ex to witness karma?Unhealthy | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Top 10 mistakes men make in divorceThese tips only work if both parties comply. If you have a greedy entitled stupid woman her attorney will be in charge and he wants the opposite of what you want. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Ways to push out hearing and trial datesYou got long COVID with brain fog. It’s so bad you just forgot again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 02:51 AM |
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