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| 49 | Reminder to have as much confidence in yourselves as men aged 45+ on dating apps who display their child preference to “someday”.LMFAO show me the lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:23 PM |
| 84 | Reminder to have as much confidence in yourselves as men aged 45+ on dating apps who display their child preference to “someday”.His nurse and purse lol.. I wish you got paid for wasting your precious time on that phone call :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:57 PM |
| 10 | Don’t Date Insecure Men! I LIVE For This Goddess’ Channel.Is that Lizzo 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 03:35 PM |
| 16 | Bolivian woman found her man's car outside a motel, she proceeded to unleash some rage and publicly shame him.I love women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 26 | Dick is in abundance and low in value. Getting “flewed out” is not the move.Veavz got such good content.. music hella good too. Check her out on Spotify xxx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 10:31 PM |
| 15 | I made a meme out of my cats for you beautiful women 😘My little amputee lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 11 | Financial costs of “Casual Sex”Plus the cost of birth control. If a woman needs it for her own reasons that’s totally different (acne, menstruation, etc). But to control birth only? And how many women have paid for their own Plan B. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:49 PM |
| -26 | Against my intuition and at the advice of the community, I tried Bumble BFF to make friends. My results.How kind of you to love hearing about your friends lives being in shambles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 09:19 AM |
| 9 | Bridgerton was a hot mess but I still binge watched it!Lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Get off of OLD!There’s no need to argue about someone else’s standards then passive aggressively crap on their standards with that type of comment. Apply FDS where you want in your life, and let others apply it where it suits them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:55 PM |
| 24 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.Why not? If this triggered the same feelings from the issues I deal with day in and day out with them? It was tongue in cheek, anyway. I was agreeing with you. No need for the defensiveness here sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:59 AM |
| 14 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.I too currently have male housemates whom I despise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.Triggered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:34 AM |
| 28 | The time I let myself be sad over a guy 11 years older than me who love-bombed me before dumping me when he learned I couldn’t get pregnant right away 🤡🤡🤡I might have misunderstood, but he was talking about impregnating you in the early love-bombing stage? In less than a year? Without a relationship? God help him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:30 PM |
| 12 | Is it just Canadian guys?Men in Ireland, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:28 PM |
| 27 | HVW on a dateI give it 1. Anyone can make a mistake. And with the amount of desperate PickMes out there, it can happen that one turns out to be an unexpected bunny boiler. If it happens twice? It’s a pattern. See ya! Even so, it’s still a disrespectful way to characterize another woman who was once important to him and who let him be intimate with her. I doubt any man would use that term to identify an ex male friend, male ex-boss or male ex-coworker. And if he did, there would be a high threshold before thr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:46 PM |
| 37 | HVW on a dateThanks for sharing this! Anytime a man says he has a crazy girlfriend I dip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:53 AM |
| 30 | Him: let's just see where this is going! Let's not put a label on things 😊. Me:Hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:51 AM |
| 10 | Here is a picture of the men who stormed the Capitol building today:Lmao I know nothing about what this incident is but someone brought it up to me after having read this and I replied “Yeah my girl said he looked like a taxidermied cows arse” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:07 AM |
| 32 | Does anyone have any tips for beating lonelinessPersonally I found the only way is through. Eventually you get used to it. Then, you enjoy it. Time was the only thing that truly helped me. Other ways help mask loneliness, but I personally believe it only takes longer for the inevitable – being alone, which is actually pure bliss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:44 PM |
| 14 | They insist on only sex until they money is in the picture, then they want a "connection"Why is it men “who have money” always have terrible teeth. Honey, you can’t afford to invest into me if you can’t afford to invest into you. I’m dubious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:26 PM |
| 12 | I honestly don't think I want to get married (and I'm tired of my family saying I'll change my mind)Hear ye hear ye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 11:28 AM |
| 57 | I honestly don't think I want to get married (and I'm tired of my family saying I'll change my mind)The manstink always reminded me of a homeless person. I only encountered it in my early-mid 20s (30 now) but it’s dreadful. I will never tolerate it again. Hygiene is so important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 11:27 AM |
| 26 | I honestly don't think I want to get married (and I'm tired of my family saying I'll change my mind)My grandmother was happily, over the moon, in-love with my grandpa for 40 years until he passed. She was a widow for nine before she met her current boyfriend, and she wants the same and has it. Her own space. Her days apart. Her independence. Even after a happy experience of marriage she still prefers this (which is unheard of in her age group and religion). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 11:24 AM |
| 59 | A MASSIVE Red Flag When TextingPerfect timing. Dealt with this tonight with someone I was getting to know who started stonewalling me. I finished it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 13 | And oldie. I get so many almost dated people reaching out to me as of late, who are now married. Isn't your wife/gf good enough? No she is not.Why hate on the woman they are with? They did nothing to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:42 PM |
| 29 | Beware of guys that "make plans" then flake out or change itFuck and it’s so hard when it’s a different man with a slightly different angle to it. You swear to yourself that previously you’d never fall for the shit again. I have been there girl, don’t be hard on yourself! The scenery looks different but the destination is the same. I know you were just caught up in the whirlwind of it, which is why it’s important to practice your high standards at the faintest whiff. Early early on. It gets easier to identify it and easier to stand up for yourself then e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:24 PM |
| 5 | I love how when you post on fds men always wanna individually message you to neg you 😂😂😂Funny the same rules in life apply for rodents and insels, er .. I mean insects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:29 PM |
| 3 | The last time I dated anyone who wasn't my husband was 16 years ago, a man come over from spain (I'm mexican) just to see me and we didn't had sex, and now men think you don't need dates? Ok...😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:36 AM |
| 28 | The last time I dated anyone who wasn't my husband was 16 years ago, a man come over from spain (I'm mexican) just to see me and we didn't had sex, and now men think you don't need dates? Ok...His right hand is trying so hard ☝🏻👇🏻👉🏻👈🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 15 | Looking Back on Old Relationship with New FDS GlassesHahah Shera’s our girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:35 PM |
| 8 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally asked to fly/drive across the country to meet a man. Do some pickmes actually do this? Is this a real thing that happens?Whoever it does will end up dead in a ditch somewhere it seems | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:26 PM |
| 24 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally asked to fly/drive across the country to meet a man. Do some pickmes actually do this? Is this a real thing that happens?This isn’t a place to ridicule fellow members for their choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 08:57 AM |
| 3 | Instagram Fashion/Makeup "Influencer" Proposes to Boyfriend of 10 YearsA whole hour long? I will just rely on y’alls comments that it was terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:33 PM |
| 5 | Surely there are more interesting topics no?I won’t answer something at all I’m not comfortable answering. If they bring up their living arrangements I will not go further if they have roommates. If he can’t afford to live on his own he’s for sure expecting his future SO to foot the other half of the rent if it’s no longer the housemates. Block and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:50 PM |
| 18 | Surely there are more interesting topics no?Asking if you live alone is so they can gauge if your place is suitable for a hook up. And that’s from the horses mouth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:39 PM |
| 13 | He was a translator on a trip. I met him only once for a few hours and we spoke on the phone once. This is the 4th man I have met while travelling that has professed “feelings” in hopes of financial gain. It’s getting predictable and disgusting to see that men try to use women/me this way.Annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Thought this was funny. Men aren’t out here making tutorials on how to bag a pickme. Know your worth and don’t be afraid to exude it also 💅🏻😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 10:28 PM |
| 13 | Thought this was funny. Men aren’t out here making tutorials on how to bag a pickme. Know your worth and don’t be afraid to exude it also 💅🏻Have you actually watched the videos though? Nope, good someone has! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 09:24 PM |
| 12 | Thought this was funny. Men aren’t out here making tutorials on how to bag a pickme. Know your worth and don’t be afraid to exude it also 💅🏻Dickheads | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 39 | Thought this was funny. Men aren’t out here making tutorials on how to bag a pickme. Know your worth and don’t be afraid to exude it also 💅🏻I dunno! I am stereotypically high maintenance looking. I like the sleek/red lips/classy/put together look. I attract each and every kind (that I know of) – CEOs to hippies, to your average Joe and then McDonald’s part-time workers who smoke up. Genuinely certain ones where I wonder how they have the audacity to even approach me – I’m the one that has to do the weeding which sucks 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 15 | How to safeguard against future faking: Ask "When?"Yes yes yes, good for you for not settling for part-HV! My ex looked like a Yves Saint Laurent model –the height and jaw line of a god. Treated me like a QUEEN. When we married at 21, he was the epitome of model material. His family was riiiiich, we would vacation with them every summer in their holiday house on a secluded mountain in Italy. I thought he was so smart because he could speak three languages. He was on a pedestal to my 21yo self. Resources and ability matter not if they don’t put a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 33 | How to safeguard against future faking: Ask "When?"It was the same for me with my exNV-husband who was also a terrible, lazy planner. (I planned every holiday trip abroad including letting his boss know dates for time off, an entire move to another country – including finding housing, sorting SSN’s, moving trucks, blah blah, wrote HIS University application – which he got accepted with and for which he only decided to do because I wanted to go back to University). Mine was HV in how he treated me, but NV in terms of exuding any possible effort t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 21 | How to safeguard against future faking: Ask "When?"That’s a very informative response. I sometimes forget as a divorcee with no kids/no religion/no cultural expectations about situations other women may face. Thanks for helping my understanding! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:31 PM |
| 67 | How to safeguard against future faking: Ask "When?"In my experience being married to an LVM He can't give, he can only take. He does crap like that all the time. I'd probably want to stay married to him. May I ask why? Of course it’s not my (or anyone here’s) business but you seem unhappy babe! It sounds like you could plan a spectacular divorce at this rate though lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:04 PM |
| 128 | Men lying on their dating profiles...Omg the poor baby I’d be livid if my father lied about me. That’s the lowest form of lie. I’ve had men confess their real age they lied about.. they definitely feel their own “wall” and try to project that on us. Their 3in1 products got nothing on our years of beauty regimens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 12:28 PM |
| 8 | How to help a pick me friendShow her this post once all the comments roll through lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do men think photos of them posing beside luxury cars that don’t belong to them is attractive.My condolences to you for being surrounded by that type of environment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Why do men think photos of them posing beside luxury cars that don’t belong to them is attractive.Lmaoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:42 PM |
| 7 | Why do men think photos of them posing beside luxury cars that don’t belong to them is attractive.A man once tried to play off how UNinvolved he was in his kids life. His excuse was that they live with his mother and have a "great step-father", and that apparently during their divorce that the school counsellor "advised" that there should be more time between his visits and them "because of their separation anxiety".. until he eventually barely saw them at all anymore. I'm so sure. Just.. ew. Fingers crossed they really did have a good step-father. Way to reveal how much other men are better… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:58 PM |
| 13 | Why do men think photos of them posing beside luxury cars that don’t belong to them is attractive.Oh I hear ya. Why would I want to see you unnecessarily close to other woman? Why do I want to see a smelly fish in your hands that you unnecessarily killed? And in some parts of the world the hunting pics.. my ovaries just shrivel up. So your hobby is to destruct. And the ones that write “MYKIDSAREMYWORLD NOTHINGWILLGETINTHEWAY THEY ARE THE SUN SHINING FROM MY ARsE THEY ARE THE AIR I BREATH THE MOLECULES TO MY MICROWAVE” like... ok, thank you for clarifying Walter. Would have otherwise presumed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:25 PM |
| 7 | Why do men think photos of them posing beside luxury cars that don’t belong to them is attractive.That wasn’t my point. But touching yours, if I don’t want a dude in a rented Ford I’m not apologetic about that, either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:11 AM |
| 30 | Why do men think photos of them posing beside luxury cars that don’t belong to them is attractive.Omg that exists? In my pickme days .. approx four years ago a man picked me up in a rental car for a date. It was so obvious he only had it that day for the date. The worst part was that the rental logos were everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Uk went into lockdown and exposed the NVMLove the update! I’m sitting here at work and the notification popped up lol. Haha yes the man has given many red flags now. Seems like he thought his one date now guarantees him your time (and money?!) I’d block and delete. I don’t think it’s a case of distance. He did the bare minimum and seems finished with his wooing process. And anyways you don’t want a man that thinks sitting on video and asking these questions is a “date”, especially a second one, where he’s essentially asking you to go h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Uk went into lockdown and exposed the NVMYou don’t owe him. People bail prior to real life dates all the time, sometimes without even a heads up. Tell him something came up - like a date with a man who is sending you flowers 😂 I’m kidding about the last part but you do not ever owe a man who has invested nothing into you your time consistently. Ever. Goodluck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Uk went into lockdown and exposed the NVMTo the second part, mention how one time a man sent you flowers or wine for a date a month or whatever ago “to make it feel like a date” and see how he responds. If he tries to compete and does the same go for it. If not, cut it he’s cheap and benefitting from your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Uk went into lockdown and exposed the NVMOh girl I did that on the phone with a guy some time ago, he brought it up mid convo. It’s a waste of your time. He’s not trying to fall in love with a girl he’s never met. Btw if he’s not investing it says nothing about you. In addition to the men who are cheap, I had a man buy me a Ted Baker coat I chose online, transfer me 600€ I “needed” for rent (I did not. I put it in my savings). But this was back in my days where I scammed men and was living the SheraSeven lifestyle lol (YouTube her). If… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Uk went into lockdown and exposed the NVMWhat the heck is that. Does this require you to put anything other than comfy clothes on? If not, entertain it for 36 seconds then say your grandma is ringing you and cut it. If it does require effort (ie you’re on video) .. he needs to invest for the time it took you to get ready and to spend time speaking with you at all tbh .. tell him you’re not polly pocket lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Uk went into lockdown and exposed the NVMHaha girl I’m still lost myself!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:04 PM |
| 8 | Uk went into lockdown and exposed the NVMMy go to is saying that a previous man has done it. It shows standard and invokes competition in the right ones. It’s not always successful though (look at my post history of a reply I once got 😂) but it’s a successful method in itself of a weeding system of those capable of only minimum effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:07 PM |
| 97 | A lesson from my 90yo Grandmother’s boyfriend.They were both previously married! He wanted to marry again but she was 9y a widow before she met him. She says she was so used to being alone that she didn’t want to relinquish her independence fully. They have a really supportive and loving relationship, but live in their respective houses 5 minutes from one another. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 7 | This is so fucking embarrassing watching things like this makes me want to off myself🤡🤡💩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:26 PM |
| 2 | I didn’t accept my NVM father’s worthless apology for once.GO YOU!!!! There’s so much anger I feel for this “man” I’ve never met .. what a terrible person. I’m also concerned that your mum never stood up for you. You deserve REAL peace. ✌🏻 ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 19 | Uk went into lockdown and exposed the NVMWhen they ask for a video call I ask them how they propose on making it feel like a date. Some have offered things (sending wine, champagne, food), and others haven’t. I will do the video call with the men that offer something for my time, only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:05 PM |
| 3 | And I cringe..Okay so only realizing it’s a filter now, thanks y’all 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Girlll, if only I could tell you the full journey it took me to get here..That’s amazing! Link us to your podcast! Would be interest in supporting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Girlll, if only I could tell you the full journey it took me to get here..Let us know how you weed! I am always interested in comparing notes and learning lmao 👀 Mine is that I straight up say exactly what type of man I want. Second is that when I want something, I ask. Usually delivered no matter the cost or effort at that stage. But looking for someone that doesn’t need to be asked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:49 PM |
| 5 | I know I'm probably late to the party but my friend and I finally learned that being a HVM has ZERO correlation with someone's education, career, statue etc.Great you two have one another! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:46 PM |
| 15 | I know I'm probably late to the party but my friend and I finally learned that being a HVM has ZERO correlation with someone's education, career, statue etc.Please do and update us? 😂 I did this before and the girl thanked me but then continued to date the man. Same story line. Sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:45 PM |
| 22 | I haven't had sex in over half a year and thinking about it, I feel great.Go you! Love that you prioritize yourself. 1.5y for me. I feel so renewed in addition to the pandemic that holding hands when things normalize will be so intimate haha. Love reading this and the other comments. Feels like I'm the only one sometimes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:26 PM |
| 2 | I’m not a child who is incapable of making decisions 🙄Imagine having to deal with him for many, many years. Sounds terrible and draining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Don't Get Caught Slipping: Holiday Hoovers and Ghosts of Relationships PastI blocked them all on everything then deleted all my social media (for various other reasons) so there will be no chance hahaha. I have even debated changing my number.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 6 | When you block a LVM & bombards you with messagesIs this on iPhone? I’m terrified of this exists on iPhone because I know I’d have many in there haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 7 | Finally figured it outThis has never worked for me. I just remain so anyhow now tho hahaha. They like me better when I’m sweet and kind (aka when I fucking knew no better). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:24 PM |
| 36 | Us telling men “I’m not interested anymore” after seeing them follow tons of new girls in the same city on Instagram. Stay vigilant queens!Ha hahah I actually said this to a man once. Told him flat out that’s why I wasn’t into it. He tried to tell me he knows them BUT THEN that it’s for “marketing purposes for his job and he should really separate his work and his personal account”. Bro worked for AIRPORT MEDIA. Make it make sense. Lmfao I dipped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 7 | As a veteran (recovered) PickMeisha, I gotta say the first 🚩is the warm up to the whole fucking LVM red flag parade that the 🤡 be warming you up for. 🗣️ DISRESPECT IS NEVER A RESOLVABLE ISSUE 🗣️I want to punch him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:49 PM |
| 19 | I see you suggesting a park date? Blocked. Oh I'm not like other girls? Damn right, blocked.Hahaha! My friends tell me my middle name is block. Today I was conversing with a man who was in his mid thirties, told me he worked in customer service for a furniture shop. I’m set in my career and thriving. When I asked if he had goals to do something else as he seemed unhappy he hummed and ahhh’d, and “wasn’t in a rush”. I’m not about to be Barbara the builder. blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:44 PM |
| 23 | Do not let him gaslight you! You're not crazy, it's your intuition saying something's up, follow it.Stumbled across my ex person I dated. He is now searching for a “travel buddy” (as if we are not in the midst of a pandemic) and reduced his age by three years. I had a good laugh before swiping left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:41 PM |
| 5 | Shera7: What to do - if he is trying to rush you into bed...Hahah!! Yes her wit can’t be compared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:03 PM |
| 13 | Shera7: What to do - if he is trying to rush you into bed...Shera is QUEEN! Her videos can be a bit long though. The first 20 or so minutes are the main thing and then usually people have questions and she answers them. Her comments can be quite funny but the main message of her videos are usually spat out pretty fast then discussion stems from there. She’s changed my life prior to FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:02 PM |
| 13 | Shera7: What to do - if he is trying to rush you into bed...She’s my fav YouTuber | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:27 AM |
| 4 | I told him (40yo man) about the time someone I previously dated organized to have various bottles of wine sent to me for our video date “cause he wasn’t sure which type I liked”. His response to that was attempting to schedule a FaceTime date with MY groceries 🤡The second part of your message are my thoughts exactly. Actually, I matched with a guy during the first part of lockdown and we chatted loads. He got me a Ted Baker coat that I chose from their website as a gift for something ai had recently accomplished in my own life, offered to pay my rent due to the times we were in – and did etc. I wasn’t bad off so just put it in my savings lol the whole time I wore pyjamas pants on our calls. But he was great and I can’t expect all to be as amazing as hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 08:15 AM |
| 3 | I’ve already come to the conclusion but I’d like your thoughts..But liking 3 of your photos from 2012 is clear as day they’re shooting their shot and you should hop in their DMs /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 7 | I’ve already come to the conclusion but I’d like your thoughts..On bumble I will start it by having them verify themselves – which is like 90% of men who haven’t bothered to do it yet. Those who do go through the stupid poses and succeed then are able to message you, first. They also had to make more of an “effort” than someone on any other app who messages first, by taking the time to go through the verification process before time runs out 😌 If they don’t message after verification I’ll unmatch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:44 PM |
| 5 | I told him (40yo man) about the time someone I previously dated organized to have various bottles of wine sent to me for our video date “cause he wasn’t sure which type I liked”. His response to that was attempting to schedule a FaceTime date with MY groceries 🤡😂😂😂😩😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 10 | For those you were married, what made you stop feeling that you want to have sex with your ex-husband?Over time I became everything myself that I originally admired in him. Those qualities in himself turned out to be a sham. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:08 PM |
| 8 | Confronted my (27F) husband (34M) about his porn use today... This is how it went.Fuck if I was qualified where you lived I’d work pro bono .. divorce baby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:04 PM |
| 10 | I told him (40yo man) about the time someone I previously dated organized to have various bottles of wine sent to me for our video date “cause he wasn’t sure which type I liked”. His response to that was attempting to schedule a FaceTime date with MY groceries 🤡I feel like some kind of tea 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 31 | I told him (40yo man) about the time someone I previously dated organized to have various bottles of wine sent to me for our video date “cause he wasn’t sure which type I liked”. His response to that was attempting to schedule a FaceTime date with MY groceries 🤡Omg I am so desperate to talk to you versus doing anything else under the sun of course I will arrange my own “piece of fruit” for this “date”. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 136 | I told him (40yo man) about the time someone I previously dated organized to have various bottles of wine sent to me for our video date “cause he wasn’t sure which type I liked”. His response to that was attempting to schedule a FaceTime date with MY groceries 🤡I laughed all the way to the block button | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:22 PM |
| 7 | I told him (40yo man) about the time someone I previously dated organized to have various bottles of wine sent to me for our video date “cause he wasn’t sure which type I liked”. His response to that was attempting to schedule a FaceTime date with MY groceries 🤡Hahahaha I just died | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:04 PM |
| 169 | Don’t explain yourselves. It only gives them ammunition. JUST BLOCK AND DELETE. (Context in comments)There was a 35(!!!) y.o child who asked me to coffee on a day he would be in my area already visiting his family. I said I didn’t want to go on a date with a man that makes me a detour, nor am I into coffee dates but that I would prefer a lunch or dinner date with someone that’s more sure about meeting me. (I once had a man that owned his own law firm in London – a massive city with many options fly to my COUNTRY for lunch, bring me a gift, pay for lunch and then fly back after the date ended. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:33 PM |
| 2 | FaceTime date with seemingly HVM reveals his repulsive apartment. This is why you FaceTime first, imagine arriving here in person. Needless to say, that was our last conversation.Christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:50 AM |
| 13 | For the first time, I applied FDS principles in practicality and it saved me from an impending heartbreak.I am saving this logic in my notes. The way you beautifully communicated it made the gut feeling make sense, in English. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:47 AM |
| 46 | Can't believe I ever traveled to see a man 🤡A couple years ago I got on a goddamn plane for two separate men on TWO SEPARATE OCCASIONS 😩🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:39 PM |
| 16 | "Stop Dating Your Issues"I haven’t seen her others but a lot of us here on this sub were former pickme’s. Let’s hope she continues down the road and uses her platform to continue our way forward ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:33 AM |
| 10 | After 2.5 years I broke up with my bf. He felt like home to me but that doesn't mean he was.My ex married me when we were both 21 when I brought it up. In hindsight I was not grown up enough to understand marriage nor to have the experience of a truly HV man (I divorced him eventually) to know what I was asking for. But you’re dead right.. if they want to they will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 09:42 AM |
| 29 | 46, but not ready for commitment LOLAdd on the ones with “someday” part after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 09:09 AM |
| 11 | Ah, the disguised Netflix and chill. They have adapted. (Ps this is a doctor).Disgusting. (Ps your dog is so cute) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:45 AM |
| 12 | Ah, the disguised Netflix and chill. They have adapted. (Ps this is a doctor).We knew no better at that age babe! They can’t even use a pandemic to blindside us now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 33 | Ah, the disguised Netflix and chill. They have adapted. (Ps this is a doctor).Lmao .. my girl. My favourite part when I decline low effort dates is when they respond with a “well lol wat do u want 2 do”. I want you to pass me the strap on dildo, Derek. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:15 AM |
| 31 | Ah, the disguised Netflix and chill. They have adapted. (Ps this is a doctor).He did! He counter offered with his “realization” that we are no longer in a level five lockdown (since three days ago, duh) with a restaurant invite. He did the damage already though. I’m not about to scold a man into a proper outing hahah.. Bye Felicia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.Not Royal royal. They rented their house from his family, apparently in the documentary it said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:58 AM |
| 16 | On today's episode: men collectively sharing one personalityHahaha it really is even over here in Europe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:11 PM |
| 11 | This comic changed my lifeUhg. When I was married I blamed it on everything else. Birth control. The fact I had moved to his country and was depressed there. In reality it was because when I met him he was on a pedestal to 20yo me. And during our marriage I levelled up so much higher and became in myself everything I admired that I thought he was. I fell out of love with him and no longer saw a future as I felt I was a HVW with a LVM (and when we met he was HV who turned into LV by comparison to my level up). I felt guil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:59 AM |
| 50 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.I’m watching ‘The story of Diana’ and there were both against her that you just mentioned. Age and class. I never heard anyone mention class before but watching this now, very true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:39 PM |
| 26 | A LVM who disrespected me reached out because he is now in my area of business and needs my help.How professional of him .. Call him a bitch and block 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:45 PM |
| 20 | Canadian Article on 65+ age Women NOT Wanting Live-In Boyfriends or Husbands. Queen vibes.My grandma started dating a guy 9 years after my grandfather passed and they’ve been together 20 years.. she always wanted her own pad and they’re cute as heck.. I love my HV step-grandpa. He got a nice place tho 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:43 PM |
| 2 | 😂😂😂HAHAHAHAHAHA fck I’m dead 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 9 | First inviting me to hangout with his roommate and play Mario cart for our first date and then this.... GodFfs 😂😂🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:32 AM |
| 22 | So fun to see scrotes get frustrated when they realize they cant invade our space. 🤭The down votes 😂👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:28 AM |
| 8 | Unhealed abandonment trauma is what led me to be with emotionally unavaliable partners. Healing this was essential to my development. This work is not easy, but so so worth it in the end. Stay strong ladies.joins cue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:51 AM |
| 10 | A lesson learned.To your question: Yes, and I stopped giving a fuck because it’s an objective interpretation. How is me pressing a button on the Internet in a non-existing technological world childish when they were disrespectful, rude or time wasting in reality. Childish is a dig so they can later monkey branch to us for one reason or another (at the most) and at the least – so they don’t think they’re a bad person. Honesty why men even care if they’re blocked is beyond me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:40 AM |
| 32 | Where to buy rings?I just wear a ring my grandma gave me cause she’s been preaching FDS mindset since I could walk lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:03 PM |
| 71 | First inviting me to hangout with his roommate and play Mario cart for our first date and then this.... GodYa next to the homeless tents near the bridge 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:53 PM |
| 9 | Example of high value behaviorThank you for the reminder! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:54 PM |
| 50 | I have a feeling it wasn’t her idea...Wow she’s so lucky 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:53 PM |
| 6 | Dang, really was hoping he would say "oh haha just to clarify, I was being cheap"🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 11:15 AM |
| 11 | Dang, really was hoping he would say "oh haha just to clarify, I was being cheap"The OP is talking about walk dates, not bar dates or drinks. Sorry. I’m confused. A walk? What do you mean Nevertheless bringing any kind of beverage on a walk date is low effort – alcoholic or Starbucks. I would do drinks and walking and talking. You know if you two click you will end up with a nice date. Dates don’t buy pussy 🤷🏻♀️ Fancy drinks inside an establishment can cost a man more than dinner in the end if a female is trying to avoid dinner in fear he falsely presumes what he thinks he’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:59 AM |
| 10 | Dang, really was hoping he would say "oh haha just to clarify, I was being cheap"Did you read the manual? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:20 AM |
| 7 | Dang, really was hoping he would say "oh haha just to clarify, I was being cheap"Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:17 AM |
| 3 | LVM makes it easy for us to spot him.If he didn’t have a beard she’d need to card his 4’8” looking-game-playing self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:05 AM |
| 91 | Posted on r/unpopularadvice... they went OFF. Find the perfect comment! 🤡I have had a full fledged 40s rolls-Royce-working-ass-lawyer want to drive 3h to my city just to bring me on a walk date. He said he had done previous walk dates with girls and wine so he thought it was a great idea. I made fun of him for bringing those girls to sit on a bench at a park. Asked if it rained. How was the nearby garbage can. If a homeless man interrupted them for spare change. That’s when I realized women will look past the date if the man is rich. And obviously it didn’t work out … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 07:44 AM |
| 16 | Women make good lawyers, and have an especially good track record treating patients. I didn't really see this as cultural misogyny until I realized that when I saw this as a child, it made me question the validity of getting good grades.🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 09:24 PM |
| 60 | Women make good lawyers, and have an especially good track record treating patients. I didn't really see this as cultural misogyny until I realized that when I saw this as a child, it made me question the validity of getting good grades.Hahahaha yo that is me. I’m a lawyer and have two cats. Life is great. I always adopt ones that are needy, so like my one has three legs for example. I love my little clan of disabled cats and my profitable career 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 09:20 PM |
| 8 | Liberal feminism be like.👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:47 PM |
| 18 | Pickmeisha on r/offmychestHer punishment is the man she is with or will end up with. That alone is hilarious enough for her pickme ways so I aint mad lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:49 PM |
| 10 | Liberal feminism be like.Yes! But who is “we”? Radical feminists as u/rf-Elaine put? (Ps Thank you!) I ask because this post (which I agree with) makes fun of liberal feminism but I’m trying to understand which end of the spectrum or avenue FDS feminism is. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:21 PM |
| 35 | Liberal feminism be like.This is embarrassing to ask but I might make a post about this. I was wondering if anyone could educate me on the feminism that FDS gears towards? From this post I’m assuming conservative feminism? I’ve always had inherent compass within me that was baffled why women sleep with men so easily the way men sleep around and then call that female empowerment. Why women think this type of behaviour will equal equality makes no sense. Why do women want to be equal to men when we are so clearly above th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:57 PM |
| 16 | How to say Fuck Off nicely?“Fuck off” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:54 PM |
| 6 | They really just tell on themselves (translation in comments)Oh my god they’re rampant there 😂 I remember when I used to live there. Echt peinlich. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:51 PM |
| 11 | A HVM will NEVER threaten your childOh my god. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:46 PM |
| 47 | A HVM will NEVER threaten your childOP has already posted about this man fake proposing and then throwing food at her and sought for advice in a relationship subreddit. The same sympathy and advice to leave was given to her there. This was a red flag. OP seems to have stayed despite the encouragement from others that she should leave. And here we are now, things have escalated to physical threats on her child. To any woman reading this, red flags are exactly that – red flags to worse things ahead. They don’t get better. That is wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:03 AM |
| 33 | A HVM will NEVER threaten your childI feel less hopeful after looking at OPs post history 😔 Fingers crossed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 07:51 AM |
| 114 | A HVM will NEVER threaten your childPlease take care of yourselves Please tell us you are taking care of yourself and your child? When you said ‘jokes on him’ I was hoping to read a bit more of an actionable stance. Purely recognizing this behaviour is not enough, you need to leave! There isn’t much to go by on here if you have guided yourself and your child away from him safely.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 07:37 AM |
| 6 | Rant: Pickmeishas taking their anger out at their daughtersYeah your mum is definitely less so! So happy to hear she’s otherwise supportive! (Sorry I didn’t grasp that while reading). And thank you! Fingers crossed for your move and a smooth transition with your kitties! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:48 PM |
| 31 | Rant: Pickmeishas taking their anger out at their daughtersI’m so sorry to hear this! You’re not alone in the experience. I too have a pickmeisha mother. I was conceived by her and a man who was apparently abusive physically. So she left him. She then married my step-dad who also bullied and verbally/emotionally abused me throughout their horrible marriage. My teachers signed me up into therapy as young as grade three. My moms words “if he says or does anything tell me!” But she never did anything. The silver lining in a grim world was that is was never… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Queens, what are your Thoughts on Icy University?I haven't seen this but if it's anything like Sheraseven I'm for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 09:22 AM |
| 14 | Why girl, why?!I’m here for this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 08:10 AM |
| 5 | Same. Every month. You’ll live.Glad I could reinvigorate your appreciation 😄I’m very excited to be moving out in 5 months into my very own place woo 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:08 AM |
| 118 | The R/roastme threadsI never understood it either. The only explanation I can think of is “masochist”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:19 PM |
| 23 | Same. Every month. You’ll live.Hahaha right The lil bandaid has me tho .. you’d think he was en route to emergency with his carry on hahahahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:01 PM |
| 7 | The partnership is about working together 🤗 he's making the mess, and I am cleaning it. But seriously, I can't imagine how harmful it is for the young girls to hear such things said by an authority.HAHAHAHA ...”mY mAnnnn” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:44 PM |
| 13 | The partnership is about working together 🤗 he's making the mess, and I am cleaning it. But seriously, I can't imagine how harmful it is for the young girls to hear such things said by an authority.Lmao this is just embarrassing. And the fact her name is attached to this garbage is tragic. I hope she sees this thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:30 AM |
| 27 | THE AUDACITY: found this “ring” my ex gifted me while cleaning out my house today. Made sure to put it in the long-term storage it deserves: the garbage can!Omg these comments have me dead. The worst gift I was to ever receive was a coffee maker for Valentine’s Day from my ex-husband of 3y by that point. Spoiler: he knew I didn’t drink coffee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 11:32 AM |
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