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This group deeply hates women. If you actually want to be a feminist, find some other communities to discuss your feelings with. A good one for men is r/MensLib. If you stay here, you will become misogynistic like the rest of these characters.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/26 10:34 PM
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Being single is always a better option than eating shit.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 04:34 AM
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Thank you for very easily and succinctly explaining how to deal with mean women. I feel like so many guys who fall down the red pill rabbit hole are like, "But all women are cruel and vicious!" and it's like, no, we're not, but why do you try so hard to impress the ones who are?? Drop her and move on.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 03:29 AM
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Watch antidotes to redpill stuff, stat. Look up Melanie Hamlett and BurbNBougie, for starters. Click "do not recommend" on anything sexist or redpill-ish and train the algorithm to give you better stuff. If you fill your head with garbage, you will believe garbage. You have to actively look for positive content that uplifts women. It's out there.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/24 10:43 PM
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It makes sense. I truly admire your ability to self-reflect and I'm glad you are questioning your impulses and working on empathy. This is a really honest response and I hope you keep an equally honest approach with your dates. Good luck in finding what you are looking for.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 10:42 PM
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Word of advice from a woman: yes technically there's nothing "wrong" with dating her but you are fundamentally looking for two different things. I would stay away. She may pretend she's "fine" with a casual thing and may even believe it, but the odds are very small it's true. You still sound like you are prioritizing sex. And that's totally fine. But don't pretend you want a relationship if you don't. And saying "maybe" or "I'm open to possibilities" and then pursuing a virgin are forms of prete…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 09:02 PM
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It's not OK to body shame men. That said, most comments about penis size or "small dick energy" are really about a man's behavior, usually his poor treatment of others. That doesn't make it OK, but rarely is the mocking actually about a man's body. It's like calling someone you can't stand a fat fuck - it's not about their weight. Or when someone is said to have a Napoleon complex, it's not really about their height. Jokes about dick size tend to really be about someone's insecurity, cruelty, an…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/24 05:21 PM
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Are women less romantic? Possibly. Sex and romance are games for men. They carry much heavier risks and consequences for women, who maybe tend to be more pragmatic as a result. Do women put less effort? Absolutely not. Women do the majority of emotional and household labor, and are now expected to pay 50 % as well. The person who suggests therapy is usually the woman. The person who tries to improve or save a relationship is usually the woman. Women don't move on faster, it's just that they star…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 02:24 PM
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The additional history you reveal about your mom and aunt might be a clue. You were traumatized by witnessing women you love be abused by men. That is terrifying to a child. Have you ever explored yoyr feelings about that? I wouldn't be surprised if your brain is subconsciously blocking feelings of empathy for women in abusive situations in order to protect you from those feelings of fear and helplessness. When you're really scared, it sometimes feels safer to identify with the oppressor/abuser.…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 06:18 PM
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You were traumatized. Noticing the patterns of people who traumatuzed you does not make you misandrist. You tried to understand and appease them - that, too, is a trauma response, called "fawning." I think getting help is a good idea, because you have a lot of trauma to unpack. Until then, being a bit wary of men until they prove their character, and avoiding dating them, is probably a good idea.
/r/ExRedPill29/02/24 06:55 PM
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You can empathize with his pain. Many people sink into narcissistic behavior because of unresolved trauma. Getting them to face and process that trauma, and telling them they didn't deserve it, can help them let go of their unhealthy coping mechanisms. But if he insists on being abusive to you... it may be time to reduce or cut contact. You don't have to light yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 05:54 PM
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Or option C: you are mistaken. But since you seem to be still very much enmeshed in redpill ideology, you probably won't even entertain that as a possibility.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 12:04 AM
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You don't seem to get that a woman's feelings about a penis is most heavily affected by her feelings about the man it's attached to. Random internet pics? Sure, larger will be more interesting than smaller. But we don't really care. A guy we're actually sleeping with? Chemistry, generosity in bed, paying attention to our body and our enjoyment -- all of those things are much sexier than size to most women. And too big is just painful, when it's actually inside you. Here's another way of looking …
/r/ExRedPill08/02/24 02:10 AM
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Is he really "sweet and caring" if he believes this stuff? Remember that he will automatically discount everything you say because you're a woman. You can try explaining things once, but frankly I wouldn't pour any more energy into him than that. He is showing you who he is. Maybe show his mom or dad or other close person in his life this post, including the comment from the girl who wanted to end herself, so they can continue to try to talk sense into him.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 05:18 PM
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Patriarchy teaches all men that women are inferior and to be controlled and exploited. And patriarchy has been in sway in most human societies for about 20,000 years, or since the dawn of agriculture and city-states. So are men inherently misogynist? Not exactly, but all of them have been trained to be that way since childhood.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 01:11 PM
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Because they're "hawt" / because you need to prove you can outcompete and impress other men. I'm convinced that women's opinions don't actually matter to them.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 02:22 PM
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Hypergamy is real - IN MEN. Nearly every man I've ever met wants a partner more attractive than himself, and usually with better social skills as well. Does that mean all men are untrustworthy and every man will cheat? Your problem is that you are listening to people who don't view women as human beings. Women are people. People are different; people like different things in their partners and people have different levels of commitment to marriage and children. People are not completely predicta…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 09:54 PM
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Then that is your emotional need. It's not normal to have no emotional needs.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:34 PM
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Thank you for asking this question. Piggybacking off this, what made you all believe the words of ugly guys with muscles over people you know and like? When strangers on the internet say horrible things, doesn't something ping your bullshit meter?
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 05:36 PM
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Looks interesting but much of it is not tailored to dating. I did not experience FDS as "toxic" other than in the comments of butthurt men. And I absolutely hate content for women that promotes manipulating men or scamming money out of them, so would not have overlooked that.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 07:04 PM
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😂😂
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 06:37 PM
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You're not even consistent with yourself. By this logic, the 10/10 girl is most likely to have had the most partners.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 05:21 PM
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FDS absolutely does not seek to emotionally manipulate men. It says the opposite - if he doesn't want to make you happy, let him go. It tells women to set standards and boundaries, and stick to them. If this was all that redpill men did, no one would go after them. EVERYONE should be judging whether their partner is high value TO THEM, it's crazy not to. This means choosing your standards and looking for compatibility, loyalty, and ability to be in a committed relationship. This is what FDS prom…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 02:26 PM
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Even mentally unwell, struggling, insecure people will usually not become aggressive or violent because of a breakup. Someone who lashes out this way is either inclined to be violent and aggressive anyway, and just wants to use you as an excuse. Or they are very bad at handling their emotions, and shouldn't be in a relationship until they've had a lot of therapy. Either way, not your fault. Not your circus, not your monkeys.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/24 09:01 PM
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When you have feelings come up that are all out of proportion to what is happening, or that go against logic, they are generally a reaction to what happened in the past. Specifically, they are usually a reaction to childhood traumas. A trauma can be a big event like abuse or war or natural disasters, or something less obvious like unmet needs for attention or affection. Sometimes the worst emotional scars are from things that are totally invisible to most people. So because the emotions are base…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/23 06:33 AM
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Don't think of everything in life as a game you have to win. Instead, think of it like this: If you open up to your partner and she loses attraction or respect for you? Great. You have found out EARLY that she is not the one. Imagine living your life with such a person. Imagine crippling yourself emotionally because your partner is too toxic or immature to let you be human. 🤮🤮 Who would want a relationship like that? Dating is a way to get to know someone and figure out if you two are compatible…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 07:35 PM
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The wall is a myth. Women are pursued all our lives. The reason so many redpillers stay with their wives is because they know damn well those women have value; they're liars but they're not all stupid. No one looks as pretty at 40 as they do at 20 -- this includes wrinkled, decrepit 40+ yo men who are fooling themselves by throwing $$ at younger women. But if someone has character, intelligence, kindness, loyalty, talent, good health, an interesting life story, etc etc, then they often get even …
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 06:01 AM
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The only thing "redpill" about this is she is extremely weak and pathetic but thinks she is strong, and has managed to abuse/bully a partner into agreeing with her.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 06:11 AM
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Your sample is skewed. Your mom cheated, and that not only skews your views, it is incredibly hurtful. So you are going to be biased. You are NOT neutral and you're not supposed to be. We all have biases. Rather than deny them, it's important to acknowledge them. Just like it's important to acknowledge your pain and trauma. You're going to have to work overtime to find examples of healthy relationships and moral, loyal women, because that has not been your lived experience and your brain is prim…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 09:50 PM
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I think you're having a fear/trauma response. You feel like these redpill men are a threat (which they are). And you want to argue them out of their ridiculousness. But you can't. As the saying goes, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. They will not hear the truth unless they want to. You can make responses to YouTube videos or whatever, but only if it doesn't hurt you or ruin your day. You have to realize that you should never, ever have to argue that you are a human be…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 12:56 AM
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Much as I would love to punch a harasser right in his face, realistically, it's probably not gonna happen. They know if they spoke disrespectfully to a man, their odds of getting hit would be much higher.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 12:48 AM
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This. They know women can't/won't fight them, and they like making women feel powerless.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 09:53 AM
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What is the same thing? Sleeping around? Who tells you it's harder for men? Women face their own struggles. Adulting and relationships don't come completely easy for anyone. Men can enjoy sex every time. Women face the risk of shitty sex (very likely) or physical pain if their partner is not considerate. Face greater risks of STDs not to mention violent assault. Does that sound "easier" to you? The anger and resentment come from ENTITLEMENT, from centuries of men being told they each had the rig…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 04:03 PM
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It's not just "oversimplification". It's straight up hate. Just look at the points another commenter here spelled out. Yes, saying hateful, derogatory things about a group will hurt your ability to get to know them.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 11:25 AM
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You can't fix him. You do not have the power to change another person, only to take away his access to you. He needs to become your ex bf. He is telling you that he doesn't respect you. No amount of debate will magically turn him into a good partner.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 10:13 AM
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Also, from an evolutionary perspective you could also say that single moms are the most desirable women because they have proven fertility. Don't get caught up in "evolutionary" bullshit. It can be twisted to support any agenda, and usually is.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 02:49 PM
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You keep going back to those thoughts because you have not had any other perspectives. It's impossible to just stop thinking of something. However, it's very possible to replace those thoughts with other thoughts. There are many, many resources on YouTube. Watch videos directed to women. Try to understand what women go through. Try to put yourself in the shoes of a 20 year old woman. Wouldn't it make sense for you to try different relationships, maybe have some bad experiences, some good experie…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 02:46 PM
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You haven't read them. Having good manners and some life skills goes a long way toward getting dates. Go read what women say about their dating experiences and you'll see how many interactions on dating apps, for example, were going FINE until the guy decided to be a rude asshole. But, OK, fine, lets say these skills don't do enough in the short term. But in the long term, empathy is the foundation of relationships with all other human beings, including women. If men don't understand this, then …
/r/ExRedPill22/11/23 10:35 PM
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Then consume content from better people: The speech prof r/menslib www.theartofmanliness any of the people on this list- https://www.schoolshouldbe.com/post/male-role-models-for-teenage-boys Here's a hint: if you find a guy talking about dating who seems like he's "winning" but has no empathy for women or other groups of people, he's a dick and will never help you have better relationships. Finding good relationship role models is hard for all of us. But redpill only makes it worse. That's like …
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 01:08 PM
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As victims of men.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 05:46 PM
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That is annoying, but guys are just as likely to do that as girls.
/r/MensRights01/12/16 05:07 PM
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No, it means taking up more than your seat so no one can sit next to you. Are there really people who get confused about this?
/r/MensRights01/12/16 02:15 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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