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There are studies showing that uncircumcised men and their female partners experience better sex later in life. If this affects that, maybe it's only fair to let people decide for themselves instead of as a baby.
/r/MensRights10/09/22 11:24 AM
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Yes I wish this was an option. And I'm not even smart, people just insist I am because of my Master's degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:57 AM
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Third one is definitely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:36 AM
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I agree with everything you said except the part about walking outside alone. I don't think that has much to do with society, but moreso biology. Women (or at least I believe, as I am a woman) have a natural fear of rape. Nighttime just makes this more amplified. Even if the neighborhood is safe, I don't think a woman is playing the victim if she has more fear of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:32 AM
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This is so cute
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/22 01:26 AM
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Lol your post points out how ridiculous worrying about body count can be. Based off of a lot of different things I've read, different subreddits, and people I've talked to, I think the number is too high when the person is young (not just in age, but in mindset, ability to think long-term, responsibility, etc.). What is "high" and what is "young"? is what's nearly impossible to quantify. There's are some women who've slept with 30 plus people, but most were other women so some men don't care as …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:24 PM
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Lol I couldn't even get that far in the post.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 07:03 PM
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I'm a woman and this breaks my heart. Honestly, I forget that this happens and I'm sorry about that. When I hear about married women having abortions, my mind often goes to it being a joint decision or the woman is unfortunately married to an abusive man and she refuses to bring a (or another) child into that situation. I don't understand the women nowadays who have forgotten what the original feminist movement was about. These women seem to think women have the ultimate say when it comes to pre…
/r/MensRights15/08/22 06:27 PM
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I think this is one of the most self-contradictory topics in the trp (except when talked about by Rollo Tomassi). Most guys big in the red pill space will insist they have the right to have one main girlfriend/wife who is "pure" (aka didn't sleep around), as well as have many girlfriends and ONS on the side. They also insist they love women and treat them with respect. The problem is they expect there to be some nearly virginal women who provide 100 percent in the bedroom,but there should also b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:48 PM
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There are a lot of reasons sex might be less important for the woman. We technically have more risk (yes, BC, child support, etc etc, but our bodies have intuition), we are wired differently, we tend to feel loved differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:10 PM
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I think this idea primarily comes from women who very much want to be home with their children until they are school age. While the guy doesn't have to be older to help make this happen, being older just makes it more likely that he'll be mature enough to not be risky with money. But not all women want children (or at least to birth their children), some women want nannies or au pairs that they could also help pay for, some women insist they want to stay home full-time but then feel like they ar…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 06:57 PM
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Camille Paglia is fabulous. Very interesting to listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:27 AM
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Lol I've wondered about this. There's tips about fitness, getting your career in order, etc. but for all the manosphere's claims that they are focused on improving men's lives regardless of women, they don't seem to offer much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:19 AM
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Or get married and keep those side checks. Cuz you know "high value men SHOULD cheat" lol
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 12:03 AM
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I think the main problems in these situations is that neither party is communicating afterwards. It's not that difficult to send a text saying you're not interested for x, y, or z. Or don't give specific reasons. Just talking after the date/sex is kinder than ghosting. I also don't think it's that difficult to tell a lie if a person is truly that uncomfortable telling the other why they're not interested. Tell them you weren't expecting it but got back together with your ex, tell them you apprec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:16 PM
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As a woman, I have never understood this behavior in other women. Before going on a date with someone I haven't met in person yet, I think extensively about my safety and the worst possible outcomes (i.e. how likely it is that he will assault me, begin stalking, etc.). The women who sleep with multiple men after just meeting them must have very little fear of this or have found a strong way to ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:04 PM
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Lol was expecting links to actual studies rather than an easily googled article. No worries, next time I won't hassle you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:20 PM
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Who the hell is making $22 at CVS?? Lol I didn't make that much money until 3 years after finishing my Master's degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:28 PM
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How is this measured? Through genealogy records? Other methods? Genuinely curious because I've never heard this before and never really thought of history in these terms before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:18 PM
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Breast cancer, PCOS, hysterectomy, menopause....women aren't always classically attractive or emotionally stable when dealing with these things. If a man is the leader of his household, he needs to understand how to handle his woman's emotions and be willing to-not just see her as a bitch or as an unattractive woman. Egalitarian partnership is fine, but the question was asking about the manosphere. The manosphere describes men as leaders of their women. I'm a woman btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:14 PM
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Haha yes, perfect point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:22 PM
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My problem with it is I don't feel they actually teach a man how to lead a woman. They teach a man how to attract her and imply that as long as he focuses pretty much only on himself, she'll stay forever. This may work for very wealthy men with a good following, who have a main woman plus additional girlfriends. But for men looking for a traditional family, leading a woman goes a lot deeper. I would also argue it does require a man to get in touch with his emotions to some degree. Your woman has…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:16 PM
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Love your last paragraph. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:03 PM
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It's not selfish unless the guy is being an a-hole about things. Unfortunately many of us women have been taught that sex is only necessary or even appropriate if the woman is also in the mood. I mean if a woman is in pain, is healing from birth, is still working through traumas, etc. then gritting her teeth to get through sex is probably not helpful for either person. But there are ways for a woman to offer sex even if her drive is lowered. Communicating about different types of sex (she's reco…
/r/MensRights31/07/22 12:11 AM
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Yes, I believe so, then divorced. The father made money from chess (I think) but spent much of it on booze, gambling, and women, so the family was always poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:17 PM
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Kevin Samuels was also well spoken. He could make his points very clearly and could be understood by people who disagreed with him. Tate is not well spoken. You have to watch quite a bit of his content to actually understand his message (aka get through the bs). And he shouts a lot. Kevin was always composed. I do find them both entertaining, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:15 AM
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His father was black. An American successful chess player. His mother is a white British woman. They grew up in US and England. Kind of why they have weird accents.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:09 AM
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I don't think he has intentions of ever marrying. Kevin Samuels was always discussing marriage. Tate has mentioned things about the possibility of having children with multiple women and didn't seem to see this as an issue. Kevin Samuels said men need to exercise sexual disciple even when "exercising their options" while married, and did not seem supportive of having children kind of all over the place. Kevin Samuels was also very aware of relationship dynamics related to race. Andrew and his br…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:07 AM
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He's very confident and has a sense of humor. His overly cocky statements ("I'm clearly the sexiest man alive", "I'm the most famous man on the planet", "my intelligence is unmatched") ironically make him more relatable. When people are too literal about everything, especially their attractiveness, intelligence, etc. in relation to "most people" (there's over 8 billion people on this planet), they come off as very superior. When people make brash statements like he does, it gives a sense of "I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:58 AM
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A lot of this really has to do with age. When you're young (early 20s) everyone is still figuring things out. By time you get to your late twenties or into your thirties or older, it's really ideal that you have some type of direction with your life. Even if you've changed careers or moved around, there should be evidence that you can adequately care for yourself and can therefore manage being with another person long-term. Now someone like Tate will say you need to be wealthy, but this is only …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:57 AM
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I feel sorry that men are naturally the initiators but are living in a time where nuance is less and less accepted. Decades ago I feel as if it were easier for a man to pursue a woman, she says she's not looking or "no thank you", and he could continue to pursue her. It was seen as romantic. Now it's seen as disrespectful and even misogynistic. No means no is obviously important to teach regarding sex, but it's getting stretched to dating, to flirting. I think the natural tendency is for a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:21 AM
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His father had two children with his stepdaughter...yes you read that right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:42 PM
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Level Up Journey EDIT: and Breeny Lee! She is fabulous.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/22 06:33 PM
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That's interesting, I've never thought about the ages women give up vs when men give up. I'm in my late 20's (27) and have pretty much given up on dating, so this is definitely true for me. Men have more time biologically, so this makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:32 PM
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Polyandry would probably be standard...children were either have lots of strong male role models or sex offenses would be extremely high. Not that women can't or don't commit those types of offenses, but I think populations with drastically different proportions in sex ratios have shown a larger amount of men does result in more of these crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:52 AM
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Probably why she was in "Hustlers"
/r/MensRights04/07/22 01:22 AM
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They all claim to be trained in it. Two were both trained in EMDR, which I've done, but that's another story. Yes, I'm learning to be more vocal. This thread has taught me that lol. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/22 12:19 AM
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Honestly I don't have a specific source. There are various studies and reports that talk about oxytocin being released during sex abuse. It can just physically happen. Does that result in true bonding? No, I never thought so. In terms of biological bonding I thought it did. It's the same hormone released during breastfeeding, etc. It's not a crazy concept. It doesn't mean children are in love with their abusers. It doesn't mean victims have no hope of happy relationships. It just means human bod…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 10:53 PM
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No, my relationship with my father was not healthy and that was not my fault. I thought pair bonding had to do with the release of hormones. But now I understand that it's more about an emotional connection. It may be a news flash to many men that there are women who do not have emotional connections with each of their partners, though, irrespective of n-count.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 09:34 PM
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Maybe it's a good thing you don't know that much about abuse at that age. If you don't need to know, then it's probably not worth the rabbit hole. Just surprising, considering so many people say they were abused as children, then act like this is not part of it for some children.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 09:32 PM
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Thank you, this was very sweet. I'll keep trying to better myself.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 09:22 PM
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Maybe I'm just misunderstanding the whole pair bonding idea. In terms of biology, isn't it based on the hormones released? Studies have definitely shown oxytocin to be released during rape. Part of the reason why shame is such a huge after-effect (oxytocin creates feelings of love and pleasure while the individual knows the perpetrator's actions were wrong). My undergraduate is in psychology and I worked in mental health facilities for several years. I've worked as a tech with many clients who t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 08:41 PM
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I mean in terms of pair bonding yes. I have found no information to the contrary. I do, of course, hope I'm missing something, though.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 07:28 PM
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Fair enough about TRP. Can't deny I'm still confused about why there isn't more discussion of after effects of abuse, though, considering many stats insist at least 1/4 children have been abused, large amounts of children are exposed to pornographic material before puberty, and lots of people are assaulted as teens and adults. Isn't TRP all about stats and accepting reality as it is??? Thank you, I am going to try and reframe my experiences. When I have brought things up in therapy there is ofte…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 06:55 PM
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Thank you, that makes sense. I do forget that I can be very nonchalant when I talk about it. I think this stems from the fact that my father was often deeply apologetic and insisted that everything that he did was wrong My mother, on the other hand, was very violent towards me over this and denied it until she passed. I've expressed feeling more hurt from my mother than my father because at the bare minimum he acknowledged he was making horrible choices. My mother threatened me horribly then den…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 06:46 PM
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Yes, you seem to understand. As for the shame part, I don't think society as a whole shames orgasm during rape, instead I think they just ignore it. And I do believe this happens because many individuals feel shame from either having experienced it or for being with a partner whose experienced. None of this has to with the morality or fairness on the victim, though. It's just the reality for many. That's why I mentioned it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 06:06 PM
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Thank you, I might just take the post down soon. I didn't realize how poorly people understood the human body at all parts of life. This is actually one of the reasons many child survivors do not talk about these things, because they are not allowed to discuss their actual physical feelings except in terms of pure horror and pain. Even if those do not feel like accurate descriptions. Biology is amoral. Child sex abuse is immoral. I never, ever condone child sex abuse. But I'm also not going to l…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 05:59 PM
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Perhaps I need to just edit my post. Though if I'm being honest it's starting to seem that most people in the red pill world don't understand what they're talking about in regards to pair bonding. Pair bonding takes place regardless of whether or not the sex is consensual. Regardless of age. So when I am talking outside of a red pill community, in a general conversation or on a general reddit thread, I never, NEVER include my father in n-count. Because he wasn't a choice. But pair bonding isn't …
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 05:47 PM
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Okay, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 04:11 PM
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Yes, I guess that is true. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 04:10 PM
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So is climaxing only emotional for women? Children's bodies definitely have orgasms. It happens frequently during assaults because it prevents injury. If sex results in no attachment for men and men do not have emotional attachment during sex, then don't I need to be honest with myself about what my body experienced when I was young? I lied to myself for a long time and insisted my body never experienced it, but it just made things more confusing.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 04:08 PM
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I mean he died when I was 5. I've just accepted the biology of what occurred between us. In terms of pair bonding, he was my first partner. In terms of choice he was not. For the longest time I never considered him in n-count, but in terms of my sexual experience, I think I have no choice but to include him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 04:06 PM
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Okay, that makes sense. Sounds effective. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 04:03 PM
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Red pill describes partners as pair bonding for women. I pair bonded with him. It wasn't my choice, but it's the reality. Sometimes it's this area of TRP theory that makes no sense to me. If a woman's worth is based on her ability to pair bond, then why is there no legitimate advice for how women to properly bond after having been assaulted?
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 04:02 PM
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Yes, you're exactly correct, but isn't this part of TRP theory? Men need sex, women need connection. I think it's wrong for me to deny a man sex if he's already had some level of investment in me. Isn't pushing any longer just manipulation? While I don't think TRP advocates for using children to fulfill a man's needs, from what I understand if a man's needs are not met he will turn to what is available. I don't like it but I don't like a lot of reality. As for the threesomes, I acknowledge that …
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 03:55 PM
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Thank you, that makes sense. At what point do you consider it generous interest in dating vs just one or two sexual encounters. I understand that sexual incompatibility is a real thing and I wouldn't want my partner to be unhappy. But I am hoping for a partner who can communicate with me instead of ghosting.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 03:48 PM
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I've seen a few therapists in the past, though typically got worse because I feel very minimized by them. I can try again and just be more clear about that. Are the red flags you're seeing how I chose partners, how quickly I moved, or how things ended? The first two I can work on changing-but right now I'm not sure how. The last- I can't control others' behavior, so I'm not sure how to have things end in a better way or not end at all.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 03:36 PM
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I'm 27 and these feelings are starting to kick in for me. I've always wanted to adopt and am perfectly fine if I can't birth any of my children. But the idea that I've somehow unintentionally robbed myself of the opportunity to give birth stresses me out at times. But again, unless a woman is really close to 40, I don't think panic is necessary or helpful. I did recently read a study somewhere that women in their mid thirties are more likely to carry multiples (naturally, not just from IVF). So …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 07:16 PM
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If you're focused strictly on reproduction, it is not the prime. But if you're also accounting for things that factor into survival after reproduction, I think it is around the prime I'm pretty sure the "best" biological age in terms of female fertility is late teens. The studies are hard to truly interpret because they often study people who are actively trying to conceive. Teenagers rarely are, but they definitely have high fertility. I think it would be a bit far fetched to categorize "prime"…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 06:10 PM
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I feel you...I've spent most of my twenties building self-sufficiency out of necessity, though I've always wanted to raise and homeschool kids with a like-minded husband. I get really depressed when I read/hear about how many HVM want a woman to bear them children, but he needs at least 2-3 years to date her, then 2 years or so of marriage before having kids....at that point time could be up! That being said, I do think there are men, especially men in their mid to late thirties, who have had en…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 05:54 PM
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