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| 7 | Guys aged 35-45... | latinhillbilly | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 12:56 AM |
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| 2 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.I'm with you, even in the last 12 months it's gone way downhill. Funny thing is all the wimmin say it's rubbish too. I wonder if they are telling the truth or really just banging a different guy every week lol | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 12:08 PM |
| 1 | What is the average male Tinder experience really?I'm late 30s. Roughly speaking the women fall into these categories: 1) horny dirty 30s women trying to go through as many guys as possible 2) damaged goods / unattractive women looking for a relationship or just attention 3) women assessing lots of possible options 4) new users who are trying it out 5) attention seeking man haters Only 1s and 4s are worth meeting, it's slim pickings. It's best to use in a new city where you can weed out one or two 1s from the 50 or so matches you get on day 1. | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Need helpBeing really active, starting new hobbies, getting plenty of exercise and fresh air, playing sport, these are the best ways to beat depression. | /r/seduction | 09/04/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars?Go up and ask him his name, then where he is from and that should be enough of a hint. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | HostelsYes, easy to kiss the girls etc, difficult to 'close' them in hostels. None of them want to be seen by all the other girls bed hopping lol | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 10:21 PM |
| 2 | in the past men didn't have to "learn game", nor do men anywhere outside the WestI still don't understand wtf 'incels' are lol | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 01:58 PM |
| 1 | in the past men didn't have to "learn game", nor do men anywhere outside the WestFair enough, let's hear what you think then? | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | in the past men didn't have to "learn game", nor do men anywhere outside the WestThe culture was to get married in your 20s and start a family back then. I'm sure there were lots of frustrated young men, they just didn't have the Internet to get together and discuss their plight anonymously. They probably got together in twos or small groups of close friends, did geeky hobbies and just slagged off everything in their little groups. | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | in the past men didn't have to "learn game", nor do men anywhere outside the WestThis is how it was in the late 90s / early 00s. | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | in the past men didn't have to "learn game", nor do men anywhere outside the WestLol, we did learn all the same things, just without the jargon. We used to say 'play it cool' and 'treat em mean keep em keen'. 'Game' was simply 'chatting up girls'or 'hitting on girls'. 'Nightgame' was 'going out on the pull' and there were TV programs and magazine articles that suggested 'daygame' or 'chatting up women in the supermarket' etc. Some people were always naturals (often guys with sisters were better around women). Some guys always took more care of their looks or had a good sense… | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you find out a woman's relationship status?Asking if they have a boyfriend is a really good upfront way of showing you are interested. It also gives them the opportunity to break off the encounter and prevents them using it as a blow off later down the line. What's the point in spending all night chatting a girl up and leaving her with the easy 'I've got a bf' line? | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Say yes to go for a drink but..Nightclubs are really good for dates. Learn to dance with women and they are the best places to take them. | /r/seduction | 25/03/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you all cope with the passivness of girls?Tinder seems to have replaced anonymous chat rooms and msn messenger as the place where guys go to jerk off and girls go to get jerked off over. Dance classes are a good place to meet women. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Tinder Scam: Watch OutIt's official then. Tinder is the new msn messenger. Full to the brim of guys wanking, girls looking for attention from them and blackmailers from the second world. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Just walked past a dance classThe women think a lot of the guys that dance are weird and only there to hit on the women. But as long as the guys can actually dance they'll still be super nice to them to attract dance invites and attention. A lot of the women that dance are 'weird' . They have a thing about guys that can dance and enjoy being led around the dance floor. They show up when they are single, and you hardly see them when they aren't. They say they are just there for dancing, but they aren't being honest with thems… | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 08:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I make the first move without being creepy when a girl invites me to her home?I'd have looked happy about being invited on the couch. Then said something like 'can we swap places, I'd be more comfy giving you a cuddle' or if you are already in the behind position 'it'd be more comfy if you let me give you a cuddle' etc. Girls like cuddles, they are always cuddling one another and it's not a big deal to them. But they take a guy they like wanting to cuddle them as an indication of attraction and that is a big deal. After 2 hours of cuddling she will be ready for a kiss. Sh… | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | what type of travel is best for game?Big cities in your own country where you speak the language and understand the dating culture. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Dancing Helps!The women are all super nice to the men at dancing, especially the married women, but don't read into it they want more than dance invites. The girls compete with one another for dance invites and attention. It's a fantastic way to meet women though. | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Had success with acting uninterested towards very attractive girlsOver a decade ago I got the opportunity to isolate a 9.5/10 (9.5 if you mark down for being under catwalk height) 21 yo in a hotel room while her 7 sister screwed another guy. I didn't hit on her at all because I didn't want to give her the pleasure of rejecting me. She jumped on me. But she only let me on for a minute before stopping me and saying she had a bf. Then spent the next 2 hours playing tease and denial and attention seeking games I refused to participate in all that much. She stormed… | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | I have problems getting past the 1st and 2nd dates, could anyone offer me some advice??If they want you turning them on should be easy. Maybe you come across as sexually unconfident and that turns them off. Pull some women you don't fancy much and experiment on them. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Approaching on the dancefloorWith a double spin. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Top 10 Easiest Countries to Get Laid - WikiSexGuideThe ones that go on those girly shagging holidays aren't usually that nice and if they are they are the sort that are into drug dealers. Try the big northern cities, Newcastle, Leeds, Manchester, Liverpool, Glasgow, Cardiff even. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else notices once you decide to stop chasing girls and truly have an abundance mindset your dick just has a gravatatioal pull?I used to get it on holiday all the time with my last gf. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 08:39 AM |
| 1 | [ Serious question ] How to break a dry spell in college?Girls have inhibitions, alcohol loosens them lol | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Girls keep going cold after first date. What an I doing wrong?We're these women online dates? Prospects from nightclubs? It happens all the time that women are open to screwing around and only looking for something more serious if they think you are well above their standard. So if all the women you are screwing dump you after one go they were probably after being picked up for easy sex and didn't think you were high status enough to persue for more. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Could use some help with oral sexThey are getting lazier in bed in general, another side effect of online dating? | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Could use some help with oral sexSit them up against the wall, straddle them and tell them to open wide. If they don't like being dominated they will let you know and you stop. | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Fear of being seen as a creep?You feel guilty for wanting to have sex? You feel a bad person for wanting something normal we all want? This is the underlaying issue, self esteem, you believe you are a 'bad' person. Partner dancing is a good hobby for building self esteem, maybe some of the other guys can recommend others? | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 07:55 AM |
| 0 | PLEASE HELP ME: Erectile Dysfunction while having sex with an Alpha FemaleAlways keep viagra on you. | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Girls keep going cold after first date. What an I doing wrong?Tinder? Loads of women are after one offs, always were. There's no great secret to it, it probably just means your game was good enough to f**k above your standards. | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 10:59 PM |
| 12 | Learn to stop caring too muchFfs we all f**k up and miss easy lays in hindsight lol | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Club/Dancefloor GameIf it is a massive club where you can keep changing locations just keep hitting on them. | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | What does grinding on a girl feel like in comparison to masturbation?Ffs | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Little bit of a situation, help???We're your earliest crushes and sexual experiences with guys that didn't want to know you or treated you like sh*t? This is where it comes from. This is why girls aren't into 'nice' men. From an early age you started associating sexual pleasure with neglect and abuse. | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | [ Serious question ] How to break a dry spell in college?Join the college salsa dance society? Or some other activities where women hang out? You in the USA? You guys have it so hard not being allowed into clubs until you are 21. When 18-20 yo US student women come backpacking in Europe over the summer we just have to play the fun, polite British gent and take them out of the hostel into the clubs and that was literally all it used to take. But you must be able to get your hands on some alcohol? Get them a little drunk, it helps! | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Top 10 Easiest Countries to Get Laid - WikiSexGuideUK women are the easiest in Europe surely? | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I’m 19. Why is it so hard?Some women like a little danger so making them a little nervous might be good. They should be a little nervous about a new partner really. If they are nervous you have to lead but also be patient with them and be prepared accept no as an answer and be cool with them not being ready for sex. I met a 16 yo online when I was 21, had her making out with me all night but refusing to go further. I took her for a game of pool and a drink and dropped her home. We made out in my car a bit more and then a… | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Setting a date 7 days in advance80% the women I date off of tinder have kids. 7 days notice is normal lol. If they flake they flake and probably 50% do, but 50% of the flakes come back and rearrange. They line up their options (different men, night out with the girls etc) and choose last minute. | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Guys aged 35-45...Male after females lol. Why wasn't that obvious? Has the world changed that much while I was away? | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Guys aged 35-45...I'm male interested in females lol. I can't believe the world has changed so much that wasn't obvious! | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Having trouble with the approach but I really shouldn't.I had a urika moment in 2002 my early 20s when I decided getting rejected on 'cold approach' (all this jargon didn't exist then) was no different from getting rejected in my shi**y telephone sales jobs. My 'abundance mentality' probably came from knowing I could bang as many '7s, 8s and 9s' (the rating system then was how many pints of beer you'd need to drink before doing her) at one of the many local knocking shops as my overdraft could take lol. | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone else notices once you decide to stop chasing girls and truly have an abundance mindset your dick just has a gravatatioal pull?When you are out with your gf loads of hot girls eye you up for a quick confidence boost when they manage to distract you from your bitch. They know you can't approach so it's 100% safe attention seeking. If you sit in exactly the same place on your own the next night none of the hot young women eye you up. | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys aged 35-45...Thanks. I've never done day gaming in my life. I just used to hit them hard and direct in the clubs, sometimes just ask if they had a bf, then if they said no start asking them for sex, they'd keep saying no of course but eventually they might meet me in the middle with a kiss and I'd try to escalate from there. I'm led to believe day game is much more subtle. It makes me feel so dishonest lol | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 10:32 AM |
| 2 | How to Dance With Girls | Dance Moves to Seduce GirlsHalf the women in nightclubs will fall flat on their face or into the person next to them attempting a spin. | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 12:41 AM |
| 5 | How to Dance With Girls | Dance Moves to Seduce GirlsSome women appreciate a guy who has the patience to just dance and feel the music without trying to grind up behind them, feel their butt or grab them by the hips like they're about to get humped. Standing face to face simply connect palm to palm with boths hands and communicate what you feel from the music through the connection. Some women are interested in how a guy interprets the music. A simple palm to palm connection is enough to do this. If you sense they want to get closer connect your l… | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 12:23 AM |
| 2 | My crush slept with my best friendGo out and screw some other women. Put your beer goggles on, turn off the light and screw a few below your standards if you have to. | /r/seduction | 06/03/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Too much ?It starts to wear off either in your 30s or when you settle on a steady gf. I'd advise trying to avoid having sexual conversations online as it will distract you from everything else you would be better off doing. The girls (and old gay guys pretending to be girls) will largely just milk you for attention. Best try to get out and about places where horny young women hang out and try to engage them in person with your innuendo and suggestions. | /r/seduction | 06/03/19 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Too much ?How old are you lol? | /r/seduction | 06/03/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | I think im in love with my best friend but she has a boyfriendJust screw her and walk away before she screws your head up. | /r/seduction | 06/03/19 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Are hobbies/interests that important?Join the dance society? | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 01:05 PM |
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