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| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADActual body count discussion. How hot would someone need to be that you’d overlook them being a murderer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLol, I like how “the rest of your life” category starts in your mid-20s. In urban areas, there are a lot of people single and dating through their 30s and beyond. A 40 year old is going to have a higher count than a 25 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHow do you think you are going to find her? All the virgin women I know are religious and are looking to get married young to a religious man who is also young and is a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 05:18 AM |
| 13 | There are rational reasons for working class men to dislike female empowerment; Women irrespective of their living conditions or ideology will always be hypergamous. There is no egalitarian utopia at the end of the female empowerment rainbow, just more male disposabilityI don’t think they want the man to be a stay-at-home. I think they want the man to do 50% of the housework and childcare, if they are both working full time. Share all the burden equally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Single men over 30 would you date women your age?Wait, I had no idea that cheating with a married woman was a common fetish for men. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 05:04 AM |
| – | CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women.A lot of the “adventurous” stuff physically hurts. The main complaint I hear from women about anal is that it hurts, either while they are doing it or the next day or the next time they use the bathroom. Choking is very dangerous and, while some women are into it, a lot of women are rightfully scared of it. A lot of porn actresses have physical problems from the rough stuff they put their bodies through, and yet women are considered vanilla if they are not interested in doing the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention?No one should ever be encouraged to consider getting fat, it’s a major public heath issue. And most of today’s makeup is not terrible for your skin, a lot of it contains SPF and is protective of your skin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention?Getting fat is terrible for your health. Not all women wear makeup, so I’m not sure why you assume that she does. And pretty women who don’t wear makeup still get attention from men. And women can wear makeup for other reasons… for example, attractive, “put together” people tend to be taken more seriously at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it considered cheating if there was never an explicit conversation about being exclusive/monogamous ?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:07 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menNo, in my experience, they are both unattractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:38 PM |
| – | If women are delusional about what they can get, as stated before, then what caused this to happen in the media?Yeah, I misread 5.9 feet as 5’9’’. I fixed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:39 PM |
| – | If women are delusional about what they can get, as stated before, then what caused this to happen in the media?People are calling you short at 6 feet? That’s just crazy. Is this in real life or just dating apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Would you say (especially in Gen z) most relationships start with sex first?Is this a Gen Z thing, or just a college kid thing? I think young people have been doing this for the last couple generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:04 PM |
| – | If women are delusional about what they can get, as stated before, then what caused this to happen in the media?Edited: For fellow Americans: it’s 5’11’’. Which is not short by any stretch of the imagination. Something’s not right here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, in my hypothetical, the man gave the impression of having a decent personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGirl meets a guy that seems nice but she isn’t sexually attracted to him because he isn’t good looking enough. Girl’s friends tell her to give him a chance because looks aren’t everything and he seems nice and would probably make a good boyfriend. She feels like a bitch for rejecting a nice guy just due to his looks so she gives him a chance. He turns out to not actually be that nice. Now girl is mad she bothered with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How would you describe “lady game”?Tell that to 90% of the men on this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 12:45 AM |
| 8 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Nah, it’s not that black and white. I’ve never known a woman that was attractive and sane that couldn’t get a serious relationship, regardless of whether she had a few hookups in college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 10:11 PM |
| 9 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"This seems like an argument for women to not have casual sex with unattractive men, even if they seem like good guys. They could just be lying about being good guys, to get sex. But Chad can’t lie about being hot. You know if you sleep with him you are going the benefit of sex with a hot guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 09:57 PM |
| 8 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"He is better, though. He is more attractive. When it comes to dating, women treat hot guys better than non-hot guys, and men treat hot women better than non-hot women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Are relationship worth it?And you are ok knowing that she is sleeping with other men? Maybe you see her every Tuesday and she has other men she sleeps with on Thursday and Saturday? A lot of men would have an issue with this. But if you are OK with it, go do what you want if you can find someone you like that will agree with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Are relationship worth it?A big benefit is monogamy. FWBs are just friends, they aren’t exclusive. Are you ok with the girl sleeping with other men? Are you ok always worrying about STDs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:44 AM |
| 1 | (Re-upload) What do y'all think of this excerpt about radicalisation in the manosphere?The BMI scales that I’ve seen put 145 lbs as normal range for 5’4”, so that lady would only be 5 lbs overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:04 AM |
| 6 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?The last point is interesting. Amongst my female friends, the boyfriends/husbands that turned out to be abusive were all some level of hobosexuals. A guy with very little going on in the career department (or any department) latching on to a woman that was inexperienced, maternal, desperate for love and drawn to fixer uppers. All parties involved were unattractive, so this wasn’t a “hot bad boy” thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 10:41 PM |
| 8 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?Additionally, income-based welfare programs have enabled single motherhood to be financially possible. In the US, these programs started in the 1960s with LBJ’s “war on poverty”. The pill was also invented in the 1960s. So, this is probably an example of correlation but not causation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.Andrew Tate lost a Twitter feud with an autistic teenager | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:17 PM |
| 6 | The persistent myth of the "second shift"The complaining about the second shift happens in the marriages where the man and woman both work full time jobs but the woman does more housework and childcare. It doesn’t apply to marriages where the woman only works part-time, or is a SAHM. So, national averages about women’s employment hours aren’t really helpful. The part-time working women and the SAHMs probably aren’t getting divorced due to second shift complaints, but they are skewing the working hours averages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:42 PM |
| 6 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024It seems that a lot of the comments under this are confusing “initiating” with “chasing”. If a man wants to be successful, he will probably need to initiate. Initiating means starting the conversation, asking the woman out for a date. Even though the man is initiating, the woman should still be showing interest back. Spending time together shouldn’t seem difficult. Chasing is running after someone that isn’t interested, jumping through stupid hoops, trying to get someone’s attention by wearing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do fathers react so differently to the idea of their daughters dating?But I’ve heard that Gen Z is having less sex than Millennials and Gen X did in their youth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 07:51 PM |
| 5 | What are some examples of Blue Pill Media that lied to you about women?I assumed they started making movies like this to appeal to the average male viewer. Jonah Hill getting Emma Stone at the end of Superbad, Seth Rogan ending up with Katherine Heigl in Knocked Up… these aren’t women’s fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 03:37 AM |
| 4 | What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex?She’s still in love with Tommy Lee, her ex-husband that physically abused her. She also has very little money left from her period of peak fame. She seems like a lovely woman, but I wouldn’t want my daughter to have a personal life like hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:30 PM |
| 8 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADActually, they aren’t popular with voters, they were old laws that were triggered by Roe v Wade being overturned. Every state, even red states, that’s had a pro-choice initiative on the ballot, that initiative has passed. Feminists were the people who organized to get those pro-choice initiatives on the ballot. So, that’s what feminism is supposed to be about. Political and social action to benefit women on issues that disproportionately affect women. There are still more states to go, at this p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 09:22 PM |
| 8 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADA lot of Redditors live in the US. This automatic additional GPA point system doesn’t occur in US universities. Meanwhile, US doesn’t have guaranteed maternity leave. Abortion just became illegal in a bunch of states, so now there are cases of women being forced to carry, and have c-sections to deliver, dead babies, or having to flee the state to terminate a pregnancy caused by rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUh, people’s appearance can change a lot between middle school (age 12-14) and adulthood. Most middle schoolers look like gremlins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:34 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol, China moderates their internet for political reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Is “That’s just the way it is” a more valid answer than we’d like it to be?Hair and makeup takes time if you want to look super glam. Some of us overplucked our eyebrows when thin eyebrows were the style and now they don’t grow back (repeated plucking can kill the root) so we have to fill them in to match the current style. Yes, eyebrows trends are stupid. Some women don’t like pads because they feel like wearing a diaper and can bunch up when you walk and then leak over the sides. But if your flow is light, pads might be better for you because even a small tampon migh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Is “That’s just the way it is” a more valid answer than we’d like it to be?Wait, am I the only one not wrapping toilet paper around my fingers? You mean like a mummy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 10:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh, I love Megan Thee Stallion gossip. Where did you learn about this? More details? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 03:58 AM |
| 2 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesWhy do you think this is? Do these women have other relationships going on? Do you guys not have much in common to talk about but you are really good looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incelsGenerally, it’s a red flag if someone is on one of the extreme ends of the behavior spectrum. Regardless of whether you are male or female, it’s weird if you are 30 years old and an anti-social virgin, and it’s also weird if you are 30 years old and have over 200 bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 07:55 PM |
| 32 | Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it.Yeah, heavy makeup doesn’t show up in photos like it does in real life. You can completely paint a new face on someone and it will look fine in a photo, but if you saw this person in real life you would definitely know they were wearing a ton of makeup, so it wouldn’t be “cheating”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 07:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt looks like she’s purposely making weird facial expressions, so it’s hard to tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 05:14 PM |
| 8 | What icks/turn offs do you have for womenWhy don’t men on this sub like women who like to travel? Traveling is fun. A lot of men and couples enjoy traveling, too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:06 PM |
| 9 | Women criticise men for having reasonable boundariesIf she was just a hookup, and not a girlfriend, then it makes sense why she wants to appear single… because she is single, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Technology killed regular socialization and that’s why dating is so hard now.Are suburban teens not getting crappy used cars when they turn 16 anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 03:30 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadKids can be potty trained but still occasionally have accidents at that age, especially if it’s their first day in an unfamiliar and exciting environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Why do you think she’s crazy? She said it might be a possibility once she has time to get to know you. That’s just a woman who is interested in dating you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 11:17 PM |
| 10 | Men don’t actually like “good” womenThey are saying that only desperate men think a woman being skinny is sufficient for being found attractive, regardless of her other attributes. A man with options isn’t dating a skinny woman with an ugly face or bad hygiene or gross personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.I know many people that have gained a significant amount of weight since they got married, and they can’t figure out why their partner’s sexual attraction to them has diminished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:34 AM |
| 3 | The “Higher-Testosterone Men Like Thicker Women” meme is based on literally nothingIt’s frustrating having these conversations online because many people put all women that aren’t zero body fat into one “normal/curvy/thicc/plump/kinda overweight/morbidly obese” category. There is a huge difference between a woman with an hourglass figure in normal-range BMI, and a woman who is obese, but people will call them both curvy or thicc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 06:00 PM |
| 52 | Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GFGirls trips and girls night out isn’t just singles activity. It is healthy for women to occasionally socialize just with other women. It is also healthy for men to socialize with other men. Married people do these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 07:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFox Robinhood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 03:01 AM |
| 7 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?The definition of feminism is all over the place and there are different types of feminism (liberal versus radical, four different waves). Feminist communities will get in debates with each other over what is feminist and what is not. On a basic level, it is about things like equal legal rights for women, calling out implicit biases that prevent women from being equal in the workplace, and addressing “women’s issues” such as (in USA) lack of maternity leave, repeal of Roe, etc. I don’t think you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 06:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf the woman can’t take birth control due to side effects, the couple doesn’t want kids right now but wants them in the future, and they aren’t allergic to latex, then they are going to probably going to use condoms. You wanted to know why a married couple might use condoms. There’s your answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 03:17 AM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMy favorite trend was in the late 90s when you were expected to be super thin but also have big boobs 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 03:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome women get bad side effects from birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 02:59 AM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI hate these charts. Once you get to 6.5, it’s all the same to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 05:33 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere are so many different terms these days. It used to be “one night stand” or “girlfriend/boyfriend”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 05:23 AM |
| 4 | The wall does exist but there are misconceptionsThat’s not true at all. A lot of people in their 30s find people in their 20s very annoying and would rather have a relationship with an attractive person in their own age range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 11:26 PM |
| 8 | The wall does exist but there are misconceptionsAlso, I’ve read that when people get married young, they are more likely to divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Being monogamous and wanting children should guarantee every man getting a female partner. Our current dating environment is just an anomaly before population collapse.No, not today. But, historically it did. Prior to the 20th Century, men and women had about the same life expectancy. When medical science developments in the 20th Century made childbirth much safer, women’s life expectancy began to exceed men’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 07:07 AM |
| 5 | Do you think you would exist if your parents had to endure modern dating?Same here! Also, I think that the average young adult in generations past was better socialized and less likely to be obese than young adults today. They’d probably be very successful if dropped into today’s dating scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 02:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow do the Insta models make money? Are they also escorts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on “the wall” and beyondWhat are wife goggles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 08:51 PM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYeah, the girls I know that are very low n-count have kept their n-count low by sticking with the same guy for years, even though they should have broken up with him after a few months due to his bad behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Men don't hate promiscuous womenThey will say that a woman with an n-count higher than 3, regardless of her age, is not suitable for a relationship. And then they cite data about sex workers as support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat if they tell you the behavior was due to depression | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:58 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHonest question: If they said they went through a hoe phase because they were lonely/horny but didn’t want, or couldn’t have, a relationship for whatever reason (maybe too busy with work) would you have more, less, or the same amount of respect for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:55 PM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLet’s say she started at age 16. That’s 15 years of activity, so an average of a little over 2 guys a year. That’s higher than average, but not crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDoesn’t she hang around professional athletes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:04 PM |
| 3 | If you want to avoid raising kids who have an absent father, here are the sorts of guys you should avoidThis factoid was confusing. If they get married to you, then they are no longer “never married”. It makes sense for women to only have babies with men that are married to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:03 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWait, mistakes as a “kid”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Muscle is cheap, and in 2023 women value genuinely rare immutable traits, such as height and faceInteresting! Do men push themselves to go from 15% to 7.5% because they think women will like it more, or because they enjoy it? I think all the pics look great, except “skinny fat”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Muscle is cheap, and in 2023 women value genuinely rare immutable traits, such as height and faceYeah, I don’t think it’s helpful when women say “We don’t like muscles, we just like a man who is fit” if they are talking about as man that looks like Ronaldo. The average man should go to the gym and lift, and not worry that he’s going to look too muscular for women. It would probably take a ton of work, and a ton of roids, to get unattractively muscular. Also, it’s good for your health to be in shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Muscle is cheap, and in 2023 women value genuinely rare immutable traits, such as height and faceIf this sub is going to have multiple debates about this topic, I think we need to define “muscles”. I think Ronaldo looks very muscular in that picture and I bet it would take a man a lot of work to get like that. “Muscular” seems to be like “average” or “curvy”… it means different things to different people. I do agree that the roidy “body builder” look isn’t good, but that’s not what I mean when I say I like a man with muscles. Just like most men probably aren’t talking about an extreme BBL d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Do you have any luck with older women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 02:30 AM |
| 15 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Yeah, if you observe the real world around you, you would see that the good looking men get more attention from women. However, back in the 80s to 00s, there were a lot of movies that showed nice but mediocre male protagonists getting the beautiful girl in the end as part of his everyman-hero’s journey. I think these movies messed up people’s expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Beggars can’t be choosersWhere do you live? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:09 PM |
| – | CMV People that dont have real life Experience/functioning Social Life should not talk about Dating Strategy, it is just annoying how deluded those takes are.Is that because his followers try to hook up with him? Or because when a woman sees his follower count, she becomes more attracted to him? Also, what are average looking guys doing on Instagram that gets them 50k followers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?Is this sub supposed to just be for men? I thought it was a debate sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:25 AM |
| -1 | Reroll your character. Which sex and orientation would you roll to live on easy mode?I’m sorry to hear that. Why do you think this is? Does being sexually assaulted young cause bisexuality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:10 AM |
| 0 | The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people"Well, for starters, a respectful debate usually requires people to focus on the issue being discussed and to avoid personal attacks. No yelling. Of course, you can have a respectful debate with someone and still decide you are incompatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 06:20 AM |
| 3 | The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people"I think a big part of dating is finding someone you are compatible with. People with completely different views on important issues probably won’t be compatible. You see it on the relationships subs: people get married, have kids and then get into big arguments about vaccinating them. People have unplanned pregnancy and then realize one of them is pro-choice and one of them is pro-life. Better to figure these things out early and stick to people with similar values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 11:40 PM |
| 5 | The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people"If I’m on a date with a guy and he wants to have a respectful discussion about a political issue, that’s not necessarily a problem. But if he reveals himself to be anti-vax, or climate change denier, or pro-Putin, etc., then there isn’t going to be a second date because we just aren’t compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 06:18 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLet’s hear some details. What could be that bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 03:40 PM |
| 9 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThey probably never think of him, but he believes he has destroyed their, and their husbands’, future happiness with his dick, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 04:24 AM |
| 7 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou must think you are really important if you think a woman isn’t deserving of marriage just because she’s slept with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:59 AM |
| – | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allThis is because dating/romance/sex is very different for women than it is for men. Instead of both genders accepting that, they assume the opposite gender has the same wiring as they do, and get into arguments about who’s life is more difficult. It’s the same arguments over and over, and I would be shocked if any of them result in improving anyone’s love life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Harshest truths that are very hard to swallow about datingI think it can depend on your cultural and socio-economic group. Highly educated urban professionals tend to settle down later. 30 is definitely not too old to still be dating amongst professionals in major cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Harshest truths that are very hard to swallow about datingLol, there are plenty of women who meet their husbands after age 30. 30 is not old if you take care of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Friendzone is indeed real, but it's not as you think it isOP can only speak for herself. I’m a woman and definitely have developed crushes on friends. OP had one experience and has over generalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:56 PM |
| 7 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsTwo theories: 1. The unattractive guys had to take what they could get, so would be more likely to settle and enter relationships with women they didn’t love, and this lack of love came out eventually. Whereas, if you are in a relationship with a man that has options, then there is a good chance he chooses to be with you because he thinks you are special. If he didn’t like your personality, he’d just try another option. 2. In my case, the unattractive men were unattractive mostly due to weight (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 11:06 PM |
| 7 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsI’ve dated down and the guys treated me poorly. My happiest relationships were with my looks-matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsI’ve read on the gossip sites that, unlike a lot of theater men, he wasn’t know for being a cheater and he didn’t have bad rumors about him. The Ariana thing came as a shock. But she is a super star and seems to have a thing for men already in relationships, so maybe it was a completely new level of opportunity and attention for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 08:55 PM |
| 10 | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"There are men that expect women to have casual sex and pay 50/50. But once in a serious relationship, they will leave most of the housework, childcare and other family/home responsibilities to the woman even though they both have full time jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | The best option for men who aren't top tier for casual sex are late 30's to early 40's womenYou can’t use the entire US population when you are calculating the percentage. That will include people you would never encounter while dating: children, people who aren’t sexual active, people who are in monogamous relationships, etc. You need to figure out the number of Americans that are out getting sexually involved with new partners. This is a smaller pool, so the risk is higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?He actually cheated on his wife with his nurse! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:04 PM |
| 14 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?FYI, stating a cup size is useless without stating the band size. A 38B is more similar to a 34D than it is to a 34B. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships?I assumed these movie plots happened because most writers are male nerds and this is their fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 04:48 AM |
| 3 | How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you?Wow, your last paragraph is so true. And it doesn’t just apply to looks and sexual attraction, it can apply to any way that someone feels they have “settled”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause now they are 30, and when they meet a 20 year old, that 20 year old seems like a kid and they can’t imagine dating them. Then they think back to that relationship and wonder how the 30 year old boyfriend didn’t feel like he was dating a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:15 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you’ve been there before, you could say “I recommend [name of Expensive Dish].” Or, you could tell her “I’m planning to order [name of Expensive Dish].” Then she’ll know you are fine paying for an expensive dish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:51 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think it’s really weird. Why would a guy want to do that? Wouldn’t he want her to order something she will enjoy eating (and not possibly give her an allergic reaction or upset tummy)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:50 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, I agree, but unfortunately there are a lot of bad partners out there. My advice would be to communicate with them, and, if that doesn’t work, then break up with them and move on. Of course, if you are married with kids this complicates things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou assume that her partner is willing to do those things, but that’s not always the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, it’s a great way to get sales people to leave you alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:36 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: an enthusiastic 3 or a starfish 10?Yeah, the PPD numbering system confuses me. When rating people, are we looking at every person in the world? Or just people in our selected age range on OLD? Because if it’s the former, a 3 would probably be an overweight grandma that smokes a pack a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:47 PM |
| 2 | If men and women had the same sexuality, the dating market would be very differentIf you have to masturbate to make yourself cum during sex with a partner, you may as well masturbate alone and save yourself the STD risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.Similarly, women raised on Sex and the City are surprised to realize their grandma’s advice about men was right all along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you prefer to be a man instead of a woman?I think that being a woman is a huge part of who I am, so, in order to be a man, my brain would have to change significantly, and then I wouldn’t be myself anymore. So, it’s not something I can comfortably imagine. I think there are probably pros and cons to being a man versus a woman. But if someone asks me “would you rather be a man?” I would say “No” because it would be such a huge change, and I enjoy being who I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 05:48 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, I just read that and thought “I’ve read all of these comments before on the PPD sub.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.Lol, imagine bringing someone around to your parents, living with them, giving them access to your bank account, and being like “we aren’t serious”. I know people who are married that have separate bank accounts! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 04:50 PM |
| 10 | Straight Women: Is an unattractive man or an attractive woman preferable to you? (Please read post)I think you are probably right. I’m not disgusted by lesbianism, it’s just not my thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 06:47 PM |
| 20 | Straight Women: Is an unattractive man or an attractive woman preferable to you? (Please read post)2, the woman. I’m a straight woman. Reasoning: Option 1 is disgusting, whereas Option 2 may not be arousing but at least is not disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 06:26 PM |
| 1 | What % of women actually go through a “hoe phase”That’s the definition of serial monogamy. You have a relationship for a couple years, break up, have another relationship for a couple years, repeat, repeat. A “series” of monogamous relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 06:00 PM |
| 11 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?In the US, where most states don’t have mandated paid sick or maternity leave, and FMLA only applies to half of employers, if a woman’s pregnancy goes bad she may completely lose her job. I had a bad pregnancy and had to spend months in the hospital and I thanked God that my husband made enough to cover all our necessary expenses. Even if a pregnancy goes normally, having to work while dealing with morning sickness sucks, having to turn over a newborn baby to a daycare center because you don’t h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 05:29 PM |
| 12 | Why some women struggle to keep a relationship going?It’s probably different reasons for different women. For example, this generation is very mobile and attains a lot of higher education. If a woman grows up in one place, goes to college in another, gets a job in another, goes to grad school in another, and starts her career in another… and the men her age of her social class are doing the same… then most of her relationships will probably break up due to distance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 05:13 AM |
| -2 | Men who consider themselves ugly: Have you have luck with unattractive women?If you are in good shape and 5’8”, why are you only a 4/10? Is there something particular about your face that you could get plastic surgery to fix? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 05:07 AM |
| 3 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadShe’d be a legend. I’d pay to learn her ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 07:18 AM |
| 0 | The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea.I am a woman that did this. Worked out great! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Everyone man should make a dating profile as a moderately attractive Woman and see how you feel. You can see how desperate some men seem..Out of curiosity, can you give an example of a female 6/10? Maybe an actress? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Discussion : My theory as to why dating on apps is so hardIf you change her comment from talking about “leagues” to just talking about attractiveness, her point still stands. Her long term match was more attractive than the guys that just wanted to pump and dump, so the lesson she learned was that she might as well go for attractive guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:22 PM |
| 3 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadShouldn’t it depend on the age of the person? I would think a 30 year old that has been with 8 people is very different than an 18 year old that has been with 8 people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:11 PM |
| 3 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?“Radical feminism” is the other major type of feminism and it’s quite different than “liberal feminism” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Women who claim men left them after sex are just shifting blame to menWhat were some of the reasons? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of PennsylvaniaIt makes sense, for both men and women. If you are in your early 20s and not successful yet, still just trying to figure it out, that’s normal. But if you are 35 and don’t yet have a decent job and a savings account, this is a red flag. What have you been up to? Are you incapable of making decent life choices? This study doesn’t tell me that men expect an extra $7k of compensation to date an older women. It tells me that people judge other people based on what are normal achievements for their a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 11:34 PM |
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