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RELATIONSHIPSlauraisconfused/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 10:55 AM
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Neither of those men are right for you, in my opinion. And you're not right for either of them I think. It's tough but this is a terrible foundation to build a long lasting relationship on, with either of them. There will be trust issues and always a nagging 'what if' in you. good luck
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 08:48 AM
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It does require a lot of faith, but I have a lot of faith in him! thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 05:45 AM
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thank you very much ♥️ it helps a lot
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 05:41 AM
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oh my God the meme 😂 too real. So, I have discussed things with him, and he read this comment and agrees with you (and so do I). We had a lovely day today, after a terrible fight yesterday over this) and I have decided to let his business be his business. If it becomes a problem, I will feel it, I don't need to keep tabs, that's not productive. I trust him and I have trust in our relationship so I think it's time to put it to bed. We discussed things thoroughly so it's time to drop it. You can t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 05:31 AM
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I agree with everything you said, everything. except, before he got the VR, he would just use his phone, his laptop is in the living room so he could also use that. I just don't get why he needs immersive 3D porn. he did say he is bored of regular porn, and that this is new and interesting, which also eats at me, because I will never be new and interesting to him ever again. Sometimes I just wonder if Im not cut out for relationships, I don't think small things like this are supposed to hurt lik…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 07:51 PM
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Wow, thank you so much for this. This is genuinely the most helpful advice I have ever received on reddit. -VR shuts out the rest of the world, including you yes. yes. yes. I haven't been able to verbalise or make sense of these feelings and what I should do about them. I tried to have another conversation with him, but we hit a brick wall. I will take everything you said into consideration and try to get through these horrible feelings. yeah, I cannot explain how grateful I am genuinely, thank …
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 07:08 PM
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Its a mix between experiencing how realistic it is. it genuinely feels like the person is right there in front of you, the only sensation missing is touch. everything else is eerily real, I guess it feels unfaithful. though I don't know if that's my brain sabotaging me, or if there is something wrong here. I think it's important to note, he said he would be uncomfortable with me consuming the same porn in reverse.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 04:47 PM
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Maybe instead of thinking about what you want in a man, you concetrate on what you can offer a man. That way, when you meet a hmv you want, he might want you back
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 02:14 PM
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What is the point of all this back on forth on all sides? The way they talk it's like women are a cult you should be religious to, seeing flaws in them is blasphemy it's so confusing. Calling someone a pick me is just a way to invalidate everything the other person is saying, so that you can insult them and ignore the root of the problem. Its the most frustrating thing to see humans (including both feminism AND red pill associated) be so primal, both sides are infested with ingroup favouritism. …
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/20 06:57 AM
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Honestly she probably should be reasonable if it's innocent but also she probably has some insecurity about you for some reason out of your control. I would just be cordial you don't wanna get mixed in the possible drama that could ensue. coming from personal experience, if she doesn't like you in relation to her husband it won't change, even if rationally it should
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 11:17 PM
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that's very interesting I've never heard that! could you give me a link so I can do more research?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 06:22 PM
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oof haha, I can certainly agree though
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 12:03 PM
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I second this, my boyfriend will never marry me and that's because of his red pill influence, can't say I blame him. it's funny how directly contradictory RPW and male red pill are on marriage
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 11:24 AM
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Honestly if you cook every day I see this as a win lol, don't cook 1 night a week.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/20 06:21 AM
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I think many women lack the self awareness of their feelings dictating their decisions. in the few relationships I've had I would feel so hot and cold and act accordingly. You need to realise that you need to work against yourself sometimes in your best interests. I think there's no healthy discussion around this topic and the red pill has made it very difficult for women to understand when the evidence is taken into extremism and from a really bitter place. (some guys have been really burned so…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 08:06 PM
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they say that women 'decide' in relationships, marriage and having children. Women tend to be very focused on whether the man can provide stability enough for the relationship to last the long haul while raising children and growing old, so theoretically it should be beneficial to the human race but not when it comes down to emotion. I'm honestly still trying to understand my gender/myself and why tf we do certain things, but optimistically the difference between a 'good' woman and a 'bad' one i…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:06 PM
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no no, you think you're bring unreasonable but he told you to put your clothes back on. you don't want to be in a relationship with this hanging over it. if he is so immature he can't handle some lovely not so 'perky 18 year old' breasts then that's on him. dump, it will not only taint your sex life with him, but you deserve better. ALSO I have personal experience with my boyfriend making comments about how 'attractive' I am to him (he called me a 4.5/10 when we first started dating. I decided t…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 05:18 AM
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it's even better when it comes outta the mouth of someone u love :) 'WoMen cAnt LovE UncOndItiONalLY' 'yOuRe juST waITinG tO BraNcH sWiNg' it sucks 😍
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 09:54 AM
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which is exactly why she should avoid introducing her man to rp. he will likely take on a 'captain' role naturally. he doesn't need to start digging into toxic rp forums which veer into mgtow territory.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 04:53 PM
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I definitely don't consider myself to be a feminist. But I only say that because modern feminism has swung so far left to a point to extremism that I can't identify with the word anymore, and I would be frankly embarrassed to call myself one. I agree with all your points though, in that the point of feminism was to encourage women to seek whatever path in life they want. I think the original intent of the movement was valid and needed. What confuses me now, is a few questions I would have for fe…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 04:50 PM
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I was just expressing a strong negative emotion I have towards rpm (stemming from negative experience with a partner), after you said its not all bad I agreed, and said I just hate when it gets extreme. seems specific enough for a reddit comment lol.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 04:37 PM
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I know, rpw has its roots in it. Its just when views get extreme like every other (political) ideology is when it becomes harmful
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 04:16 PM
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god I hate the red pill men ideology 😵
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 12:53 PM
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I could be biased but I have some bad experiences with men who get deep into red pill. RPW is tame but.it goes much deeper and it can ruin relationships imo. it can go from traditional values to hypergamy to women can't feel love pretty quickly and you don't want that. just keep doing what you're doing and keep him out of RP. that's just my experience though 🥺 also I don't share with friends or family bc they are liberal & it's a liberal world out there lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 12:46 PM
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this is nice to read, just make sure you keep RPW to yourself :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 12:25 PM
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please don't do that, it can only go badly
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/20 09:37 AM
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Creepy implies threatening. It's definitely true that women will find something an unattractive man does creepy, where the same word or action from an attractive man would be perceived differently. However this is a human trait, not a female trait. An unattractive woman would be perceived differently than an attractive woman by men, though their words/ actions may be equally unnerving. It's just unlikely a man would perceive her as 'creepy', since creepy implies threatening and men are rarely th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 03:30 PM
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Sounds like he's confident bc he puts other people down to make himself feel good
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 11:41 AM
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I have so been there. Of course he has amazing attributes or you wouldn't be with him! And you can't sum a person into a single post like this. There are bad things about me that would make me look terrible if I didn't have good things to balance them. It really just depends on if that balance is there? Is the good enough to outweigh the bad? And more importantly is this something you can discuss/resolve. If it's an innate personality trait that won't change, no matter what, then it a problem. W…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 06:01 AM
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The minute a guy starts telling you he can fuck as many women as he wants and you're not special or important it's time to run. This is manipulative as fuck, and it's a red pill tactic to beat you down and make you feel like he can do so much better than you/you're not worthy. This is a sure fire way to make a woman act the way he wants you to. The more insecure and sad you are, the more desperately you try to please him. If you're so unworthy then why is he still with you? Always remember that.…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 04:37 AM
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