laurasunshinegal Archive

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22	told friends I never say no to sex i love the positivity of this post... it is marriage-positive, sex-positive, body positive! it sounds like it has led to him reciprocating, both sexually and in terms of the over all rapport that you have in your marriage. i very much respond to your statement that he made the choice to marry, to choose... and it is beautiful that you are affirming that. way to go!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/23 11:15 PM
-3	As RPW, what are your opinions on age gap relationships? First and foremost, I think the stigma is coming from people who don't understand some of the natural forces at work... and also coming from people who can't leave well enough alone. If there is a loving spark and it happens with an age gap, I think there is a lot of beautiful potential there. The gap can play to strengths of both the man and the woman... so if the strengths build on the spark, then a beautiful relationship is building!	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/23 05:06 PM
2	Gratitude: What are you thankful for? i have a lot to be thankful for, but i would like to highlight that i am thankful for my stepson. though he can give me a run for my money as a teen now, he also made it possible for me to be a (step)mom from the moment i married my husband, his father. i feel grateful that i can be a positive female presence in his life, and he's made me a better mom for his siblings, the two children i have had with his father. even the tough times with him are a reminder that i am a wife, i am a mom, and i ca…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/21 02:57 AM
17	What women bring to relationship? The answer. this is so beautifully stated! thank you for capturing such a wonderful truth!	/r/RedPillWomen	12/12/21 03:45 PM
1	Great site which help cultivating "Feminine Arts" oh my goodness... her luxurious description of how to condition hair was amazing by itself! thank you for sharing this!!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/21 01:21 AM
8	How do you find good therapy as a woman with traditional values? i absolutely know where you are coming from, especially when it comes to not getting along with my father. i have tried a few therapists over the years and have definitely come across mindsets that have been too feminist and too willing to blame others. obviously this can all depend person to person, but i would start your therapist search in looking for a male who is on the older side. it's a bonus if he's maintained the same path in life for a while, whether that is staying married or even sta…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/10/21 04:42 PM
3	Housewives/SAHM, do you handle your family's finances? i am a SAHM, and in my marriage, part of that is handling the bills. we keep the lines of communication open, of course... after all, my husband is the breadwinner! me taking a role in the day to day expenses, as well as the monthy bills, is part of how i contribute to the team that is our household.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/10/21 01:26 AM
9	Was I right to intervene or should I have STFU my heart goes out to you in this complex situation. i certainly agree with the other replies: ultimately your kids need to see a consistent and unified front from both parents. it can be a learning process to get there, and that is a common ground that you and your husband need to discuss and finalize. i also agree with the statement that mistakes can be made by either parent. it is understandable (though maybe not "okay") to be a parent who loses his or her temper now and then. kids are wonderf…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/21 08:59 PM
6	how much of an age gap is too much? 9 years sounds just about right to me--though it just so happens to be the same age gap between me and my husband! for us, it absolutely works as a couple, as parents, and so forth. i would just add this: while that age different might bring different perspectives in life, what is truly number one is the connection that your relationship has. let that be your guide, and everything else will follow!	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 07:37 PM
2	Thoughts on living together before marriage? thank you! it also had the added bonus of making all parties happy! my (future) husband was eager for me to move in as soon as possible, and this is something that my family wasn't crazy about. moving in slowly and "part time" was practical and it worked for everyone.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/21 12:49 PM
4	Thoughts on living together before marriage? i was in a similar boat--slowly moving in about six weeks before the wedding, with overnights on the weekends. i feel good that i was able to "fade in" to cohabitation and the least glamorous parts (who takes the garbage out? who scrubs the toilet?). still, making it "official" as me moving in after the wedding kept a little of that sense of me turning to a new chapter in my life.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/21 11:52 AM
1	Back to Basics September: the Essential Duties of the First Mate this was (i think) the first post that i read when i first got here, and it has continued to resonate with me in the last week or so! thank you so much for such concise and clear wisdom! it was affirming to me at some points, and a source of great reminders or new perspectives on other points. thanks to all for helping this first mate support her captain and make everything that much better for the crew and the ship! :-P	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/21 12:20 PM
1	Letting him lead: birthday edition i very much agree with this. it's okay to feel disappointed by his mistake, but it is also part of the learning process.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/21 12:15 PM
5	Back to Basics September: Love Goggles i have thought back several times to this post since reading it yesterday. it is a great remind for me to continue to cherish the way my husband sees me, and for me to do what i can to "out perform" those love goggles. thanks to all for the affirmation... i'm a newbie, and i love it here!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/09/21 08:24 PM
2	Responding gracefully to conviction from men this is a behavior that used to be all too common with me. i think it was a result of growing up in a sort of "sink or swim" environment! however in terms of strategies to remaining calm, it really is all about being the bigger person, about taking a breath and reminding yourself why respect must be maintained.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/21 08:52 PM
1	Back to Basics September: the Essential Duties of the First Mate these are some great reminders! some are already on my to-do list, and others i need to work into things asap. i LOVE the whole captain/first mate metaphor!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/21 03:25 PM