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"This is my cross to bear as a helpful person". They can't possibly be so dumb and entitled, can they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 11:50 AM
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I'd quote the whole comment if I could! I agree on every word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:30 AM
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Most of them are not even attractive 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:49 PM
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Does anybody have suggestions on books/articles/resources by these voices? By non-western women who have not been given the platforms others were, for example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:09 AM
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At first I thought a man had written this and.. whew, was that a rollercoaster. Don't make your own money but make your own money, be high maintenance but I don't want to maintain you, dress sexy but don't dress sexy, want to get married but don't want to get married, want children but don't want children, wax on wax off, turn on turn off my head was spinning 🥴😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:25 AM
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This is actually sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:02 PM
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It reminds me of a tweet from some years ago that said something along the lines of I've read many "Men get raped too, you know?" under some tweets recently and I want to say: yes, they do. They do, and it's a very serious problem. But if you only want to talk about it when women are discussing THEIR problems, then you don't really care about men getting raped, you just want to talk over women. It's stuck with me ever since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:06 PM
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Hi, thank you so much for this comment, it just taught me I do have, in fact, vaginismus, apparently.... Thank you, now I know it has a name. I'll search more on this. Thank you so much. And yes, I usually do "tease" it quite a bit, before. But it still contracts.. that's why I ended up coming up with that "trick".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:14 AM
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Oh same here! It hurts me too, unfortunately, every single time, no matter the size - so I get you. For the first few minutes it hurts so unbelievably much. What I do is (I know it will sound silly), but I leave the dildo inside me, without moving it, for a little - like one minute or so, it depends. It gives time for my body to "adjust" to it, and then it's very pleasurable. Perhaps you could try, see if it helps! As for suggestions - well, first of all, I'd suggest going with a not-too-big one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:09 AM
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Oh I suggest you get one indeed! It's a whole 'nother thing. You don't risk getting pregnant nor have to take any pills cause he won't wear a condom, it won't give you any STD's, it lasts for HOURS if you want to, you are in control of speed and everything, it won't hurt (nor spit on you, choke you, slap you.... Gosh, wtf is wrong with men?), you can stop whenever you want, you can PICK THE SIZE, you know it's CLEAN (🙄) 'cause you clean it yourself, ~you will actually orgasm~ (get a vibrator too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:54 PM
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I am at a loss of words....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:02 PM
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Poor baby.. I'm glad he had the sense to not take advantage of her. And I'm glad she was shown some respect, and a decent date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:55 PM
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I second this 100%. Every single time I've ignored the first red flag/flags, it's been increasingly worse. I thought it wouldn't be, or that that was just a minor issue - but it wasn't, and it was also just the tip of the iceberg. I actually think that men do their best early in the rship, cause they know once women get attached, it'll be easier to keep them (which is what op is saying). So if the "early version" of them is already problematic - it won't be any better later. Leave at the very fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:50 PM
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I'm very, very proud of you. It's not a little step at all❤️ Congrats for choosing you❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:16 PM
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Liking "the idea" is in the sense that you are idealizing that person. That is, you have a certain idea in your mind of how that person is/should be/would be if X and Y did or did not happen etc.. You have an IDEA in your mind, which is actually in contrast with who that person actually is. That is, if he's rude and unaffectionate, he's not "in a bad mood but very sweet and loving" - he's rude and unaffectionate. He's not "very in love with you, but haha men - so silly with their hormones, it ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:15 AM
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I agree 100% - you're being a great example, and when they'll be older they'll understand it even more. You should be very proud of yourself, and know that you're showing great strength and character❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:00 PM
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Gosh, I'm so sorry. This sounds awful. I'm glad you're divorcing him, though. And.. you know how somebody looks very attractive when you're in love with him, yet as soon as you get over him you question just how did you ever think of him as handsome? I think this is quite similar.. I know I'm "guilty" of having done that too. But there's a good thing: you realizing that means you are indeed over him, won't sure look back and hopefully will be more prepared next time a man tries it. I wish you th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:28 PM
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So sad. I hope she leaves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:50 PM
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Very, very well said. 10/10 I hope more women will read this. Men marrying a woman for the sole prospect of constant sex is a staple. Well, that + free emotional labor, maid, cook etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:45 PM
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"looks like Randall from Monsters Inc" made me laugh so much I'm super proud of you leaving him❤️ congrats baby❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:30 PM
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I have no words for men anymore. They're something else. The snow art, on the other hand, is very very beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:17 PM
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This is so scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:58 PM
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Women are not sexually attracted to a vibrator. A vibrator is a commodity, an object, which aids in my pleasure and orgasm - ofc I ain't expecting a man to start buzzing or rotating?? Women in porn are not commodities, they're human beings. Human beings, however artifact, which you are setting as a comparison to women in your daily life (not to mention the violence depicted). How the hell does this concept require help in grasping?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:52 PM
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I am flabbergasted at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:26 PM
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Having the emotional depth of a rock ≠ having sharper reasoning skills. Those things are not inversely proportional, you can be dumber both emotionally and logically. For goodness sake, "I know better for you than you do yourself". What a narcissistic idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:00 PM
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I'm gonna remember this quote, thanks for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:51 PM
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The ring is WONDERFUL❤️ and I wish you the world, baby, I'm very proud of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:19 PM
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Thank you for this reply❤️ It sounds lovely, and the "(my sofa will never be ok again)" made me smile❤️ it's a wonderful thing you did. Wish you the very best in everything ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:53 AM
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If only they really did this on the first date 🙄 think of all the time a woman could save, getting up and leaving right there and then. Also, though - this is so scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:06 AM
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If you ever feel like sharing some tips, I'm sure more than one of us will be very happy to read them!❤️ They're amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:25 PM
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The ring is beautiful and you have the most wonderful hands I've ever seen! Congrats on choosing you❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:20 PM
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CONGRATULATIONS beautiful!!! Wish you and your pup the Absolute Best hike trip ever❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:07 AM
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Thank you for sharing your story and providing such peculiar insights. I'm very proud and happy that you're working to get your life back completely and I wish you all the fulfillment and happiness possible. Ps. I'd actually love to get to know you more, you sound like a wonderful person - unfortunately, I know FDS discourages it to avoid issues with men posing as women; so I'll be looking forward to future posts from you, and in the meantime wish you all the best♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:37 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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