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Lifestylelavellj048/r/seduction28/10/24 12:22 AM
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Field Reportlavellj048/r/seduction09/11/24 04:22 PM
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Got way more success than the average guy
/r/seduction19/08/25 12:52 AM
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Welcome to the club! But all seriousness, it's all about focusing on yourself first and making the proper adjustments
/r/seduction10/07/25 04:35 AM
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Well said
/r/seduction29/05/25 05:05 AM
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I can't even get the bare minimum 😒
/r/seduction24/11/24 10:42 PM
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Not a bad idea. I work in a garage too and hate how dirty my nails are tbh
/r/seduction21/11/24 02:50 AM
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Knowledge right here!
/r/seduction14/11/24 10:16 PM
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I think it's the rise of the female ego. With social media, girls got unlimited choices of guys and they're always wanting to trade up. Sucks but it's true. Went to a similar singles event. Had great interactions but never heard anything back
/r/seduction14/11/24 10:15 PM
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So true. I just never knew how complicated it all is
/r/seduction11/11/24 10:38 PM
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I really appreciate that! I did consider going to a lounge or somewhere more chill like myself lol
/r/seduction10/11/24 11:12 PM
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That's a great idea. Thank you!
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:50 PM
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I don't know. I'm still learning with this whole club scene. Just trying to improve
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:25 PM
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Thanks for the tips!
/r/seduction10/11/24 04:14 PM
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I never said that. I'm talking about actual creeps not the bold guys at the club. A lot of girls have the habit of pre-judging guys and lumping them together
/r/seduction10/11/24 04:11 PM
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Thanks for the advice! I'm definitely planning to keep going out. I'm determined to get better
/r/seduction10/11/24 04:08 PM
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In the same boat, buddy. It's hella depressing tbh. But I figure practice makes perfect. Can't let all the women get snatched by these other guys
/r/seduction10/11/24 06:12 AM
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They were decent. I definitely would put them at my level tbh. I just don't know anymore. Should I just grab these girls waist and have at it like they do?
/r/seduction09/11/24 11:12 PM
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I'm not sure. I'm on the bigger side and I feel silly doing so
/r/seduction09/11/24 09:08 PM
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I get it but honestly I feel so uncomfortable dancing around people
/r/seduction09/11/24 09:00 PM
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Trust me I looked the entire time and it's literally within seconds of facing each other. It bothers me so much cause some of these girls I made eye contact with and some other guy just swoops in
/r/seduction09/11/24 07:57 PM
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I get what you mean. At a point I just sat back and watched other guys do their cold approach. Some hits some misses. I even saw a guy wingman another guy to dance with a girl with a fat ass. And I'm like damn, wish that were me. Tbh I hate being so jealous of everybody 😒
/r/seduction09/11/24 06:20 PM
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That's fair. I absolutely don't care what people think but the thought of being lumped in with all other guys as creeps pisses me off. I'm not a creep and being labeled sucks
/r/seduction09/11/24 06:18 PM
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Yeah. I try to. But I don't wanna just grab a girls waist or hands. I'm a gentleman but I keep seeing random guys do it and I don't wanna stoop to their level
/r/seduction09/11/24 04:58 PM
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Months? Bro those are rookie numbers. Try years and come back to me
/r/seduction07/11/24 05:30 AM
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Such an inspiring story! Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction07/11/24 02:13 AM
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Gotcha
/r/seduction03/11/24 03:18 PM
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Fair point. Everyone just needs to do better
/r/seduction03/11/24 03:13 PM
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So what do you mean by close. A hookup? BJ? Etc?
/r/seduction03/11/24 02:50 PM
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Makes sense. I'll definitely try that next time
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:18 PM
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Fair point
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:00 PM
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Thanks for the tips! That's really great insight
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:59 PM
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Great advice!
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:56 PM
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See? That's exactly my point. You can never tell and that's the most frustrating part
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:50 PM
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Thank you. It definitely could've gone worse. But I'm gaining more experience 😌
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:43 PM
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Will do!
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:41 PM
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So true. I'm still definitely learning 😌
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:40 PM
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True. I guess I just have no way of starting the banter. That's where my anxiety kicks in
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:50 AM
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Good point! Thanks
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:45 AM
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Thanks man. I'll definitely give it a try
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:45 AM
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Did you not read the post? I did ask. It's about asking g versus just grinding out right
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:44 AM
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These are some awesome tips. Thanks my man!
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:43 AM
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Nice approach
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:32 AM
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True. Plus some ladies were talking to me over the music and made plenty of eye contact. I even caught a lot of glances throughout the night. But I have thought of going to the gym again
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:31 AM
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I've always felt that was the case. Being shy pretty much my whole life has definitely been a hardship. But for the last few years, I've been trying to become more social. Especially since I've been in retail for years so it definitely helps me with talking to people. Especially with women. I can hold and maintain a conversation with pretty much anyone even an 8, 9, and even 10. My main issue is initiating a conversation with an attractive woman. My anxiety is at its all time high then
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:10 AM
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This is a great system. I'm fairly tall; 6ft big but not too out of shape and rather handsome. Plus I shower frequently. Another thing, I also wasn't the only one who kept striking out at the event so there's that
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:04 AM
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I suppose that could be true. It's just insanely complicated for me
/r/seduction28/10/24 12:44 AM
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That's true. I've had a chick grind on me without asking before and it was great. I just have a hard time initiating it
/r/seduction28/10/24 12:43 AM
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It just feels like more is going on besides that
/r/seduction28/10/24 12:28 AM
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Easier said than done
/r/seduction22/10/24 01:47 PM
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Is the sky blue?
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:45 AM
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