TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

lavender-lesbian Archive

View 0 posts and 91 comments by lavender-lesbian on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

okay i’m….. not gonna respond to the transphobia or the homophobia but you asked if our parents lied to us. i answered your question with my personal experience. you turning it into whatever in god’s name this is, is not the original question friend. it doesn’t matter what my brain(?) is???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:53 PM
1

100% of people should go single that…. isn’t what i said. i said my mom told me and my sister than we can provide for ourselves. what ? i’m ???? also i’m a lesbian. i’m not worried about men not being attracted to my “masculinity” this just in, ladies, having your own money makes you a man. you can say you want a tradwife. that’s cool. but calling me masculine? bc i have a job and the ability to support myself without a partner, yes i said partner instead of husband/wife bc any human can support…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:31 PM
1

only thing my mom ever told me about relationships was that me nor my sister, need a man in our lives. that we can provide for ourselves. it’s worked out well enough for me? edit - i don’t… think it’s your parents business if you have sex or not my dude. it’s kind of ? on you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:59 PM
2

well hopefully i would mostly lead by example for children i would tell them it’s better to have a job, a car, and stable housing/income and it’s good for their partners to have those things too. i would also tell them they don’t need a relationship to be happy. they’re whole human beings without a relationship. i’d also warn them about safe sex practices(generally and also depending on their sexuality) and let them know what constitutes a “yikes” in a relationship. “i’ll kill myself if you leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:07 PM
1

i kinda see “strong and independent woman” as like the female version of MGTOW at least that was my understanding ? both sides complete with unnecessary misandry / misogyny infesting the ideology depending on which the person falls into
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:19 PM
2

a lot of times mental issues can’t be….. cured? it’s like why i compared it to high blood pressure. can’t be cured always and sometimes it runs in families. which is why there is treatment. sometimes it’s just inherited like in my case. i went to therapy. there wasn’t a direct root of my issue so i kinda just showed my elderly therapist memes and he helped me process the emotions that i couldn’t handle. i stopped going after a few years bc i didn’t need it anymore. i’m still on the medicine bc m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 12:07 AM
5

i mean i take medication for mental health so i suppose i’m a little biased in that i don’t mind it as long as they’re actually treating it and taking it when they’re supposed to. that’s a good reason for your personal standards tho (:
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:26 PM
4

genuine question- why is taking medication for mental health considered an issue? i mean, they’re treating the issue right? they have a problem with their mental health, so they get treated for it? it’s the same as high blood pressure or like idk ED? i guess my question is what makes it a red flag, i guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:15 PM
2

counterpoint - i have social anxiety and am a homebody. i do get cold approached. it’s unfortunately always an awkward situation bc i have chronic foot-in-mouth syndrome and girls are pretty. it’s easier to maintain a conversation. it makes people like me, who have chronic anxiety, actually make friends or connections with other people. especially during quarantine. i have immune-compromised family members. i kind of think this is more trolling than any actual attempt at discussion tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:53 PM
2

got a -19 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:59 PM
3

i think you’re onto something w EQ but let’s not suggest that women aren’t jerks to guys all the time :/ women use EQ intentionally. that’s what we do shit like shit tests. when you have no power you create it. a woman can ruin a man’s life w a report. she can ruin his reputation easy. in highschool in my small town i’ve told people things told to me in confidence by people i didn’t like. and they didn’t have friends till they went off to university. i wasn’t even popular. i have 2 friends that …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:06 PM
6

that’s only through women’s subjugation hun men in cultures where women were seen as livestock, yes. kings had concubines. poor men had poorer prostitutes. it says nothing about biology and everything about the status of women at the time. in parts of India, women married multiple men. bc there was a shortage of women. are women naturally polyandrous bc of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:21 PM
20

i only blame men for being rejected when they lose their shit about being rejected doesn’t matter if you held a door for me. it doesn’t matter if you’ve been my friend. if “i’m gay” sets you off when you ask me out/for my number/etc then it’s automatically a personal issue which has happened. i’m femme. i like dresses and some makeup and my hair is long-ish. i’m the whole blue eyes, blonde thing. i’m overweight, but i carry it well. but unfortunately being overweight means some men think i have …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:04 PM

i’m not a christian. some polyam people are. and they can usually cite one of the many men in the bible who had multiple wives. and some polyam people are not. so they, like me, don’t rlly care. and the US(idk you said christian dominated world you could mean the Western World? but same point for this) has a distinct separation of gov. and religion. now, these people may not be able to legally marry multiple in the eyes of the law, but it happens. ik muslims in the US have ceremonies that are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:08 PM
0

sex has been considered “twisted” for longer than kink or porn. especially gay/lesbian sex so what’s your point ? also there are things called “kink allied sex therapists” as in. it’s a therapist. who works w sex issues. who doesn’t have an issue w kink. and speaking of issues w kink, there’s no connection to mental illness. you’re literally taking something that, if practiced safely, is not an issue. masochistic tendencies are only considered a disorder IF it causes issues for the person. that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:01 PM
0

yikes that was not the point lmfao the point was that kink has been a thing for a century. you having an issue w kink doesn’t give you the all clear to pass off your opinion as fact. especially since it’s not that hard to prove wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:12 AM
0

so you’ve never heard of Victorian-era sex parties? you can say you don’t like kink and don’t want to participate but you can’t lie about it lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:45 PM
0

this is weird …? i’m gay and i like my hair pulled. and i like to be manhandled in the bedroom. i also like manhandling my gf. in this weird scenario you’ve cooked up in your head, who is the “man that gets off on abusing people” in this very lesbian and very consensual relationship??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 05:34 AM
1

some men are polyam and some are mono same w women. attraction/bonding levels aren’t able to be defined until you get to a person by person basis. making a generalization over it when there’s more than just a few random differences isn’t going to make sense and will always be subject to debate ?? religious upbringing isn’t a good example bc Muslim men are able to have up to 4 wives, granted they have the ability to provide for each of them to have their own house/food/necessities. not all muslim…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:56 PM
1

it’s strange for a woman to have ex bf’s women want relationships, men want sex okay, generalizations from ages ago don’t work bc many woman don’t have the same values as trads. i’ve met more woman who don’t want to be in a relationship. not my place to judge. and ofc women ride the CC. again, it’s not my place to judge specifically what they do as long as nobody gets hurt doing it. the ideology itself is a standard self-help targeted to men. but so is FDS but targeted to women. the communities …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:57 AM
0

yeah sorry friend i was just ab to reply to that other post !! my b i don’t agree w you at all but i apologize for judging too quickly instead of seeing all of your thoughts !
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:49 AM
4

incels literally are blackpill. as in, self imposed isolation/abandonment of dating scene of their own volition. and the fat woman thing is anti-woman bc it’s specifically targeting a subset of women to target. targeting women is deadass anti-woman regardless of subset/specification so like ? nobody care if you aren’t into fat women. you aren’t obligated to be in a relationship w someone you don’t find attractive. men are allowed to have preferences. that wasn’t even? speculated. but so are woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:45 AM
1

serial monogamy (from my understanding) is jumping from LTR to LTR. even if it isn’t actually long-term, the things involved in long-term are present. like moving in together, marriage, shared bill, stuff that generally takes more conversation that just moving in after a month. my sister is like this. she married a dude and divorced him after a year and stayed at our parents house for 1 month before moving in w her current bf along with her son and cat. she keeps “backups” in relationships. she …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:11 AM
2

you’re so fucking close to getting it honestly. men/women can’t be generalized there will be women, who by what they have experienced in life, go for fuckboys. there will be men, who by what they have experienced in life, who will be fuckboys. like y’all i can’t ? generalizations don’t fucking work. half the time in cases like this you don’t change your view bc you aren’t completely wrong! but you’re not completely right either! your view can’t change it can only be expanded and don’t you guys e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:29 PM
6

i think they’re aware of it. it’s going to sound tacky, but it’s deadass just jealousy/insecurity. i used to do it. i’d get upset over my friends having other friends for christ’s sake. and ik what i was doing was shitty. still did it. made me feel better to have my friend be only my friend. i grew out of it. but my sister does this occasionally. if i get along too well w our parents, she’s gotta start something. and when i don’t engage her or blindly go w her opinions/supposed interactions w ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:01 AM
7

i agree. but sexual compatibility is a huge thing for LTR. i can’t be w another bottom. can’t do it. it’s why there are these dudes who complain ab sex later in life is a lack of sexual compatibility. i have to actually. fuck the person to know whether or not they’re a bottom. bc bottoms do in fact lie if they think you’re attractive enough :( sucks this isn’t to say sex drive or sexual interests change over time, but for starting an LTR it’s good to have common ground w someone you’re intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:44 PM
6

i mean. my parents have been married for over 25 years. they lived together for a time as well. both previously divorced. mom married a man who turned into an abusive prick and left him less than a year. my father married his high school sweetheart, which ended as anyone would expect it to. no affairs. they still have a sex life(i moved out of their house, but staying the night is sometimes still an experience). i can’t tell you if either of them are HV. they both have jobs, cars, family values,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:26 PM
1

damn girl it’s been 3 days i think you should let it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:14 AM
1

i don’t think you understand what i’m saying, so i’ll say it clearly: i don’t care that you know what my identity is. okay? i commented on a public forum, you’re right. i did that bc i don’t care if people know. but trying to debate me on my identity is not gonna happen. which is why i’m not gonna address you insulting me or my identity, which is why i say: my business, not yours. you seem v pressed ab something that doesn’t concern you. what’re you trying to prove here, friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:45 PM
1

so you can’t read my identity is my business to clarify that i wasn’t saying don’t comment, i was just saying it’s not your business you sound like you’re having a crisis here lmfao “special snowflake” and i’m on the subs that pertain to me i’m also on subs that make me laugh, which is PPD. you’re doing a bang up job making me laugh right now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:25 PM
0

i didn’t say don’t comment ?? victim complex huh i said what my identity is is my business, loser and if you think it’s nonsensical that’s you. makes sense to me which is why i identify as it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:17 PM
0

i don’t think it’s much of your business what i identify as ? you know what i mean when i say non-binary. you know what i mean when i say lesbian. you can put it together yourself dork
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:20 PM
1

hey! i’m non-binary. i’m also a lesbian(only interested in women/feminine non-binary people) i’m kind of just here to watch these people lose their minds over shit that doesn’t concern me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:16 PM
2

“entanglements” single
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:55 AM
4

high sex drive doesn’t mean good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:53 AM
1

1st one is ab porn and measures of arousal by porn showing male-male, male-female, and female-female. porn is not a reasonable expression of attraction bc attraction/arousal are not the same thing. the 2nd one is behind a paywall. :/ like $30 bucks to get it. 3rd is about people saying they were straight but have had same-sex encounters. not surprising. many people experiment in their youth ??? 4th didn’t load. it may be my work wifi, i’ll come back and check later to edit and see what it actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:30 PM
1

man okay. i deadass looked into the articles and i hate to break it to you by “psychologytoday” is NOT a credible source nor is it peer-reviewed as you claimed. you can be as frustrated as you’d like i don’t give a shit. but you can’t send me faux-scholarly articles and expect me to give you anything other than anecdotes when those articles you sent me are from a magazine website ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:09 PM
1

i feel like i’m dying. okay, if someone chooses “straight” both times. they are straight. if someone chooses “straight” and then whatever, they are not straight. that doesn’t mean straight women don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:59 PM
1

why did you ignore the part where i gave you advice on where to go to be wanted. ?? don’t complain and then not take my advice that’s dumb. also, that source means nothing. i can think a man is objectively attractive. doesn’t mean i’ll date/fuck him, but it means i can acknowledge that he is attractive. just like straight men can acknowledge other men as attractive, and still be steadfast in their heterosexuality. gay men can think women are attractive. but not be attracted to them. same as stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:39 PM

They(men) have little to no sexual value… ..women are valued just by being born female. so this is? just a ? weird ? way to say that women being sexualized at birth makes you, a man, jealous? bc you want to be sexualized ? and tbf, i don’t have any idea the “point” OP or you are making. y’all are both kind of just talking at me but if you want to be sexualized as a man. then idk man. talk to a bunch of weebs. talk to a bunch of fat women. talk to women who don’t get as much attention unless it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:38 PM

straight women don’t want to fuck other women. that’s the whole thing about sexuality. and using my lesbianism as an example as to women’s “fluid sexuality” is downright shitty. i didn’t choose to be a lesbian bc “men are inherently useless” i’m a lesbian bc i’m just not attracted to men. and i don’t think men are useless. i don’t. they may not be a factor in my relationships, but i have male friends. and my dad’s a man, who my family values (grandpa, mom, sister, nephew) my nephew’s a boy, who …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:13 PM

that wasn’t OP’s point at all dork OP was using general men v women talk the words could be switched and we’d still end up w a standard “vs” situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:37 PM

You’ve not explained anything. it said CMV not “explain in detail why i’m wrong” you don’t want to change your view. you want a space to whine. so why would i bother other than tossing my 2 cents. Not relying on word of mouth here well then that’s shitty bc i’m telling you, as a gay woman, my sexuality is not fluid. and i’ve met v many hard-core straight women who would never be interested in another woman. hundreds of commentators. there’s 60 my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:31 AM
1

idk who told you women have “fluid sexuality” that’s dumb. as for everything else? does it matter? honestly. if you want to be all MGTOW then do it, but stop complaining. isn’t that sort of the whole point to MGTOW? okay so the majority of women aren’t into you. you can go whine in your little box of the internet, or idk get over it. work on yourself or GYOW but crying about it doesn’t change anything. straight women aren’t into me. i’m not gonna be begging a straight woman for spare coochie. bc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:35 PM
1

i think it’s all about letting people KNOW what’s up w dating or relationships. if you don’t clarify what’s up, then yeah they might continue dating around bc it’s not a guarantee. if you do clarify? a good person will not flirt with/date others. even if y’all are just “talking” and by clarify i mean, you gotta say that shit. like. plainly and no possibility of confusion it’s about keeping options open. i’m not gonna hold it against a guy for spinning plates if the woman never clarified the stip…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:00 PM
2

same. i’m in the South. small rural town. i know exactly one (1) woman who is a homemaker. and she married a muslim dude who’s dad was fucking rich. (it was a beautiful wedding. down here we don’t see v many multicultural weddings) and just in general? other women did not like that this woman stayed home. bc they saw it as lazy/easy/etc but she is the only person who’s partner’s budget could afford that type of life for her. (they have like. 2 kids #3 otw) it’s not a feasible situation for the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:38 PM
1

cheating isn’t different for men vs women. you can philosophize all you want about the “differences” between the libido. it’s still an abuse of trust and it’s absolutely devastating no matter WHO in the relationship cheats don’t stay with someone who doesn’t respect you, that’s a general rule of healthy relationships. if they cheat? it’s over. there’s no saving that relationship. cheaters never change. i ask any woman i’m interested in pursuing if she’s ever cheated. they’re usually weirdly hone…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:49 PM
1

im lov 1 girl i mary 1 gorl edit - she looks hot in a tux
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:01 PM
1

as someone who has “No Hookups” on Her(basically lesbian Tindr) it means i’m not down for a ONS but it’s a funny thing. i can swipe left on women who have kids, are poly, are just looking for fun, “Good vibes” girls, etc even if damn they rlly are cute. but i swipe left on ugly women too :/ regardless if they have “no hookups” or meet all my other standards. gotta be something to catch my attention other than “meet my standards” i would assume that straight women work the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:15 PM
0

“There’s plenty of stuff JUST for POC, and none for white people, but reverse racism doesn’t exist. Lolz” now do you understand why that’s shitty. or are you just gonna be shitty all around and own it. completely serious, i even mentioned that there is a definite bias in the draft or prison system. do you have comment on that pal? huh? does it not fit your narrative? you go blind over that section and just that section bc you didn’t like that a woman agreed? is that what this is? poor baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:34 PM
-1

i think college should be a right if i’m honest so we can agree to disagree on the subject :/ but in the current system we have, there are scholarships for men as well as women. just bc it doesn’t say “man” on it doesn’t mean it’s not for men, yk?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:31 PM
0

god damn for someone who likes the internet enough to live on Reddit you sure don’t use google that much? male nurses - https://nursejournal.org/resources/financial-aid/nursing-scholarships-for-men/ male teachers - https://teach.com/what/teachers-change-lives/grants-for-teachers/ you seem to think that bc it doesn’t have the word “male” in it, these professions can’t be for men. or the world hates men. or men get no help at all. which is a lie. how are we discriminating against men? they aren’t.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:24 PM
-4

okay - how about this? the draft is a terrible practice that should be abolished entirely. and the lower requirements are exactly the reason they have separate sports for men and women. it’s physicality that’s different bud. not a slight against men. college incentives? easy. they want MORE women in STEM. that’s more of a feminist thing, buts it’s exactly the point. men are already dominating STEM. so they want more women to be inclusive or whatever. you can’t reward a dude when he’s doing exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:13 PM
2

i keep spiders/insects. i consider them my hobby. (: i love caring for them and giving them the requirements they need to properly thrive. its less work than keeping reptiles, but it’s still enough to get me that i did something good feeling. only one of my spiders is “pet” material. the others are pets in the sense that fish are pets. they’re pretty and interesting but i can’t touch them or take them out of their cage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:46 PM
1

how am i supposed to talk about spiders in an engaging way when most girls have arachnophobia :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:41 PM
1

okay maybe next she says “i like netflix” instead of disengaging, try asking what show she likes best. and then ask her the fav part. you can’t disengage at the first sign of “i like netflix” bc maybe she likes something super lame like Friends or The Office(hah me i like the office) which she KNOWS is lame so she doesn’t want to flaunt it, but you can ask her what she likes about it. getting to know someone isn’t that hard. we all like movies and tv. but don’t you want to know WHY she’s interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:37 PM
1

personally, as long as someone is passionate about what they’re talking about, i don’t think it’s “basic” girl rlly into makeup and talks about all of the “fine details” about it? that’s awesome and i like listening to it even if i don’t apply it to myself. girl rlly into clothes and talking about color scheme and how certain articles work better than other? fascinating bc i never think ab it that way. girl rlly into anime/tv/idk anything like that talking about minor details of the show that ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:31 PM
1

i mean both are entitled to what they want. it severely diminishes the dating pool for them. and it is usually riddled w trust issues - women lie ab N count; men lie ab porn. they can hold out for whatever they want. the only issue is when they rage about the people they don’t want. i could give less than a fuck about a woman waiting to find a porn-free partner. if she starts ranting about how porn makes men “undesirable” it’s shitty. same with the virgin thing. dudes can want a virgin. but call…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:41 PM
1

i would say loser bc they get the pussy. but they don’t get the love. and i’m a blue pill sap so. 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:35 AM
0

instead of castration, i’m personally in favor of shock collars. /s to be clear
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:29 AM
3

…..Harry Potter ? i’m sorry, can you clarify ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:26 AM
1

uh i like sex ?????? fuck girls?? its what i do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:11 AM
2

i thought you were a dude at first and i’m sorry that’s on me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:13 PM
2

i don’t think butch women or bull dykes are into you either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:04 PM
1

misshapen obese(like potato on twig look) i’m fat but i’m still identifiable as a woman(titties and hips both bigger than my tummy) or the inverse - stupid skinny. i like average size to my size(chubby) weird proportions. - like huge fake tits and skinny body? gross. huge fake ass/thigh? also gross. botched nose job??? gross. oh god those too big lips? gross. if it doesn’t look NATURAL i’m not into it. greasy hair. missing teeth/rotted teeth. wrinkles at our age(21-24). smells bad. doesn’t take …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:59 PM

plz wear deodorant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:13 PM
6

oh no sweetpea. sex is give and take. if you have a problem with women asking for head, that’s on you. she’s actively asking for something that would help her feel good. i don’t know how you got it in your head that sex is only about you and your dick. she helps you get off right? why can’t you help her. how many times have you asked for head to “warm up” before you fuck. it’s the same thing. sex is give and take. and from just how you write in general to people disagreeing, you seem to just tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:42 PM
8

men who talk like this are weirdly surprised that women don’t want to fuck them. and then they wonder why 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:14 PM
0

where’s the hypocrisy? how does refusing to support a child for 18 yrs of life compare to a woman unable to carry a child for 9 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:35 PM
1

i am dating better people. i’m dating other women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:55 PM
1

What if I told you there are men in the world besides the ones you’ve slept with? I’d say you’re right lmfao. but i’d also say that considering what i’ve seen just. in general about men being shitty as hell in bed, it’s more that just a trend of the men i’ve slept with. and i may have been a bit cruel. i had a man give me head for 30 minutes. felt good and all, just didn’t do anything. i don’t hold it against him. so he wasn’t mentioned in my “get good” rant. my body is hardwired away from being…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:53 PM
5

just get fucking good. you know how many men i’ve ASKED to actually do shit i like in bed? yk how many men i’ve offered to touch myself/buy toys for use during the sex, WHILE HES FUCKING ME, and i was told “well that makes me feel bad” like just get fucking good christ. hitting it for 5 minutes and moaning like a bitch doesn’t make the cut. there are tutorials. online. for how to give head. or how to finger. crack open a text book and look up the clitoris. and the G spot. y’all complain but then…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:57 AM
8

okay. just. don’t know where the hell you’re from. but there is ABSOLUTELY still a stigma for women that have had abortions. my sister had an abortion when she was divorcing her ex husband because her body physically could not take the stress of the baby. like there’s a reason women shouldn’t just pop babies out one after another. it’s kept hush hush in the family. only family knows about it, because it is a horrible stigma. don’t know why you think it’s no big issue my dude. but it is. she regr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:50 AM
0

i hear you, i do. psychopath was that word. then it switched to sociopath. and now it’s narcissist(at least in my circles) but to be frank, half of these men labeled as “incels” do have more than their fair share of mental health issues. so i’m not gonna knock anybody who colloquially spouts out a word that could potentially be correct if the incel actually tried to get help for himself. and have you been on their forum lately? it’s insane there. it’s hard to tell where “idealized fantasy women …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:03 PM
-4

no psychopath isn’t the same as incel. maybe look into word meanings since you’re so hung up on them :/ have you researched psychopaths? they’re charismatic and charming. that’s literally the antithesis of incel lmfao. incels are creeps. maybe not dangerous creeps, but creeps none the less. psychopaths are just psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:50 PM
0

that’s what i do. it’s more a vibe than anything now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:31 PM
4

i mean. i’ve met some of them. went to HS w some of them. i have a couple in my office. my friend’s brother is one of them. well. not totally incel(had a gf but they broke up shortly after) but he has the general vibe of an incel. just a weird dude all have/had creep vibes. friends w dudes who are normal or who are exactly like them. but not associating w women unless the women are also total weirdos. like “walk away when they come toward you” weird. or “watch out they might shoot the place up” …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:25 PM
0

whether or not a man pulls his head off his dick isn’t my issue. i’m gay. i don’t care v much. no man is gonna my type no matter how tall he is. if you’ve got a good fucking point to this, then maybe reply with that. bc i’ve known short dudes who fucking dominated the area where i grew up. i’ve also known short dudes who were also creepy little weirdos obsessed w their height. can you imagine why they did so poorly? maybe bc they were creepy little weirdos who decided women bad bc his friend 2in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:41 AM
1

short is completely different. a black person commenting on colorism or racial bias is much different than a short dude saying all women everywhere don’t want him. it’s two completely different things my dude. i understand what you mean about it being a struggle and i’m not denying that it is. but it’s not THAT hard out there for short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:09 AM
1

it doesn’t destroy the dating pool. obviously some women have a preference for different height. grouping it all together and then complaining about it to the point it becomes a complex? is more likely what puts women off. short and funny is much better than short and pushy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:34 PM
1

i think i do. i’m insecure ab shit too. i just don’t let it control my life. which is why the whole “height” thing is dumb. tall women are insecure ab their height. they do complain ab it too. which is dumb. if you can’t change the shit don’t bother with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:08 PM
0

i think some of y’all are too insecure ab dumb shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:00 PM
-2

plz be /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:56 PM
-2

comparing being short to being black i’ve now seen it all on this sub 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:50 PM
1

my sister is 4’11. she married and had a child with a man the same height as me - 5’1 after they divorced, her current boyfriend is 5’2. an inch taller than i am. have you??? met a woman who was actually short short or just the standard height lmfao. edit - my best friend is in a long term relationship with a man shorter than her. she’s about 5’4 he’s 5’2 don’t know where y’all come from but height isn’t a big deal where i’m at. also i know for a fact that a girl in my highschool who was tall (i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:48 PM
1

HAH none. nada. 0% it’s probably bc i just can’t orgasm with a man :/ this was funny tho. thanks for the laugh 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:45 AM
0

but “keeping your partner happy” is a slippery slope esp if someone has no productive way of keeping boundaries firm. there are families where the adult children have completely wrote off their mothers, because the mother did everything to “keep her man happy” at the sacrifice of her kids. same for the reverse. mom’s a druggie and dad funded her habit at the detriment of the kids to keep the wife happy. or (my case) dad let the mom show extreme favoritism towards one child and did nothing to sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:42 AM
6

okay but honestly this is kind of true? i held a door for a man at my apartment complex bc i went out of the office before him. when he thanked me, i smiled at him and said no problem. he followed me to the parking lot and we happened to have cars close together. he actually asked me on a date while i was getting into my car. i felt kind of bad for him? how few people actually practice common decency or smile at him? (i was looking ROUGH that day. no makeup- not even bare minimum like mascara an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:59 AM
3

i don’t think sex is inherently damaging. when i was having ONS sex it wasn’t the lack of protection(i’m still terrified of STDS) but it was the interaction i intentionally created for the sex. it couldn’t be nice, fun sex for me. it had to be degrading sex. majority of the time i didn’t enjoy myself or let myself be in situations that were uncomfortable(like no lube anal/choked till i passed out/etc) the sex couldn’t be vanilla bc it didn’t have the same damaging aspect for me. it didn’t reinfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:24 PM
2

before i came out as gay, i had a moderate N-count. only men. it’s about 15-20. not sure of the number bc unfortunately the majority of that number was older men taking advantage of me as a teenager. so ?? not sure where the number technically is(like 10-15 maybe?) my therapist thinks i had sex as a form of self harm. i stopped doing the more obvious signs of self mutilation, and became promiscuous which lasted until i was about 18. i didn’t come out at 18, but i started being more aware of my a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:08 PM
1

i’m lesbian(not a gold star) and i don’t want to date a single mom? shits weird. everybody has their own approach to it. i know men who don’t care :/ and i know women who definitely do care about men having children
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:18 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter