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Well, we dated last year and the year before, and we got back together this year, so I assumed that asking this wouldn't be abnormal given our history. But perhaps I was too assertive.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 07:47 PM
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In five years I'll be 26, but my boyfriend is 26 atm (he's older than me). I'll edit it to be more clear, sorry!
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 04:32 PM
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Thank you for your kind and knowledgeable response. Yes, the long-distance thing is temporary. We are still trying to figure out who would move where, but I'd probably move to where he is because he'd have a better chance at finding a good match for his career path in his state. Is the wall is later than 25-26?
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 03:15 PM
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It's not for me. I recently turned 21. I had two sips of a drink and I'm not a big fan. I felt a bit woozy and I prefer having a clear mind. Even if I end up liking a drink, I don't want to drink enough to get drunk and I don't want to drink often.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 02:45 PM
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Just a few years ago, I could relate to this post. But let me tell you, you don't need to be so hard on yourself. Yes, it's good to improve yourself. But it will get dangerous when you let self-destructiveness seep in. Firstly, please know that even though you're not his "ideal", he obviously chose you for a reason. Long term relationships are rather serious and if he really didn't want you, he would have left by now. What do you offer for the long term? Focus on that as some of your pros. Becau…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 03:39 AM
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I've come up with a name for my style recently: "vintage soft prep". It took me a while to get here, but I like the structured, classic preppy look, with plaid, blazers, sweaters and all that, and I also like the feminine side of it, but I have always preferred a somber, discreet type of vibe to my femininity in my day to day looks. I like my looks to show some type of inspiration of the 40s-50s while still looking modern. I tend to like muted tones like soft blues, dusty rose, or maroon. Pastel…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 02:38 AM
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Yes, here you go: https://www.quora.com/Psychology/What-is-the-most-bizarre-small-social-experiment-youve-conducted-concluding-with-a-result-which-was-extremely-contradictory-and-opposite-to-what-you-originally-believed-would-occur/answer/Marie-Stein?share=1&srid=tn4a And this is the archived post that discussed the profiles, if you're interested: https://www.quora.com/Psychology/What-is-the-most-bizarre-small-social-experiment-youve-conducted-concluding-with-a-result-which-was-extremely-contrad…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 07:28 PM
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Thank you. You give very helpful advice and I feel encouraged. Is it alright if I PM you from time to time?
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 02:15 AM
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Thanks for being honest. Self-care is actually something I'm struggling with, big-time. I feel like I'm failing at it, and it's been a year now. I have gotten the hang of some things, but definitely not all (to any lurkers out there that might read this: start learning this stuff as early as possible!), and it frustrates me to the point that I don't want to bother. I push myself to, but I am still not seeing good results. It doesn't help that...well, while I love them, my family is opposed to my…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 12:28 AM
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I live in Ohio. There is a nerd culture here, though it depends on where you live. I don't really live where it is more popular. When I talk to my S/O, I don't always discuss these things, though it does come up. Sometimes, I think that I annoy him. I don't want to do this, he is such a great guy! He is also "nerdy" and he is also fun and interesting, and has great depth. I do think that other factors have contributed to this...his friends think that he can do much better, which has been making …
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 11:29 PM
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Oh--I didn't mean being unpopular in the subreddit, I meant these things being generally unpopular in society and in the dating world, thus lowering SMV/RMV. I...suppose that I should edit my post, whoops. Also, I tend to love romance/shojo anime, along with slice of life, but I am also becoming drawn to historical ones in recent years too. Honestly, if it seems good, I'll give it a chance. As for older movies, I discover a lot through TMC and my family, though I don't have a set favorite. I hav…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 10:44 PM
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Show him that you appreciate him. You can make his day by showing that you support him and his interests. For example, say your S/O has a hobby his free time, but he is super tired from working an extra shift. Maybe surprise him with something related to the hobby, like leaving him things related to it or cleaning the objects (if he is okay with it, some men would rather their women not touch their things). As an extension of this, occasionally surprising him with a fun date night is good, too. …
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 09:19 PM
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I thought that lower self esteem was attractive? o.o
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/17 06:36 AM
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Hello. Pardon me, I apologize for not replying to you sooner--I just logged on. Well, I believe that "red pill women" are just women that have accepted the truths of the Red Pill philosophy, whether from an early age or through life experiences, and sought out to be the best versions of themselves. I do think that there is no harm in asking traditional women about these things, given that they seem to have successfully changed for the better. Concerning subjects like this, I honestly don't mind …
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/17 02:42 AM
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Oh, I like your style! It sounds very comfortable and effortless with hints of cuteness put in. Subtlety can have wonderful results. Also, thank you for the makeup tips. I'll have to try these.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 04:07 AM
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Good point.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 05:32 PM
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Loose side braids are beautiful. I read that guys find it pretty when you leave delicate, loose strands of hair out, or at least loosened, with hairstyles like that. I guess it makes it look wispier. Whenever I put my hair up, I do this, and I add volume. It looks exceptionally pretty with braids, whether up or down. It also works wonders when you put your hair in the half up, half down style, which seems to be another hair ambrosia, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 06:08 AM
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I just looked the dress up. That is the cutest thing! It looks so classic and timeless. It looks like it can be dressed up or dressed down, so versatile. I think that it's probably because A-line dresses are arguably one of the most feminine dress shapes out there. Thanks, Christian Dior! :D
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 04:04 AM
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I agree--braids can girl up any outfit. I like a good side braid paired with a sweater or long sleeved shirt, jeans and light jewelry in the fall. You can also doll up jeans and a t-shirt. There are so many ways, for any season. Honestly, I think that a fitted tee and jeans with colored heels, tousled curls and light makeup is a fun, girly look. I also think that heels look really cute with boyfriend jeans and a blouse and jacket.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 03:49 AM
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Lilly is adorable! I used to see it all of the time at the mall I interned at. Princess Catherine has amazing style, too. She is so classic and I am particularly fond of her evening wear. I feel like everyone's style has different degrees for different categories, so no worries. You know what, I've never tried a good blowout! I'd like to, because for casual looks, I like both middle parted straight hair and soft curls when I'm not wearing my hair in its natural state, but it all depends on the o…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 11:54 PM
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I didn't know that depression could affect a woman's RMV, wow. :0 That's actually kind of scary...so when you're depressed...you could end up attracting a more...harmful individual?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 11:36 PM
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Having depression isn't unpleasant to men - it's not having control over your depression or using it as an excuse to act out that is unpleasant. This really stood out to me. I like that. I also like the fact that you and your boyfriend communicate about it. So, if I was looking to enter a relationship, would I have to bring up the fact that I am depressed early on in order for the person to really determine if they can handle that or not? Or is it a more serious talk that has to be had later? I …
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 11:32 PM
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I've noticed this as well. My closet is filled with awkward looking things that I bought over the years because I settled for them (as we couldn't afford things like Forever 21--imagine being the only girl in class that couldn't afford those things). Please, don't do this. You won't be happy. I am 20 years old, and I am making moves to slowly phase out my old clothes and bring in new, timeless pieces. Before anything, remember to buy closet staples/basics if you haven't already. Things like a pe…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/17 03:09 AM
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I always thought the wage gap was a myth because of how jobs vary. Teaching, for example--if both male and female teachers are putting in the correct amount of work, the female teacher isn't expecting, and none of them teach something like physical education (which I imagine, gets payed more), then they might get payed the same. But if one teacher isn't doing well, they're going to be paid less and gender won't be a factor in it. In other environments where a male and a female are going to have …
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 05:20 PM
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Thank you, you're all very lovely people... Should I go to a gym or work at home? Trainer or no trainer?
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 07:37 AM
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If I can't spend time with my SO (or he's at work), I shower, drink tea, snuggle under my blanket, and I'll listen to calming music or read. Sometimes, I'll play old video games. I hear that rubbing your temples with essential oils helps, too.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 06:35 AM
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Yes, this is the first time that I'll be visiting him. You gave very clear advice, thank you. I'll be visiting for a week, so maybe I'll be comfortable about the three-day mark?
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 02:28 AM
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We haven't met up in person before. He lives with his family right now. Well, it seems that he will be taking some time off of work. We've been talking about it more and if we take jet lag into consideration, I will be there for about a week. Your gift ideas are really good--I will write them down and start looking. Before I take the family to dinner, should I ask them about where they want to go to? Should I ask my boyfriend and leave it as a surprise? Your explanation about LDRs is very true--…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 01:37 AM
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