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| 1 | How do I stop taking virtual rejection (getting left on read, getting left on delivered, getting ghosted...) so personally?Thank youuu I’m learning every step of the way myself. | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Guys, how do you deal with competition ? (Girls opinion also wanted)Because I’ve struggled with my lack of boundaries and women are conditioned to be amicable and agreeable and I literally couldn’t shake some of these guys until the end of the night.... Especially with alcohol involved. In one situation specifically the other guy got turned off and just avoided me for the rest of the night, probably assuming I was a hoe or whatever sexist misogynistic bullshit y’all think bc this one guy kept putting his arm around me and pulling me into him. From it distance it… | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Guys, how do you deal with competition ? (Girls opinion also wanted)Female here.... Not a big party goer, but when in these situations I’ve pretty much already made up my mind, competition or not. Flirting is fun regardless, but if I’m genuinely trying to get with someone I’m pretty singled in on them. I’ve been in more than one situation where the person I actually wanted to be with got scared off bc other people were talking to me and I couldn’t get away and yeah. Big bummer but also whatever lol. IMO women make up their mind pretty quickly on whether or not t… | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 02:26 AM |
| 3 | “Nice guys” VS Nice peopleI think it’s a farce. It’s a toxic victim mentality that paints the guy as the one wronged when all a women has done is say “NO”. These “nice” people are often just looking for sex, and are upset when their expectations don’t meet their reality. It’s the devolution from compliments and sweet talk, to fuck you bitch I didn’t even want you anyways. That bitter hurt immature child feeling rejected by his mommy. If you’re yearning after someone who doesn’t show you a shred of interest, it doesn’t ma… | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 03:03 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop taking virtual rejection (getting left on read, getting left on delivered, getting ghosted...) so personally?!!!! This 1000x over | /r/seduction | 23/05/20 08:20 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop taking virtual rejection (getting left on read, getting left on delivered, getting ghosted...) so personally?Thank you. I think everything in this life serves as a tool to bring you back to yourself and your own awareness of self. Dating, especially, is a strong tool because people hold a mirror up to your face. We get to see our darkest sides, but I think with time and compassion, we are able to heal these parts of ourselves that are insecure and afraid of not being good enough. Dating shows us that we had it in ourselves the whole time, that we don’t need other people to fill our needs, and all we ha… | /r/seduction | 23/05/20 02:10 PM |
| 47 | How do I stop taking virtual rejection (getting left on read, getting left on delivered, getting ghosted...) so personally?No response is a response. A shitty one with no closure, but one none the less. I think it’s a good opportunity to reflect on your attachment issues. “Where there’s hysteria there’s history”. Maybe look into “attachment theory” and “insecure/anxious attachment” because this is what that sounds like. Have you had parents or past partners that were distant or sporadic in their attention for you? Where in your life have you experience similar situations where you’re left waiting for the other perso… | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 11:38 PM |
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