lavicat1 Archive

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17	Question to r/exredpill; Do the women in these videos exist in the real world? How do you avoid them? I mean r/exredpill tells me that these women don't exist. These types of women are so uncommon and the average person avoids being around them. It’s like any other person in the world with terrible qualities. If they are my friend or family member, I might speak up about their behavior, but I’m not going to waste my time policing strangers how to live their lives. Most women are not like this. And who cares about the women who are? Just ignore them, they’ll reveal themselves enough.	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 03:23 AM
17	Women, is the whole "women love dominant alpha males" thing a myth? This is a complete myth. They can be nerdy, or on the shyer side, I do not really care. I just want them to act like an adult, be socially competent, and comfortable in their own skin. Big alpha male chad energy repulses me. While women have diverse and individual preferences, I have rarely found women who wanted “alpha males.” Plus, what many men on here consider to be alpha energy are just a coverup for abusive behavior. This is also why men like Harry Styles and Timothee Chalamet are so popul…	/r/ExRedPill	14/12/21 04:37 AM
2	Are all Red Pill methods for attracting women bullshit? The redpilled men who call themselves “high value” are really just high value on the lowest tier of people. They are bottom-feeders with a six pack and a skewed transactional view of reality. Ofc they will attract their counterpart in women. So yes, I would say their methods are BS. These manipulating, “slutty” women they have so much to say about are the ones they attract. Fortunately, their beliefs are not reality. It’s great advice to work on yourself and not put others on a pedestal (man or …	/r/ExRedPill	02/09/21 03:44 PM
21	If evolutionary psychology is wrong, than why do straight women find muscles on men more attractive than vice versa? I can’t tell you what men find attractive, but as a woman, I find bulky muscles like the guy in the pic hugely unattractive. Like, actually would never get with a guy like that at all. I would rather a “dad bod”, though I prefer a lean, lankier guy. I am not alone in this sentiment. Many people I know feel the same. If you don’t believe me, take a look at the current celebrities women in my age range (20s) are failing for. It’s people like Timothee Chalamet and Harry Styles. Sure, many people li…	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/21 02:15 PM
7	YouTuber Alexander Grace Here - Looking For Someone To Tell Me I'm Wrong Well funny enough the limited mindset and methods used by redpill guys are the exact ways to attract the types to cheat and lie. If they want these “high quality” women, they really shouldn’t be trying to dissect “female” nature or make brash judgements on the whole gender. People are people. They are diverse. I don’t need a guy trying to “game” me. We should have a good time together, want the same experiences out of life, and push each other to be our best. From the brief look I had at OPs vid…	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/21 09:31 AM
25	YouTuber Alexander Grace Here - Looking For Someone To Tell Me I'm Wrong I agree with this 100%. And for redpill in general their mindset and tactics they use are so easily seen by any normal woman who know to stay far away. This is why they have such a negative view of women, because they use shitty tactics to lure low quality people then blame a whole gender for it.	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/21 09:22 AM
5	How do I get out of the Black Pill Mindset. I wouldn’t say it’s a bad thing! As a woman around your age, I look for a guy who has a personality that meshes with mine. Does he want the same things out of life that I do? Do we have fun times together? I never specifically look for a guy who is “nice” because I already expect them to be a nice person.	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/21 01:26 AM
8	How do I get out of the Black Pill Mindset. What you’re describing is exactly what the majority of women want as well. Something else I want to add, which you didn’t mention but I thought would be helpful: don’t be just a “nice” guy. Being a nice person is the bare minimum to expect from someone. If the only thing you are is nice, you will be found to be boring. Be a nice person and also be a real, dimensional person who has thoughts and interests (and expresses them too).	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/21 01:21 AM
0	Women who tolerate male vulnerability absolutely exist, but average men lack the time and options to be able to screen for these women. Emotionally maturity does include being able to express yourself and communicate your feelings (e.g. being “vulnerable”). Your reflections on your own experiences can teach you things, sure, but I think it’s important to understand those relationships are not healthy as there are many people out there willing to accept what you have to say	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 05:32 PM
1	Women who tolerate male vulnerability absolutely exist, but average men lack the time and options to be able to screen for these women. Idk what to tell you, because I know myself and how I have been in relationships and I know how other women I know have been. We are out there, and I’m sorry you had these terrible experiences	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 05:28 PM
1	Women who tolerate male vulnerability absolutely exist, but average men lack the time and options to be able to screen for these women. I’m definitely not a mother type, I just want to date an actual, feeling person and truly connect to them. In my own experience, I’ve had no problems with this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 05:26 PM
4	Women who tolerate male vulnerability absolutely exist, but average men lack the time and options to be able to screen for these women. I would lose attraction if you didn’t show some vulnerability, to be honest. It would come off as someone emotionally immature who doesn’t know how to communicate feelings or trust that I could be there to listen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 10:48 AM
3	Women who tolerate male vulnerability absolutely exist, but average men lack the time and options to be able to screen for these women. I think you’ve just been with terrible women. When I look for a relationship, I want to hear these feelings from you. Talk to me, vent to me, communicate your feelings. I would be extremely upset if my SO had a tragedy happen to them and they didn’t come to me or hid their feelings. How can I be there for them if they stay closed up like that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 10:45 AM
14	Women who tolerate male vulnerability absolutely exist, but average men lack the time and options to be able to screen for these women. Thank you!! Woman here, if a man wasn’t vulnerable and discussed personal things with me after 6 months of dating I’d lose interest fast. I want someone to bond with and be emotionally close with. Like you said, there is a difference between being vulnerable and being needy. You also don’t need to let your guard down so quickly, but literally just be a real person and show emotions, lol. You hit the nail on the head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 10:37 AM
2	"Watch what women do, don't listen to what they say" doesn't work because you're not observing women in general. You're observing the women you want and the men you envy. 100% agree with this. The average, healthy-minded woman is no way near the women they describe on this sub. I also agree this is not representative of all men, either. That’s what surprised me so much discovering the redpill because of how throughly this small subset of men had super skewed views of reality, and tend to be hypocritical in situations like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/21 09:29 PM
1	CMV: Women want to get married primarily for the kids, men want to get married primarily to please the woman and keep her Well, these relationships exist. If it upset you I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have “expected” you to have the ability to discuss it (get it? ;) )	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/21 10:56 AM
1	CMV: Women want to get married primarily for the kids, men want to get married primarily to please the woman and keep her Where are you pulling this bs from? No one should put all of their happiness in another person, and every person is responsible for their own happiness. Finding a spouse is about finding someone who you can enjoy your life with, but that doesn’t mean my happiness trumps their entire life. We should bring out the best in each other. A good relationship enhances the happiness you each already have alone. Second, what expectations are you talking about? While I agree placing crazy expectations on s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/21 10:16 AM
1	CMV: Women want to get married primarily for the kids, men want to get married primarily to please the woman and keep her I know many happily married couples crossing different ages who share this idea, so I doubt it. I also haven’t found a hard time finding other men and women who share this sentiment. So why do you think wanting to have a supportive partner who shares your values means one would “end up alone”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/21 09:50 AM
1	CMV: Women want to get married primarily for the kids, men want to get married primarily to please the woman and keep her Why? Is the idea that healthy relationships exist so foreign to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/21 09:46 AM
0	CMV: Women want to get married primarily for the kids, men want to get married primarily to please the woman and keep her I can’t figure out how to quote like you did on mobile, but “woefully naive?” You may have rarely seen it, but I don’t know any woman who would want otherwise, with the exception of being a SAHM. Also, some women I know don’t want someone “ambitious” like I do, but they still want a partner who they can build a life with, mutually support and trust, etc. A “partner in crime,” so to speak. As for men, I have met many and dated men who share this same sentiment. It’s not hard to find. Most of my r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/21 10:35 AM
1	Blue pill deception Well, I think there is a clear distinction between going on dates for sex and just straight up trying to hookup with someone. Men and women can be very physical, direct and sexual beings. There is a time and place for that, whether it be at a bar or on a dating app. When a woman is looking to “date,” for sex, I think that implies looking for commitment, and not a fuck buddy. It would be a waste for both of their time if one wanted to casually hookup with nothing more in mind and one wanted to ho…	/r/askTRP	24/01/21 07:50 PM
4	Is there ever a good reason to get married if you don’t want to have kids? Why or why not? I wouldn’t say that commitment makes women want to give less. I would say the right person, myself included, it would make us want to give more. The way I see it, there are a bunch of things I want to do and experience in this life. I want to find someone who compliments this so we can push and support each other to build a life and achieve all we set out to do. I think marriage can be a signifier that we both agree on this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 07:36 PM
1	CMV: Women want to get married primarily for the kids, men want to get married primarily to please the woman and keep her This would be true for very low class men and women, but is not the normal case. Most people (both genders) want to be supported and valued and push for each other’s successes and happiness. When I look for a partner I want someone who is ambitious and has the same desires of experiences that I want. I don’t need his “resources,” I have my own, and I would want him to have his own, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 07:29 PM
2	CMV: Women want to get married primarily for the kids, men want to get married primarily to please the woman and keep her That is how the normal woman feels to. When I look for a spouse, I want a partner in crime to support and value me as much as I support and value him; however, I do want to marry, but mostly because it’s like a declaration of “look I found my person!” and getting to experience a wedding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 07:19 PM
1	Using Adult Services for fun I am also 21. If making a girl happy is the same extent as a full time job, she's not worth it. Plenty of women out there who are sane people and will not let one side carry the weight.	/r/MGTOW	14/11/19 07:35 PM
1	Is every conversation with a woman like this? Sorry to step in here. I am a woman, not from the dating sub so don't worry. Just want to give a heads up that a lot of women also do not like these types of women. The complaints they whine to you guys are the same they whine to their friends. I loathe when a friend keeps complaining, but does not seem to even want a solution. It is one thing to need an ear to listen or extended sympathy once in awhile. I have learned myself to avoid both men and woman who cannot figure their shit out even with…	/r/MGTOW	14/11/19 07:27 PM